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friend or no friend?
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 10:29 pm
Met a really cute guy. We went out couple times. He is smart, cute and nice to me. However, I felt that I'm not into him as much he's into me........I don't want to hurt his feeling if somehow he asks me "the question" one day, but I don't want to pull apart either. What should I do to keep just friend with him?
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Reputation at Stake
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 8:10 pm
i have a "friend" who continues to try to make me look bad in front of other people. i'm the vice president of a club, and she consistently complains about how disorganized it is in front of me and behind my back. whenever she talks to other people, she gets them to think that i never go to the meetings and don't do anything for the club. she always makes fun of me in front of other people and is sarcastic and makes it look like i'm freaking out over something when i'm not. how do i deal with her and restore my reputation? a lot of people believe her because she does it so discreetly and because she's so good at making it seem like the truth. i know she's not a good friend and that i shouldn't be friends with her, but that does no...
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was she/right?
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 4:53 pm
okay I have a friend that has went to a knew school. she has changed to be this girl who wants to ignore people and she's doing wrong things. I am trying to be there because she is kinda gullible, so since we don't see ech other I try to call her or email her. She doesn't give back the energy towards our friend ship like I do, but she keeps saying she wants to be frinds. Now I guess she has changed her email address and she ignores my other friend when she calls. SH eis totally acting like the victim. Is she right in this situation or am I wrong. What should I do? I give good ratings to!
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friend tries too hard to be popular
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 4:23 pm
One of my best friends, who I've known since we were toddlers, is starting to really get on my nerves. She tries to be like the popular people ALL the time. She doesn't buy clothes from the "it" stores, but she tries to act like her clothes are the best... like, she rolls up her sweatpants like everyone else does (which I hate, but that doesn't really matter) and tries to make her hair have that bump on the bottom when she wears a ponytail. But... it comes off looking reaaaaally bad on her. Then, when she's talking to people, you can tell that she thinks that she's better than them, even when she's obviously not. And she always ditches me for her other friends just so she can be "popular"... like, my other best friend wa...
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so so desperate!
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 4:11 pm
my friend is so desperate. she will take any guy, even the most perverted ones! She is one of my really good freinds and I just don't know what to do. Even outsiders tell me she acts and looks desperate. WHat should I do? Should I talk to her? Or leave it alone? Please help! Thanks <3
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A guy and a girl are together and it's recking my friendship
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 3:57 pm
okay well this guy lets say his name is A and this girl lets say her name is C well there together. But A is my best friend and he was my ex. He thinks i'm jelouse of how he is taken. So these two girls come up to him and they really hate me so they tell these lies like i'm saying negative stuff about him and his girlfriend C. So now he's like yelling at me but the two girls were his enimies i mean he belivies his worst enimies then his best friend and now he won't talk to me...and so he thinks it's true and like i was the one who broke up with him i need help.. should i talk to me?? i don't want him to ignore me we've been friends for so long!
thanks,
- Ashliiee
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friend is obbsessed!
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 11:13 am
My friend started to like this celeb, which is fine But now she is just obbsessed, it's all she ever talks about. I can see it's starting to rule her life and I'm worried. Is there any way I can stop her liking him so much?
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lonley and bored
Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 6:06 am
I used to hang out with these people.The used to gang up and bug me.I fought with the leader.Big mistake.They ganged up agaist me and fought.I miss being in their group.When I hear them having yelling and fun from my house i feel left out.I try to make excuses and pass by them but I rarely have any.I want to be a part of their group again but I do not want to look to desperate.I get really bored at home alone.What should I do.
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my life is falling apart
Posted Monday December 4 2006, 10:37 pm
the only good thing in my like right now are my friends and my crush. those are the thigs that are keeping me alive right now. me and my parents fight constantly and im just sick of it. they make me feel like im worthless and stupid. ive been cutting for the past 2 years and my parents dont know that and im starting to smoke and both of those arent helping, everyone said it would but it doesnt, it just makes things worse and now i just dont know what to do. i almost ran away like 3 times and my relationship with my parents is worse. the other day they were talking and my mom said to my dad "why the hell did we have kids?!" so that made me feel even worse. and now i just wanna give up cuz ive tried so hard to be a good girl and be ...
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i cant believe this
Posted Monday December 4 2006, 5:22 pm
i mightve already wrote in another question that im recently new at this school im in right now...well i dont know every one in my grade and no offence but i dont care im cool with a little group and thats all i need well anywaysz today at school my friend came up to me and told me if i seen what some one wrote about me in the girls bath room wall. i said no that i didnt but when i went in there to check it out i saw a drawing with my name pointing at it now i know that who ever did that really has no life but its hard ignoring it right now i mean i dont know what to do ....should i find out who did it or let it go ...if i let it go they might continue cuz im doing nothing but if i do sumthing about it its not going to solve anything.....help ?
