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how?


Posted Saturday December 6 2003, 11:46 pm

How can make myself to seem mysterious in front of guys and not so easy.

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Shy. . .


Posted Saturday December 6 2003, 10:35 pm

I am tooo shy I swear. . !!! I really like this guy, but whenever I'm around him I get so nervouse and dontt alk I just sit there! He got mad at me once, because we were doign somethign and I wouldn't sya anything, but when he left I was talking up a storm, taking control! it was like he was soo hott, and Uggh! I don't know what to do. . I'm not sure if he likes me, but I caught him staring at me. . But that doesnt mean he likes me right?? I want to ask him out so badly, but I'm afraid he doesnt like me and I am just too nervous to ask him myself!!!
What I'm trying to ask is, Why am I so nervous around him, and why don't I have the guts to go up to him and tell him that I love him and I really want to go out with him?"
*Sorry about typos* . .if there are any!!! lol

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Dreams


Posted Saturday December 6 2003, 9:46 pm

Okay,
So I think most of you know about my ex-boyfriend issue. And my last questions subject was "ex-boyfriend gone mad" Well, I have a NEW and better BF, and I told my parents and they talked to my ex-boyfriends parents and sorted everything out, kinda. But now I never get to see my ex-boyfriend. And I'm not crying about it either. But I DO see him in my dreams, and I don't know why! In my dreams he acts like he use to act when we wasn't abusive and lieing. In my dreams he acts like the person that I use to like. But then, toward the end of my dream there's this voice that says to me that he's no longer like that person. And I no that, so why and I having dreams about him?? I need your advice!
Sincerely,
Dream

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friend help


Posted Saturday December 6 2003, 7:43 pm

my friend likes this guy we hang around with. But the problem is that he doesnt like her even though when there alone he kisses her. The biggest problem is that me and him interacts very well and we kissed i mean really kissed and my friend knows that i dont like him so she doesnt mind after all the shit he has said about her. Am i being a good friend? if not how can i.
P.S. i secretly like him.

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help!!


Posted Saturday December 6 2003, 6:42 pm

i just slept with a classmate of mine. But the problem is i dont know how i will face him at school. Also did i mention his not my boyfriend and i am afraid he'll use it against me. even though we promised each other not to tell anyone even my best friend. Also i am not sure whether he likes me more than just a friend even thought we dont interact that much in school. What do i do?

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friend


Posted Friday December 5 2003, 9:25 pm

ok i was siting with my freind today at lunch and all and i have been hanging with him quite a bit during school and stuff and i am confused about how i feel about him because becuase today i was partners with him in the wieght room and we were having a blast and all then at lunch our friends went to sit with other people so it was just me and him and i was like in my head gosh i feel like a geek and stuff but as we talked i was reall comfy with him and stuff and other times i just think of him as a friend i mean right now i would never be able to see my self kissing hin but i sometimes could see us hugging and stuff and then lik yesterday i was like 'f you matt" kidding around and he knew it and then he was like " i love you too ...

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Help with love


Posted Friday December 5 2003, 10:50 am

Okay, there's this guy who I am madly in love with. I think of him 24/7, I doodle his name all over my school work, and I dream about him at night. But, as far as I know, he has no idea that I like him. Now he's got a girlfriend. I have no clue what to do. I mean, just because he has a girlfriend, doesn't mean that I can just turn off my feelings like they never existed. I mean, I cry everytime I see him and his girlfriend together. And I see him ALL the time. Everyday in class, weekends, summer. It's crazy. I just don't know what to do. But my problem is that I don't know how to tell him that I love him, because I'm positive that he doesn't feel the same way. All of my friends say I should move on...but it's just so hard. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer.

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Posted Friday December 5 2003, 10:15 am

Ok, Not too long ago, my best friend and I both liked the same guy. I dont think anyone knew it but us 3. Anyways, the guy (I'll call him Roboert) told me that he liked me. And my best friend was sitting right there. She got really mad because he knew that she liked him alot and he decided to like me. She even got mad at me. Well, she got a boyfriend and everything was cool. But now, they're fighting and she's started talking to Robert more. We're not goin out or anything but, I dont want the same problem to happen again. What should I do? I mean, should I stop liking him for my friend or is she a friend at all if she'd get mad at me for someone liking me??
--Thanks--
~Confused~


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How do I get dates?


Posted Thursday December 4 2003, 6:46 pm

Hi, I'm a 20-year-old female, I have never had a boyfriend and I have never dated before. Is there anything I can do to meet guys to date? Just for fun I mean, I know guys my age rarely want anything serious. And I know my happiness doesn't depend on a guy, I'm very happy by myself, thank you; but I really want to know what is like to have someone pick you up and share dinner and a movie with you. Any ideas?

