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Posted Friday October 15 2004, 10:04 pm
my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak?
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"special" brother
Posted Friday October 15 2004, 7:38 pm
15/f and my brother is 11 he's similar to autistic. he gets so frustrated. if he doesnt get his way he'll freak out. when we fight he attacks me, pulls my hair, bites me, and tries to suffocate me. MY PARENTS ARE NO HELP. they dont even disipline him. he's SO FAT and my parents LET him sit in front of the tv all day and eat. he talks back to them and they dont even care. he doesnt wash himself and they LET him go to school smelling like SHIT. he CAN tie his shoes but my mom does it FOR him. he cant wipe his own ass without getting poop all over the bathroom. **DONT TELL ME THAT THEY SHOULDNT BE DISPLINING HIM JUST BECAUSE HES RETARDED** how is he supposed to get thru life? i cant deal with it anymore. someone help.
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My mother-in-law always pushes my buttons!
Posted Thursday October 14 2004, 1:23 pm
My mother-in-law is always accusing me of over-reacting to things, when I think my reactions are quite normal. She tells me to calm down when I'm only slightly frustrated about something, and her saying this to me repeatedly causes me to get more frustrated, then she's like "I told you so." For example, today she was giving my daughter a ride to school, and I went along because she was in her p.j's and it was a cold day and she was doing us a favor so I didn't have to walk her to school. Anyways, to get to the point, my daughter had made a suncatcher keyring for her teacher and I knew that I had put it in her backpack. My daughter wanted to show it to her grandmother, so she opened her backpack, and I reached back and got it. I lo...
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Real Brother v. Step brother
Posted Wednesday October 13 2004, 6:12 pm
okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to ...
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HELP!
Posted Wednesday October 13 2004, 11:05 am
i went all the way how can i tell my mom
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sister
Posted Tuesday October 12 2004, 7:13 pm
my sister gets all the attention and if we fight i always get told off not her 1m 12 and shes 16
HELP
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new relation advice
Posted Tuesday October 12 2004, 4:50 am
Hi,
I'm a 26 years female married from 3 years and a have a lovely happy family one baby boy.
I met a new colleague at work he sexually likes me and tried so many times to have some sexual relation with me,
After i refused so many times,i'm feeling that i'm getting along with him and i'm falling in love with him i can't stop thinking of him I want to be with him all the day.
I need your advice. what shall I do
Thank you
Bouba
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moving
Posted Monday October 11 2004, 9:21 pm
ok.. my parents are getting divorced and i'm moving into a house in town. i've lived in the house i'm in for 10 years... is it normal for me to be feeling like this isn't real?? i feel like it's just a bad dream.. even though i know it's gonna happen
how can i tell my friends what's happening??
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sister issues
Posted Monday October 11 2004, 12:47 pm
For as long as I can remember, my currently 19 year-old sister, isn't having the best life right now. I'll refer to her as Lexi In 2003 Lexi dropped out of her senior year in high school about 4 months before graduation. She claims it was because she hated that school, and hated everyone in it. I mean, she's not really the preppy, Barbie Girl type. She did get her G.E.D. after dropping out of high school, though. She went to the 2nd semester of college. Our whole family was overjoyed and really thought that Lexi could make something of herself, finally. I mean, she is really, really smart and an extremely good drawer.
But then she ended up skipping her classes to sleep in, and the night before college finals i...
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period troubles
Posted Monday October 11 2004, 12:55 am
i have had my period 4 a awhile and i have basketball it is 4 days a week and i dont want to wear a pad cause i dont really lyk them it feels lyk a diper and ya i odnt lyk it wut shoudl i do and how can i ask my mom!
i dont no wut to do
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i need to be responsable!
Posted Sunday October 10 2004, 3:11 pm
My mom says I need to be more responsable so that she can trust me when I start driving in a month. How can I show her that she can trust me?
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is this normal?
