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undecied x3
Posted Monday December 6 2004, 6:15 pm
hey im 14/f....i realliie lyke this kidd last year i went out with hym ... nd a few weeks ago he called me we talked on the phone for over 2 hours. He said he liked me nd i tolod hym i like hym.... but i kno that i more then lyke hym I LOve Hym nd i mean it . im not the type of person to say i love someone .. we txt each other sometimes but we havnt talk talked in three weeks. i kno he is the type of guy to wait for a person to talk to them soo should i call him nd i should what should i say ..
please help me thanx
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air force
Posted Monday December 6 2004, 5:52 pm
well my brothers in the air force and he's into high tech stuff now..what should i get him for xmas if he likes baseball, skiing, food haha, excersing and hanging out with his friends? please help b/c he's coming home to visit soon
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Success and My Aunt
Posted Monday December 6 2004, 1:33 pm
I'm not sure how to explain this. For example, I'm trying to lose weight, see. And my Aunt tells me that I've lost some weight. I don't like to hear those things from her.
At first I thought it was because I fear success. But if my wife gives me an encouraging comment like that then I take it good. I feel good. I feel encouraged. And it's like that with everyone. But from my Aunt... well, with the weight thing, it'll make me feel like eating more and gaining weight to make her wrong.
It might help if I explain a little bit more about my relationship with my Aunt. She raised me and for a long time I felt like she was my mother; even after she told me she wasn't. In the last few years though I've thought like...
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help
Posted Monday December 6 2004, 12:16 pm
my mom is cheating on my dad and they have been married for a long time and i dunno wut i should do.. HELP
<3 shaina
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fboyfriend/family
Posted Sunday December 5 2004, 11:57 pm
ok i know this is stupid.But i have a boyfriend and im scared to tell my parents. They wont get mad at me or anything for having a boyfriend the thing is i just dont know how to tell them. How should i tell them??
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health issues
Posted Sunday December 5 2004, 11:09 pm
I just found out that my dad has lung cancer and things are not looking good. he lives 2 hours away and I am 24 with a family of my own but I was just wondering: What are some positive, inspirational, and supportive things I can say to get him through this time no matter what the outcome...how can I help him through this? I have so much passion and emotion inside and I know what to say in my head, but I am so bad at expressing how I feel in the moment. This is the one time in my life where it's extremely important to say and do things right, but I still seem to only cry when I'm alone or think of good things to say only AFTER a situation. I feel I'm not being what I want to be for him to my full potential. Thank you to anyone who can help!!
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Newlywed needs help writing Christmas cards to new family
Posted Saturday December 4 2004, 7:35 pm
Please help.
My husband is in the Military overseas in Iraq. He has been gone since Feb 2004, he was still my boyfriend then. In May, he called me to tell me that they were granting him leave in July and wasked me to marry him, much to the dismay of his family. Before the wedding, I had never met any of his family. Now, he is still gone and I am having trouble writing my new family Christmas cards. My sister in-law sent me a list of who I should send cards to, but I just don't know what to say. Should I come up with a few "generic" lines or should I try to make it all little more personal. Should I sign his name? I've never met or even spoken with 99% of his family. On top of it all, while he was home, I got ...
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pL3asE hElp
Posted Saturday December 4 2004, 10:23 am
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Posted Friday December 3 2004, 4:37 pm
ok, my parents, dont smoke..or say they dont. when theyre in their room, and they leave and let me go in there..it smells horrible..like smoke, but not cigarette smoke. ive been to a concert...and smelled mostly everything there is to be smoked, and one of the smells is what i smell in my parents room. last year i was looking for presents around xmas(hehe) and i had heard of looking in btween the bed and the mattress, so i tried there. i found a couple of baggies with something in them..and no it wasnt a cd or anything.. well everyonce inawhile, i see a pipe stickin out from under the bed.the othr nite it finally hit me what the smell was..pot..so jus a second ago, i went in(theyre not home) and lifted up the matress, what do i find?the p...
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HELP!
Posted Friday December 3 2004, 11:13 am
Ok i need help on how to know how to deal w/my sisters b/c they have such a bad attitude and the oldest one figured out how to get into my room by unlocking my door. i kno for a fact i can't trust her but what can i do to maker her listen and stay out of my business b/c i've tried like everything and nothing worked so far. i need help on this one.
Also my family isn't working out b/c my step mom is such a pain ans dome tiem she doesn't understan my probs. what can i do?
