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Annoyingly Stressed
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 3:13 pm
Female, 18. I have a few friends here and there. One of the guy friends I have is always pestering me about how I never have time to hang out with him and such. It feels bad, thinking like this, we're in college though and I would expect him to be more mature about these type of things. He makes up rules about friendship, saying how I never text him first and how he thinks sometimes we aren't even friends. I have too much stuff to do, and my own problems, but I don't want to be mean to my friends either. He's one of the few of my friends that has given me a hard time - I know I'm not the most attached person ever, but I have my reasons. I've been called naive, gullible and trusting, which has not gone well for me, so I tend to distance myse...
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my friendship
Posted Friday September 19 2014, 4:22 pm
My name's Melisa im 15 and my best friend jose is 16. We have been friends for seven years and im starting to like him. Last year i told him and he didnt feel the same way. Now i really like him and he always holds my hand, we walk each other to class and we always make each other laugh. Im confused weather he likes me or not. We are really close and cant go on without each other. Does he like me? Im afraid to ask him because i dont want to get rejected again.
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Housemates making me feel left out
Posted Sunday September 14 2014, 4:34 pm
So the other day I moved back in with flatmates while I'm at Uni-into a house.
There are 3 boys and 4 girls (including me-girl).
So the other three girls are really cliquey and I'm feeling very left out. For a start contact over the holidays wasn't much with them-because I'm always too busy to keep up with conversations on messenger.
But they're all turning 21 and I'm the young side of 19. So now for one of their 21sts they've planned to take her to see a musical-I'm not involved...
I am trying to be in the kitchen/lounge all the time but I still feel left out. What can I do to improve this?
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A cousin of mine keeps giving me the silent treatment.
Posted Sunday September 14 2014, 4:29 pm
My question is that is being quite a form of rude ignorance. This cousin of mine have been nothing but silent ever since we moved in together. She rarely expresses her opinion and completely ignores my existence. We have been staying together for more than 1year but we speak on formal terms. Do you think she just dislikes me or is it really embedded in her behaviour? I don't expect her to become instantly talkative but wish to see her atleast put some effort in talking to me. What should I do to not get affected by this?
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Self-Esteem Around A Beautiful Friends
Posted Thursday September 11 2014, 11:37 pm
I have this gorgeous friend, who I found absolutely stunning. She's super tall like 5'11-6'0, blonde, exotic and beautiful.
My issue is struggling to be friends with her without feeling slightly resentful because I usually feel like crap when I'm around her. A lot of it has to do with the way people treat, just for the mere fact of her being good-looking. While I'm below average, and maybe average at best with make up on. And I got treated completely the opposite way on the mere fact on how I look.
People are instantly nice to her, and receptive to her. Like people will talk to her, and completely ignore me like I don't exist. Or hold the door for her, and walk through right after without bothering to hold it f...
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Help
Posted Thursday September 11 2014, 5:44 pm
I need advice and fast, I really need to talk to my best friend alone though one friend keeps following me around and it is becoming too much but if you ask her to sit with her other friends for today she would get super insulted but I just want one lunch to speak with my best friend about my problems which include her. How do I get her to sit with her other friend (my nemesis)without offending her or making her think I don't want to hang with her anymore
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He never talks to me..?
Posted Tuesday September 9 2014, 9:23 pm
Hi, I am currently in high school, and I have this guy friend who will always text/snapchat me first, but he never talks to me in person, and it really makes me upset. It's not like I have a crush on him or anything, but I see him talk to other girls all the time. Does he just not like me as a friend or what? Lol.. I'm so confused.
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Making New Friends
Posted Friday September 5 2014, 10:04 pm
19/m
So I recently started college, everyone told me it would be a great time of my life and I would meet a bunch of new people.
So I have always struggled with making friends, and keeping friends, and I am very shy and never know what to say to people.
When I got to college I didn't really meet anyone here. I have met a total of 6 people that I talk to on a daily basis.
4 of them being students that live in my dorm
1 being my RA
1 being my roommate
I would like to meet more people, guys and girls (especially girls, what guy doesn't want that?) but I never know how to approach a group of guys or girls and I never know how to make small talk with them t...
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Posted Friday September 5 2014, 9:03 pm
Yea but a couple people are telling me to tell him and others are telling me not to because he told someone his girlfriend was the best girlfriend he's had. So idk what to do. Were bestfriends I tell him everything except this
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Does he like me
Posted Thursday September 4 2014, 9:03 am
Everyone is saying my bestfriend likes me because of the way he acts and the way he talks to me were really close and I chilled with him all weekend this weekend and actually slept in the same bed with him twice and Saturday morning after a party he tells me he was about to kiss me the night before...BUT! He was talking to a girl then and on Labor Day he asked her out.. So does he like me? Or not?
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What my freinds said hurt.
Posted Tuesday September 2 2014, 5:57 pm
M/16
So today one of my freinds straight up said he hates gay people. Well I'm gay but I havent come out yet and I always thought so did most of our other freinds that he was bi. What he said hurt me and it dosnt make sense to me. He's not a religious person at all so he dosnt really have a religious reason. Mabey he's just trying to fit in at school. We do go to a pretty homophobic school. It just dosnt make sense to me.
