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how to politely join a conversation
Posted Tuesday January 14 2014, 9:40 am
So I'm having trouble when I'm part of a group in joining the conversation. I just think I'm being rude by butting in with comments.
Also when I do make a comment, people always speak over one another to comment back and then they go off on a tangent again which I think is a little rude.
So how can I join in a conversation with people who are loud without being rude?
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Friend/Pet question
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 7:08 am
19 - Female
So, I went to my friends house today and it STUNK of cat wee. She has two cats which are about 7months old (if that) and she hasn't wormed them or flead them in a while. So i stayed in the lounge area because the cats don't go in there and Im pregnant so I don't want to get toxemia from the cats. Anyways, she kept asking me to go into the other section of the house but I honestly just couldn't because it just STUNK OF CAT WEE! Surely she must notice this right? I understand you get 'used to a smell' but once you leave the house and go back, you would notice. The cats don't even go outside or anything.
I did explain to her that she needs to worm and flea her cats because otherwise they're just going...
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How to unfriend your bestfriend
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 6:57 am
I used to get on with my bestfriend so well, now it's like shes turned into an evil bitch. I'm nearly 5 months pregnant, so I can see how that slightly affects her because i can't go out and drink or do the crazy shit we used to do. But when she comes over to hang out, shes honestly the biggest bitch ever. She always asks if she can HAVE my stuff, uses my laptop all the time (she brings her own to use so she doesnt have to annoy me for mine and still uses mine), and everythings always about HER. I told her that my boyfriend was moving in, in 3 weeks and she went all "we're never going to get to hang out because he will get angry".
First off she doesnt even know my boyfriend like that, so she can't even respond and s...
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I am afraid to talk to a past friend because of a misunderstanding...
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 9:14 pm
So I am afraid to talk to a past friend cause of a misunderstanding of communication and who I am My past friend overreacted and was confused the the school, parents, and unwanted people were involved an punished me for doing the right thing Im extremely afraid the school getting involved causing more Bullshit again or her parents judging me before they even get to know me again do you think I should at least try to prove myself to them both and talk to her?
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How can I be a nice person?
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 3:42 pm
I used to be a really nice person but now not so much what are some things I can do to be nice?
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Feeling left out
Posted Friday January 10 2014, 1:28 pm
I've never been an overly popular person but lately at school I've been feeling more and more isolated. My best friend has recently got a boyfriend so is spending increasing amounts of time with him and I don't want to interfere with them because it'll just be awkward. My best friend is also very close to a couple of male members of staff at our school; she treats them more like friends. They give her quite a lot of attention (nothing inappropriate), I'm with her most of the time and I get on with these staff members too but they only ever talk to her and they have inside jokes that I don't understand. This again makes me feel inferior to her..
I feel as though I'm not really good enough and am always a tag along - no one rea...
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I've become withdrawn in my flat (apartment)
Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 12:48 pm
18/f
So in my flat theres a lot of us, and I've noticed that I'm becoming more and more withdrawn.
Like its partly due to assignments, but I just am finding it real hard to go out of my door and speak to my housemates atm.
Don't get me wrong, we all get on, but I'm just super shy. I feel vulnerable in the kitchen and am desperate to retreat back to my room again.
Also I feel the need to impress and stuff. Plus some of them go off in their own cliques and the first time this happened it made me feel left out.
So that's when this all kicked off as I felt like my company wasn't wanted, and never will be.
How can I help myself?
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I feel empty.
Posted Monday January 6 2014, 12:03 am
I am 21/f and I moved in with Tim 26/m last march. We had known each other about a year previous and both happen to be looking for roommates around the same time. Anyways, for awhile things were messy because we wound up sleeping together a few times but we became very close friends. We talk about everything and trust each other deeply, even when we decided to not have sex anymore. Anyways, he accepted a job out of state recently and just left about 30 minutes ago. He's going to be back in a few months but we are officially not living together anymore. In march I move back in with my parents. It was a very sad goodbye and I still can't stop crying. I've been anxious about him leaving for weeks now and I'm so depressed. The last time I can r...
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What do guys mean when they say stuff like this ?
Posted Sunday January 5 2014, 9:40 am
So my friends were bugging me to talk to this boy and I finally talked to him last night it was around 9. We start playing 21 questions but after he says I'm really cute but before the game he said he really didn't like anybody at school . I'm so confused right now I mean I wanna get to know him better but him hiding his feelings are bothering me
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A little between drugs &' friends.
Posted Sunday January 5 2014, 3:24 am
Okay, my name is Allison. I am 15 years old. So, this year I started being friends with a bunch of drugies. &' I really love it. They have gotten me into all of that stuff. My ex-boyfriend is named Sam. He was the reason why that all happened. When he first asked me out I was so excited. We are an on &' off again kinda thing. He was my first that I slept with. &' only so... But, the reason I am Telling you all of this is because my dad doesn't want me to see Sam anymore &' he says my friends are bad influences. What should I do?
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Improve social skills..