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he has a problem
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 11:38 pm
17/m
So I have this new friend, i've only known him for like six months because I drifted apart from my other friends but thats besides the point. He has this problem where he feels like everyone is better than him, his best isn't better than anyone elses- like in our group someone is best at art while another is best at politics while another is best at writing and another at science whereas hes good at science too but i dunno... what do I tell him to make him feel better- something that will make him feel better now cuz i already told him he'll find what hes best at when hes older but that doesn't help the now. any ideas?
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Bitches
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 8:31 pm
i have this friend that i asked a question about before but shes really starting to bug teh shit out me now. i saw her at the store the other day and she was with this girl (she used to always say she hated and she wished he didnt have to hang out with her but her mom makes her) and everytime she would glace over at me she would start lauging like that girl she was with was soo much fucking fun (like i could care) but i realy dont want her taling about me which she does all the time and i dont want her to talk to me anymore which when no one is around she will do. how do i get her out of my life?! i need some help she pisses me off everytime i see her and i dont want to be.
If anyone can help its greatly apreciated!,
thanks
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talking about guys
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 8:30 pm
15/f. sometimes my friends always talk to me about these guys that they hung out with or these guys that they were talking to, and i think they are doing it just to brag about it. but then if i saw something like, "oh i was talking to *john* on the field trip and...." they will be like oh you like him. it gets so annoying! what can i do?
also i'd like to have more guy friends, but whenever i start talking to a guy a lot and start becoming friends with him people always think that i like him. what can i do so people don't think that all the time?
thanks =]
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cliques
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 8:00 pm
ohkay well i was in a clique last year but now the rest of the clique has grown apart from me because i joined a new clique but now i miss the old clique. i mean i still sit at the same lunch table with them, and i talk to them but im never invited to hang out. once i asked if i could go with them but they got kinda pissed because they said "i was inviting myself." i wanna have the same relationship with them as last year. and dont tell me to find new friends because i have a ton of friends besides them and i hang out with my other friends a whole lot, but ive known this crew my whole life since kindergarten and i love them to death. they are NOT bitchy and they arent leaving me out on purpose, ive just kinda grown apart from them...
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new friends
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 2:54 pm
15/f. i have a group of friends that i normally sit with at lunch but sometimes they can be really rude to me. like if one day i sit with someone else, then the next day they will be mad a me because i didn't sit with them. like i have some other friends besides them and they get mad if i don't sit with them.
for example at a school fundraiser last year, i talked with another group besides mine for a little and then my whole group was pissed at me and wouldn't talk to me the rest of the day.
why is this? and what can i do to stop them getting mad at me?
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How do I choose?
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 12:28 pm
Okay, my problem is I'm not really close to anyone. So how do I choose who to get presents for? I know like 3 people who I deffinatly want to get presents for, but other than that I can't decide...
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Lunch Time
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 12:21 pm
Well, okay. I had about 3-4 best friends. And I used to sit with them at lunch. Recently, I haven't been sitting with them because nobody talks to me even when I try to strike up a conversation. So now it's even worse. None of my friend's talk to me. Well, they talk to me sometimes, but not like 'your my best friend' anymore. One of my friends, David, doesn't talk to me at ALL. So I sat with them at lunch again and things went back to normal.
But I wonder - are they really good friends in the first place at all if they don't talk to me when they see me unless I sit with them at lunch?
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I DONT WANT TO LOSE A FRIENDD
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 10:07 am
okay so theres6 of us. i make pretend names . so theres melissa, kait,ashlee,haley,sammy,(me)
and we all are good friends until melissa and kait decided they didnt like haley and that she was really annoying.and they used to be best firends. anyways, they pull alot of pranks on her and made her cry at lunch. she was in my next class so we talked about it. but i dont know what i should do . mellisa and kait will turn there back on me if i try to make haley feel better.ohh i dont knoww!
SOMEONE HELP ME
- sighed
wooried about having to lose a friend
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Psycho guy!
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 4:00 am
16/female.
There's this guy named Gordon. He's a complete & utter PSYCHO. Not even kidding. He's really gross, plus I think he's a little "slow." Not mentally retarded or anything, it's just he has to be slow to be acting the way he does.
For example, he always starts strangling random people, like when he plays mercy with people, he takes it to another level by like completely suffocating them, and then when I ask the other person if their okay, they tell me that it was fine. Even though it's like the worst thing ever watching it, bc if someone does something bad to Gordon he'll completely lose it.
In school on Friday he dropped a geico four times from our school balcony which is 3...
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askin the guys
Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 3:30 am
can u explain the different meanings of different kinds of hugs? like wat does tight hugs mean? or not so tight hugs mean? does how u position your arms represent sumthing?
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