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crush
Posted Friday March 12 2004, 10:02 pm
i have a crush on a girl and i dont know if she likes me i need help :/
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Posted Friday March 12 2004, 7:26 pm
My friend and I have been "friends" for about 4 years now but ever since the beginning, I've wanted to become more than just friends. Last summer I told him that I did like him in that way and I wished that we could become more than just friends and see what happens but he said that he didn't know me well enough. I've been trying to go everywhere I can with him and see him as often as possible because I DO want to get to know him better... last weekend (for the first time) he started hitting on me which kinda made me happy... ^^;; but after the weekend was over, he called me and said to forget the whole thing because he was just fooling around. I was totally crushed because he KNEW that i liked him... I don't know what to do any m...
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Posted Thursday March 11 2004, 4:11 pm
I am a 20 year old male from florida. I started dating a girl about a month ago, also I live with her. She is bi-sexual and that sort of bothers me, but I can deal with it. She spends a lot of time online, at least an hour or two each day, talking to people, some she knows offline and others she doesnt. She left herself logged in to one of her accounts today and so when I went to use the computer it was on her message screen from some free online friend network thing. She was exchanging messages with a girl from orlando who was also bi. The first message is my girlfriend responding to a post from the other girl about "girl seeks girl in florida for love" or somthing close to that. They have exchanged a few messages, kind of flirty...
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Unsatisfied and Confused
Posted Thursday March 11 2004, 4:01 pm
Hi my name is"Shai" and I am 16 years old. I have this one problem...I'm never satisfied with the boyfriend I have! Whatever boy I may talk to, no matter how sweet he may be, always seems to fall short of being my type. And the currentboyfriend I have, used to like my bestfriend(I mean a BIG crush). My bestfriend didn't like him like that, but he had a huge crush on her. I liked him before I knew he liked my friend. Then, once we started talking, he began to like me like that...and here we are today. I have another problem. I think this guy is cute that likes my friend, but my friend doesn't like like him all too much in that way. I know I sound confused because I am. I don't know why I'm finding the guys that like my friends attractive. PLEASE HELP A.S.A.P.!!!
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Boyfriends and birthdays
Posted Thursday March 11 2004, 3:25 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, living together for 3 of them. In this time, he has never celebrated my birthday unless I specifically told him where to take me. He initially told me his family didn’t celebrate birthdays but I found that to be false. Every year he has a new excuse, even when I make it clear that I’d like him to celebrate my birthday in some way—even if it is just a card. This year was the worst. He started a fight with me and then told me he had planned to take me to dinner except the fight ruined it. But he never even made reservations anywhere. I just can’t understand why he insists on hurting my feelings like this or how to make him understand how important it is to me to be treated special for...
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Help me please
Posted Wednesday March 10 2004, 11:54 pm
I asked this guy named sean out and he didnt answer so just the other day i wrote him a note and it said "do u have a answer?" and she still didnt answer but everyone is telling me that he dosnt want to go out with me. i think i am in luv wut should i do? p.s. i told him i felt realli comfortable around him. but i try to avoid him each time i see him iz there something wrong with me? other ppl say we look realli good together should i just go and tell him again how i feel?
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Posted Wednesday March 10 2004, 7:10 am
You still haven't answered my question, will you suck it????
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my best best friend Vs. my boyfriend!!!!!
Posted Wednesday March 10 2004, 5:40 am
i have been friends with these 2 for 5 years. he finally ask me out a couple months ago but broke up with me like every month and i kept going back out with him. well this time he said that hes not gonna break up with me again and that hes really dumb for breaking up with me. and now shes pissed off at me because she doesnt want me to cry over him again. which i havnt the last 2 times. why would i start now? shes also mad because i dont stand up for her when her brother(my bf) picks on her. all i do is laugh. i wanna say something but yet i dont. how can i get her not mad at me but stay with him. she wants me to break up with him but i dont want to. and also. when i go over to thier house to spend the night i always slept in her room. but n...
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my boyfriend loves porn
Posted Tuesday March 9 2004, 2:07 pm
i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we love each other so much,(we are both 20) we live together now and we are very happy except he recently got a p.c for our room and in the evenings he likes to download porn, while im asleep he often masterbates to it too.wev'e talked about it and he knows how i feel about, it even brought me to tears one time, i got that upset about it. i just dont like the fact that he would rather watch girls on the p.c then snuggle up with me. our sex life is good, for me and him so i dont understand why he loves it so much and its damaging our relationship. i dont know what to do, pls help!!!
p.s. im female!!!!
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How do you get the excitement back?
Posted Tuesday March 9 2004, 10:32 am
I've never used an advice forum b4 but i guess i'll give you an over view of my situation first. I've been with my boyfriend for about 18months, he moved in to my house about 4 months ago, which was his suggestion. Everything was pretty good for a month or so but then we started to notice certain bits about each other, which is obviously going to happen. Silly little things like how we cleaned a room or when the washing up was done...silly little things. I, at the time, was going through a bit of a rough patch with my job, quite stressful and wasn't super happy or bubbly. My other half started to moan that I frowned too much or that i left the room in a mess etc but after doing a 12hour day i was tired and wanted to chill out. He works away...
