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Interferring mother
Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 2:31 pm
OK...sorry, this will be quite long.
Well, my parents are divorced and I live with my mother. I don't see my father any more, because he got married to this lady called Karen, and she sends me loads of horrible emails, accusing me and my mother of all sorts of crap. I'm perfectly happy with not seeing him because I never got on with him, so that's not my question.
The thing is, my mother still wants me to see my father's parents. I really don't like them and all they do is complain at/about me while I'm there and I never enjoy any time I spend with them. My mother keeps going 'oh well you should do what you want I'm not forcing you to see them', but if I mention not wanting to go and see them, she moans at me and says I really...
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annoying mom!
Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 2:25 pm
hiya.
My mom is being really awkward. We have this guinea pig, and it's hers, but she refuses to look after him!! I have to feed him and groom him (he's a long hair) and cover him up at night and handle him and clean him out and everything. I don't mind doing this but I think she should take some responsibility for him!! If I try and speak to her about it she just shouts at me and says 'he's not your pet, why should you care?' and then moans at me if I leave any of it for her to do!! She is a stay-at-home mom and I'm 11 and the youngest child, we have a cleaner and a gardner and my big sis Allie cooks so it's not like she doesn't have time!! What do I do?
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embarassed
Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 1:10 am
my dad got arrested, and it's reallllllly embarassing. what should i do at school? i live in a small town so people will find out about it fast.
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forgotten daughter
Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 1:09 am
my mom has been really stressed. she was suppoesd to pick me up after school yesterday and she was late. no biggie, right? but later she admitted she's forgotten about me. i'd like to help relieve some of her stress. any ideas?
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my sisters a hoe
Posted Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:43 pm
ok my sister is a real big hoe!shes only 13 n she has herpes and all once she even asked me if it was possible to get fingered while standing up i was all i dont kno you whore why did you and she was all noooooo i mean well i dont kno he kinda put his hands down my pants n stuck not one but two fingers up my you kno what and she always brags about being a whore because people never paid attention to her before so once i was all your a hoe you even have herpes an she was like i kno now everyone in my school has it because of me! all happy about it and what not and i feel really bad for her because people only like her for her slutty ass. and she wants to have sex with her bf because her bf's ex had sex with him so now she wants to feel even ...
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Posted Wednesday February 16 2005, 8:19 pm
well see my brother and sister are both in college *my sister is a senior,my brother is a junior* and ive been REALLY REALLY missing them..now that they are in college im the only kid at home and i hate it sooo much! some ppl say that i need to get over it and not worry about them..but i cant help it i truley miss them like woah!!! i also have these awful dreams about ppl in my family dying..i always wake up crying and my mom tells me not to worry about it *cause i always going into her room at night and cry my eyes out* but i really cant help it..shes suggested going to the doctor about it..but i dont know if i want to..help?
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Slander
Posted Wednesday February 16 2005, 5:42 pm
My Dad's soon to be ex-wife has been harrassing us and stalking the house. Today, she told the police that I have been slandering her name at my high school. I never talk about the woman. Why would I want to talk about someone who is making my life a living hell? When I am at school, it is my relief from all the stress of home and I try to enjoy the time with my boyfriend and my best friends. I have had four of my friends come up to me and tell me that she has come to her house and said a bunch of stuff to her parents about Dad and about me. This is four different people that their parents would rather them have nothing to do with me. Do you have any advice on how I can improve my name, or at least deal with the stress of someone trying to ...
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confused teen
Posted Tuesday February 15 2005, 11:55 pm
I didn't know what to put this under but i truley need some advice... i will rate rate you high even if you just try. I'm got in a fight with my teacher today and i got arrested and my mom picked me up at the jail a few hours later. I have court and that was my last strike so i am gettin sent away. this has been streesing me out all day , and i can't stop crying. The hardest part was seeing my best friend crying in my arms and telling my boyfriend.. ne ways what I'm asking is what should i do or say that will make everyone feel better including me.
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Eulogy
Posted Monday February 14 2005, 11:45 pm
im saying a eulogy at my grandmas mass tomorrow, how can i start it...leave ur AIM sn so i can IM u, i dont want all the details all over here...thanks
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friend or not?
Posted Monday February 14 2005, 7:33 pm
this probably happens alot.. me and my best friend came to a public school for the first time.. and she met a guy who shes supposedly in love with.. it bothers me alot because they are constantly together and she totally ignores me.. but when hes not there she acts normal around me. i told her about it before and she apologizes.. but she does it over and over again. they are always showing pda and they always have to be alone. im not jealous.. i just want my friend back
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My nagging father, everyone has one, what do I do?
