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Guy keeps singling me out?
Posted Sunday March 5 2017, 4:09 am
So Im a girl and I'm 17 years old and I have known this guy since I basically started school I've known him for 10 years, I have liked him on and off for years and he knows and he's liked me before. But not recently have we liked each other. We are in our last year of high school and we have been put in a group together, this has made us talk again and its like we are good friends. But my feelings are coming back for him... but I don't know if he will like me back again but recently he has walked up to me and said Hey (my name) then talks to me or goes (my name) can you believe this just happened. Like I'm surrounded by my friends but he's not bothered with talking with everyone just me and he keeps using my name and he always looks me dead...
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What does banter mean when a man says it?
Posted Saturday March 4 2017, 4:57 pm
Why would he say we have a banter between his female friend and him rather than flirting? Any clear meaning of banter when a man says that? Thanks
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What's going on with him?!
Posted Saturday March 4 2017, 1:38 pm
He's got a girlfriend and kids. He's a good friend of mine. We get on well and teasing each other. I say he flirts with me but he says we banter. I like him but also have a feeling that he likes me. We both share personal stuff stories. As he was saying I could take him to this restaurant for a meal but he had to cancel because of his daughter instead he invited has me to his place and wants me to meet his family which I find weird. Because we're only going for a meal. I feel like we're drifting but I don't know. Guys, could guy fall for another person even though they are in a relationship already? He did ask me, 'are u happy in your relationship?' i said I'm alright, we're alright. Help guys. What do u all reckon?
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what should i do to please her
Posted Friday March 3 2017, 3:58 pm
what can I do to please my girlfriend
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Should i Let her Go or Should i Try To Get Her Back ?
Posted Friday March 3 2017, 7:12 am
So...i was in a long distance relationship with this girl and recently she told me that she doesn't love me anymore . but i love her a lot and we had so much dreams for us but she gave up on all of them but i don't wanna give up on her and idk what i should do at this point i'm just hoping and waiting that she realizes that she loves me and get back to me . but she hasn't showed any signs of getting back . i'm just super confused right now and i really feel like just dying .
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Is this the way of him saying, he's into me?
Posted Thursday March 2 2017, 12:19 pm
Hi, been friends for a few months and we banter well. Feels like he fancies me and we get on ok. Caught him frequently looking at me and when I look at him he holds his eye contact with a slight smile but we always carry on with our conversation. In our late 20's. When I make jokes, not everyone is cute like you are, he says (Let's say my name is Beth) he says, Beth is Beth, isn't it? What's he up to?? Trying to say something?? Tried to ask him directly but couldn't dare even though we're mates. Thank you!
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is this normal, or am i just overthinking
Posted Wednesday March 1 2017, 8:54 am
long story short my boyfriend chats with a lot of girls
it might not seem like a big deal, so let me break it down in the easiest way possible. when we had a break, he chatted with one of my friends that he knew i disliked, after we got back together, he chats with one of my close friends, and once while we were on a date, we swapped phones and i was on his messenger and i saw that 9/10 person that he chats with are girls. im not talking about like a short conversation but its like they chat 24/7.
i understand that he has his own friends and i shouldn't be so jealous, but i couldnt help it, i mean i just dont feel special ...and he asks me to stop chatting with one of my best friends bc is a boy which i did stop for his sake...
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i don't know what to do...
Posted Wednesday March 1 2017, 8:10 am
so basically... i think i fell out of love with the guy (lets call him A) ive been dating for awhile. i don't rlly say i love you, and since we are in school together, i try to avoid him because i dont want to go public.
so a few days back, he told me that he thinks i dont like him anymore, bc i rarely say ily and i dont want to be near him at skl, and he said "correct me if im wrong" that made me think, do i really like him? and since then ive ignored him, it has been like 3 days, but during these 3 days, he still messaged me and said he loves me and such, but i still didnt reply. i didnt reply because i dont know what to do, i think that i dont like him anymore, but im not entirely sure, i dont want make a huge mistake. ...
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Super confused about a guy
Posted Tuesday February 28 2017, 5:25 pm
I've like the guy I like for a year. At first, I wouldn't let myself get a crush on him because he's popular and i already know other girls who like him. We were paired with eachother in science and we started talking. We had deep conversastions and he told me some things that he hadn't told anyone else before. Then, we had a different seating arrangement and I would catch him staring at me. I then decided it's okay to have a crush on him. A couple months before now, he would still stare at me but he was dating another girl. I was confused because if he was dating someone wouldn't he like her more than me? They broke up like two weeks later tho. Now, I've noticed him staring at me longer. Before it used to be glances but now it's like 5 sec...
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Two of my friends don't like my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday February 28 2017, 5:21 pm
I asked a similar question awhile back, but things have progressed and I am at a new crossroad.
Early in December I was approached by my two roommates who voiced their concern about my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some change, and we're both in our final semester of college. From the minute I met him it was like everything in me knew I wanted him for the rest of my life. We dated for a school year, and then spent the summer long distance. Relationships are never perfect, but any disagreement we had we fixed and I had never been happier. Starting this first semester we had bigger fights about smaller things. I felt like I was always putting in more effort than him and we almost broke up tw...
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How to be confident and less awkward around boys?
