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i dont like to see him get hurt
Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 5:45 pm
17/f
Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i ...
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i want to break up with my boyfriend
Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 5:03 pm
ive been with my bf for 3 1/2 months and well...i used to be so INTO him.. but soemhow the luv has just FADED away... i DO care about him and love him alot, its just that im not IN love with him anymore. he told me a few days ago that if he ever lost me, he would kill himself. i know he wouldnt really do it, but i still need to worry. ANYWAY, he has NO CLUE about how im feeling. He thinks that i LUV him alot, and i dont know how i can get him not to be into be anymore.
hes just so into me and tells me so many things that he luvs about me... it creeps me out...
what should i do?! can anyone gimme any ideas on how i can get him to STOP LIKING ME... at least bit by bit.... i just want him to get , well, TIRED of being with me... i jstu want him to DUMP ME!!!!
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i just can't seem to let him go!
Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 5:00 pm
in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i...
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what do i say?
Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 4:02 pm
ok this boy is going to ask me out next friday and i want to say something other than the usual stuff like yes sure yea i guess.. i want it to be classy what is a good way to say like yes in a diffrent way though?
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Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 3:09 pm
Hey alicia..i need help..Theres this guy i like and we were friends for 2 years..but ever since school started we kind of stoped talking...becuz i live on lehighton n he lives in palmerton..so i only get to see him in the summer...witch really buggs me...and i don't kno how to tell him i like him...cuz weneva i talk to him i get all scared and stuff...n i want to ask him out but i'm afraid becuz i don't want him to say no becuz i really like him..i never liked n e one this much! how do i tell him?! please help me! thanx
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Friend needs help
Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 1:39 pm
Ok, I need some help. My friend Caroline has been trying to get over her ex for a couple of weeks(I don't know why it's so hard, they only went out for a week). Now she's met some guy over the net, who's 23! She wants to meet this guy, because she thinks it'll help her get over him, which is a huge mistake in my opinion, she doesn't even know him. What advice could I give her without seeming like I'm telling her what to do? Or what could we do to get her mind off of her ex?
Thanx
Kortni
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Just this guy .....
Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 6:53 am
There is this guy i know , and i find him really confusing . The first time i met him , he was flirting slightly with me , by saying things like "you're very cute" and "you look older than you really are" . After this day , he became slightly colder towards me , like only saying hi and stuff . And today , he was back to being nice to me again , but not flirting . The thing is , i have a huge crush on him , and he is rumored to like this other girl , who is a year older than him . Some time ago , when i asked him while online on MSN messenger regarding whether he still has a crush on that girl , he said no . However , he is acting as though he likes her , or at least being really really friendly with her .
Usually...
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My friend wants to hook me up with this guy....
Posted Saturday May 29 2004, 10:01 pm
My friend wants to hook me up with this guy that I hardly even know! I know his name and that I am a few days older than him... but that is it. She asks me if I get to know him better of I would go out with him? I told her I don't know because I dont know him yet. She and her friend keep asking me if I think he is hot. I say "Umm sorta". What should I do?
PS he is my EX-Boyfriend's Best friend!
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Need Advice On Getting Married Abroad
Posted Saturday May 29 2004, 10:08 am
I'm planning on getting married hopefully in St Lucia next May.
Its cheaper than the UK whole big wedding thing but still alot of money (to me!), £2500 for 2 weeks per person through Sandals all inclusive.
I would really like to hear from somebody who has either done it there, or just done it abroad?! Is there anything i'm forgetting? Ive never done an All Inc holiday and am wondering whether it IS truly all inc. Also spotted cheaper price on Virgin Atlantic and not much more info....hell im just stuck what to do next!!!
Hope somebody out there has some helpful/useful advice.
Thanks
Miss C Bennett
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Dating a guy, Flame for Ex Arises (again)
Posted Friday May 28 2004, 8:49 pm
ok, im a 16 almost 17 year old female. i have been datign this guy (Let's Call Him M) for about 2 months. and i love him, i truly do, and he lives in a different town. and about 3 weeks ago my ex (lets call him J) kinda randomly came to see me (we hadnt even talked since december my freshman year...im juss now ending my junior year) so i was excited...me an J were really good friends, then we started hanging out together. he took me to my concert, and i told M about how we were hanging out and he got all jelouse and we almost broke up. btu we are ok now, except, i have realized that i still have lotz of feelingz for J. and i dont know what to do!!!! please help me some one!!!!!!!
