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my dad is outta control!!
Posted Tuesday April 26 2005, 10:38 pm
ok well my dad is an alcholic and he drinks like every night and like a month ago he got pulled over for drunk driving he is in jail now and gets out in a few monthes! but before he went in he would always hit me and my family (not my mom tho)!! it gets me upset and dont no what to do!! and he only hits us when he isnt drunk so its either hes drunk or really mean does ne one no n e thing i can do w/o my mom knowing cuz she would freak if she found out that i tell ppl!! ~kel
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blended families
Posted Tuesday April 26 2005, 8:36 am
i lost a parent a year ago. my other parent is getting married in the summer. how do i show this fiance that i still love my parent, but i'll try to have a relationship with the fiance.
thanks
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Anal Control
Posted Monday April 25 2005, 11:46 pm
okie so the easiest way to put it is that my parents are complete conrol freaks and i cant do ANYTHING without them either noeing or okaying or watever and if i do im in complete trouble, can never go out agin, and watever else rite? AND they also threaten all the good in my life so that i HAVE to follow themm... ive thought about calling a child abuse service or watever but i thought that just might be a bit selfish because i have two siblings who reallie need the family until they're ready...and its so annoying because i cant do anything about it (dont ask why.. i just CANT) so im stuck like this for another three years and i really dont think i can survive that long. i mean who can??? if you were here youd probably noe. i dunt even talk ...
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Posted Monday April 25 2005, 10:05 pm
I used to live with my brother but now i have to live with my other brother and he's constantly drinking and hitting me i don't know what to do if i go to the police then i'll end up in a home again and i don't want to go back to one of those places and if i run away then i'll end up on the street again and that's no good either, but i can't stay here it's getting harder and harder to deal with him and he keeps trying to rape me. I have no other family my dads in jail for beating my mom to death and all of my other family members are even worse than my brother one of my uncles actually did rape me. I really don't know what to do. What can I do?
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Posted Monday April 25 2005, 8:07 pm
I used to live with my brother but now i have to live with my other brother and he's constantly drinking and hitting me i don't know what to do if i go to the police then i'll end up in a home again and i don't want to go back to one of those places and if i run away then i'll end up on the street again and that's no good either, but i can't stay here it's getting harder and harder to deal with him and he keeps trying to rape me what can i do?
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Posted Monday April 25 2005, 8:04 pm
Im stuck. Im a twin of my brother Liam. Except Im a girl and were both 13. The problem is my friends are ALL into Liam! Some of my best friends went out with him and its so weird when they break up and come over my house! I have recently found out that Liams current girlfriend Ashley who I hate becuz she is a BITCH major to me gave liam head. I mean HOW GROSS is it to find out that stuff about your BROTHER?! Ive tried talking to him but he got REALLY mad @ me =/ What do i do!? P.S. im nottttt talking to ashley! no way
-Alexis
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Theatening letters
Posted Monday April 25 2005, 8:21 am
Hello, I have recieved several threatening letters over the past year from my father. The threats include having me put in hospital, also stating that he has had a curse put on my daughter and myself to ensure that something bad happens to us, and general insults and abuse aimed at my wife daughter and myself. We have really had enough of this, is there anything I can do and should I go to the police ? I am convinced that he is going to pay someone to come and do physical harm to my family or myself. He is quite old and in a poor state of health, but is and has always been a very brutal person having caused misery and suffering over many years mainly to his wife and children. All I have done to promt these letters is to write to him listing...
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citizenship
Posted Monday April 25 2005, 2:17 am
Hi I'm the Grandmother of a little boy who lives in Ontario. He was born here as well and his Mom, my daugther is Canadain as well. His father is from the United States. my daugther and him are married they all live here in Ontario, yet things are not going so well in this marriage, The father is always saying he will take the little boy with him back to Pennsylvinia, My question is, can he get his duel citizenship for his son with out his Mother sighing for it as well and can he get his son's citizenship with out his birth certificate?
I hope you can help me with this as it is making me very upset to think of him taking his son.
Thanks.
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w/e
Posted Sunday April 24 2005, 9:24 am
ok i just found out that we might have to move, and if we do i wont be going to the same school. now heres the problem, we dont have the money to move or to stay in the house we have right now. so i dont want to move and im to young to work any where really.so what should i do?????????
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Mom
Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 10:35 pm
Today, my family and I (14/m) were out playing sports. All was well for a while. Untill my lil brother started to misbehave and be uncooperative.I got vexxed, but i controlled my rage untill we got home.
At home, i was still vexxed.
