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Posted Monday January 17 2005, 6:07 pm
Me and my family have been spliting apart this past couple months, my mom left my dad and found someone else. Im not sure how to accept this because it seems like she left my dad to be with him.but here lately my dads been tryin to but all the pressure of his on me and trying to make me feel bad about it and it works i dont know what to do about it though.
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mom and sister
Posted Monday January 17 2005, 4:32 pm
i'm 12 y.o. my parents especially my mom are very strict. i hardly go anywhere with my friends. shes not like other moms. i tried confronting her but she just thinks im crazy. then she gest mad at me for nothing. she says i cant have a boyfriend till ima 18 but i have already had a few. wat should i do. i dont want to keep secrets from her but i do.
my other question is my sister knows all my secrets about my boyfriends and blackmails me saying she will tell my mom. wat should i do about her
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What should i say?
Posted Monday January 17 2005, 2:46 pm
Okay well, im 13, and my mom and I are pretty close (kinda) I meen I tell her a little about my boyfriend here and there. But I really want to become closer with her, like be able to tell her anything that happens in my teenage life. Im scared what she will say? If she will listen and help me out, or not? What Should I Say?
--Amber--
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different
Posted Monday January 17 2005, 1:19 pm
My family believes very strongly about lots of things. One of those things is legal marajuana. They think if somebody in the USA wants to smoke pot, let them. Pretty much everybody in my family smokes pot except for me. I'm 15 years old. I think they're wrong. I don't think pot should be legal because it makes people do stupid things. But so does beer and other alchaholic drinks. But they're legal. So I think maybe they should not allow alchahol or pot. I'd like to point this out to my family but I don't want lectures. What should I do?
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Can you help me please with our home
Posted Monday January 17 2005, 3:39 am
Hi my name is Marilyn from Memphis,Tennessee
I just want to say first of all thanks for your time in reading this message.My father age 77 has been diagnosis with terminal lung cancer,he has had a quadriple bi-pass on his heart,he had prostate cancer he is currently having agressive chemo and radiation treatment.He been very ill going in and out of the hospital but he's been such positve spirits not complaining just taking his illness one day at a time.My mom is so wonderful because she does what ever she can to make him comfortable as well as my sisters and brother.I don't know how long we'll have with him but before the Lord decides to call him home can you please make his dream come true by giving him a extreme home makeover.
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Posted Sunday January 16 2005, 6:40 pm
I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
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This is really long but I really need help on this
Posted Sunday January 16 2005, 6:30 pm
I have a bit of a big decision here and I was hoping for opinions/advice about it if you'd be so kind. My parents split up a long time ago over the summer acutally and I had said I didnt want to be around her soon to be husband because of the fact he took mom away from us although it takes two. And his son got in trouble for molestation of his little sister so I said I didn't want to be around him either. So I live with my father. But lately, I've been seeing my mom after not seeing her for a long time. We've been getting close again. The other night she took me to her house to see my cat that she had taken but her boyfriend and his son were there. And my court I have said I don't want to be around them but it isn't official until Ma...
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my brother
Posted Saturday January 15 2005, 10:13 am
I seriously hate him so freaking much! I dont know what to do anymore his friends like me as friends and liek they talk to me online and then he comes home and tells my mom like a little freaking baby! Hes so annoying he calls me names all the time and makes me cry hes such a loser Hes never had a girlfriend hes 16 years old and im 14 I HATE HIM SO MUCH and i cant ignore him he lives with me he needs to move out of the house!he drives but never drives me places and hes so retarded he thnks hes all tough guy when his friends come over and he makes up SO MANY FREAKEN LIES! someone help me please ! sorry for the length
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Posted Saturday January 15 2005, 1:23 am
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Annoyed
Posted Saturday January 15 2005, 1:03 am
im 15 and offered to watch my brothers instead of going out with my friends so my parents can go out. Its now 1:00 AM and they still have not returned. Im annoyed because its not fair that they think they can stay out til all hours of the night while i sat home on a friday night for THEM. If they were planning on staying out this late they should have told me. Honestly i have no idea what their out doing putzing around about..Am i wrong for being mad? How should i express how im annoyed at them? i understan that they are adults and a child has no right to yell and act like their parent..but im just annoyed with the lack of consideration i guess
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mommy doesn't like how i talk lol
Posted Friday January 14 2005, 9:09 pm
Ok my mom hates it when I swear.. and I always do. I tell her to get over it and usually I am jking about it.. All I say is frickin and she bitches at me.. i tell her it is not a swearword but she still bitches.. I am 14 by the way.. plz right back ur the bestestestest
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At home
Posted Friday January 14 2005, 7:41 pm
At home sometimes I use a nasty answer and my mom takes it the wrong way when I dont mean to. Therefore, she does not trust me as much and thinks Im disrepectful and doesnt let me go many places. What can I do to fix this without having to tell her what happens in school and shit because I know she WILL NEVER understand...
