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Posted Monday October 22 2012, 12:00 am
Hi, I'm 20/f and my fiance is 20/m. We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years.
My fiance recently admitted that he has an addiction to porn. Porn bothers me a lot, and I'm not sure why. I'm very thankful that he doesn't go out and get it from other women, but I can't help how upset it makes me feel, if I could, I wouldn't be having this issue. I guess I just feel like if I was enough, he shouldn't be looking at other women.
I've done a lot of researching on the internet, and I have realized a lot about this. I understand men are visual people, and I understand that majority of mean don't do it to hurt their spouse, it just makes masturbation more pleasurable.
BUT...
It hurts me,...
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thanks for saving my life
Posted Saturday October 20 2012, 10:02 pm
thaks gods helper u erallly saved my life i didnt enter the initial question i just wanted to die u are really an angel or a saint
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Depression / Anxiety... help!
Posted Saturday October 20 2012, 12:28 am
15/f and i ended an emtionally abusive relationship with my dad, a narc of three years about a month ago. and i didnt even know that it actually was an abusive, mentally, verably, and emotionally relationship until it ended and i looked it up online. i used to be so popular, confident, sometimes overly confident, silly, hilarious, spontaneous, and unfiltered. now its really hard for me say what i think when i want, becasue i used to do that but now i feel like i have to watch what i say all the time. its all because my dad. this is just one example he would say things in front of me, bashing my mom always bad motuhing her, then he would say make sure you dont say that to your mom. and my dad would not email, text, call nothing to my mom mak...
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Feel I'm close to psycho
Posted Wednesday October 17 2012, 1:48 pm
Hey guys. 17 f. I'm young enough for being such neurotic as I am by now. My usual angriness with something ends up with broken fists. The problem is I can't take anything in stride- everything could get me lost of self- control. Actually before today it didn't worried me, but I've just found myself crying because of things I can't explaing as there aren't simpy any of them. What should I do? Hope you could give me some help.
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Cutting
Posted Monday October 15 2012, 10:40 pm
A lot has happened to me this past 2 years, and about 4 months ago I occasionally started cutting and making myself throw up. the throwing up has stopped, but the cutting hasnt. Things have been really hard for me :'( I hate being like this. I'm always sad and depressed and the instant I get upset all i think about is a razor blad slicing my arm. I cant help it.. It's almost as if I'm addicted to the pain. I want to get better, but I feel like I can't. What should I do? I have massive anxiety too. Any ideas as to what's wrong with me? :(
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Agrophobia getting worse
Posted Monday October 15 2012, 8:38 am
Hi I'm 27/f my agrophobia got very worse can you help me out with some tips to overcome this. It got really out of control....thx
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too obsessed with appearance/hair
Posted Friday October 12 2012, 4:01 pm
19/F
ever since i was little ive always been extremely obsessed with making sure my hair looks perfect or else i get very anxious and cannot go on with my day, and i feel ugly. i straighten my hair almost every single day and when its natural and wavy i feel so ugly, but when my hair is straight i feel prettier. i dont understand why this is, because my natural wavy hair isnt that bad, but i feel like with my face it looks weird. i feel like it makes my nose look bigger and i just feel so hideous so i always straighten my hair. I also dont understand this because i dont think im an ugly person, a lot of people tell me they think im pretty..and sometimes i think i am too, but other times i feel like i look so unattractive. im gettin...
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Addicted to Cell phone and internet. Can't concentrate.
Posted Wednesday October 10 2012, 4:49 am
Hii, So from past few months I've been so addicted to my cell phone that I just can't keep it away from me. I'm constantly on it using facebook, twitter and checking random things on google. I have my exams like in 20days but I can't concentrate. In back of my mind I know that I shouldn't be doing this but I can't stop myself. I get really uncomfortable if I stay away from it like 10 mins. I spent min 15 hrs on internet either on my phone or laptop. I feel like it has also started to affect my mental abilities. I'm really scared. what to do??? :(
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help! I have nobody to talk to about what I'm goin through and I just wanna end the pain.
Posted Tuesday October 9 2012, 8:58 pm
I'm seriously at the end of my tether, I have nobody to talk to about what I'm goin through and nobody cares whether I'm dead or alive, I just wanna end the pain.
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I dont know where to go what to do.i m lost between my goals and my family.
Posted Tuesday October 9 2012, 8:47 am
I feel like dying.I don't know what to do.So many responsibilities and i am not able to support my family because i have not achieved my dreams so that i can support my family financially.Sometimes i feel no body in my family cares for me but i know they love me.My attempts in building my career is falling again and again,I try to console myself by saying that may be i did not working hard like others.But how many times will i console myself.Nowadays i am asking god to take my life away.I am loosing my self day my day.
