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I dont understand


Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 2:17 pm

I have just been placed in the custody of the state and am now living in a residential facility. I just got out of a mental institution that is only 20 mins away from my sister. I am now about 2 hours away. She had the opportunity to see me before I left but chose not to! I don't understand what I did! She visited me on several occasions there and I offered to help her in any way I possibly could. Its not my fault that my mom and I don't get along and she knew that. Should I just move on and leave everyone behind to try to start a new life or do I ask her what is wrong?

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depression...i hate it


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 11:10 pm

Ok i just got over this huge depression thing i went to a shrink and everything. i started getting happier and i hung out a lot more with my friends and my dad who just got outta jail and i felt a lot better too. recently my mom is making me spend time with her i dont want to but i decided to at least be positive about it. so anyway i hang out at home a lot more and i get SO depressed like omg i feel like dying. i am so mad becuz i just got over this and i dont wanna go through it again. i cant do anything about it though. is there any way to help it that i just dont know about? plz help! im 14 btw


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confused


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 9:24 pm

my stepdad... well he 'touched' my sister alot. like every night. my sister ended up moving away to live with mu dad. he has done it to me once when he was drunk. but that was years ago... the thing is, i'm confused cause i find myself defending him. i told one oof my friends and i keep saying that he was drunk, didn't know what he was doing, etc. why am i doing this??? i am fairly close to my stepdad (in a non sexual way) and i hate my sister badmouthing him. i dont know why. Please help me!!!

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sick to my stomach


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:21 pm

my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2

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little sister


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 6:50 pm

im 14 with a 2 year old 1/2 sister. i love her to death but sometimes i get fed up. i only see her every other weekend but if im trying to do my homework shes always trying to play with me. I feel bad to leave her, and i always feel im obligated to stay. my dad and stepmom dont really help no matter how much i stress i need to do my home work

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Death...


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:44 pm

This February vacation (specically Monday) my family was supposed to go for a much deserved vacation to Disney with my aunt uncle and cousins... Well on Sunday their grandmother passed away. Of course that meant they had to cancel their trip with us and we decided it would be disrespectful to go without them. Well this is a very devastating loss for them I haven't heard from them since Sunday and I was wondering how long should I wait to see if they want to reschedule plans? Because I was thinking of going April vacation but I don't want to ask too soon. Any tips on how to bring up the subject and when? How long should I wait?

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Sister


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 2:41 pm

My sister is sooo annoying whenever i eat popcorn she goes "POPCORN HOGG!" I like popcorn but not THAT much. She is soo annoying. What should i do???

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I want to be free......


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 6:14 am

I want to be carefree, go to another country like japan, have a decent job, get a girlfriend, do whatever i want and never think of tomorrow or yesterday (while im still young). However, I want to be able support my parents so they can enjoy their life w/o breaking their back at work, because they went through so many and suffered so much to brought the family to US and had worked for the past 30yrs plus. So all there is in my head is "find some way or job that pay ALOT, so my parents doesn't have to work," but deep down in my heart, i felt that im being held back by my own self, from what i really want to do. I dont want to abandon my parent, but i also want to enjoy my youth (im 20 btw). Unfortunately, i decided to sacrafice my ...

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My mom and I....


Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 2:19 am

is there any way i can convinve my REALLY overprottective mom into letting me go to bording school?! lol everytime i ask she puts on this sad face (like to make me feel bad) and says "you really wanna leave your mom?!" and i always say "no but i really wnat a change"....and i just think it's time for me to be able to be a little more independant! but i guess my mom thinks im gonna be a baby forever..anways do any of you know a way to convinve my mom to let me go!? and also i know this is totaly irrelevant to the subject (lol) but how can i convince my mom to let me date already when ALL my firneds have been allowed for a while now!...thanx i RATE HIGH! lol xox Ari