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I like a guy with a girlfriend
Posted Friday May 28 2004, 5:42 pm
I'm 13 years old, a girl, and I go to school with this boy. We are always flirting and I like him a lot. I would like to date him, but he has a girlfriend. He is wonderful, and I would do anything to go out with him. Is there anyway to get him to like me more than her? or some other way for him to dump her and to be with him? Any way for me to be with him is ok, I am open to any suggestions.
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How can I tell him? And do I really like him?
Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 10:19 pm
There is this boy... lets call him Andy! I really like Andy... but how can I tell him again? I went out with him before because he liked me... but that was only for a day! He has a girlfriend that is like really nice to me and I dont want to break them up... And I dont want his girlfriend to get mad at me and not want to talk to me ever again! I know they love eachother because on their shirts his girlfriend wrote I love Andy and Andy wrote I love (his girlfriend) Just because i am afraid to talk to him does that mean i dont like him? Whenever i talk to him i talk all like flirty but i dont know if we have anything. I really dont want to break him and his girlfriend up but IIIIIII really like him.... I think.... :(....... AHH HELP!!!!
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ex boyfriend vs new crush
Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 9:47 pm
I'm a 17 yr old female, and I and my boyfriend of a year and 3 months just ended our relationship about a week ago. It was mutual because we both were fighting a lot over petty things and not acting quite like bf and gf, but more like good friends. Part of this is my fault... I guess maybe a couple month or so ago I started to get this crush on another guy about my age, and I didnt know what to do. Things between me and my boyfriend had been slipping a little bit even then but I still care a lot about him.
Although he said it was mutual hes said he misses me and I think given the chance I think hed want to get back together. I still care about him a lot and I don't want to hurt his feelings. but I and my crush are both inter...
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Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 9:04 pm
I really like this one guy, but the bad part about him is that he's a flirt. He is currently single, but he's constantly flirting with girls and he even has a little black book with dozens of girls' phone numbers in it. He's got a very perverted sense of humor and always asks me if I could do perverted things for him involving taking off my clothes. He's just kidding of course, but is this kind of guy worth my time?
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ex-bf
Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 7:17 pm
my ex moved away awhil a go... and i was mad him... so iv been mad at him all this time.... but he came and visited me this past weekend... and all my past feelings came back! his name is nick stevens... and i REALLY love him!... but i dont know what to do or say... but i called directoy and have called him... yet i still dont know what to do.... what do i do? ( im a 14 grl)
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sex
Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 6:40 pm
im thinking of having sex... oh it might help... im turning 15 and im a grl... what do you think
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what do i have 2 do
Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 4:02 pm
okay lots of adults say im so pretty and ive had lots of boyfriends even the ones that are superpopular and i am semipopular and every1 knows me but i feel like im ugly cuz some people say i am and then they turn around and be like damn gurl you got a nice butt let me hit that and then there are those who i talk to and we have a good time but they dont wanna go out with me what do i have to do to get boys to like me and how can i attract boys and what is my problem
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Flirting ....
Posted Thursday May 27 2004, 9:49 am
How to i flirt with a guy of whom i am not sure likes me ? Any basic signals without overdoing it ?
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how can you tell....
Posted Wednesday May 26 2004, 7:07 pm
how can you tell if a guy likes you? are there any specific signs? what if... he has a girlfriend? what's a good way to tell him you like him without screwing things up..... because he has a girlfriend?
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Friends of more? School or long-distant friend?
Posted Tuesday May 25 2004, 8:18 pm
I have many best friends. As a sometimes tom-boyish girl, atleast half of them are guys. I'm 13, as of the 6th of May. Anyways, one of my friends, I've been friends with for about 3 years now. We had a relationship as "boyfriend and girlfriend" for one year, then kind of stepped out of it. Then, it started again. He lives very far away, though. Over 50miles away. Then, there's my 2nd best guy friend at school.. I've really started to like him as more than a friend (and have told him). But neither of the guy friends know of the other. I am pretty much void of anything but friend feelings for the first guy, but I'm afraid to tell him. I don't want to hurt him or anything, but its haunting me, thinking each night how he thinks I care...
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