Posted Monday February 14 2005, 6:14 am
I am a gay male in my 30’s, and have been in a loving, committed relationship with another male since I was 18 years old. I plan on being with this man for the rest of my life.
This year marks the 10th Anniversary of my "coming out" to my parents. Back then, my relationship with my boyfriend was already in its 5th or 6th year, and it saddened me that I could not share its joy with my mother and father for whom I loved dearly. My honesty had brought me close to them again, and their acceptance has been a true blessing. I am grateful, for I know many others whose stories are not so lucky.
But this is not why I write.
My question has to do with my father. He does not judge me for being gay. He is ...
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Posted Sunday February 13 2005, 9:19 pm
My parents are divorced.. my mom's boyfriend proposed to her a few months ago and ever since then they have been having major problems. They never get along, and they're having a lot of money problems too. It's like one day they're all lovey-dovey and flirting and everything, and the next day they're not speaking to eachother. My mom keeps saying that she doesn't know if she wants2 spend the rest of her life with him or not. But i really want them to get married. Is there anything I can do to help them out? I've already suggested couple's therapy but he doesn;t wanna go. Any more suggestions? My mom is always depressed, and its making me depressed and it;s really hard to live like this. plz help!!
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my dad
Posted Sunday February 13 2005, 8:19 pm
my dad discriminates people and judges them because of the way they sing or how they look and I try to tell him but he wont listen and its making me mad. im sitting here listening to him laugh at steven tyler from aerosmith. what do i do?
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ahh
Posted Sunday February 13 2005, 7:28 pm
okay, my mom has been going to NY with her boyfriend like every 2 weeks for a month and half..and other times before it. whenever this happens..she says i should watch my brother and sometimes she would sleepover in the city and then it is required that i stay home and watch him. Well, i am getting annoyed with this becuase i want to hang out with my friends..but i can't just tell her to stop gong out, she has a right to also, but i am 16 and i have the right to go out too..How do i talk to her about this and what do I say? PLus..whenver i do get to go out if she is in the city, my friends have to give me rides and they are getting annoyed.
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how do i no?
Posted Sunday February 13 2005, 4:28 pm
my cousin has always gotten everything i ever wanted. what ever guy i liked, she would always get him. some of the guys she doesn't even know that i like them because i dont tell her because im afraid she might get them. well theres this guy i like now and she keeps saying that he wants to get on with her. i dont know if its true becuz hes been flirting with me and smiling at me and i thought he liked me. how can i tell if he really likes me and not her. and if he does like her, how can i show him that theres more to girls than just big boobs and pretty face?
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controlling
Posted Sunday February 13 2005, 4:24 pm
i did my flute for 30 full minutes... i practiced everything imaginable and the deal is that if i do 30 mins of flute i get 15 mins online... i thought i was making my dad happy by actually practicing for 30 mins so when i came home i was told him and he was like well get off line and go running! and i was like no i just practiced and he was like im disconnecting IM because you don't do anything else! whatever i do isn't enough for him!!!!!! never!!!!!!!! ever!!!!!!!!!!! nd my dad has to read my stupid conversations online... i have no privacy!!!!!!! i can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im ccrying right in front this stupid computer!! i absolutely positivly hate everything! there is no talking to him so thats not an option.. no one can talk to him... please help... i rate 5's
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Voted Off My Fam's Island...
Posted Sunday February 13 2005, 4:15 pm
Okay. I dont know what I am going to do about this and I really need help. I was out in cali for christmas break and I was with my aunt and uncle, whom i lived with for a year... and when i was out there i wrote in my livejournal... And when I came back to NY i got a call form them 2 days later saying that they read the whole thing,, even the parts of when i was living with them! And i said that i hated them and everything... but it wasnt true.. iw as just mad... anyways i wrote a sofisticated e mail to them apologizing and when i got a responce back from them it said for me to never in my life contact their family ever again and that they want nothing to do with me... and I didnt mean ANYTHING i said in there... I feel violated and betraye...
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Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 1:39 pm
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Fish
Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 10:52 am
I'm obbsessed wit my fish and last night i cried about him. I feel like he lives because i'm obbessed. What do u think?
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she told me but is it true
Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 1:37 am
Most of my friends dads look at porn! My friend told me almost every dad does it! But I thought my dad would never do it but one day i saved my paper I wrote for school and went into my dads documents and I saw all these things like adults only! Then I was going to savethemusic.com and when i typed in s i saw like sexmania.com or somehting like that! So is my dad looking at these things? Well duh but how do I deal with this situation? I wanna tell my mom but what?
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