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Posted Sunday October 31 2004, 2:00 pm
My dad is moveing to San Antonio, Texas tomorrow. We live in Pennsylvania now, but my dad got a job, and hes moven there now, and leaving me and my mom behind until we sell our house, (they think its the best thing to do) My dad is like my best friend, and alotta people know that he is. My friends invited me to hang out with them like since its Halloween abuncha my friends hang out and we just mess around. I really wanna hang out with them tonight because Halloween only comes once a year. But I wanna spend time with my dad too just because he's leaving tomorrow, and I won't be able to see him again until December 22nd. What do you think I should do? Any help will get 5s!
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Troubled
Posted Saturday October 30 2004, 11:24 pm
ok how do you tell your mom without hurting her that you dont really like her? I mean I like her sometimes when shes not grumpy but I dont like school, friends or anything I hate sports now and all I want to do is go to my cousins and go to their school. I love my mom but sometimes I need my time and when I go to my cousins I feel wanted and I have friends there. My mom doesnt get it tho becuz my cousins are my friends and they love their school and I want to love my school too but I want my school it to be their school. lately I have been so depressed it doesnt look like I am but anything can make me cry now and thats not me, when I got hurt I didnt cry but I cry when things get bad with me and people i mean at basketball i just start to c...
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i need help please
Posted Saturday October 30 2004, 2:54 pm
ok well i seem to get into major fights with my brother which then leads to my parents! and the fights are usually me ending up really hurt! today was one of them! i got beat in the head by my 18 eyar old brother and my parents said i deserved it. and i had major panic attack because i was hit so hard! so my mom says she cares about me.. but then says she hates me and that i need to go to hell and blah blah blah! and my brother gets away with everything! he was told to leave the truck keys here, and he didnt and didnt get in trouble. and he steals a lot of stuff from me and my parents, and continues to get what he wants! i have told my mom several times what is happening and she does not believe anything i say and does not think i am right!...
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Posted Saturday October 30 2004, 1:37 pm
last night my cousin died in a car accident because someone cut her car breaks off. we dont know who but i am soo sad all i can do is cry, please someone help me to get over this horrible loss
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Having another baby!
Posted Friday October 29 2004, 7:58 pm
OK. Anyone out there have "Irish twins"(basically babies born within a year of each other.)Well, my wife is pregnant with #2!Is it easier or more difficult with the second child?
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Why does my dad Hate me??
Posted Friday October 29 2004, 2:06 pm
my mom and dad r seperated and i got into a fight with my dad one weekend (every other weekend)and he said he didnt want me to come back.... why does he hate me... what did i ever do to him?! I used to be hhis pride and joy.... what happened???
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Sorry this is long.
Posted Thursday October 28 2004, 8:38 pm
i dont want to sound all clingy and stuff, my friend, no names so we'll call her Jill, we've been best friends for about 3 years and we're really close. I've been felling kind of like she doesn't want me to be around her sometimes, but i do no that's not true. But also I've been feeling like she'd rather be around other people rather then me, and I kind of have been feeling annoyed at her recently, but I haven't really talked to her about it, what should i say/do about it to Jill?
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christmas
Posted Thursday October 28 2004, 12:06 am
i am at my wits end as to what to do circumstances are such that i may not be able to get my kids that much for christmas i know that christmas is more than gifts so if that is your advice thanks but my kids are use to gifts for christmas i am sure i will be able to figure something out but any suggestions would be helpful thanks this is really getting me depressed
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new guy in my life
Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 10:00 pm
This guy is new to one of my classes. He's extremely cute, funny, sweet, smart and just really outgoing. He's always asking to borrow my notes, and no one else's. He does anything to try to find a way to sit next to me, too. I can't even tell if our conversations are flirting or just normal chit chat. I'm starting to really like him, but I do have a boyfriend. I just can't help daydreaming about this boy. He's not like any other boy I've ever met and he seems to possibly, like me back. We've only been talking for a a week or so, and I'm just scared if I lead on I like him, he'll back away. Should I just flirt for now or try to be more forward about how I'm feeling?
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fighing/survery
Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:24 pm
ok well my mom is getting sruvery tomorrow..a historectory..how ever you spell it..and like I'm really scared for her but like we're fighint because I failed my geography test and my teacher called my mom and told her and now we're fighting..and I'm scared something might happen to her and we'll be fighting..she said I'm grounded for 2 weeks and like I can't..like I have a life a big one...like I do stuff everyday with people..and my mom is always saying how she misses me because I'm never home or I'm talking on the phone or on the computer..and like I try to spend time with her but we always end up fighting..I just want to spend more time with her but have a life too..and I wanna get out of this fight before tomorrow because shes leaving f...
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Moaning husband & spoilt brat of a stepson driving me mad!
Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 9:56 am
I'm loosing it! 28yrs, recently married 3 months ago. Let's just say it hasn't been a bed of roses.
1st there's my stepson. 8yrs. Has grown up mostly alone with just his Dad. Spoilt brat! So I'm working day by day to be the stepmother, but in his eyes it's just EVIL STEPMOTHER. He is very rude, spiteful, headstrong, and most of the time does what he pleases if I don't put my foot down.
