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Hey, total stranger! Does my crush like me?
Posted Wednesday November 19 2003, 7:03 pm
Whoo, it's another question suspiously similar to every other question asked here, but is getting asked here because the person who is asking it thinks that their situation is somehow inherently special and different from everyone else's.
So, still want to help me?
Ok. I've been friends with this guy (I shall refer to him as... um... Blarg) for about 3 years total. (I am in 9th grade, as is he.) I started liking Blarg about 2 1/2 years ago, and I've told him I like him, abeit via other people. I *suspect* that he likes me "as more than a friend" (I DESPISE that phrase but it will have to do), in fact I'm nearly positive, but recently something happened at his birthday party that made me wonder.
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i can't do this anymore
Posted Wednesday November 19 2003, 6:45 pm
I see a school counsleor and a counsler outside of school and there is this one girl who is going out with my ex and she's spreadin crap about me like saying that i'm tring to break them up and crap like that and i want to kick her ass cuz other ppl are stoppin me in the hall saying don't break them up or i'll kick your ass. and even her boyfriend (my ex) is getting really pissed about this so like i want to kick her ass so bad but i'm not sure if i want to. and my counsler said to talk to her but i can't cuz she's pissin me off and if i try to talk to her i'm afraid to i might kill her. and plus i got into a fist fight with my really good friend.
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Somebody make it stop
Posted Tuesday November 18 2003, 9:40 am
Ok. So I have dated this guy since summer, and he's a really busy fellow. We'll call him Chris. Unfortunately, so am I. So we've had maybe a date a month on average. I like him. He "loves" me. I am scared to say I love him because I still think way too much about the last psycho control freak guy I dated. (It has got to be sex). He doesn't communicate well with me. Its hard to have a conversation about what I called him for in the first place. He is waiting until marriage to have sex. Its a little hard on me, but its nice not feeling pressured. Chris has a tendency to postpone dates for gigs or other reasons. I understand he needs to work, but give me a break.
Well, I am waffling and waffling. In the meanti...
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Now what???
Posted Monday November 17 2003, 5:40 pm
Ok, so I hung out with the guy I like on Friday night. He came over my house and we watched movies and talked about life n' stuff. He stayed till 11:50 p.m. and apparently (he said so) he had a good time. I was sooo happy he came, he's really cool and fun to hang out with. I'm pretty sure he only wants to be friends right now though (although he did admit to one of his friends that he thought I was pretty). He just got out of a serious relationship and I think his EX screwed w/ his head a bit. She was really clingy and I think he's under the impression that that's a normal relationship. I want to go out with him, but I'm willing to wait until he's ready. What should I do in the meantime? He knows I like him, but should I ask him if there's ...
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Posted Sunday November 16 2003, 3:52 pm
What do I do if this kid (lets call him peanut) asked me out so much last year. He would say "I love you" all the time to me and he would always ask me to the dances and when I said no he just wouldn't take a hint. We were kind of friends I guess but Peanut just doesn't understand that I don't like him like that.
Now this year, in the beginning of the year, Peanut would still say how he loves me and stuff and then all of a sudden he started saying how we were just friends and Im like "whatever" now I like him much better but he sometimes seems upset because I feel awkward around him when he says hi (in a shy tone) I dont like Peanut and I wont go out with him but i guess I still consider him my friend. ...
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Posted Sunday November 16 2003, 12:25 am
Okay, there's this guy at my college, let's call him Jacen. We met at an organization bonfire, and as it turned out, we live in the same dorm. So he comes over and chills in my room from time to time. I don't mind this. I think he's interesting to talk to, and in spite of the fact that he never leaves until an hour after I tell him to, I don't mind his visits. For the most part.
So the other day at lunch, he asked me if I'd like to go to the opera performance with him. Not being able to come up with an excuse not to, and kind of wanting to see an opera anyway (I'd never been to one before, and I'd only seen a recording of a P.D.Q. Bach opera... that doesn't really count), I said sure. He then went on to explain that he had t...
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snibble
Posted Saturday November 15 2003, 8:09 pm
ok i like this kid...lets call him snibble...any way lets get back to the storywel me and him are really good friends and one time he told me that he loved me (then quickly turned away)but didnt say anything except joke with me and all our friends( 12 other people at one table it gets crowded anyway) he acted like nothing happened and went back to the conversations we were having and he has done stuff like that before and then me and him went to the movies together to see scary movie 3 and then some of our friends saw us and were like smushy (me) and snibble (him) are on a date adn i was yelling at them to stop because i didnt want him to think i liked him when i did and he wasnt saying anything and then i asked him if he was upset bout it ...
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Waiting for too long.
Posted Thursday November 13 2003, 4:07 pm
Me and my best freind really like eacother alot. We have a history of 'relationships' in the past, but it was middle school, and I don't really count it...But anyways, back to the present. He was my date to homecoming (which was a month ago) and at the dance, he told me he still liked me. Well, i've always liked him, so i thought everything would be cool and work out. A week passes by and he says nothing. I confront him, and he tells me he wants to wait for his license. Well, he now has his license, and has for a week. But he still hasent done anything. He acts like he likes me, and I'm posotive he does, but i'm tired of waiting. Hes told all his friends (mostly girls, that ask him whats going on between us) that he was going to ask me out ...
