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HELP!!!!
Posted Saturday March 19 2005, 1:19 pm
my mom has the perfect boyfriend, i love him to death! for every other day the past month my mom has been going out with friends from like 7 pm to in btween 3 and 4 am ! a few of my friends moms even think she is an irresponsible parent! her bf is even begging to think that. eveybody is worried. she wont listen to me or her bf when we try to help! we all want them to get married, but even her bf sed he hopes she doesnt ruin it in the end! (its a long distance relationship, we live in la, he lives in san fransico)
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Mom can't stop her blabbing..
Posted Friday March 18 2005, 2:32 pm
My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.
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my mom!!
Posted Friday March 18 2005, 11:32 am
yesterday, after school, was the beginning of my spring break and when i came home, i decided to play around because it was the first day of spring break and i was happy! so when my mom got home and saw me talking on the phone, chatting, and listening to my ipod, she got all mad, screaming why i wasn't doing my project! well i have 2 really important history projects to do over spring break, but the thing is both of them are due like 5 weeks after spring break! she forced me to work on it all night and i was workng and working and she kept on screaming and screamign! i wanted so badly to tell her to SHUT THE HELL UP I'M WORKING!!! but she has a bad temper and i do too (i inherited it from her) and i don't want to start one of our horrible ...
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FAMILY: DAD PROBLEM (ABUSE i think..)
Posted Thursday March 17 2005, 9:54 pm
hey,
well you know how my sis and bros are always getting me into trouble even with things i don't do,my dad always hits me for no reason and sometimes my sis does something bad and blames it on me and my dad hits me,sometimes for no reason..there's never one day were he doesnt.. he hits me about 4-6 time a day for things i didnt even do..i tell him i didnt do them but he doesnt believe me he believes my sis and bro cuz they are younger,i try talking to my mom but she doesnt listen or believes me anyways she is never home so she never sees how my dad treats me,i want to talk to someone in my school ,a counsulor(w/e its spelled) but i'm shy and scared i dont want my dad to go to jail or anything but i just cant stand it anymore when h...
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symptoms of being a lesbian
Posted Wednesday March 16 2005, 4:13 pm
i fink my sister mite be a lesbian.she gos to gay bars with her gay mates, shes realy close o her friend and every time i walk in the room they move away from eachother.does neone have a gay sister.whats it like.i got gay mates and i love them to bits but its gona be wierd.can neone help xx
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cousin vs. cousin
Posted Wednesday March 16 2005, 1:33 am
My cousin's name is Nicole-she's on the left of the picture on my site. Don't get me wrong, I love her and I even wish I was like her at times. But everytime I'm around her, I feel like she's better than me and that I can't even compare to her. We always get annoyed of eachother after about one hour. I don't know what I'm doing wrong to annoy her. Everytime we get in an argument, I'm the one that always gets hurt. I think it's mainly because I'm younger and she always has better comebacks. What should I do when this happens? What can I do to prevent the arguments.
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lost my dad
Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 11:40 pm
me and my da havent spoke for about a yr since i got caught smokin weed... my dad completely turned his back on me while my mom was there with me the whole time and i love her i miss the relationship witt my dad but at the same time im so mad at him (even though i was the one that screwed up) for turnin his bak on me i have two sides about this and its gettin mixed and i dunno wut i shud do... hes not the type of dad u cud sit down and have a conversation about this with... plz help
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cousins death
Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:43 pm
june 2004 my cousin died from a mistake a police officer made. i cant seem to get over his death and i dont know who to talk to. i still cry all the time over him, and i htink about him a lot too. the rest of my family has moves on it seems, and they dont like to talk about him. if u have been in this situation... or one like it please shre advice. thanks
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cancun or no?
Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:27 pm
My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??
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counseling or not?
Posted Monday March 14 2005, 4:39 pm
okay this is semi long so i am sorry but i really want advice: my mom died when i was 3 and i went to SO MUCH counseling. family,alone you name it. i stopped around the end of 3rd grade. but now that i am a teenager i realize how much i want/need a mother figure. i have my grandmother and i love her dearly but its not the same. i try to talk to my friends but they cant really relate and i feel bad making my problems their problems. i sort of want to go back to counseling but it costs SO MUCH and i am not sure i need it....
help me please?
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Mom and Sister
Posted Monday March 14 2005, 12:32 pm
My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend?