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sexual frustration
Posted Monday March 8 2004, 9:59 pm
For the second time in my life, I am dating a virgin. The last time I blew it by letting my sex drive push me to push him away. I need help on how to not get so bent out of shape about not having sex.
I have "toys". I use them. I pleasure myself often. I still want to have sex. Now, I am dreaming about my ex. I hate it. I hate my ex. Even if I met up with ex, it would only be for sex and undermine all the relationship I have been building with my current boyfriend.
I love him so much it hurts. I hope that he will propose to me next year, but I am becoming meaner and meaner. I try to pet myself with shopping or other pampering. I enjoy crosstitching and stuff. I need another clue.
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3-way girlfriend-boyfriend
Posted Sunday March 7 2004, 1:29 pm
There is this boy in school that I live.He loves me back,but here's the problem.There is another girl in school he loves(she loves him back,too).Even though he said he loves me more,I am still worried that he will dump me 4 her.What do i do?I can't help but 2 love him!!
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Dump Or Not
Posted Sunday March 7 2004, 1:23 pm
Well see this one day i ahd my friend call my boyfriend up (i know not the best idea) and i had her ask him this one question on a scale from 1-10 1 being you hate her and 10 being you love her and he rated me a five thats like he thinks im ok well i donno if i should dump him or not i mean we have only been dating like 2 weeks and gone out on one date but only in a group of friends should i give him time or push him away?
Lots Of LOve,
Very Confused Girl
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I cheated on my boyfriend and I need help telling him what I
Posted Sunday March 7 2004, 9:12 am
Hey,
I am a 16 year old female.Thank you for taking your time to actually read my question.Now My question is that, I have a boyfriend that I am really into but a couple days ago I was around an ex-boyfriend and friends and we kissed.Now I feel as though since I really like my boyfriend that i should tell him what i did but.The problem is I don't know what to say. I really want to be with him but I'm scared that maybe if I tell him that though the kiss ment nothing he will think I still have feelings with my ex and we will break up.I have had thoughts of not telling him but then I will feel guilty and it might be a way that he find out from someone else.Oh my goodness I need help on what to say Please help me!
Thank you,
AppleBottom**
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confused
Posted Saturday March 6 2004, 11:50 pm
i have dis friend dat likes dis otha friend but i waz talkin 2 d phone wit dis friens which it a boy n he waz z lyk sweet talkin me n said he is no worrin bout m otha friend so y d next day he was like i like ya otha friend dat kinda hurt me cuz on d phone he was like we sound like a couple and ya betta gurl den ya otha friend so dat reallu hurt me what should i say 2 dis friend dat is a boy without him tellin all his friendz wha i told him!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????
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wait, he HATES me????
Posted Saturday March 6 2004, 7:09 pm
i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. but the other day his brother told me that he hates me because i talk to him too much. i really want to be friends with him, and now i just dont know what to do. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do???
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Posted Saturday March 6 2004, 6:17 pm
I like this guy... sorry, I'm so unoriginal, who I see at a club once a week. I was at a party a couple of weeks back, and he was there and heard me having an argument with one of my friends. I self-injure quite a lot and am trying to stop - and he definitely heard references to that.
Today, he pulled my friend aside and asked if I was okay, if there was anything wrong, and my friend told him that I liked him and about my self-injury problem. I don't really have any issues with him knowing, I'm pretty open about it, but I'm worried about him going out with me because he feels sorry for me as he basically made a comment to this effect.
However, he's really making an effort to be friendly to me, but I know this is only because h...
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feelings
Posted Saturday March 6 2004, 4:15 am
i'm still not sure what i should do. There's more to this guy. We did develope a friendship before we had a relationship and he the greatest friend i could ask for. He's been there for me since i left my ex. He helped me out in every way (finacialy/mentally/etc...). He helps me with my children. he treats me so good. I'm not trying to make him love me I'm not even sure if I love him, I just feel insecure sometimes and I think he's not happy with. It's all easier to talk in person but I have no "girlfriends" or family out here. I'm all on my own. thanks
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confused
Posted Friday March 5 2004, 10:54 pm
there is this guy at work we have been talking for a while now. we always laugh and joke around. he says things to me like"you are really funny" "i like this girl" and a whole lot of things that helps me to understand that he likes me. well i guess what im trying to ask is how do i approach the relationship i want to give him my number but i dont know how i dont want to sound to blunt but i want to get this thing going please help me to figure out what to do. Also could you give me someadvice on how to tell if someone is truelly interested in you
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Should/can I get my husband back
Posted Friday March 5 2004, 8:29 pm
I was with my partner for 11 years. We then married and 5 months later he met someone else and left two months later, without discussion. We had a very good relationship, and I believed we were together for life. Our respective faults did not adversersly affect the relationship and we got on very well together. He is a very independant/selfish person, but I belive he was not unfaithful to me before this occasion. He tells me he has not left because he met someone else, but becaused I nagged, and that he no longer loved me. Being a woman, yes I did nag, but far from excessivly.
We have been apart for 5 months, and I would still have him back, as I feel our relationship is worth fighting for. I was unaware that he was unhappy, and he m...
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