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Posted Thursday November 13 2003, 7:55 am
well, i'm in grade seven and i'm the one outsider in my grade. i'm the one wearing the black makeup, etc. I really like this person alot and i know about at least 6 other girls that like him as well. me and him like most of the same things, hate the same things and we really get along great i know he's "the one"....or at least i think he is. i've always been very opposed to men and this is the first time i've ever liked any guy. what should i do to show him how i feel? and while i'm asking questions, how can i make some people take me seriously? most people know i'm crazy, fun, outgoing but some just don't take what i say seriously.
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Posted Tuesday November 11 2003, 7:47 pm
All of my freinds have guys that like them and their all going out and everything. As far as I know nobody likes me. How can I find out if anyone does? Or how can I get somone to like me. Its verry annoying when all of my freinds are always going out and I'm always at home.
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choices
Posted Tuesday November 11 2003, 6:16 pm
there are two boys that i love dearly, but my heart aches deeply. one of them is something i have always wished for and everything my parents could want. but the other boy is everything i have never known and wish to know. he is everything i have told myself i am against since i am a small child. do i follow my heart and go with this boy, or my head that is telling me what i know is right?
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asking a person out
Posted Monday November 10 2003, 11:18 pm
how does one ask a friend on a date and make it clear that its a date, not just a couple of friends hanging out?
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Posted Monday November 10 2003, 7:37 pm
I have this boyfriend and we've been going out for about a year and then this guy in my class(this guy I don't like) told all these lies about me to my boyfriend and vice versa, and my boyfriend belived them and we broke up. the guy who broke us up asked me out and I said no and he won't stop harrassing me. he even follows me and shows up at my house and stalks my family and he even threatened to kill them if I didn't go out with him so here I am dating him! what should I do to get out of it.
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Tiny Tim and The Freak
Posted Monday November 10 2003, 10:52 am
i'm a HS junior. i like a sr. however he's about a foot shorter than me. has anyone ever had a tall/short relationship? how did it work out?
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What's going on?
Posted Sunday November 9 2003, 12:17 am
Ok, I'll TRY to make this brief. There's this really great guy that's in my tech class and we've become pretty good friends. He's so sweet and really funny. He's a junior and I'm a sophmore. I've told him that I like him a while ago and he said that he just got out of a 3 year relationship and is "checking out the scenery". But lately he seems more interested. He jokes w/ me more, we've gone to a movie w/ 2 of my other friends, he always smiles and says HI in the halls, at my Halloween party he licked whipped creme off my chest, he hugs me goodbye (he gives the best hugs), and he's always really polite to me. The thing is though, he could just be a really friendly guy. Could he have changed his mind about not wanting a GF? Does he...
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my ex
Posted Saturday November 8 2003, 5:46 pm
my ex and i are very good friends and i have found a new boyfriend. let's call my ex "Chicken" we are very comfortable and open with eachother so i told him about the new guy in my life, who i shall call "Squishy". after, Chicken was very quiet then asked if i love Squishy. What does this mean? he won't tell me.
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about the question u answered for me..
Posted Saturday November 8 2003, 12:01 am
ok well him and i were going out with eachother for about a year then i broke up with him and he is going out with my bestfriend and i told him i still really really liked him but he said he already knew and stuff like that....
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a boy
Posted Friday November 7 2003, 8:44 am
there's this really hot guy. he refers to me as his little sister. i wasn't hit head on with love as most people do. love sneaked carefully upon me so i didn't notice. then... it hit me hard. and now i can't shake it off. i don't want to ruin this wonderful friendship i have with him, but i can't help wishing we were more than that. what should i do? how do i shake off this feeling? should i even ignore it? what can i dooooo???
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A call from the past
Posted Thursday November 6 2003, 11:28 pm
I find mself very confused about this problem and may not be able to listen to myself as to the true answer.
Forgive me in advance for the length of this question.
Last year I started having recurring dreams about a woman I knew 15 years ago. She was married and we had a platonic relationship that bordered on romantic. I broke it off after 2 long years due to frustration. After the series of dreams, I wrote to her. My first attempt got no response. In my second attempt, I was a bit more open with my feelings. I received a phone message from her saying that her life was busy but she would get back to me. I did some research and found out that she has been divorced for quite some time but she had been see...
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films
Posted Wednesday November 5 2003, 8:34 am
My boyfriend is physically incapable of selecting decent movies for us to watch together. I keep trying to coach him on it ("okay honey, now see, this is another lame flic about rich people killing for more money...") but it's not working. He just doesn't understand the words "pick out something intellectual". I end up chosing most of the movies myself now but it'd be really nice if I could just say, "Pick something up on the way here and we'll watch it" when I'm feeling lazy. Got any tips on how to make him get it? Is this a sign that he's just not right?
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