Posted Monday February 27 2017, 10:17 pm
Long story short throughout high school I was never the pretty girl and was always overshadowed by my friends and have been called ugly by guys in my school multiple times either to my face or right behind my back (by that I mean standing behind me) so this kind of followed me to university and I feel like I'm too ugly to even be approached or have any guy friends etc. Whenever I see an attractive boy I don't even look his way because it's just too awkward for me to give him eye contact, and when a guy does talk to me if I don't really know him I either say one word answers so that the convo ends quickly or frown so that I'm unapproachable. Any tips on how to be confident and less awkward around guys? I'm tired of only having girl friends a...
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Meeting the family!
Posted Monday February 27 2017, 5:08 pm
Hello, what does family mean? I mean I know what it means but what does it mean exactly when a boy mate says, 'he wants me to meet his family on lunch?' we know he's got a girlfriend and kids but I'm just wondering either him saying family means,'if he wants me to meet his parents or kids and gf?!' meeting his gf would be bit awkward I suppose as we're both joking and flirty mates. I have a feeling that he fancies me a little, We both do actually but nothing more than that. So, who he ACTUALLY wants me to meet with?? Thank you all.
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Confused with a guy friend!
Posted Monday February 27 2017, 2:13 pm
Hi, why do friend invite you for a dinner and meet his girlfriend and kids if you feel like he had liked you? Been friends for a while. Teasing back and forth. Compliments me everytime we see each other. We're to go for a dinner as normal friends does but he had to cancel and instead invited me for a dinner at his place so that I can meet his family. What the heck?! Help please?!
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Do friends ever flirt?
Posted Sunday February 26 2017, 5:45 am
Hello, we're good friends and known for a few months. But I've realised he teases me a lot in a fun way like I like your smile as I don't smile much. He says he's bantering because we're friends and I say no, you're flirting. He's always smiling but not shy. So, my question is do male and female friends flirt? I do fancy him a bit and I do have a feelings that's fancies me too but he says we're friends and bantering. Help guys! Thank you!
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What is he saying?
Posted Friday February 24 2017, 4:29 pm
Hi, what does he mean when he says, I'm a loving friend to you?' we're a good friends. I told him on a joke, 'someday you will make a loving father and a loving husband to someone. And he replied, how about a loving friend, I'm a loving friend to you, aren't I and he smiled and looked at me with long eye contact. I mean we kid around tons. We go to a same university and we do flirt back and forth but I certainly do not have a courage to ask what he really means. Is he saying he loves me? Thank you!
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I don't understand what he said!!
Posted Friday February 24 2017, 2:47 pm
Hi, we've been mates for a few months and get on quite well with all the bantering and teasing and we always have a laugh. we're in our late 20's but today when we're having a joke he asked me if i had hit on him with a smile, I said no, instead I said, you're the one who's hitting on me most of the time and he smiled and said oh, but you like it, don't you? you like it when I'm hitting on you and smiled again, I said I don't know, what? do you want me to like it when you're flirting with me? and he just smiled and smiled, I felt my face so red and shy, then he told me, me, 'you're very unique and I'm very lucky to have met you and we're friends. he does compliments me when he sees me. I don't know. I do fancy him a bit but I don't know if ...
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SO, WHY'D HE SAY THIS TOO ME????
Posted Friday February 24 2017, 12:50 pm
so, I gave my crush my number early this week...I said f it im gonna go for it, so I did...well he called me that same night, we talked on the phone for an hour, laughing, nice convo...well I seen him two days later and he came up behind me patted me on the back and said you're a good girl, smiled at me and walked away...ok...wtf...like wtf do men want, a slut bucket with no brains, a chic with a bunch of kids...cuz im am totally confused......I may be diff as in blunt and outspoken, have some morals, values, self respect, im not the run up and down the street, clubby type, i got too work, take care of what i need too, I don't ask anyone for anything etc....I like being at home that's cuz ive grown up etc but that really shouldn't intimidat...
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Posted Monday February 20 2017, 2:15 am
Hi,could anyone explain the meaning of, 'you should have known me by now' as he says. We're fiends by the way, only known for a month. We joke around and when I don't understand his jokes, he goes and say, I thought you knew me, you should have known me by now' and I say I do but I don't get your jokes and we just laugh. I feel like he's trying to say something. Whenever we make an eye contact we just laugh. I've caught him gazing at me frequently and he always holds that gaze when I'm talking. am I on the wrong side here? Am I thinking too much? Thanks.
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He likes talking to me, he says?!
Posted Sunday February 19 2017, 3:28 pm
Hello, just wondering, why does he say, 'i like talking to you?' we do chat when we see each other as he's a mate. He also says you're my friend in a reassuring tone at least twice when we're having a chat and I say yeah yeah, I know that. Is he after something or is it just a mate thing? I've started to fancy him a little so could I please get a straight answer? Thanks.
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How to handle the pressure of being in a mixed race relationship?
Posted Sunday February 19 2017, 2:21 am
I'm a Caucasian woman raised in a family that's all white on both sides. I've dated a few guys in the past who were Asian or Caucasian, but never somebody from African American descent. I briefly tried to date one Arabic guy and my family would have none of it, my dad routinely calling him racial slurs, and celebrated our break up.
Well I just met a really great guy who's educated and a total sweetheart. He has great ambitions and we seem to have a lot of common goals in life. I see us winding up dating fairly soon (he already bought me chocolates on Valentines day), but I'm kind of scared for it.
My family is very racist against African Americans and I know if it got to the point where I needed to tell them ...
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