Thank you.

Tallulah

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My crush does not like me


Posted Thursday December 4 2003, 6:05 pm

I need help my crush does not have a crush on me what should i do?

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Wut am I supposed to do??


Posted Thursday December 4 2003, 3:28 pm

Theres this guy at my school, I REALLY like him and I've told him exactly how I feel. One day we were on the bus, on the way to a football game, and he told me that he liked me too. Now that he told me that, everything is all weird between us. And he alwayz reminds me that he likes me but, he never does anything about it. He also likes this other girl but, IDK. He flirts with me and stuff like that...I don't know what Im supposed to do to find out if he really likes me or if its really gonna go anywheres. I dont wanna talk to him and make myself look like a complete idiot. And I dont want to hold on if theres nothing there and theres never gonna be anything...He got really mad at me for goin to my sis' boyfriends and watchin a movie with hi...

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yet another problem


Posted Thursday December 4 2003, 3:12 pm

okay, i asked you guys about a 22 year old minister who loves me, a 14 year old. well, it's gotten worse. he's called me, and he told me that he had a dream about me, and we had sex. yikes! i really don't know what to do about him. i don't want to make him mad, because he knows my phone number and could easily find out where i live. any advice?

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why cant girls ask boys out?


Posted Wednesday December 3 2003, 4:50 pm

Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like.

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Love is killing me


Posted Tuesday December 2 2003, 7:30 pm

hey. well, to get right to it, there's this guy i fell in love with. he's a senior, and i'm a freshman, but i still love him more than life itself. but there are so many problems....he is my 19th cousin...do u think that's bad? then there's his "new" girlfriend. and the fact that he loves his 3rd cousin, which is worse than me. but the real problem is he is a vampire. i'm serious. he sucks his blood and everything! he's even tried to kill me a number of times. but i still fell in love with him somehow. but the day i found out he had a girlfriend, i slit my wrist 23 times. i've been doing it every night for almost a month now because of him. now, i'm not pretty or skinny, so it's not like i have another guy to like instead. do you ...

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Christmas with my girlfriend EX husband


Posted Tuesday December 2 2003, 4:02 pm

First of all I have been dating my girlfrind now for a little over 4 months, she has been divorced for 2 years , I have been divorced for a year now also.
She has 2 kids (boy,4) (girl,11) and I have a (boy13)
Throughout the past four months I have endured doing things with her ex husband and her like skydiving, and going out on Halloween with her and her kids, I really dont approve of the the way her Ex raises her kids ...and he is a alchoholic and doesnt have a job.
They alternate the kids from her house to his every other day and alternating weekends.
Now that the holidays are here it is getting to be a little to wierd for me having him around
She invited him to our Thanksgiving dinner...Then she said ...

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I want to know how you make out


Posted Tuesday December 2 2003, 3:10 pm

Hello I want to know how you make out. Like what do you do? I know you french kiss by using your tounge but how exactly do you use it? Can you please help me!
PS my friend wanted to know so I told him I knew where to ask and that I would ask for him that is why I am asking.

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ex-boyfriend gone mad


Posted Tuesday December 2 2003, 12:50 pm

I've known this boy since the 4th grade. We are two years apart. We were together for 2 years. He was normal but now he is a total freak and disaster! Recently he's been stalking me, and my friends. Like he'll talk to my friends and tell them lies that I don't like. And he almost punched me and grabbed my arm so hard it had red marks on it. Durring our relationship he called me a slut for going to a dance with one of my good friends which is now my boyfriend. But yet, durring our relationship, on his b-day he played spin the bottle with all of my friends and kissed all of them, and my best friend, and my best friends mom. So, all together he's cheated on me, abused me, and stalked me, lied to me, used me, and ruined my life and my dignity. ...

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missing him


Posted Sunday November 30 2003, 9:52 pm

Hears the deal. I am into musical theatre, and once doing a show i met this guy. But, i really miss him , and obviously i really liked him. I've tried to see him a couple times but it hasn't worked out. HELP!

~A sad one~

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boyfriend


Posted Sunday November 30 2003, 5:36 pm

will i like this boy and i think he likes me but im not sure.how can i tell? are there any signs? please help me.

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I have never had a girlfriend


Posted Sunday November 30 2003, 12:09 pm

So here's the deal. I have never had a g/f. But I have a very nice personality and I am very very funny. Whats wrong. HELP

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