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Is it safe to date an older woman?
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 9:30 pm
Hi,
I'm 20, she's 39. We met out of the blue on a street while she was asking me for directions. We hit it off, and went for a date on the saturday night. The connection was there, we spoke for hours and really got abosrbed in each other. When I brought her back to her appartment, she invited me back up, and after some more talk, we kissed and one thing led to another....
I feel some kind of connection, and I know she does too. But I just find the 19 year old age difference a little spooky. Is it safe for me to date someone that much older than I am? I'm not looking for love, but I am looking for respect.
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ehhh
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 7:50 pm
so i like this guy. teh only problm is that he is an atheist and i am a christian. but we talk all the time n he makes me laugh. i cant explain it we just click. will the whole religion thing be a bg deal?
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i know
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 3:29 pm
i know that but i already did it and all he does is act ok or as i've seen him do before he follows me around and he stares at me and other stuff too
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the guy i can never have
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 5:57 am
my dad has this training school where he has this assistant. he is my age and quite to looker. ~_' hehe... anyway. we have gotten close and he calls me his little sister and i call him my big brother. but a part of me wants more than a brother sister relationship. he also goes against all i've ever dreamed of in a guy. :) i feel confused. i mean, i have a boyfriend too. but when i'm with my boyfriend... i'm always thinking of him. my dad's assistant, my big brother. what should i do to take away this confusedness?
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Grrlz, they scare me.
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 12:38 am
Ok, I'm in college and I want the fine ladies to know they are fine and that I know they are fine. How do I go about this?
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Why does no-one love teh emo kids?
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 12:29 am
What's a good way to pick up chicks?
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ex-boyfriend
Posted Thursday October 30 2003, 7:04 pm
Hi, Four month ago I broke up with my boyfriend, and I don't no the causes of the break-up.I saw him change, we used to go out together but he stopped and other many things in general his behaviour change totally, and one day he called me and said I think we should be friends, I did not understand why and I was'nt ready for that because I loved him. Days goes by and the behavior change, I did everything I could to keep him nothing change. Then the days goes buy I decided to keep myself busy and move on.We still call each other sometimes. He forget if I have his email address pass..sometimes I look at the email and I found another girl write to him, and according to the emails he sound he is going out with the girl and never told me.
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Posted Thursday October 30 2003, 11:43 am
I really like this guy. He has a great sense of humor and makes me laugh all the time and he is one of those "nice guys". He could go out with any girl and I just don't see how I would be good enough for him, but he flirts with me all the time. I know that that doesn't have to mean anyhing but I'm comfused. How do you tell if he is interested?
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boring guys?
Posted Wednesday October 29 2003, 7:17 pm
I'm dating a guy who's nice, but I'm just not feeling a "spark" or anything. We're comfortable together, that's all. Like really good friends. Is that enough for a lasting relationship? I'm just not the "fall head over heals" type.
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Old friend
Posted Tuesday October 28 2003, 5:15 pm
Okay. So there's this guy at my college, we've known each other for a few years already from high school. A few weeks back, we had a bit of a disagreement that wound up with us not talking to each other for a full week. The thing was, I wasn't even really mad at him initially, until he split from our one class together before I could say a word to him. Now, We've been friends for a few years and we get along really well, but tears were shed over this madness. I don't remember having such hurt feelings since... well, that's another long story. But it was a long time ago. Anyhow, another guy friend of mine and I had a two week period of not talking to each other, and it didn't bother me. Yes, we had a bit of a disagreement, but his ce...
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Ok what should i do now?
Posted Saturday October 25 2003, 7:07 am
Ok this guy i like (i kinda already told ya about this) well he's going out with my best friend and he tells me that he loves her and i don't understand why he's telling me this and when i hang around a couple of friends (really close guys) and he gets really mad and when his girlfriend wants to hug him or somehting and he sees me by a close (guy) friend he pushes her away and goes storm out the door. so do you think he still likes me??
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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Got a question for anyone to answer
Posted Friday October 24 2003, 8:16 pm
Hey I was wondering if anyone who is on my advice column would answer this:
Ok if i like this guy who i've liked for along time and he's going out with someone what do i do lol
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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Sister/Sister/Friend Competition
Posted Friday October 24 2003, 7:40 pm
Okay. Here's the story. First I'll introduce the people that are involved or I will lose you. Rose is our age but went to a private school about an hour away this year. Another girl, Emily is still going to this school. Her sister Julianne just started going to our school and likes Billy. Last year, Billy liked Rose and found out that he liked her too. They didn't go on any dates or anything and Rose hasn't seen him since the end of the school year. Now, Billy likes Emily. Rose still thinks he likes her. Billy was going to ask Emily to the school dance last week but he didn't get the nerve to. For the first slow dance, he danced with Julianne. After Julianne, he danced all the dances wth Emily. Now Julianne is really jealous and not speakin...
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dump him or keep him
Posted Wednesday October 22 2003, 1:31 pm
I have been divorced for almost a year, and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year, but used to he would always want to be around me, touch me etc., now i almost have to force him to do anything. he says he still has the same feelings for me and the thing is that when we get into an arguement he always tells me to shut up, that I am f-ing stupid, or go to He@@. He always opologizes and I know he has had a really rough childhood, both parents dying, his dad shot his mom right in front of him and his grandad used to beat him, I can deal with thie emotional rollercoaster with him anymmore, should i try to work it out or kick him out?????
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just friends?
Posted Tuesday October 21 2003, 7:01 pm
my friends are telling me I shouldn't even try to be friends with my ex boyfriend because that never works, but I think it can sometimes. what do you think?
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next part of question
Posted Tuesday October 21 2003, 5:05 pm
but what i wrote is not all. the other thing is that my parents have no idea i even like him and being the typical asian parents, if they ever found out they'd never let me go to church again. or a least not that one.
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ahhh
Posted Tuesday October 21 2003, 3:15 pm
me and this kid really like eachother. we cant go out though because this other kid likes me and we dont wanna hurt him (we are all friends) i need this kid to get over me. he has liked me for 2 years and i have tried givin him a chance but it never worked out. HELP
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There's this guy...
Posted Monday October 20 2003, 2:50 pm
Ok, there's this guy that I really like. We are good friends and I've known him most of my life. I don't know if I should ask him out or leave our friendship how it is and maybe look for other guys...(ok, I'm not from the US so I have no idea how your grade system thing works but I'm 16...not really young...). Anyways.
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comming out of the closet
Posted Sunday October 19 2003, 9:10 pm
I'm a bisexual girl, who comes from a pretty small town/highschool that doesnt have much diversity. My close friends all know im bi, but no one else does and I'm thinking of comming out. I don't realy know how to do it, however. It's not like I'd make an announcement about it or anything. "Hi, nice to meet you, I'm a bisexual." lol. Anyway I guess my question is does anyone have any advice about how to go about doing it? I mean if it comes up I'll be honest. but there are people who are friends who I'm close enough to to tell them, but would it be like overdramatic or self centered or something to just say it? any ideas on the topic?
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the dance
Posted Sunday October 19 2003, 12:29 pm
ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do?
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