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Considering separation after 19 years together (10 years of marriage)
Posted Wednesday March 22 2017, 8:03 pm
I have been with my husband for 19 years. I'm 35. We have two kids (5&9). He is a great guy, wonderful father and tries his best to treat me well. The truth is, I have lost all the fire with him for the past 5 years. I don't think we would be together if it wasn't for our kids. We have grown apart. I do not want to be intimate with him at all. He doesn't feel the same way. We are two different people. Here us a twist: a guy who I have always called "the one who got away" has randomly appeared in my life! I'm ignoring the fact that his makes me FEEL SOMETHING again to try to address what to do with my marriage. Um losing sleep, I'm completely ridden with anxiety all the time about what divorce would mean for my kids.
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Is he thinking something else towards me?
Posted Wednesday March 22 2017, 4:15 pm
Hi, I was only wondering and trying to figure out what does it mean when a guy says if you were my partner I would have taught you how to cook those dishes so that you could cook for me everyday. And I said how about a help that makes you lazy he replied no I'm a traditional boy and smiled. Well we both smiled. I said I would prefer a little help. At the moment we're chatting along about all the foreign dishes over our lunch break at college. He's a good lad easy going plus he says to me you're a special girl (mentions my name). So how does he sound to you? Appreciate all the answers.
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Should I Meet Up with my Ex?
Posted Monday March 20 2017, 3:36 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend of two years this past beginning of summer though we were together my sophomore, junior, and senior year with a small breakup in between. When we broke up I handled it very maturely and nicely - more than I should have been but I wanted to leave it on good terms because I genuinely care about him as a person and I told him that and explained everything for why I felt as I did. The main reason I did this was because I didn't want to leave something out in this way or handle it with anger that would make me want to reach out and get "closure." I've already realized that's pointless and stupid. So we talked it through and he was hysterical and so upset but I still went through with it because I know he's ...
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Is he flirting?
Posted Sunday March 19 2017, 3:58 am
Hey,
I accidentally touched his thigh twice while we're in the car coz he was giving me a lift to town. I said sorry. we're kidding heaps but he pointed out saying, oh,you touched my thigh, you got a soft hand and soft pinky. He's a neighbour and a friend. We go to same university and we are quite frank to each other. He's just crazy, I reckon, jokes a lot. I feel like he's flirting with me or is he messing around? What do you reckon guys? Thanks a bunch!
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he asks do you reckon I'm handsome?
Posted Saturday March 18 2017, 6:19 pm
Hi ya,
Just curious, we're having a joke and out of nowhere he asks do you reckon I'm handsome. I said not handsome but fetching and charming and he said he's never been told like that and I was the first person not to think he's handsome with a laugh. We just laughed so much afterwards. Is he being insecure? However, I can't tell even though we know each other well. Is he asking for my approval? Cheers!
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What's he saying....
Posted Saturday March 18 2017, 5:45 pm
Hello there,
A boy says,'see, you're my darling and I will do anything for you' with a smile after helping me out with a project and I told him nope, not everything with the hint of smile and we both laughed. We go to same university and became good mates. Today, he was asking me if I have a Facebook and I said, 'why do you wanna know?' so that he could add me, he said. Now, I'm aware that he has a girlfriend and he's aware that I have a boyfriend. What's going on in his mind or should I not be thinking too much out if it? Thank you.
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Posted Friday March 17 2017, 1:54 pm
When a friend of mine texts and I won't reply in an hour, he rings but won't leave the voicemail which is alright as I'm ok and not pushy. I don't know but seems like he's just impatient and worried if I don't reply to him immediately. Our text is just about normal everyday stuff. Just 2 or 3 texts, that's all. I fancy him and I reckon he knows that but not entirely sure. Any thoughts? Thank you all.
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abusive relationship..
Posted Thursday March 16 2017, 7:43 am
Today my boyfriend hit me, and not just once, and not consecutively...but each blow came from a burst of anger Coming out alongside aggressive words. Right to my head. Now I will say he held back (he is much bigger and if he really wanted to do damage he could have done much more). We have a long history. We dated before. He is the first real romantic partner I had who I was head over heels for. I still am. I'm totally hopelessly in love with a maniac. So the first go around we broke up because we both did not communicate our feelings well and he was also very jealous and possessive and there were problems with substance abuse. He is also or was diagnoses with Being bi polar. I take this seriously, and unfortunately I'm very patient and ove...
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What should I do? :(
Posted Wednesday March 15 2017, 11:11 pm
There's this guy in my grade who I have been friends with for a few years. Me and him liked each other 4 years ago, but never dated. We became very close this year because him and his girlfriend broke up (she broke up with him).
He went thru depression because he "loves" her. Anyway, I was there for him to get over her and I basically went through hell. We had so many fights and we dented our friendship a lot.
They were broken up for about a month and few days. I started realizing I like him again and the day I realized that was the day his gf asked him for another chance.
Since then, our friendship has been extremely shaky. I got mad at him for getting back together
with her b...