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u dont wanna kno


Posted Monday February 21 2005, 12:26 am

i live in a two family apartment and my aunt lives in the room below me and she got a new boy friend and every night and day all i hear is them screamin and mooanin and the bed squeeking they have already broke 2 beds and are buying another and i hate both of them i only my baby cousin grey i feel bad for him i want to adopt him but im only 14 but im his god mother i guess that counts what can i do about both problems?
-Kaylor

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movie drama


Posted Sunday February 20 2005, 10:06 pm

i went to the movies with my friend jessiffika carlita and jzzy me and jessiffka went into the movies first and carlita and jzzy were walkin around the mall there was no more seats so we got a bench and put it next to the wall but we noticed carlitas ex (carl)s girlfriend kenehchepra sitting in front of two people in the two seater thing in the back of the theatre and then jzzy and carlita came in and sat down (carlita on jzzy's lap) and we were spyin on them and all the sudden she went in between the boys leg and did god knows what with the other girl right there then they were lik ull its all in my hand and they were like its sticky and they went to the bathroom and came back and gave the boy a tissue and he wiped his balls so we know wha...

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My sister scares me alot!


Posted Sunday February 20 2005, 2:43 pm

Ok well my sister tells me everthing. And this weekend she went snowboarding in frisco w/ her friends and boyfriend. And all her friends and her drink under age (she's only 17)and my mom always tells her not to drink or do sex. And our family friend who was only 17 died 2 years ago from achohol poisining. And I know there's going to be sex and drinks up in the mountains. Im just scared and I really want her 2 stop. Help. Wut shood i do?

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my grandma tried to kill herself


Posted Saturday February 19 2005, 3:41 pm

as u know by now my grandma tried too kill herself.she was nerly dead but my uncle caught her just in time.i dont know what im going to do now i feel angry,upset and cheated.im angry cos shes so selfish how could she do that.i cant face her nad i cant talk to her anymore.any know how i can start talking again?i want to cos i know she hasnt got long left.plse reply swn bfor its too late.xx

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there must be sumone out there thats been in my situation


Posted Saturday February 19 2005, 3:36 pm

im 16 and i had a baby girl just a month today.i know alot of people will juge me but i dont care nemore.i got my gcses this year and at the moment im doing coursework but after easter its revisoin.im missing my mates like mad and even though they come and visit its not the same.im feeling so depressd.i used to be so slim and now i still look pregnant.i know this sounds awfull but bi really am regretting having her,ive got no one but my dad.i was going to live with my boyfreind but he died in a car crash last year.what am i going to do?ive got no one just my baby?ne ideas?plse il rate.xxxx

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having kids


Posted Friday February 18 2005, 7:14 pm

when i get older im thinking about like adopting 2 kids and having 2 kids, does anyone have any ideas on why this would be a bad idea? i want to adopt because i dont want all my kids to have the same traits as me, but then i wanna have 2 of my own because having a baby that came from you is..good, right? do you think i would favor the kids i created over the ones a adopted?? suggestions, please??! thank you~~~!!!!!!

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mom or dad?


Posted Friday February 18 2005, 5:32 pm

OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!!

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Too much T.V Husband


Posted Friday February 18 2005, 3:21 pm

How do you get your husband away from the t.v. and spend time with the children?

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Posted Friday February 18 2005, 12:17 pm

Me and my mom are just not close. I can't talk about anything to her and she has never told me that she loves me. How can we get closer? If I try and talk to her about anything, like boys or make up, she just gets this look on her face, this kinda stupid grin. And then she tells me to shut up. What do I do?

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Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 6:24 pm

you know what fuck you you dont even know what happened so before you go running your mouth calling people hoes and idiots when you really dont know them put your self in there position she didnt want to have sex with him at first but he started kissing her neck and made her get into it so bitch shut tha hell up becuz you dont know what your talking about sorry you aint good enough to get a man to get you pregnant bitch dont talk about my gurl like that you got any problems im me xOo babiicakezx3

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Brother In Law


Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 4:56 pm

My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.

What do you suggest I do?

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