(since my birthday is about a montn away)My mom asked me what i wanted for my birthday. I told her "i want my brother to be gone for my birthday. that would be the perfect gift."
She got vexx at me. so vexx she couldn't speak. Sheleft the room.
I went to look for her later and i found her crying. what i said really got to her emotionally. she just looked at me like everything was lost.
that look got to me. i am sorry i told her that....
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ugh .. my mom the psyco..
Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 7:40 pm
okay so my mom has been aggravating me lately .. shes told me i needed to go on a diet but makes me eat crappy food .. and buys it .. shes told me i was an idiot and yells @ me about my job i yell back and she blames everything on me .. she told me my grades suck and i dont do anything with my life .. but yet i have 90's and 80's in most of my classes except 3 .. i feel so worthless right now and she keeps making it worse she tells everyone that i dont do anything and shes so fake in front of other people .. i try so hard and its like nothing will ever be good enough and she yells @ me and then 5 minutes later will try to be nice .. which to me makes it worse the other day shes like pull your shirt down .. i was like why my fats hanging ou...
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what should i do???
Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 2:26 pm
ok my parents rele fight alot!!!wen i try to go to bed (well atleast try)there always yelling.i've tryed to break it up and talk it out but they yell more!!wat do i do??
sighned,
janice05
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Brother
Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 2:08 pm
H3Y even though this question is long please don't pass it over I need help.
Im almost fourteen and my nine seventeen year old brother died about a week ago. I don't want to talk about it and my parents are trying to force me into it. I don't want to talk sometimes, I just want to forget. But theres something inside me that wont let me and thats when I get either angry or sad, but I never find myself in tears. I havn't cried since I found out he was dead. Those were tears of shock. If you were in the middle of an algerbra test and got pulled out just to be told your big brother was hit by a car you would probably cry too. I can't take this anymore. Sometimes I just want to turn him into some distant memory, and other ...
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Dancing Ruling
Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 1:54 pm
Sometimes I think that dancing rules my life. I take a very rigid, strict class where everything must be "just so" and I can't do anything when I want to. One day when my friend tied a friendship bracelet around my wrist, my dance teacher saw it and personally cut it off my wrist so I wouldn't wear it again. Also, when I want to try a sport like soccer or basketball, my dance teacher is the one who refuses to let me, saying that I will twist something or break something and I wouldn't be able to dance. My parents just stand around saying "Listen to what she says, dear. Listen." Now I really want to get some gentle highlights in my hair and my parents said yes at first, but they changed their minds when my dance teacher said no. What do I do?
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Posted Friday April 22 2005, 9:25 pm
I'm 13 and my brother is 15. He picks on me a lot and sometimes makes me mad but i love him very much. I just wish we were closer. I try to talk to him but he don't talk to me much. How do I get my brother and me to be closer?
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Help
Posted Friday April 22 2005, 4:28 pm
My Mum hates me she hits me all the time wat can I do?
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birthday
Posted Thursday April 21 2005, 6:28 pm
ok, my birthday is in 5 days and my mom usually asks all her kids what they want and where they want to go out to dinner for their birthday. well, she didn't ask me anything yet and she forgot 2 years ago and i think she forgot again =/. i feel like she doesnt even care and i've tried to hint to her that i actually have a birthday unless i'm delirious and its not april 21st today?
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Generation Gap
Posted Thursday April 21 2005, 5:55 pm
My mom was born in a foreign country, and their thoughts on things are a LOT diffent from the United States, and her thoughts are LOTS different than what I want to do. For example, she refuses to let me date, so I have to keep all my feelings for boys bottled up in my diary. She doesn't let me wear shorts (only capris) in the summer, so I end up burning up in my classrooms. I really need to tell her that these things might not be allowed where she grew up, but I don't live where she lives, and I need to have a LIFE! How can I tell her?
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my dad
Posted Thursday April 21 2005, 5:19 pm
My dad just bought a brand new house,2 story, in a really extremely nice neighboorhood. He's always bragging about the new schools that are in building process and kind of pressuring me and asking me to move with him. Everytime he says "im not trying to get you to move with me", when really he is. Its really getting on my last nerves. How can i come clean (in a nice way) and say stop asking me because i never will. (keep in mind my parents are divorced and i live with my mom). Someone please help soon!!!!
xOxO
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mother
Posted Thursday April 21 2005, 4:17 pm
my friends mom is lets say not the nicest person in the world. my friend comes into school with bruses (not big ones but they shoulden't be there in the first place) and fingernail marks on her. i ask her and she just says her mom and her got in an argument, and not to worry, but i do. i really want to help her but i don't know what to do. please help
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