Now ontop of that I'm dealing with my husband (29yrs) who recently discovered he suffers from Panic/stress/anxiety attacks and hypertension. He moans evryday about how ill he feels, and I have to remain quiet & supportive. When I try to speak to him about anything, from his son, to his "condition" he tells me I am making it worse! ...
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Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 1:55 am
Okay, this may sound kind of stupid but I really hate it... I live in LA. My parents are both in the entertainment business. All my life I've been surrounded by 'the spotlight' (but never actually in it). I've gone to so many stupid premiers and met so many celebrities (which are just normal people anyways...nothing special about them). But I've been thrown into this whole thing. My whole life constantly been thrown on plains, been stranded and bored outta my mind on movie sets, been around people I have nothing in common with (mainly 'celebs' that I have nothing in common with). I make plans with my friends and my parents are like "um, no we have a wrap party" or "a premier" to go to". And I like have no way...
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gay ass mom
Posted Tuesday October 26 2004, 6:15 pm
any1 got any ideas to help me NOT wanna stangle muh mom n beat her fucking ass?!?! ima bout to bust! please help answer soon bye
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Posted Tuesday October 26 2004, 4:44 pm
My younger sister will be 18 soon, but she has a crush on a boy who is 15. He's a nice kid and they're good friends, but her self esteem is really low because he doesn't talk to her a lot and won't ask her out. I told her it was because he would be intimidated by her being older, and he doesn't seem interested in dating yet anyway so she should stop taking it personally and go find a guy her own age. She also displays some odd behaviors like buying a baby bottle to drink out of, and eating baby food. Am I being a stiff or should she grow up and move on?
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abuse
Posted Monday October 25 2004, 7:27 pm
hi.my names jaylene and i my parents recently just got divoreced and ever since that ive been getting into drugs and cutting myself and my parents(mom mostly) abuse me and call me stuff like a whore all the time. my brother hurts me and does the same as my parents. everyone i no thinks im so happy and i just want to let it all out and tell all of them that im not! and i want to get out of my life and start a new one but thats not goin to happen...theres one good part i love my boyfriend weve been goiing out for 6 months and hes the only one that keeps me going everyday or else who knows whered id be but yeah i dont no wut to do about drugs and abuse and my parents so please HELP me!!! ps i love shawn!!
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Should I quit?
Posted Monday October 25 2004, 5:24 pm
I really need your help so please do not delete this.
Ok, I have been dancing for 8 years. I am known for dancing by friends, family, and neighbors. This year, I hate it! I dread it. I mean I whine to try and stay home. ONce I get there it isn't that bad, but I still hate it. Well, I costs my family ALOT of money so I can dance. They have to pay like 100 dollars a week practically. My mom thinks I should quit and she said I could, I mean I don't like dance so I am bascially wasting all our money. There are reasons why I wnat to stick with it, one of them being my friends there and I'm almost all the way down to my split, and you obviously know why I may quit. I am on the Field Hockey Team at school and love it. Please help me...
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Do you mind others?
Posted Sunday October 24 2004, 9:46 pm
Hey Guys, I need your help in overcoming one of the problem residing in me. You may call it as conservativeness or inferiority complex.
Rihgt from my childhood I speak less. I remember people used to ask me to talk atleast a sentence. I never bothered anybody. I never thought of this problem seriously before. But now I feel that I am missing something. I observed, before talking, I always think what others will say, what they will think. Is it a problem or complex? If yes, please give some remedy to overcome it. Thanks.
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my sis is a pain
Posted Saturday October 23 2004, 12:03 pm
my sister is a pain in the ass and i cant make it stop . she never listens to my mom or my dad and when ever you try to talk to her and she doesnt like what your sayin she likes to drown out the sound of people by repetin the word la over and over again . she calls me names like bitch and ass and other stuff like that . how do i make her stop being that way . oo yeah she also does bad stuff and blames it on me !!!!
thanx
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stop her..
Posted Saturday October 23 2004, 10:09 am
ok, i have a sister wh ohas these really digusting habits and i dont know how to make her stop. heres what she does:
1)picks at her nose(she dont eat it or anything, just picks at it..eew)
2)chews on her hair(and sometimes pulls it out and chews on it.i think one time she actually swallowed it.)
3)bites her fingernails(not just the nail, but the cuticle and skin around the nail..she'l just bite at it, rip it off, chew it and swallow it.its so wrong!!!)
4)picks at scabs so she can "taste the blood"(enough said )
Any ideas on how to make her stop???
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trouble with daughter
Posted Saturday October 23 2004, 7:25 am
Our 21 year old daughter had to move back home, because her roomate moved out to go to college. Our daughter couldn't afford rent on her own, so she moved in with us. She got a job working as a cocktail waitress in a real dumpy bar, now she has started dating a "regular" from the bar, and he is a 23 year old drug(meth)dealer. I have pleaded with her not to go out with this loser, to no avail. Question: Should we throw her out and risk her moving in with the boyfriend or try to put up with it, in hopes that she will see the light and dump him. She says she really likes him. As far as I know, she is not using meth, but does smoke pot. I am really scared.
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