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its a long story..but i need some advice
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 11:07 pm
ok..my cousins having a wedding shes 22 and my cousins morgan gets to be in it and i dont..do u think thats rude? or just me..and im really hurt by it..neways my mom told my grandma how hurt i was and how mad she was and so my grandma told everybody and now everybody on my dads side is mad at her (my mom n dad got a divorce and my cousin thats gettin married is on my dads side) neways..there all being bitches toward her and i cant help to think that its MOSTLY my fault..that this is goin bad.my cousin morgan is perfect..goes to a christian skool..does every kinda sport does horse showing..piano..basketball..everything perfect never gets detentions.etc..and everybody in my family praises her for it..i mean im great with music i CAN sing and ...
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Sitting in the rain
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 10:59 pm
Hey, I was just ouside sitting in the rain and my brother saw me. He was yelling, "Get the fuck inside Jenny," and getting really mad at me. He thought I was going to kill my self and told everyone to lock the doors so I dont go back out. I feel VERY hurt because my family makes me feel like something is wrong with me. Do you think it is bad to go outside, and just sit in the rain??? Please somone awnser my question. My family makes me feel like I'm crazy, and I'm not sure if I'm not any more.
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Getting parents to understand
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:59 pm
well i have had many boyfriends in the past but they all have been behind my parents back because if i tell them they r gonna begin with (this is them)"ur gonna get pregnent mess up ur future not get a job!!!" and so on but im not cause i respect myself and know when things go to far and i dont like the idea of being with a boi behind my parents back anymore and i wanna tell them now but i dont know how without them acting all mad and crazy.so any ideas ppl?
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Do families have to love?
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 7:46 pm
Some times I feel like my parents don't love me. My sibling always make fun of me. My family always says they wish I'd run away. I have tried to kill myself before. but my mom and my friend came into my room so I had to come out of the closet. I don't know if they noticed but I had a thin red line across my neck. I don't wanna die but sometimes I feel it's the only way to get my family to love me. please help!
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brother
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 7:05 pm
ok i have a majior prob. i lyk mi brother, not lyk bro sis lyk ..., i thing i really lyk him wut should i do?
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should i just deal with it?
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 6:09 pm
ok well me and my whole family always fight and they always blame me for everything and they make me feel like they dont love me and everything and i started to think does my family love me? and i think they dont so now i got the feeling that i shouldnt be living becuz i have no one that loves me so i think i should just kill myself i've always solved my problems by cutting myself becuz i think it makes the pain go away but now im starting to think i should kill myself or something what should i do i really need some help and quick becuz i might do osmething i might regret later on
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i have a normal teenage life..NOT
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 3:08 pm
hey im a 13/f/8th grade..i think my teenage life if guna suck! my mom wont let me get a cell till im 17..i cant go shopping or go to the movies without a parent with us (and and my friend) till im in tenth grade..i cant get my eye brows waxed till who knows when..i cant get contacts till im like 17 (i want them really bad cause guys say i look really hot without glasses..but if i dont wear them i cant see anything!) im not allowed to bring a guy friend over..im not allowed to hang around with my friendds to much (only once or twice a week)..i have to clean the house even if no one is coming over..and im only alowed to stay on the computer for an hour (even though i dont listen to that) . im not allowed to get new school closthes..i have to...
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screwed up cousin
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 11:22 am
okay my cousin is here everyday because my mom has to babysit him and hes 10 and im 12 and in the past he has chocked me locked me in a car when it was 100 degrees out side he has banged a softball against my ear locked me in his rooam and bathroom he has pushed me in the shower and made me hit my head and yet he still does things to hurt me and now im stronger so i just wanna sock him really bad and i think he learns these things from his dad because his dad abuses him but still he does it and it hurts and sometimes he can be really cool like the best cousin ever but he abuses his little brother and makes fun of my sister and teases her how do i get him to stop should i just leave him alone i dont wanna get hurt again...
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i dunno
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:45 am
ok i'm almost 14 and i've known this guy since i was 7 everyone thinks that we will end up together but he's 5 years older than me i've always had a crush on him but it's one of those little girl crushes and everyone won't shut up about it how do i get them to stop
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stanky sister.
Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:31 am
my sister has horrible breath. even if i make her brush her teeth, it still smells like rotten baloney. how can i help her? she smells bad!! and she uses her bad breath as a weapon on me. help!
