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I'm jealous of my friend and I don't know why.
Posted Monday February 17 2014, 8:46 pm
Hi!
So anyway, I'm a freshman in high school and I'm jealous of my friend. I really don't know why I'm jealous of him, because there's nothing to be jealous of. He's pretty much a pale twig (it's awful but it's true). Is there any way to get over this jealousy without knowing the root of what I'm jealous of? Is there a way of keeping myself from being jealous? Any answers are appreciated, thank you for reading!
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I…want… REVENGE
Posted Monday February 17 2014, 6:28 pm
My “friend" is totally ditching me for some brat, and I can prove it. When I told her how I felt, she said that I can sit next to her at lunch. But the brat who drowned her a couple years ago but is all of a sudden her best friend, was sitting next to her, and refused to move. In fact, the brat started to scream at me, and my “friend" just told me to sit in front of her. I'm not letting her get away with it. I'm gonna tell my other friend why my ex-friend REALLY isn't going to her party. But I wanna do more. Any ideas?
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I think this girl is gonna steal my friend, this is pretty long but please!
Posted Sunday February 16 2014, 9:14 am
I've been friends with a girl from school but now we are in different classes and she found someone else who I knew since pre k but we grew apart and now it seems a tough she doesn't like me any more but now she's BFFS with MY best friend, and when the girl I'm friends with said that I can sit next to her, in fact, she PROMISED that I could sit next to her at lunch, but then the other girl yelled,“NO!" and refused to move and since she's twice everyone's size, knows karate, and will beat people up without mercy no one ever stands up to her and I usually fight things with my mouth using fists as a last resort but she'll get you in a body cast for saying one word, and now I'm afraid she's gonna steal my friend and I can't do anything a...
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BOYYYYS!!! Ugh!
Posted Friday February 14 2014, 8:19 pm
My friend has a flirting problem. It's probably why it seems like a lot of guys like her. At the beginning of the year she liked a guy who told her he liked her back and said he was going to ask her out. He never did and ever since then she keep saying she likes this person or this person and she thinks everyone likes her too! It's super annoying what do I do?
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Whats your opinion? jealous friend or all in my head?
Posted Thursday February 13 2014, 8:13 pm
One of my friends is competitive with me and it drives me nuts. Don't get me wrong, she and I have similar interests and senses of humor, and we often have deep, meaningful conversations. But her personality is stifling. dShe ALWAYS has to best me academically, even though we are on the same intellectual level. She constantly brags about her advanced english courses (she and I are both English majors, and very intelligent). She ALWAYS has to be right in every situation, and so she is constantly arguing with me about the dumbest things. I tend to have a very chill personality and like to see the humor in everything, but it's difficult because she turns situations back and me, making me out to be the argumentative one.
Everyth...
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A friend puts blame on me..
Posted Monday February 10 2014, 7:57 am
So im 13/m, and im friend with this nice girl(sometimes), she used to have a jerk as a bf and now cant find anyone else to go out with. Everytime i make a small mistake with her(not academically) like i say something stupid, she gets pissed at me, first i thought it was just her periods but its getting more and more. plz help..am i doing stuff wrong?
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Growing apart
Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 9:07 pm
Me and my best friend have been very close and we used to have dance classes together but she quit and I don't have any classes togeather and we are kind of growing apart weather we want to or not how do I stay close with her
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confused unrequited
Posted Friday February 7 2014, 8:10 pm
here goes.
I am in my 20s, had relationships with guys and very much enjoyed them and plan to keep enjoying.
One niggling thing has got me very confused. One particular girl has me questioning my sexuality.
We met working together and thought her to be a kind, open person from the beginning. I admired her passion.
I noticed the way I acted around her. At first I believed it to be admiration of her work ethic and the effort she would pour in her work.
Started to overly look forward to going to work if i knew she would be there. Did my best to make her laugh if I thought her stressed, would always be aware where in the room she was, like 'pulling focus' on her, everything else faded ...
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My bestfriend is making me chose over her or my boyfriend !!!
Posted Wednesday February 5 2014, 5:12 pm
ok so my bestfriend is making me chose between over her or my boyfriend . I love them both equally but she always feels replaced and gets upset whenever I talk to him. I really don' know what to do! :'( (12/f/UK)
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mean girls are clinging to me
Posted Tuesday February 4 2014, 6:21 pm
These two mean girls, who emotionally hurt my best friend, and constantly stabbed me in the back. But now, whenever they see me they yell my name and start flagging me over. I don't like them at all, but they are always clinging to me. Every time I'm out of their sight, they ask everyone where I am. It's so annoying! I want to confront them about it, but I don't know what to say or how to react. Help?
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I'm stuck in the middle
Posted Tuesday January 28 2014, 6:24 pm
My friend, who will be called friend1, and my other friend, who will be called friend number2, hate each other and refuse to communicate. Friend1 is hanging out with a girl friend2 dislikes. So friend2 won't hang out with friend1 and friend1 is getting so angry and taking every move she makes and taking as an insult. They want me to take sides, but I just want them to make up, and they won't talk to each other, do what can I do?