Posted Sunday January 5 2014, 2:46 am
Hi. I'm a fourteen year old girl and I have terrible social skills. It comes to my attention that I only have two friends and I can't carry conversations very well(they end quickly.) I can make friends online, just like that, but that's different. The other night, my parents had friends over&& they started asking me questions and when I answered..they looked at me like what the he-y? It got really awkward, I wanna be able to make friends and know what to say/how to say. Advice is much appreciated. <3(:!
How can I improve my social skills?
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My best friends judge me a lot
Posted Friday January 3 2014, 9:00 am
I am in a fight with two of my best friends.They judge me a lot.I feel like their dog at times.They don't like the fact that I had 11 boyfriends and they were very harsh on me due to that reason.We are friends for six years and now we don't talk.It's almost a month that we don't talk properly.they are also leaving the country after 2 months and we are broken.I tried apologizing and instead I got harsh behavior from them so I don't apologize anymore.I mean , they are the ones who should apologize to me , right?All these times I was so busy keeping them happy that I forgot my happiness.They are my friends and therefor they are supposed to me supportive , instead they judge me.Now what?
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Things got confusing with me and my guy friend.
Posted Tuesday December 31 2013, 2:05 am
I like this guy and we've known each other for a LONG time. This year he asked me if I liked him and I said no because i was nervous, and I'm NEVER nervous around him. This year he's been confusing. I joined a sport this year, and I noticed he's been hanging on with the jocks and trying to be like them. I don't like it.I liked the guy who had time to talk to me, and was always there for me in times of need. I don't understand him anymore. But just before everything got confusing I asked if he wanted to go to six flags with me.. He said he did. And it was supposed to be my "birthday gift". He kept asking me when my birthday was but I know he just wanted to talk to me cause he has the MOST WONDERFUL memory. Should I tell him I like ...
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I feel like a nobody. I can't understand.
Posted Friday December 27 2013, 1:41 am
I'm from the Philippines and I'm 13. Sorry If I have some grammatical errors.Sometimes in school I just feel like I'm no one. No one ever talks to me unless it's really important. I can't understand. I tried my best for them to notice me, but they don't. I have a few friends, but I they aren't just the friends that can really 'understand' me.
So let me describe myself. I'm pretty (others say) but I'm short and chubby, I can draw well (one of the best in my class I think), I can play the guitar and piano,and I'm an honor student. I think I have a good attitude, but sometimes I'm just shy. I also love books and I'm in different 'fandoms' like I'm a Directioner, a Swiftie, and fans of fiction books like Harry Potter and...
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Feeling like I can't connect
Posted Tuesday December 24 2013, 10:58 pm
I'm always getting angry at the little things and I don't know why. I try to keep calm, and it's at my closest friends. Well, they don't feel close anymore to me atleast because I feel like they're just there I guess. What should I do?
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How to open up to my best friend
Posted Sunday December 22 2013, 5:06 pm
Ive been going thru depression and I used to tell my best friend every thing and lately I've been so distant with her and it's been hard for me to explain how I feel.. How can I start being able to open up again? And how do I start it? And how can I say sorry for being so distant?
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My friend won't talk to me
Posted Thursday December 19 2013, 9:50 pm
Okay, so all of a sudden this week, my friend stopped talking to me. I texted him yesterday and he said that he was just feeling sad. I asked him what was wrong and he wouldn't tell me. He didn't feel like talking about it and I respected that. I was cool with it all until I texted him and he told me to **** off and to stop texting him. I can't help feel that I did something wrong, but he's like my best friend and i don't know what I could've done to make him mad. I feel like I did something wrong, at least that's how he's treating it. Though, I don't remember doing anything that could've upset him. I'm really worried about him and I don't know what to do. I stopped texting him but I'm so confused and worried. :/
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Died in friends' dreams
Posted Tuesday December 17 2013, 10:30 pm
Two of my friends who live I. The same house had dreams about me dying (at separate times). What could this mean?
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I want someone I can go give head to that can keep it quiet
Posted Tuesday December 17 2013, 7:08 am
Me and a old friend of mine used to give orel sex to eachother when we was like 13 we both have a serious relationship with girls but for some reason I can't quit wanting to do it again. But don't know ho w to go about asking him about it cuz I would lose everything if anyone found out. It's also kinda odd cuz we havnt really talked in a few years and we are both 21 now and I am afraid he might have grew out of those thoughts now.
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An Innocent School Girl Crush on a Guy Friend
Posted Monday December 16 2013, 10:29 pm
I'm a 22 year old female and I recently developed what should be an innocent school crush. After all I have a boyfriend, and under no circumstances would I leave him for this guy. Yet it feels like I'm back in my high school days, when it seemed like every guy I liked did not like me back.
I attended a private high school in a wealthy area, and some of the girls there were drop dead gorgeous. When I first started there, I was an awkward 14 year old girl and although I tried to turn myself into another one of those girls it never worked. Most likely because they remembered the person that they started high school with, and to them that's who I still was in at least some aspect.
Since then, the braces came off an...
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