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hurt
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 10:41 pm
my mom and dad are getting a divorce...well its my cousins bday and she likes my toher cousins more (thats my age) so she chose her to sing at the wedding and made me not even be part of it i was really hurt..my mom got defensive..and like now my whole family hates her for divorving my dad and for bitching about it..and i feel like most of its my fault..i just feel like everything always is cuz my cousin thats gonna be in the wedding is perfect..and ive just always been a bad name to the family..i feel so guilty..i just need some advice..
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sisters
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 7:45 pm
heyy my sisters and i r not very close and whenever i try to do things with them it turns into a big fight!
What should i do?
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my brother
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 7:43 pm
me and my brother fight 24/7...my parents hate it...i just cant stand anything he does...hes 12 im 14...he acts arite when its jsut me n him...but around his friends or when im around my friends and we include him he acts s0o0 freakin immature..i talked ot him about it and he was like ur right im sry ill stop...aand so far he has...but today he was all whiney...like everything i sed hed whine n giv me attiude..and i talk to him about a lotta stuff like he knows im not a virgin if i hav a bf etc..stuff my rents dont even kno!! and he blackmails me everytime we get in a fight...O IMA TELL MOM U HAD SEX ALREADY...*ya it was def. a mistake ...peer preshure i wuld NEVER do it again..* 5 mins of plesure is DEF. not worth worryin about pregnancy.....
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hum
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 7:13 pm
okay. my friends and i were going to play a joke on one of my friends for her birthday. the joke was that we would slip in her locker porno so she would be really embarrased, but i got elected to actually print it out. i didn't know where to put it till her b-day so i hid it under my nightstand. little did i know that my grandma would find it when she was cleaning and show it to my dad. now my dad thinks i am looking at porn!! if i tell him the truth he'll think im mean though. what should i do???
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how to kill a mother?
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 6:34 pm
how the hell can someone kill their mother without getting caught? Or their father for that matter... ahhh that would be to easy though. drunken state and shit... god kill the fuckers... ok, but how do you think someone can do that?
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weird parents
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 6:08 pm
ok, so i have this friend and she wants me to sleep over. i asked my parents and they approved and stuff. the only problem was, they never met her or her family. so my parents asked about her parents and when i told them she had a step dad they got all whacked and said i couldnt stay over!! i want my parents to meet her parents and stuff, but i dont know if its gonna work...what should i do if it doesnt? :/
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help.......
Posted Monday August 2 2004, 12:45 pm
i have my couzin i jus went to her house.....n she jus started going out with thiz kid she thynkz iz cute but i thynk hez playen her bcuz..........wen he came frum doin hiz community servicem thingy.........she went to see him and he had stuff writtin in hiz hand......he said or swore it waz hiz couzin...n it waz a gurlz name 2........and then later he went 2 the ymca..........n my couzin waz lookin 4 him n she seen him outside ............ he left wer he waz supposedly supposed to b and he waz with sum gurlz.........i no my cuz seen it but.....i dun no wat 2 tell ha.......heres the problem she doesnt wanna break up with him man....what do i do.........personally i wanna go up 2 him n punch him in da face......help!!!!
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why are all these 12, 13, and 14 year olds thinking about sex?
Posted Sunday August 1 2004, 4:04 pm
Okay I want to know why all these 12, 13, and 14 year olds are all thinking about sex and asking how to do it and blah blah blah...Theyre too young! And I hope all of you 12, 13, and 14 year olds get an STD and die....youre being stupid!
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Posted Sunday August 1 2004, 3:20 am
ok well me and my boyfriend were talking about some funny stuff (but there were some dirty parts too about what we would do when i saw him **he lives kinda far away**) but yea anywayz so i emailed them to myself to save them...and one day i went to watch some band and i left my aol on so my mom got on and she read my emails, so now im by my friends house and was checking them and they said they were read already so im not quite sure she did...but im pretty positive..im so scared i might get in trouble or of what she'l do or think about me, or that she wont trust me anymore and think im some kind of slut..what should i do?
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my mom...
Posted Sunday August 1 2004, 1:40 am
my mom is getting married to this guy whos really kool except he like flirts with me and comes on to me. he says stuff like hey sexy, hey cutie, hey pretty girl, and stuff like that and its really uncomfortable.. should i just let it go?
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