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I want to break up with my live in boyfriend... HELP
Posted Tuesday March 14 2017, 11:27 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years (the first two years were off and on). We recently moved in with each other in May of last year. So.. almost a year. I'm 26 and he's 23. We use to fight a lot last year because I have a stable and fiscally beneficial job whereas he does not and refuses to do anything to change it. At the beginning of the year he said he would make more of an effort to find a better job but has done nothing about it. I have stopped pressuring him about it because it gets us nowhere but into pretty heated arguments. However, I pay for pretty much everything and part of me is starting to resent him. Which is probably why we get into fights a lot. You know it's crazy because I look back at the first 3 years of o...
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He's winding me up?
Posted Tuesday March 14 2017, 5:55 pm
Hi, a good friend says,' I'm only winding you up' while we're talking. He looks at my eyes and says with smiles, 'Oh, look at those eyes' coz I reckon I look really grumpy when he winds me up. Says, 'I thought you knew me, you should have known me by now' and 'I reply to him, I do know you.' I feel like he likes me and I like him too in a tiny amount. He's bought me a lunch once while we're at the college break and we just sat in the canteen and had it. He offers me a biscuits or chewing gum or chocolate if he's brought one with him. We both can be moody at times but we always have a laugh in the end. So, what's going on with him? Is he just messing about or truly likes me?? Help!! Thank you
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Possible to fall for another person while in relationship??
Posted Monday March 13 2017, 5:12 pm
Hello,
Just wondering is it actually possible to fall for another person while in a relationship for few years?? We're good mates but I can't stop thinking about her. It's crazy. I don't think it's normal! Any thoughts, guys? Cheers!
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Text with smiley face!
Posted Monday March 13 2017, 8:36 am
Hi,
what does it mean when a boy mate puts a smiley face at the end of the text? I like him and been mates for a few weeks and we get on well. We do kid around however I hardly put smiley emoticons unless if I have to but he always does. What should I be thinking, guys. Everytime I see him at college, I feel like I'm falling for him which is not good because I have a bf and he has a gf therefore I feel really bad. Guys, am I a bad person? Thanks
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Normal for a guy to offer a cigarette?
Posted Friday March 10 2017, 4:59 pm
Hi,
Is it normal for a male friend to offer female friend a cigarette and we both just stood by the street and smoked as we hadn't seen each other for a while but it was very enjoyable. Been friends for a few months back and we're quite open and straight to each other. I like him and we do joke. Now, we're both occasional smokers but he didn't have to offer me a cigarette. Just wondering, normal for a guy friend to do this or do they offer to any girls? Thanks!
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Does he have a crush on me?
Posted Thursday March 9 2017, 5:40 pm
Hello there, didn't know and never noticed before but recently when my friend was taking to me he just blushed during our conversation that he looked away and looked back, blinked, maybe he was gazing at me for long while we're talking but his face was red and I was left wondering, this is new, eh, as we're both straightforward. But I dot get it. I'm thinking maybe he has a crush on me or likes me? Or something there in his head? Thank you.
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Does he like me or what?
Posted Tuesday March 7 2017, 2:36 pm
Hello there, sorry it's bit long, I was having a chat with my friend, told him I've missed him as I hadn't seen him for a week, he said,'he didn't miss me,'turned bright red and laughed, he kept having that nervous laugh, I said sarcastically no, why did you have to miss me, i only missed you because you help me with my projects, he then said,'of course (says my name) I've missed you too, I said OK, he then smiled. Also, there were few other students at the college at the time among us, he accidentally used my name when he was talking to one of the student, he said sorry to the girl, he then turns to me and says, see, your name is always in my mind with laugh, I said, I know, I can tell, we both looked at each other and smiled. We joke and ...
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Is he trying to say I am annoying?
Posted Tuesday March 7 2017, 11:46 am
Hi, a friend says I'm drove him mad and instead I said, no, u drove me mad over a situation that I called him Narky and he called me cocky. When we are having chat,he looks me in the eye, holds the eye contact for few seconds but turns red and smiles at the same time and looks away and looks back. I feel like saying, what's the matter, are u shy, the thing is he's not shy at all. I fancy him but not quite sure if he does. He lightly touched my shoulder and ran his fingers from my arm to shoulder and shoulder to arm while we're sat next to each other the other day. He recently started to give me a high fives and fist bump. I hear that's he's got a girlfriend. I'm 22 and he's 24. So, why is he acting like this? Turning red, saying I drove him...
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he called me a bitch
Posted Monday March 6 2017, 7:30 pm
Lastnight my boyfriend called me a bitch and said he was kidding and didnt mean it. I told him it hurt my feelings and he said sorry. But i just cant get over it.
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is this his way of asking me out?
Posted Sunday March 5 2017, 1:26 pm
Hi, he says he can't give me a lift if it's too far unless if I'm taking him to movie however he always offers me a lift but if it's too far then he can't but keep asking,'are you going somewhere', come on,'i will drop you off, he says,'i say ok cool, thanks.'also mentioned few times saying, 'i will give you a lift even though it's far if you're taking me to movie' and we just look at each other and smile. i know him for about 2 and half months and became really good friends. we have a lot of laugh when we're together. so guys, is he indirectly asking me to go out with him or just being friendly or am i overthinking? we do flirt but in a slight amount and i reckon i like him a little. thank you all!
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Posted Sunday March 5 2017, 4:27 am
I have finger my girlfriend but she don't get period why what is the reason
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