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i love my mom but she totally embaresses me and hurts my fee
Posted Thursday October 7 2004, 2:16 pm
ok it started when me and my mom were just home doing nothing and my two friends were knocking on the door and my mom told me not to answer , but my frrieds saw me so i told her i wnated to , but these to friends arent my nicest friends ,anyways, before i could even get to the door she yelled out "what do u want!?!?" in a real loud rude voice and they answered "oh we're here to collect a book your daughter borrowed from me" and my mom lied and said "no she;s sick" and went back to her T.v . a f ew minutes later she noticed they were still at the door so she yelled agauin "leave!! why are you girls still here? " and they said "ok fine..sorry!" and they left.but they came and said "listen...
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I need help man!
Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 8:15 pm
ok well my brother was recently let out of jail, and during that period of time, i got along with my mom... okay.. not great though, and everytime he has been here.. she's changed, she has been favoring him SO MUCH! and she was like this before he left too, but i dont know how to deal with this. she says stuff to me that hurts alot, and she does stuff for him that i would ask for the same and she would be like, do it yourself, or mean stuff like that! i really dont know how to put up with this! it makes me really sad, cause i have been trying to get a relationship with my mom cause i dont have one with my dad (even though he lives me me) and it just doesnt work! please help! i dont know how to deal with this anymore! cause it has been goin on for years! :-(
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um...is this right?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:16 pm
ok well latly i have been remembering times when i was younger that i did not like at all. my family would take pictures of me when i was in the bathtub.(i was about 10 or so at the time) and i recall one time when my grandmother was scratching my back but went below my pants line and i freaked out,ran away and cryed. my mom said i was making to big of a deal out of it. again when i was about 9, my mom would suggest that i sleep topless in the summer if i got hot. i always thought that was strange. plus my family(including aunts and grandparents) spanked my butt for no reason at all. just when they passed me they would. i dont like thinking that they did that to me, but i was younger at the time and i didnt know any better because i though ...
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Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 4:00 pm
yeah this sounds stupid but.. wat is an abortion? i should know this because my older sister did a report on it and it got into the newspaper but i guess im just the dumb one. please answer!
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BROTHERS
Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 12:14 pm
My family (mom, and Sister and me) just moved away from my older sister and my dad.Well we moved in with my moms boyfriend:(. He has a little boy (11 OR 12) that lives with us and a daughter that lives in North Carolina.(Age 6)
Well Ronnie gets more attention from my mom than she givs to us. My sister is 13 and im 15. Im the oldest. well in that house. Im the middle one out of 9. ranging from 6-25. Everything Ronnie does Kaylie and I get in trouble for it. Im getting sick and tired of his and my mothers and her boyfriends shit all the time. What do i do. I tried talking to them already. Please help.
i never told me mom yet that if things dont change soon and we stop gettin introuble for what Ronnie does, thenim moving back w...
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Mom Versus Boyfriend? 16/f
Posted Tuesday October 5 2004, 10:30 pm
Okie, here's a little background...my guy and I have been dating for almost 11 months, and we're really serious.
Recentlyish, my mom's been focusing on EVERY little "mistake" my guy makes. For instance, today he was late picking me up for school and she kept saying "I hope he's really coming, because you missed the bus and I'm not driving you." and stuff like that., and I wanted to smack her...Lol. I HATE that she keeps doing this. She takes the tiniest things, like lateness, or the way he's so tight with money and turns them into huge flaws.
I pointed out to her that she makes me think she doesn't like him, and she tells me she's just "looking out for me" and "making sure I see things/the w...
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Unwanted Guests visiting
Posted Tuesday October 5 2004, 6:34 pm
My husband and I are in our mid-40's with no children and have just completed building a second home (our dream home) on a lake near the mountains. It is a one bedroom house that took almost 4 years of our lives to build and every penny we could scrape together.
My husband has friends from out of the area that want to "freeload" on us...and he thinks it is great! The more the merrier and the bigger the party!
His friends are all married and all have many children. They want to come up in groups and stay with us. This past weekend several families camped at a campground a few miles away, but "stayed" at our place the entire weekend...the only thing they did at the campground was sleep (and...
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Posted Monday October 4 2004, 10:24 pm
hey ok my sisters 30 birthday is sunday. im going over to her house saturday because she just got married and shes having a wedding party and showing her video of the wedding and pictures! anyways, i have NO idea what to get her!! shes outgoing and she has blonde hair lol. she has 2 kids. and her husband has 3. umm she has 3 ear piercings, and she had a belly and nose piercing. i HARDLY EVER get to see her like once every 2 months. we talk alot tho. any good ideas? thanks.
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my mom
Posted Monday October 4 2004, 6:05 pm
my mom is really mean. she always calls me names. like just now i asked her where to put the dinner that jsut got here in the fridge or oven and she was liek the microwave you idiot! ugh i hate that! and i tell her i was gunna clean my room out and i did but she keep ssayin it iant done yet! and alwas says im always ont he comp and always says mean stuff bout me to ehr friends n my older sister and i really dont like it and i can tsay nethign to her bc then she will snapp mor ei used to be able to tell her nething now shes always bitchy:( plz help me i really rally really dont no what to do . now shes off the fone and is gunan snapp. she says that the reason we got fast food is bc I WANTED IT! so its MY fault she spent $15 on fast food. it...
