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My mom
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 2:49 pm
My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?
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Mom's B/F
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 10:16 am
ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP
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Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:41 am
I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.
twin delama
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get dad to quit smoking
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:22 am
My dad smokes. I try to make him stop by saying "please stop smoking dad" or "you should quit" or cough really loud when he lights up a cigarette. DAMN IT, I FUCKING HATE THE SMELL! He smokes when hes in the bathroom, i just hate it. When i cough and stuff around him he'll be like OH SHUT UP, YOU SHOULD BE USED TO IT ALREADY or YOUR OVERREACTING. and id be like, havent you ever heard of second hand smoke dad?? he doesn't care.. i mean hes a good dad but he needs to stop. i dont think he'd do that nicotene patch or gum thing. When i tell my mom about it, she'd be like, get used to it, or she'd do nothing about it. What should i do?
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earning my parents trust back
Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:56 pm
a couple of weeks ago.. i got in trouble for having a picture trail.. and some of the captions.. but ne ways..earlier like in august.. i got in trouble with aim.. and i really want to earn my parents trust back.. how can i?? they wont let me have a cell phone b/c they can;t trust me.... but the thing is.. i didnt really get in trouble for that stuff.. i just lost their trust, and that fesls awful.. my question is .. how can i earn my parents trust back??
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We fight too much... TOO much
Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:09 pm
Ok well I played with my little sis today becuase she asked me to and reluctantly I was like ok. So I did and after a while I didn't wanna play anymore and so I told her and left and she got really mad. I told her I'd play tomorrow but she just gets mad and throws stuff and it happens everytime something like that happens. We always argue and I hate it becuase I'm always to one that gets blamed- which isn't always right. What should I do? Help fast. Thanks and I rate.
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!they don't deserve each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:35 pm
ok-----I have a stepsister named Danielle. She's 16. She has a boyfriend named DeShaun.---He's 14. (I'm 13.)I don't think they deserve each other because they are always on the phone fighting about something. Secretly, Danielle sucked her ex-boyfriend's dick behind DeShaun's back. He dosn't know. No one knows----but me. They are so dysfunctional and they distrust each other so much. To the point that it irratates anyone around them. It's confusing----some nights they could be on the phone making nasty sounds and the next they are screaming at each other. Danielle has had soooooooooo many boyfriends since she was like 11-----but shes had DeShaun for one and a half years. Now..... Danielle is sort of a slutty gold digger, (if you ask me), and...
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mother dearest
Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 6:48 pm
Help Im in a longwood school district where 57% ofthe students are white 38% are black and the rest are others. I do not mind this at all but my mother is very judgemental, preduduce and rasict. I happen to be white and so is she and at this point i doubt she trusts me at all and i dont kno why she always views my instant messages and always seems to think im doing something wrong..often gets iffy when shes around black people and is straight up disrespectful to me and others around her about this particular topic....Ive tried to tell her how horrible that is but she DOES NOT listen....WHAT DO I DO?!??!?
PS she is 40 and i am 13 my father is 46 my sister is 16 and i think its because black people tried to kick her ass in her school b...
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my family
Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:38 pm
ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
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Confused and Needs Help!...Fast!
Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:49 am
Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my ...
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Smoking
Posted Monday December 27 2004, 2:24 pm
My parents are always smoking and i hate the small of smoke!! They are always smoking and I don't know how to stop them!! I have tryed talking to them and it doesn't help!!! Please help me!!!
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me and my brother arent the same
Posted Monday December 27 2004, 1:48 pm
my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afrai...
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What Excuse Do I Give?!?
Posted Monday December 27 2004, 1:30 am
when i tell my mom that im going to one of friends houses but really im going somehwere wlse..what excuse do i give when she calls me and asks me where im at and what im doing?
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Worried about my aunt.
Posted Sunday December 26 2004, 4:58 pm
For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a ...
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Breaking up
Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 8:55 pm
I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I a...
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Family Issues
Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 3:40 pm
OK today is Christmas and my dad got drunk.Well my mom and him were arguing and my dad sometime hits my mom well I have a brother he's 17 and today he had enough and my brother went and hit him then they began fighting and alot of mess started.I don't know what to do or even think and my brother is leaving to the Army I'm really confused plz helm I'm 14/f.
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My house is so cold..it's inhumane:(
Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 10:39 am
My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do???
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My dads not here for x mas!
Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 1:36 am
well you see my dad just got up and left last night...he didnt tell anyone where he was going or when he would be back, we didnt even know he left...so after awile i called his cell...he answered and when i asked where he was he told me driving...i asked where, he siad the mountians when i asked when he'd be back he said WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT! and hung up!...i havent slept in my room becuz im scared he'll show back up and hurt me...hes a drunk and a very mean drunk...im really scared and upset becuz im daddy's lil girl and i want him home for christmas but aty the same time i wish he would leave forever! i dont know what to do anymore...plz if you have any advice plz tell me!
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my sister
Posted Friday December 24 2004, 6:40 pm
my sister broke up with her bf last night becasue all he did was talk abotu ho upset he was abotu things. tom orrow is christmas and i dont want her to be upset @ christmas usualy she tells me things but right now she won t talk to me what can i do to cheer her up.
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my brother's not the same
Posted Friday December 24 2004, 2:11 pm
i'll try to make this short. my brother was overseas in the army for three years. he came back in august. i've only seen him a couple of times since he's been back. the problem is we used to be so close and now he's just so weird. he won't talk to me. i went over for thanksgiving and he ate in a room all by himself. i felt bad and went in there to keep him company and as soon as i sat down he walked out of the room. he wouldn't even say hi to me or the rest of the family for that matter. i have to see him tommorow for christmas. should i ignore him or try to talk to him. he shuts me out everytime i try. any help would be great thanks.
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