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Asking someone out.


Posted Saturday November 29 2003, 10:15 pm

I like this girl at my school but she is 1 year older than me and in 1 grade ahead of me. She is on my bus and lives really close to me. I dont think she is very popular or has a boyfriend witch is good because im not very popular I mean I have a lot of friends but we are not in the popular group. How should I ask this girl out, do you think its even worth asking her out? Its so hard for me to think of what to say plus I dont know when to asker her out.

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Torn Between Two Guys


Posted Saturday November 29 2003, 4:07 pm

Right. Er... hi. I have a problem, and I was hoping you could solve it. Okay... there's these two guys that I like. One is over the internet, and the other in in real life. You see, the boy over the internet, Will, is a real sweetheart. I like him a lot, and we kinda blanace eachother's emotions. I'm hyperactive, and he can calm me down, and he's deressed, and I can cheer him up. I really like Will a lot. But then there's this boy named Colin. I just met him this year, but we have a lot in common. And he lets me hug him and stuff, and we're good friends. But lately he's been kinda distant from me. Normally, everyone says that I should just stick with Colin, but I keep getting these feelings that he doesn't want to be more than ...

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Posted Friday November 28 2003, 6:53 pm

about a year ago, for reasons that have yet to be explained, i started liking this guy at school. several months later, i found out that he liked me too. after a few weeks he asked me out. we had some communication issues from the start. he thought that i didn't like him, and i thought that he didn't like me. on the last day of school, we magaged to work things out, and proceeded to date all throughout the summer. things were great, and as much as it disgusts me to say it, it was the best 3 months of my life. school started, and to our amazement, we had all out classes together. but once school started, things started to go awry. he was getting more distant, and acting like a jerk a lot of the time, and not the sweet guy i had fallen in lov...

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what's the deal?


Posted Thursday November 27 2003, 5:18 pm

Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?


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A question about those mysterious double-X-bearing types...


Posted Tuesday November 25 2003, 11:25 pm

Is there any open and unambiguous way to let a girl know she's charming, gorgeous, mesmerizing and brilliant without being miscontrued?

What if such a misconstrual would be right :) ?

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guys


Posted Tuesday November 25 2003, 9:22 pm

how do you get a guy to like you if you are not a very pretty girl?

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guys,girls,both


Posted Monday November 24 2003, 4:08 pm

i dont no if i am straight bi or a lesbian, i mean i always have the hots for guys but sometimes i catch my self checking out a girl its not all the time becuase then i would no but every once in a while i will check one out and i dont no why i would be like oo she has a nice butt or something like that even though i no i lean towards guys but i need help

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bisexuality


Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 10:07 pm

i'm a bisexual girl, and i have a huge crush on a female friend of mine (we're not that close, more liek just getting to know each other/talking in classes). she doesnt know my sexual preference and, more importaintly, i dont know hers. so my question is, how would i go about finding out her sexual preferance without right out asking her. we have many mutual friends but i think i may feel weird asking them if shes straight or not, because theyd want to know why, and anyone close enough to her to know would probably tell her i asked. any ideas?

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AAAAH! There's two of them!!!


Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 7:09 pm

Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while now and we're pretty good friends. The thing is though, he's not really looking for a girlfriend right now since he just broke up w/ a serious one. I think I love him and I would wait for him to be ready if I had to. But then there's this other guy... I'm almost 16 (the first guy's 17) and this guy's 20. My parents are kind of sketched out about his age and so am I. I met him at the mall a few days ago and we exchanged phone #'s (not something I do very often). He called me and says he wants to get together. I don't really feel too comfortable around this guy, and I barely know him. Also, if I get into something with this guy, what about the first one? Do i just forget about him? I'm really confused ri...

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:(


Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 4:40 pm

Here's the deal.....I have already asked you that question about me and this kid liking eachother but his friend was in the way...remember me? Well, to make things worse, he has now found out that he is moving. His friend is finally over me and we now can date freely, but since the guy I like is moving, it is making things worse. Me and this guy have been talking and he explained to me that if we went out it would kill to move later on. So we decided not to go out. However, we are still majorly in love. We act like a couple, and do things as a couple, but we just don't call ourselves a couple. I don't know what to do. It is going to hurt so much when he moves away and I don't know if I will be able to get over it. This is how he feels, too....