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I didn't know what subject to put this in
Posted Friday January 14 2005, 5:48 pm
Ok...well I met this guy online and we're really good friends now and somehow he got my cell phone number. Well one night he called me and we talked on the phone for a while but it was like a free call because i have free long distance and free after 9. So does anyone know if it still shows up on my phone bill? Because my parents are all like "don't talk to people on the internet you don't know" and they would freak and want to know who I'm talking to in other states and junk. So what should I tell them if it does show up on the bill?
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mother who adopted
Posted Friday January 14 2005, 1:00 pm
i am a 36 yr old mother of 2 boys ages 10 and 3. my mother who has been married 3 times, with her third marriage adopted a special needs baby about 2 1/2 years ago. now, i know that that is a comendalble thing, but i still have a problem with this whole thing. she decided to adopt the boy shortly after i had my second son. my son was about 3 months old when she announced that she was going to get into foster care. well, that was great. so, the first child she gets to foster is a special needs boy named charlie. he has a shunt, spina bifida, and is paralized from the knees down. Not long after she has him in her home, i begin notice that she is becoming very attached to charlie(naturally so). i asked her if she was considering adopting him ,...
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My mom doesnt like her!
Posted Thursday January 13 2005, 4:25 pm
OK, when I was younger I had this really good friend. Then one time we got in a fight and went to the principles. My mom doesn't like my ex- friend. Let's call her Lucie. Well, I have a really good friend now and let's call her Peggy. Well Peggy has brought me and Lucie toghter and we have become really really good friends. Well, tomrrow night, Peggy invited me and Lucie to spend the night. My mom said yes. Then today, she asked who called and I said Lucie. And she was like are you friends with her. And I was like yea and we may be going to the mall on Sat. And my mom was like all uneasy. She doesn't like my new friend! What should I do?!
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feeling a little guilty?
Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:11 pm
I've noticed my mom acting very quiet and different today. I think that shes feeling depressed. This isnt accually a thought, its obvious. I saw that she got books from the library about depression.
Anyways, Im feeling quilty myself because I feel that being the 'teenager' I havent put enough effort towards the house. I dont think thats its menopause because she's only 40. but I dontknow. Also my brother is having a baby, its not that hes too young. But maybe that its scaring her that shes going to become a grandma?
Should I be feeling Guilty? It just scares me because I dont want my mom to be depressed..
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what do i do?
Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:23 pm
my friend janet told me that she cant stand living with her mom any more and that she wants to leave her house as soon as possible..cuz her mom doesnt believe any of the things she tells her(its a long story)...does anybody know any numbers she can call that are related to this sort of situation? thanx a lot!
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hey plz help!
Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:57 pm
ok i have this best friend (ill say bf) and well this gurl is gettin in the way of our friend ship like tryin to take my bf away from me everyone comes up to me sayin "sam (the gurl) is lioke tryin to take megan (my bf) away from you" and i say "no duh! we both know!" but yet my bf doesnt do anything she is "pretendin" to be this gurls friend.... what should i do to get this gurl out of the way of my bf' and mines friend ship?
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Wondering how I should word this to my family
Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:43 am
OK soon im going to Florida. Last time I went was when i was 11..and now im 15. So this time, im hoping to be able to walk around the beach and our hotel resort alone to flirt with guys :)
How should I askk my parents to go alone? I dont want to bring any of my younger brothers and I know they might suggest it. If I do meet someone and we decide to meet up later to hang out..I dont want to ask my parents "hey i met this guy ..so im gona go hang out with him now.." because i know they wont allow it. Any ideas to get around that? Thanks so much!
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I need Help
Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 3:41 am
Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****
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