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birthday present
Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 9:15 pm
hey all i didn't know what category to put this question under my birthday is coming up quickly and i honestly don't know what to get i am 15 female and my favorite color is blue and only blue so if you could give me advice on what to get that would be great. thanks
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i got my permit recently..and driving with my parents has be
Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 8:33 pm
ok so im 16 and just got my permit..every driving lesson ends in a headache because my mom would get crazy..telling me to do 5 different things..like i pulled into the parking lot of a park and shes like:
"stop right here...put the car in park..then she would see i was blockin a car so she would be like " pull over here..park over there.." it drove me nuts! i understand when she says to stay over more on the road...instructional things for me to learn..but when she spazzes out it gets really nervouss and upset..is there anything i can do? dont say only drive with my dad because i mostly am with my mom..my dad works nights so he sleeps all day...so i only drive with him sometimes...
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INCEST
Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 12:11 pm
K, so I have two male cousins.. both are 21. They are also cousins. So basically we all have parents that are siblings. One of them I'm only reminded of how much I like him when I see or hear about him, and the other I can not get off my mind. They probably wouldn't like me even if we WERENT family, but since we are there's absolutely nooooooo chance we'll get together. My questions are... has anyone else ever felt affection towards a family member (though I doubt anyone will answer that if they have). Is it "normal". I mean, I kinda know it's not "normal" but does it happen more often than people think? And how do I get past this? I know incest is frowned upon... but I'm just so stuck on them...
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overprotective mother
Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 1:51 am
I just got out of 9th grade and my mother still will barely let me do anything. She won't let me go to the beach unless there's an adult there. I can't go anywhere with anyone unless she meets their parents first. She flips out when guys call. I wouldn't care so much but a lot of times a miss out on doing fun stuff because no one elses parents chaperone, they just drop their kids off places, and then I'm not allowed to go. Forget parties, because there are no parents she can confirm with that i'll be safe and not drinking or doing drugs. Does she expect me to never do anything in highschool? She doesn't trust my judgement, and doesn't understand that I won't make the same mistakes she did. I'm tempted to start lying 2 her and sneaking aroun...
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Family seceret revealed!
Posted Wednesday June 1 2005, 8:56 pm
I just revealed our family seceret to the biggest blabber mouth in town. I told her that we thouhght [this other family] hated us and I told her why. See, the mother in this family had once refused to take me in her car at the bus stop when it was below zero degrees out. My dad is always talking about how low it is that she did that. I told this blabber mouth woman how we feel about it and now she might tell the lady!!! My parents are all like "I don't want to talk about it" What should I do? I already apologized a million times!!! I might have ruined my families reputation!
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Family
Posted Wednesday June 1 2005, 2:58 pm
My brother is 18 and has nowhere to stay. he is always in and out of jail. When we were little he used to threaten me. he is 5 years older than me and my half brother. I really don't want him to stay at our house because he is a CRIMINAL! I'm scared please help!!
P.S. I already tryed confronting my parents, didn't work.
Thanks!
Sincerely,
Gjohndoe
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brothers
Posted Wednesday June 1 2005, 1:39 pm
I am not fat at all.but i want to go on a diet becasue my borther acts hard in front of his friends and says fat cow and stuff liek that.I hate it when hes like this. What can i do?
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Drug abuse
Posted Wednesday June 1 2005, 12:47 am
My brother is 26 and is a major drug abuser? Does any one know oof any rehabs we can take him to (also counseling because he wants to kill hisself). We dont have any money and we are in the LA area of Calif.?
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NEEDED: Good advice about "Over-protective Mother"
Posted Tuesday May 31 2005, 7:05 pm
Alright, I am 16 and I live with my twin sister, my 19 year old brother, and my mom. She has always been pretty overprotective, especially after my dad died of brain cancer. But recently it has gotten uncontrollable. She makes up stupid excuses so I can't go hang out with my best friend. She acts like she doesn't trust me but when I ask her why she doesn't she doesn't give a reason. I have a feeling that the reason she doesn't want me going places is because she doesn't want me growing up so fast. I am going to be a Junior in High school this year and then I will be graduating in 2007 and going to college. She needs to understand that I am becoming more independent and will be an adult soon. She even went as far as keeping me from getting m...