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Agrophobia
Posted Monday October 8 2012, 9:20 pm
Hi I'm 27 yerrs old female who is suffering from agrophobia panic attacks. Disorder for 4months now. Every thing started 7years ago so I start taking paxil 20mg and it was worked great for me. Till 7years after 4months it came back and I increase my dose up to 30 mg but is not seem to. Work it got worse for me because I even. Scared to live the house and sometimes even home don't feel safe I don't know what to do but even my relationship is going not well because of this I do want to get better as soon as possible but this fear what I. Feel....I can't do this anymore pleasesomeone help me I do not want to loose control of my life but I feel like I will if this is not going to stop what should I do?
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nvq3 assigment
Posted Sunday October 7 2012, 5:41 pm
in social health care indentify occasions where the public have raised concerns regarding issues within the sector
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Boyfriend needs anger management before our baby
Posted Saturday October 6 2012, 10:24 pm
My boyfriend has super anger issues, i feel unsafe around him sometimes. I'm 7 months pregnant and i dont want the fighting around our baby girl. i'm not saying its only him but if he gets some kind of help it'll cool down the fight a lot. how can i have a calm conversation with him about him get help?
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Best way to kill myself while everyone is asleep?
Posted Friday October 5 2012, 4:47 am
Let me start off by saying I'm fifteen.
I'm an only child and I'm homebound, because I get panic attacks when I go anywhere near the school. I'm very lonely being by myself at home [my dad works and my mom has an immune disorder, so she's upstairs asleep a lot.] I want to go to school, I want to be with my friends, and I want to be in a natural classroom setting.
I feel like I'm going no where in life. All my close friends are what I want to be; smart, good at acting, fun... And it makes me so sad that I'm not as smart as them.
Tl;dr : I need a way to kill myself without waking everyone up.
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How badly would I get hurt if I was driving 60 and hit gravel?
Posted Thursday October 4 2012, 12:08 pm
Like say I'm driving on the highway and I start to put my car on the gravel on the side of the road and then I just over correct to where my car flips. Would I live from that??
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Raped last year - How do i recover ?
Posted Wednesday October 3 2012, 12:24 pm
I was raped last year by a man who i didn't know.. i saw him around like twice but i had always told my best friend and this childs protection woman i didn't know the man..
I am Fourteen...
It is so hard i have lack of confidence.. i get stressed way too easily and i just am not worthy of anything.. i hate my body and i feel ugly on the inside and outside. I feel dead on the inside infact ... I am pretty sure i suffer with depression (like my mum) but i haven't spoken to the doctors .. for about a month i would eat and make myself sick.. I got a throat infection from doing it too much..
And i refuse a councellor because im ashamed... How do i recover?
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Is this an abnormal way of responding?
Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 10:08 pm
Okay, I have a pretty messed up life and I've been abused mentally and physically by my parents and other kids, in that order. I'm 12 years old and have depression and PTSD. I am required to see a councilor by my school. Take into consideration that these are very little details of what actually goes in my life. Whenever I get sad, I cut, write in my diary, and then I listen to really sad music and write poems for hours. Is this an abnormal way of responding?
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I can't make good decisions and put my children first
Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 1:41 pm
I can never seem to think of my children first. I am in a deep depression right now, honestly. I lost someone very important to me. This will make me sound the worst type of white trash, but I am desprate. I dated this guy shortly before he did 6 years in prison. I wrote at first, but then.. well , I'm 25 at the time, relativly attractive, and never did promise to "wait". Took the advice that cons are losers , move on, etc. Broke his heart when I had my son. Fast forward 3 years, He and I have been talking, gonna work it out, etc., till I meet a nice guy, good job, promises me the moon etc etc. Once again listening to "common sense" left Derrick odd man out. My heart broke when I saw his face when I told him. Dream guy ...
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about getting out of my depression
Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 1:18 am
hi dear!!am 20 years old female(India). one boy loves me sincerely.even i do..he is so much possessive.. he will not let me to talk with any other boys because of his possessiveness..but sometimes i hate him because of this attitude because i will not be able to talk to any other boys even though i think they are my good friend.... he always cares for my proper dressings..always he warns me to dress up neatly..i assure you i always dress up neatly..sometimes without my knowledge my shawl can move aside.. but he never forgive me for that.. always he scolds me in public that i wanted to adjust my shawl..even he has bet me once in our bus-stop before all because of this shawl matter.. i was so much hurt when i asked for the reason crying he sa...
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MOM HATES ME?
Posted Saturday September 29 2012, 7:23 pm
hey i am 13 and cut myself my mom knows and recently said uprovoked "I have enough problems without you slitting your wrists and I hate you for it"want to stop its sbut soooo hard tstarted at age 11.how caN i deal with this?
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