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Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 11:37 pm
ok i did a BIG uh-oh i got my fone tookin away by the skool for tha 3rd time. that means they kep it til tha end of the skool year and i didnt wanna tell my mom cuz she sed that it would be my fault which it wuz not i wuz turning it off and he jus took it away anywho and i told my mom that i lost it do you think she will find out and do ypu think that wuz a bad idea iono wat i wuz thing wen i told her that now i regret it wat should i do?
~some1 in need =]
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ermmm cell pjhone
Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 7:58 pm
ok here is the thing my dad had a TracFone (Nokia 1100) he had gotten 2 verzion phones the other day and gave me the TracFone one for emergenices (sp?) ive been looking all for 4 hours now for ring tones because the ones i have on here annoy the crap outta me and he refuses to give me a verizon phone..anyone know where i can get free ringtones or something this is a prepaid phone btw which i know probably wont give me anything but can someone plz help me!!!
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Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 7:01 pm
Ok my dads been married 4 times...he is still on his fourth marrage. he got married about 7 months ago, when he got married we moved to another house and i had to change schools (i hate my new school so much too) well recently my dad came really close to getting a divorce, and we already found a house near my old school. well the day that my dad got the form for the lease, he started to have regrets about moving, like because the house that were in is my dads dream house, or this would be my dads 4th failed marrage, and the fact that his credit would go back to shit if he does divorce. the only reason i really want to move is so i can be at a better school and have all my old friends back, but at the same time i wanna stay because of my dad...any advice?
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confused..
Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 6:57 pm
i dunno where to start or how to explain it but me and my mom have a very close relationship, like we tell eachother everything and could talk about anything. well when i was little my dad died and she was with this real jerk that hit her and all this other stuff, she went back to him maybe like 10 times and that was hard for me. then finally she realized that that was enough. but the problem is i think shes actually going through it again. she was with this other guy and they seemed happy together and everything. but he had a problem with everything about my my mom, he even yelled her for her job?! she finally broke it up with him cuz she said she couldnt it anymore. but then last night she had told me she was going over his house and i ju...
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belly button ring questions
Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 6:55 pm
yesterday i went to my dads n me and my sister are piercing our beely buttons and i used a sewing needle and peirced hers but she fell asleep and didnt do mine so she is next week and i need to know where to get a belly button ring and my mom cant know about it and what do i use so i dont get infected?
-Kaylor
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not loveing life right now...
Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 6:04 pm
hi! im 13/f and im not loveing life to much.my mom is always yelling at me for nothing and slapping me alot and just hates me. then theres the thing that everytime i start to care for someone the dump me... and after the convince me that they like me or im pretty or something.. i really hate this. i got plenty more going on but yeah i dont need to dump all my shit on yall. but someone please tell me how to cope w/ this... ive been handleing this in a bad way for a little while now.. and i want to stop it..
thanks alot to anyone who helps me!
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mean and racist parents..long, but i need help dealing
Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 4:16 pm
ok this is weird for me just to say out of nowhere, but i'm Mexican. ok where do i start? ok, my parents are kind of racist. they are always making fun of my white friend (of course not in front of her face) and think my other friend is weird just because she is black. my other friend is asian and they don't want me to be her friend. actually, my whole school is full of racist kids and they think a lot of the same things as my parents, since about 90% of my school is mExican. anyway, its not just my friends, my parents are totally judging everything i do and say i'm turning into some kind of white girl or something. when i lsten to rap songs, they tell me "dont be listening to those black songs. they use bad language and send the wrong...
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In-Laws
Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 1:50 pm
I am in my fifties and have been married for 25 years. My husband's family, who all live within 20 miles of us, are very close, except for the relationship between our family and the others. We are frequently excluded, especially by the one brother's wife from get-togethers, celebrations, etc. The other three sisters-in-law go shopping, take short trips together, etc.; in 25 years I've been asked one time. Our children are also basically ignored, but not as badly. My husband does get asked for the guy things, but I am totally left out of the group my mother-in-law calls "the girls." About 15 years ago my husband and I separated for a short time and I was estanged from the family for about a year after that, since it was the sep...
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Sadness
Posted Saturday March 12 2005, 11:22 pm
Last night I just figured out that my mom, dad, and sister (that's my WHOLE family) just parished in a car accident. I can't seem to control my anger. I keep thinking it's my fault and I throw fits. My school counselors try to help but I hate them! The worst part is, I'm only 11 years old, and I'm being sent to a child's homeless center in 1 week.
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