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I just need advice
Posted Tuesday August 26 2014, 4:38 am
Right now I have this one girl who I used to be close with, she always argues with me I literally can't do anything, I'm always the one trying to fix it and apologize and be friends but she never notices that! She think that she's always the one apologizing:( I admit I'm rude to her a lot but she never notices that I'm trying. I don't want to be friends with her but I don't want her to be my enemy because since we were close I've introduced her to all my friends and she just knows them all now she's also trying to be friends with the people I'm friends with who are from different school's I'm scared that she's going to turn everyone against me or that she'll steal all my friends. She already calls my 2 closest friends her best friends and a...
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Why did she hurt me?
Posted Monday August 25 2014, 10:25 pm
So last week I was at an extra color guard practice just for fun and my color guard partner was there too She's a senior and I'm a freshman, but we're close friends. So anyway, even though I'm younger than her, I can spin a quad on my flag which is extremely hard to do. My coach saw me doing this with some other fancy work and she asked me if I wanted a solo part of our performance. I obviously said yes and I was super happy. So I went to my partner and she already heard the news. She didn't look excited like I was and I asked her "aren't you happy for me?" And she was honest and told me no. She said she was jealous because she never got a solo and she is better than I am. I got a little offended by this. I told her it wasn't my f...
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I can't make conversation
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 7:19 am
18/f
I have a lovely circle of friends and we all get on really well and I'm so chatty and confident when there is atleast 3 of us but when it's just me and a friend I find it really difficult to hold/start a conversation and I'm worried that I'm boring. Can someone please give me advice on how to hold and start a conversation please?
Thanks
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My friend acts like I'm not there sometimes
Posted Wednesday August 20 2014, 3:31 pm
Well at church I have this friend (friend A) and shes an okay friend but whenever her and my other friend (friend B) get together it's like I'm not there. It could be because I don't talk much but I talk when I'm being talked to. We also don't have much in common. But what really makes me mad is that a couple months ago friend A told me she was mad at friend B because she called friend A fake but the next week they acted as if nothing happened ( and she never even told friend B she was mad). I don't know maybe I shouldn't be bothered by it but I don't know. But all I know is that we used to be best friends going to each others house and stuff but now we barely talk.
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What to do if you start liking your bestfriend
Posted Tuesday August 19 2014, 6:30 pm
I need help, I like my best friend, I've been liking him for awhile but I haven't told him cause I don't wanna ruin anything I know that if I tell him I will ruin everything but I really like him and I don't know what to do :(
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Why does everyone forget about me?
Posted Tuesday August 19 2014, 11:00 am
It's starting to hurt my feelings. My family always goes out to eat or to the mall and "forgets" about me. And at school all the teachers forget about me. And both years in high school (I graduated early) I paid for an activity card but didn't get one until I went to complain about not having one even though everyone else got one. And with my drivers license I've had four of the temporary ones now because the state keeps forgetting to make my permanent. And whenever I go to the dentist or doctor or anything I always check in so they know I'm there then after I wait for about an hour and a half I go ask why it's taking so long and they say they forgot about me. It's probably just bad luck but is there anything I can do to make peop...
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Lost my "best friend."
Posted Saturday August 16 2014, 5:44 am
So I had this "best friend" for 11 years. All in all I don't think she's a bad person but over the years it seemed to me like she was just using me, only talking to me when she needed help or advice. I had/have an eating disorder and when she found out, she ignored me because she thought I was being complicated. I then lied to her that I'm good again,basically hiding my problems. The thing is that her boyfriend asked me if she was cheating on him and I told him yes (because she was). It just felt like the right thing to do because she was being horrible to him most of the time, not allowing him to do anything, basically putting him on a leash. When she found out I told him she said that our friendship is over. I don't know how I s...
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Friendship problems, me and my not talking?
Posted Sunday August 10 2014, 7:07 pm
Its been almost 2 weeks now since me and one of my bestfriend basically stopped talking to eachother. Idk what to do because im constantly thinking about it and its been making me a bit depressed lately.
Here's the story: Me and my friend used to be very close but within time he caught feelings for me that were more than friendly. He told me it was mainly because i had helped him through alot and been there for him. I didnt feel the same way and kind of wanted to stay just friends. He was hurt once i told him and he countinued to crush on me for like 6 months. He would start dropping flirtatious comments in our conversations that used to be just joking around. He started bringing me gifts to school which he made me accept. He told me...
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I can't get over my best friend hating me!
Posted Tuesday August 5 2014, 2:08 pm
My best friend used to do everything together. I loved hanging out with her. When a girl on her basketball team moved into the neighborhood, whenever I came over, she'd greet me with," don't bother. I'm inviting my NEW bestie over." after a while, i stopped going over. After a while, she apologized. Then she gave me the book we wrote together. She said, "write a new entry, then give it back. Then I'll write one.". But when I tried to give it back, she smirked and told me it was mine now. She had passed off her junk onto me. It has been half a year now, but I can't get over it. I've thought about burning the book. Can someone please give me some advice, because even though she is a jerk, I still cry myself to s...
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