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name change
Posted Tuesday August 24 2004, 9:04 pm
hello. i'm 13 and my parents are divorced. they have been ever sice i was 6 years old. and my dad just remarried a really AWFUL woman! they just had there 1st anniversary. her son is CONSTNTLY making fun of me and my dad just says "deal with it" its taunting a bull at school would do. well to cut to the chase, my mom still had my dads last name and just changed it today. i feel so different now it really makes me sad. i feel like i'm closer to my stepmom than i am her. please help. all answers will be rated a 5 for effort! :`(
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im confused...
Posted Tuesday August 24 2004, 7:21 pm
ok.. my grandma is really depressed but when she is like this all she does is drink wut do i do to tell her that by her drinkin its ruining our family... i just wanna be a family again HELP!!
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Freaked out?
Posted Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:49 pm
Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?
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me and my boyfriend got caught
Posted Tuesday August 24 2004, 12:23 am
Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..
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my mom
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 7:43 pm
what do i do when my mom says i trust you i just dont trust the world im almost 16 and cant ride around with friends or go anywere. i m not the kind of kid that gets into truble so i dont see the prob what can i say to her to get her to understand?
please help
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mom's a b..
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 6:25 pm
i've been with my b/f for 5 almost 6 months and my mom thinks he has been telling people that we have been doing stuff. and she says she doesn't want me with him and if she sees me or finds out i'm hanging with him, i'm gonna be grounded for 2 weeks. the thing is if i'm not aloud to see him of course i'm gonna sneak around.. so i dunno i need advice like, what can i tell my mom so i can be aloud to be with him, or if i have to sneak around what do i do when she finds out or something before i freak.. thanks.
- lheather llynn x
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caught doing bad stuff
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 6:24 pm
Well, a couple nights ago I had some friends over and we were in my room drinking a little. :-\ and we did some stupid stuff though and my mom found out and she wont lemme do anything anymore!! Help!
IWantMyFreekinFreedomBackLol!
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dad
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 5:09 pm
AHH my dad treats me like I'm 5!! I mean I can't do alot of things by my self..I can't wear tank-tops in front of him...He thinks I can't take care of the dog because I'm too young? HELLLO I'm 13!! I'm a freshmen..at this age it's really hard to keep high grades..yet I still have to keep my grades above 95? Plus I'm alot more mature then a 13 year old..because like ALL my friends are 14-15..and he expects me to do alllll this work and stuff..and when I get hurt he thinks it doesn't hurt at all..but he still treats me like Im SO little!!! I swear he talks to me like Im 5...gR I've tried talking to him...but it doesn't work? What should I do?
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my momz b/f!!
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 8:22 am
ok, well my momz b/f has HEPATITIS C that he got from another girl while cheating on my mom ..they have gone thru manny problemz in their relationship and he hurt he wayy too many timez...yet she still stayz with him .. and i cant get thru to her no matter wut..
but my real question is this : 3 days ago my mom told me that were moving into his house on friday .. she said she'd help me buy a car and give me 50 bucks a week for no reason and drive me to my old school everyday and all ill have to to do is take a train back home .. shez trying to bribe me to move in ...BUT the only thing holdin me back is that he has hepatitic c and i dont want my mom getting it and i feel lyk if i move in with them, then ill be supporting her ch...
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My gardian(mom) and i don't get along!!
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 7:21 am
I was taken into a family at age 6 1/2 and Ive been with this family since.Well the mom of the family and I don't get along and well i really wish we did.I love her to death but I just don't think she really knows how much I care for her.Im also scared to get close to her because I lost my biological mother when i was 3 and I don't wanna lose her.She has a very weak heart and isn't doin too well right now so now more than ever am I scared to lose her.I really wanna become closer and be able to tell her almost everything if not everything.Anyways can someone plz tell me how I can get closer to her.Ive tried to write her letters and tell her openly in person but nothing has seemed to work.Someone plz help.
Signed,
Desperate to get close
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omg plz dont delete i need help
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 2:58 am
okay last night was my cousins baptism and it was fine until the party when his parents got durnk, and his parents are my uncle and my aunt and my aunts like a second mom to me and my aunt got stoned and sooo drunk and my uncel got drunk and they culdnt take the baby cuz they culdnt care for it so my mom had to fight with them to get it and it feels like my whole family is falling apart...im afraid of my aunt now wat do i do?
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i know this is in the wrong subject but im desperate!
Posted Monday August 23 2004, 2:23 am
Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting <keep in mind im a total neat freak, just the thought of there nasty bodys on my clean sheets irk me! an...
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Can't stand my dad
Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 9:47 pm
I'm a 19 year old girl and I can't stand my dad. I move out in a year and a half to go to get my BS, but I don't think I can make it.
He's a slob! He leaves open cans of cat food out on the counter, reaches to the bottom of the bread loaf and crumples all the other slices, leaves sharp and dangerous things where my baby can get them, never closes the cabinets, never takes off his shoes in the baby's play area, etc.
He comes home from work and plays a video game. He has played the same video game every day for the past two and a half years. He never helps my mom or me. My mom is so stressed because of him, and so am I.
He thinks he's always right. If I prove him wrong, I get sent to my room! He ye...
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Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 8:09 pm
I'm 16, and my dad still treats me like I'm a "little girl". My mom and I, we get along so well, because she treats me like a young adult, but my father raises hell whenever I ask him to do ANYTHING. We see a family psycologist, and not even that helps. He's just so effing stubborn. I tell him allll the time " dad I'm not a little girl anymore", but it just doesn't get through to him. I know he's going through this "phase", but isn't over 3 years a little much? I am an only child, and a model, and I know he hates to see me take pictures and wear clothes that expose my stomach and it's just a lot to take. He tells me I have no future because I failed one year of math with exelent effort, and that I'll never make...
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Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 6:57 pm
Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil
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UGH PARENTS...
Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 2:57 pm
Ok so like my parents are soo annoying and everything. Like I do love them and if they died or somethin i would probaly die too..but they bother me so much!Like they never let me go out adn they always wanna kno what I'm doin but I HATE IT..im only 13 but I have always been pretty responisible and they should be able to trust me...how do I get them off my back??plz help... thx!
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Sister Trouble
Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 2:23 pm
My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?
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I think my mom is smoking again
Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 9:01 pm
Hi. Please answer. Right now my mom is going through divorce with my father. They were married 18 years and he can't find a job. My mom is paying him 1300 a month becuase he can't get a job. 'temporary living confindments' (she kept the house) is what its caused. This is making us have money problems. She travels for her job as well and I'm entering Highschool(Shes stressed) One day I was going to put something in my mom's glove compartement and I found a box of cigarettes. My grandparents were visiting and I told my grandma and so I confronted my mom. She promised not to smoke again. I took her cigarettes (we were together) and threw them out. Today I found a box of cigarettes in her glove compartement again. What should I DO?
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momz boyfriend part 2!!
Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 7:40 pm
hey i wrote on here b4 about my momz b/f with hep c and how i hate him and everything..well, the follow up on that is that today she just informed me that were moving in with him in a few weekz!! i have to change school and go thru the whole shit..shez trying to bribe me to move in...and i dono wut tah do!! plz i need help fast!!
siNcEreLy,stUck
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divorce?
Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 6:22 pm
is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad...
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