Posted Saturday October 9 2004, 10:03 pm
14/f
Hey uhh how do I start?? K well my family always go out places and I always stay home and its because I love being at home by myself, or I just want to stay online or I'm lazy. Sometimes I do go out but rarely. I dont know..I thought this was just a stage..but Its been going on for like 2 years! So whats up?
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Having a baby
Posted Saturday October 9 2004, 7:49 pm
What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..
how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?
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To much of an age difference?
Posted Saturday October 9 2004, 5:10 am
Okay here is the situation. A girl that I work with (age 36) has 3 kids (ages 18, 16 and 11) anyway about four years ago she left her husband after meeting this 18 year old guy. He had just moved to town with his Mom and they were staying at the hotel that we work at. Well, he was a pretty big flirt and he and his Mom stayed there for like 6 weeks while their house got ready to move in. After they moved in he would come and visit a lot. So, she leaves her husband and they start hanging out a lot and then he tells her that he really likes her and they start dating. So, he just tells his Mom that he feels sorry for her and that they are just friends and he is helping her through this divorce. His Mom doesn't think anything more about it becau...
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About my dad...kinda stressed right now ..any advice is appr
Posted Friday October 8 2004, 11:05 am
:/ well..ive been going through a lot lately. Im still not exactly sure whay happened...but one day after school my mom told me that dad went to the hospitol cuz hes depressed.A day later he got transferred to this phychiatric hospitol. (nothing like the padded walls where ppl are extremely crazy) but its a place for ppl who are depressed and stay there and see phychiatrists and stuff. I viisited him once but i acted coldly towards him...things were awkward plus i was scared. What can i do to make him feel better? I dont want to slip into depression also...how long could he be there for? Also..my Math A regents is coming up in jan. and i seriously need help in that...its jus so much goin on right now..
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my brother
Posted Friday October 8 2004, 3:05 am
my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him
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my parents
Posted Friday October 8 2004, 2:11 am
my mom and dad have basically failed in bringing up a good family there idea of a good family has screwed with our heads. none of us plan on being mormon (my parents religion) my brothers shoplift do drugs drink. my sister has a kid and a boyfriend who used to beat her. my little sis. is spoiled and i am worried about her. i smoke drink and am just screwed up in the head. my parents try so hard to keep us together and happy but they don't get that they can't do anything anymore so they might as well give up. how can i get away from there useless attempts to make me the good kid that doesn't do anything wrong when i do and i can't stop myself? also how can i stop my brothers and sisters from reminding me i am the last chance? it makes me feel guilty.
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scared 2 tell mom bout boyfriend...
Posted Thursday October 7 2004, 11:28 pm
ok i met this guy joey @ the mall in januray..i really liked him n we hav been seeing eachother for a while...now on sept 25 he officially asked me out...so we go out now....well my mom doesnt know bout him...and he always wants me to go places with him and stuff...and usuaully im able to bc my friend lives around hte block from him so i tell my mom to take me over there to her house...and we go to his...im really close with my mom but ive never told her about ne of my bf's...ive never even been close to my bf's in the past..im really close with joey n i want him to b able to come places with me too...but im scared to tell my mom we go out...his parents know me n stuff but im jsut embarased to talk bout this stuff with my mom bc she will as...
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Help
Posted Thursday October 7 2004, 7:51 pm
hey, i'm 15 and live with a brotehr and a mom and dad. well i get in fights with my brother and parents alot but they end up in fist fights. When me and my brotehr fight, it is really bad, and i end up being the one getting hurt the worst (he's 18) and i am the one that gets in trouble and he gets in none. but me and my mom get in major fights. she hits me a lot and kicks me and hits me with just random things. i dont know what to do about it. but of course i fight back, cause who wouldnt even tho its my mom. and my dad sees it alot but he doesnt help me to get her away. I have been hit so many times and even given a black eye by my family. i dont know what to do. i have called dfacs, but they didnt do anything and the police have been call...
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Posted Thursday October 7 2004, 5:50 pm
my cousin is really nice, but i think i might like him more than just family, is that wrong or am i just liking him cause he's my friend?
-clueless and creeped out
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