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Feeling isolated
Posted Tuesday January 28 2014, 5:08 pm
I'm a senior in college and lately I feel like in don't relate to people the way I did in the previous three years. I'm extremely passionate about my career goals and I get more serious with each passing day. Even if I tried to change this I couldn't be because I'm doing what I love above anything else. I have an amazing group of friends who have the same goals as me, but I just don't feel like they are nearly as devoted as I am. I'm starting to feel quite different from all of them. For example, after a long day/evening of school I like to be alone and decompress and even spend a lot of weekend nights alone. Most people I know cannot spend any time alone. They go straight from school to hang out with friends or their boyfriends for the res...
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why is my friend ignoring me? We were friends forever.
Posted Monday January 27 2014, 7:19 pm
My best friend who I've known for three years has all of a sudden stopped talking to me, and hanging out with the meanest girls in school, and pretends like she doesn't even know me, and totally pushing me out of a club I MADE and she is talking all the credit and pretending it was all her. She talked to me once this month, that's it.
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Am I jealous or not???
Posted Monday January 27 2014, 3:40 pm
Ok, well I had this friend for years and now in high school but I kinda left him alone for 2 years to hang out with other friends but now he met someone else and now they hang out all the time. Now I have taken enough of this I have feelings for him like deep feelings for him. Every time they hang out I have hate feelings towards her. Does it seem that I'm jealous???
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My best friend is gay, but he acts like he's hitting on me.
Posted Friday January 24 2014, 8:33 pm
Ok. I'm a girl, he's a single gay guy. We've been friends for 2 years now, he even calls me his soulmate all the time. We always hang out and we do almost everything together. While I find him very attractive and a lot like me, I've respected his sexuality and refused to even consider to think of him romantically. That being said, I've noticed he's been getting REALLY friendly with me. He's always saying things like, ''I love your hair, it's so soft and long,'', or ''you have the prettiest eyes'', or ''you look beautiful today.'' He only does this to me.
We were going to his house to just hang out and the entire time we were walking home he held my hand and we didn't say anything. He let my hand go to open the front door and...
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Am I too prude?
Posted Wednesday January 22 2014, 11:09 pm
I am a 23 year old college student. I've been in 3 relationships that lasted longer than 6 months and the most recent one that ended lasted 4 years. I've had sex with two of my boyfriends and I know I enjoy it and what not. Ive had guys besides that who I would make out with and sometimes we'd go a little further but not all the way to sex.
The problem is I have seen a couple of my friends end long relationships recently and almost immediatly after jump into new things, as in relationship type things and one night stands. (Not really sure what to call them) Its making me feel really weird inside because they always were a lot like me and I never thought of them as "easy". I suddenly have been questioning if im going about...
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I have a guy friend that's acting strange.
Posted Wednesday January 22 2014, 11:24 am
Warning: this is going to be long, I already know that.
We are both sophomores in college. Lately, my best guy friend has been odd. He's been "talking to" this girl for a few weeks and they just met face to face Sunday and have been hanging out since. I'm not a big fan of this whole thing because it's usually the two of us always hanging out, he is usually always in my dorm room watching movies with me or getting food with me and since she's moved into our dorm, I've been set aside and I hate it. Yes, I am jealous of the fact that she is important to him now. I want him to be happy and if that's what it takes for him to be happy, he can go for it, I will always be here waiting to fix him when he gets hurt but it just sucks ...
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To apologize or to not apologize
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 8:03 am
There this thing that have been bothering me for the past 5 years. You see, there's this person who I shall name O who was once was my 'friend', I say 'friend' because I'm not sure we were even friends.
Right now I'm in form 5 ( I think its equivalent to second last year of high school in the USA. ) student in Malaysia and this happen during form 1. O and I became friends when we were placed in the same class with someone from the same elementary school as us. She was extremely sarcastic and the only reason she put up with my freshman awkwardness because she hated the other person who is poor and knew about O immigrant background. She was tolerable with me through out the half year of school until sports month came.
Since I w...
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Like years have passed
Posted Friday January 17 2014, 12:41 pm
Here's my situation.
'Danny' was my close friend I made during this school year. He's funny, good-looking, charming, and one who you could rely on. I had him as my schoolmate when I was in 1st Year and 2nd year but we weren't really close then. It was 3rd Year when he became my classmate and friend. Now here's the deal.
One day, my English teacher returned my "I am Number Four" book she borrowed, and eventually, Danny found it interesting and asked if he could borrow that book, too. Of course, I said yes, not wanting to selfishly deny his request. (But before he borrowed the book, we were already friends.)
After he read and finished the book, I gave it to him and gave him it's sequel, ...
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Being together as a COUPLE or stay FRIENDS?
Posted Tuesday January 14 2014, 11:22 am
I'm 17 years old, male and gay. I have this friend since 5th grade and we been very close and now we're seniors in High School. I have very deep feelings for him...I want to tell him that i want to be with him but i don't know what he's going to say or do?
what can i do...I love him and he knows that i like him but i want more than a friendship with him.
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