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Posted Tuesday May 31 2005, 10:53 am
do foster homes keep brothers and sisters together
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15/f
Posted Tuesday May 31 2005, 4:06 am
i like this one girl, and she's really sweet. we've made out a couple of times, but we don't have a serious relationship. my mom is threatening to disown me because of our relationship. not because we're both girls, but because she's also my sister's daughter. but i think that my mom is completely over-reacting, because i really like this girl. should i continue to see this girl and strengthen our relationship, or should i break it off so my mom loves me again?
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get him the fuck away
Posted Monday May 30 2005, 11:55 pm
in a month i have to live with my sister because i have no dad and my mom has 1 month left ...im only 14 and i just found out my sis smokes weed and shit wit her ex(father of her kids)....i found that out say last week...now today her kids (1+3) were in the car and she ran in the house because she stopped by for a lil quick visit and out my window i heard my nephew cryin so i ran out there and her car smelled of weed and i know her ex was in the car previously because ..well thats not important but it was horrible and i kno her ex is gettin her into all this shit bc she neva used to be like this til she met him i just wanna figure out a way to like get him away from her like have some of my friends as old as him to kick his ass or sumthin....
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Posted Monday May 30 2005, 8:31 pm
f/13
well, my mom and dad are getting divorest and i have hear from a lot of people that it is not that bad. But for some reason i have been like really spazing out about this. Like some of my friends are getting really mad at me because they are saing i have changed and get mad at every little thing. I am afreed after a while they wont wont to be my friends any more, one of my friends is not my friend because of that so what should i do?
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family hates me!
Posted Monday May 30 2005, 7:14 pm
this summer my parent told me that we weren't going anywhere for summer because they didn't want to then they told me that just my mom and dad were going to chicago for a week and i have to babysit my brothers grandparents and my dog! and now i cant even hang out with my frinds because they have to work and i wasnt even allowed to go see a concert of my favorite band because they didn't want to now i got upset after hiding all this in me and and my dad has the nerve to say "becca its not all about you" i was soooooo pissed.
any advice???
and please dont tell me to just talk to him because i dont know what else i could say that i havnt already!
i would appericate it so much!
x3 becca
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Report
Posted Monday May 30 2005, 7:06 pm
I'm trying to do a report on the foster care system. I've heard some aweful things about it and I've heard some wonderful things about it. I've already got the researched facts on the system and what the states have to say about but I'm looking for people's opinions on it. If anyone has any stories or opinions on the foster care system that would be a lot of help. Please share your thoughts. As I said I've heard some horrible things about the system and I'm hoping that my report will bring about some changes. So does anyone have any thoughts, opinions, ideas, stories, etc. about the foster care system in your state or any state or just in general? Thank you so much for your help. I will rate 5's.
Mike
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Posted Monday May 30 2005, 2:36 pm
i was gonna visit my dad whos in jail but he cancelled my visit i dont know why. any way he rang me after and i asked him he didnt tell me but his coming out in a few months and asked me and my little sister if we wanted to live with him. i wanna but my foster family am telling me he ay changed so i dont know what to do? anyone help. plus i do love my foster family but i wanna live with my dad
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I'm worry about mother in Hospital?
Posted Monday May 30 2005, 9:37 am
I know my mother wil die in the future but I don't know if I can handle it? I might need more help in the future?
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CPS
Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 5:07 pm
what web site can i go to to find out how i can turn some one in to chid welfare
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am i hers??
Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 12:16 pm
im not sure if i am my moms real child. she plays favorites she loves my brothers and sisters and im the youngest. she makes me do everything around the house. she acts like im a mistake. i want ot kno but i cant ask. what should i do???
thanks
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they hate me!?!?!?
Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 12:14 pm
kay i thkn my whoel family hates me << mom sister>> my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places << i do cheerleading>> she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!
thanks
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