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:(


Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 4:40 pm

Here's the deal.....I have already asked you that question about me and this kid liking eachother but his friend was in the way...remember me? Well, to make things worse, he has now found out that he is moving. His friend is finally over me and we now can date freely, but since the guy I like is moving, it is making things worse. Me and this guy have been talking and he explained to me that if we went out it would kill to move later on. So we decided not to go out. However, we are still majorly in love. We act like a couple, and do things as a couple, but we just don't call ourselves a couple. I don't know what to do. It is going to hurt so much when he moves away and I don't know if I will be able to get over it. This is how he feels, too....

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i dunno


Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 12:54 pm

OK there is a guy at school that everyone thinks i like, and the fact is I dont know
I enjoy spending time with him and he's nice, but I dont know if I like him that way >:(

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?????????


Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 2:31 pm

ok ive never had a boyfriend and i really want one but i think its because peopl ethink that im fat... i really dont know what to do because ive tryed everything to loose weight but it jst wont happen and i have so many thing going on in my life and i just want someone whos there for me please help me......

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Is it ok to still like him?


Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 1:25 pm

There's this boy (let's call him...Bug) and I have this friend (lets call her...cool)
Well, I used to have a big crush on Bug last year and I told one person and that one person told a lot of other people (which I don't really care because I wanted him to know) Well...Bug is just so cute, even if he is a jerk. I started liking him last year. I didn't find out he was a jerk until this year though.
My friend, Cool, was at her locker this year, and Bug came up to her (and I was right next to her at MY locker)and Bug was like "Hey, Cool, will you go out with me baby?" and both Cool and I knew he was only joking and being an @$$.

Cool just gave me an embarrased look and then I didnt say anything but big was...

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Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 12:51 pm

Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up awile ago. And it was sort of a bad break up. And he's gotten a new girlfriend. But, he still acknowledges me. You know? But, he won't talk to me first or anything. I have to talk to him first. Oh and by acknowledge, I mean he like still looks at me...like a lot. It's odd. And as soon as one of my friends notice him looking, and he notices them noticing, he turns his head right away. Like he's trying to hide it. I mean...what am I suppose to think?

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Posted Friday November 21 2003, 10:05 pm

how do you ask a guy out with out ruining a friendship

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About A Boy


Posted Friday November 21 2003, 9:33 pm

Okay, I'm a very very shy girl. Like extremely shy. How do I get a kid I like to notice me?...I think he's seen me around, but he's just so cute and the way he walks is so graceful. I can't get him out of my mind...it's something that I just can't help. It's not an obbsession, just a huge crush. Believe me, I don't waste my time being obsessed with boys. THEY'RE JUST BOYS! (no offense) But this kid is just the perfect person for me...and I'm young but I think I', old enogh to know when somebody is almost "the one"...at least for now...

So, does nebody have advice on how to get this kid to notice me?

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love,crush or not


Posted Friday November 21 2003, 7:28 pm

ok well here is the deal i hate these things because they are all alike but i need to no
anyway
ok my friend and i are semi close and he isnt really that cute but today when i passed him in the hall in the morning his eyes caught the light just right and i literally stoped and just stared at him and i mean last year he would make my knees go weak and melt every time i looked into his baby blue eyes (they are like brad pitts eyes in interview with a vampire when he is a vampire not before) and he has the most gorgeous lips but i have to say an ugly nose lol any way the other day i told him his sister told me he had little pink piggy's on his boxers and after i told him hes like well i do see and he showwed me cuase he was wear...

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Boys are so damn confusing.


Posted Thursday November 20 2003, 11:17 pm

Alright, so I finally got this serious boyfriend. But, of course after awhile, I forgot how lucky I was to have him,(yes I was lucky, he's wonderful, despite his flaws) and I started flipping out about the most stupid stuff ever. And he couldnt' take it anymore and dumped me. He was so sweet about it, (well as sweet as you can get dumping a person) he even cried. He told me that he cried every time we fought. And I was completely shocked. He kept how he felt from me because he didnt' want me to be upset. And I went psycho trying to get him back, but it just pushed him further away from me. And he blocked me on AIM and told me never to talk to him again. And now he has this new girlfriend. And he says he's really happy. But, yet I mentioned ...

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if my ex like me


Posted Thursday November 20 2003, 6:49 pm

Ok, I had a boyfriend let call him (troy) but anyway I really like him but i broke up with him to have sex with someone else. he stop talking to me for a year and now we just started to talking again we are closer than ever. he said that he would take me back if his two friends give him a good reason to go back with me. But i don't understand what he means? I think he cares about me but don't like me. Because i fall asleep in the cafeteria and no body woke me up. BUT HE DID. So does he like me or what?

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