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Guy problems
Posted Sunday October 3 2004, 3:20 pm
Well this guy i like won't talk to me. He wont return my calls or anything. He liked me 3 days ago and now he wont talk to me. I dont know what i did to make him so upset. He is at his friends houses all weekend, would this effect him not talkin to me cause all his friends are older guys and im younger than him? What should i do on Monday at school, go up and be like whats up why arent you talkin to me, or just give him space and smile at him in the halls? PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I really miss talkin to him
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Posted Saturday October 2 2004, 1:45 am
Hello. I have been a cheerleader for 15 years, and with all the experience I've been through a lot of issues. So I started my own cheer advice column. If you need any help with stunts, tumbling, dance, jumps, team issues, tryouts, etc. Ask me! Column: DivazGirl
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i hate my mom
Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 6:27 pm
Ok, as u jus read, i really hate my mom. I cant stand her! 1st of all, i was i guess u can say an accident. Which makes the situation a hell of a lot worse. But newayz, i had a stress fracture in my foot. I have to wear one of those stupid walking boots 4 2 weeks. 2morrow is homecoming and i get to be in the parade and everything! Its 2 weeks next wednesday and i really dont want to wear it for homecoming, its JUST ONE DAY!!! It doesnt even hurt, everytime i hurt myself or decide if i want to go to the doctor, she always says, only u no how it feels. I put that back in her face and said i only know how bad it hurts and it doesnt. It hasnt been hurting me since monday (and thats they truth). I really dont wanna wear this stupid thing for hom...
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Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 1:00 am
i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.
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WOW
Posted Wednesday September 29 2004, 9:26 pm
errrrrr. ok my mom dont trust me i did something with a guy she found out end of story. we were going out at the time now we arent cuz i was grounded cuz of the other thing and cudnt see him much but we still good friends and he invited me over last weekend i asked mom said no i got wicked mad and now i he asked for this weekend if him n his dad could drive over pick me up i cud go to his house. i needa ask but im afraid cuz 1) she wont giv in wen she says no 2) i needa prove to him i can hang out so we can go out again 3) wen she says no i get so mad. like she doesnt undertsnad me. (no1 does. he does alot..he makes me happy too and i am not the happiest person) the anger builds up inside me till i wanan explode. i wanan show her she can tr...
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Posted Tuesday September 28 2004, 6:47 pm
Hey Im Kristen. I just wanted to say that you give some GREAT advice ;) lol Anyways, I also hava ?. My mom has been REALI rude lately..I mean shes NOT actin like a mom..She is acting like a frickin RUDE teenager!! lol I know this sounds Crazi, but its def. tru! I tri ta talk to her, but she just says mean things bak to me, or she ignors me ..I dunno wat ta do..She was never like this before!! :( Shes always down grading me and saying that i look fat n stuff..I know im not SKINNY, SKINNY. lol But im not FAT! >:( Does your mom ever act like that?? PLEASE answer this..I dunno if its jus me, or it reali is HER.lol THANKS SO MUCH..ILL RATE YAll GOOD! ;)**
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My dad!!
Posted Sunday September 26 2004, 12:34 pm
OK I'm a 15/f and I'm white.. and my boyfriend's black. It makes no diffrence to me .. I dont care at all but I think my dad does. Eventually he's going to meet my Dad and I'm so afraid of what my Dad's going to say. He doesn't know about my boyfriend yet. My dad's a little bit intimidating and I dont want him to scare my boyfriend or anything because I really like him a lot. I think we're going to last a long time, but I'm so scared of what my Dad's going to do or say. What should I do to make this easier ?
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My Dad
Posted Sunday September 26 2004, 12:04 am
Ok... My mother and father r separated, I live with my mom and visit my dad every other weekend. And everytime i visit we have fun until i do something small and it pisses him off. and i HATE IT! He throws fits over the smallest things. I've thought about calling my mom to pick me up whenever he does tht but i dont have the nerve b/c he'll get into a fight with my mom and i hate it. Plus when he gets mad he doesnt talk to me, he just sits there in a bad mood and if its time for me to go he just says bye and gives me a hug when usually he hugs me says he loves me and kisses me. and i need k=to know what to do b/c i'm over it! please help me.
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My parents
Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 11:36 pm
My parents nag me ALL of the time! Seriously, they bug the hell outta me and I am so sick of it! I think i might move in with my aunt, but i dunno how to break it to my parents. Also, anybody else have this problem? how do you guys deal with it? Thanks in advance!
~From, ME!
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Unreasonable Mom
Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 6:04 pm
When I started high school, my mom gave me the whole "You'll be starting college soon, so grades and extracurricular activities are important" speach, and she said that any extracurricular activity I wanted to sign up for was fine. She had no problem with me joining the school newspaper, art club, or drama club, but when I asked if I could join cheerleading, she said no because "cheerleading is for bimboes". I don't get why she would say that, it's a sport and it's an extracurricular activity, what's wrong with that? I think she's being unreasonable, but she won't even listen to me. What should I say to her that will make her change her mind?
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brother
Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 3:04 pm
i dont like my bro he is soo annoying.I love him but he always wants to copy me.He steals my cds and everything else of mine. PLease don't tell me he is looking up to me because I've heard that advice before. When we're in the car he'll do anything he can to annoy me i hate it. Please help me get this kid under control!
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