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My brother is gay
Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 4:43 pm
My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
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They Think Im A Lesbian
Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 2:54 pm
ok. the other day my one friend went and sent me a link that said xanga and a couple other links that said buddy4uprofile and all so i thought they were all her info stuff. so i clicked on them alll and it came up that they were a bunch of porno sites and 3 of em i think were lesbian sites. I clicked outta them as soon as i realized wut they were and yelled at her for it. Well, today my mom woke up and yelled at me for them becuz she gets emails telling her what i go on. Well, now she thinks i am a lesbian even tho she says she believe me i kno neither of my parents do becuz my dad always. and i mean always says he loves me when he leaves to take her to work and he didnt until i said i love you too. I know they think im a lesbian and that ...
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awful
Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 5:12 pm
I am so fucking pissed off. This morning I found out my "mom" has been lying to me my whole life. I found out that she has been married before and got divorced. I also now found out that my sister and I do not have the same dad. I always thought she did. I swear she fucking lied to me. Thats not fine. My mom told my sister she was going to tell me all of this when I was 9 years old..I'm 14 getting ready to turn 15. What do I do? I can't ask her about it. She doesnt know taht I know. I just dont know, my own fucking mother lied to me.
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My life is hell and I am confused
Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 4:07 pm
I am 16 years old and I have been through hell and back! My mom was with a guy for nine years and I was molested by him. Now every year she is with a new guy. In February I was raped by my brother in-law and my mom didn't believe me at first, I was called a liar and I was told that I asked for it, the cops didn't even believe me until I took a polygraph test! I eventually got away from my mom because she hit me one day. I was living with one of her friends which kicked me out of her house for smoking cigs (She knew before I moved in that I was a smoker and I NEVER smoked in her house or even on her property!) I tried to kill myself because I didnt want to go back to my mom, i was placed in a mental institution for 4 months and now I am livi...
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Should I tell anyone?
Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 1:48 pm
My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do?
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what should i do?
Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 1:04 pm
If there is a fight between ur younger sister and her friends, should i help them by trying to fight with younger kids,or do i try and talk to them one by one in a place where no one can her u. Can u help me decide?
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my dads a jerk
Posted Tuesday November 30 2004, 7:01 pm
my dad is such a jerk. i'm not going to try to make this sound any worse than it is. ok well he, i guess, "verbally abuses" me. he doesn't treat me like a daughter. the other day he called me a slut, which i'm not, and he cussed me out because he doesn't trust me. i haven't even done anything. he thinks im a druggy too. he tells me that i'm just a mistake. it hurts so bad. i want to run away, but i'm trying to stop myself. im just really afraid he's going to hit me. he jerks me around, but not too bad. i need advice. dont tell me to talk to him about it.
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Posted Tuesday November 30 2004, 5:29 pm
omg :( my mom just died 3 hours ago and i'm a reck! i just dont kno what to do! has ne1's parents died? i'm 14/f and i do have a column here and mostr people hate me but its -- P4TH3T1Cx1426 -- and please help! even if yu hate me! i just dont kno what to doo!
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bf's dad
Posted Tuesday November 30 2004, 4:55 pm
(btw, we're 15, hes almost 16)ok well my bf and i have been going out for 14 months and recently his mom went to arazona to live and he moved in with his dad. lets call him..."Bob". ok so bob's dad doesnt like me very much. and we've had a long-distance relationship pretty much. and i never really got to see bob. well now his dad says that we're getting too serious and now he can only sleep over for one night ever OTHER weekend. like this wasnt hard enough. now i'll bairly get to see him. i used to cut too and bob is the only reason i stopped. now if his dad takes him away from me...i wont be able to handle things much anymore and i'll start doing it again. i really dont want to. but its just to much. so bob's dad is going to call...
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mom issues
Posted Monday November 29 2004, 9:16 pm
My mom is very overprotective & strict. I'm 15 years old and can barely even go out with friends. She worries about me because I do have "bad" friends who are into drugs, alcohol, trouble, etc. I think she should trust me more because I have never done any of these things and I don't give into peer pressure. She doesn't even allow me to get into a car with anyone. She has some points in her argument, but I know how to stay safe and what not to do. I'm a teenager and I want to have fun right now. How do I explain this to her and get her to allow me to do more things? She's just mostly worried that I'll get hurt or something bad will happen to me.
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