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A Group That Split Into Two
Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 4:00 pm
16/f (we are all 15 or 16, all female)
Question:
What should I think about all of this?
Is it wrong to not want to forgive them?
Situation:
For months I was excluded from everything by my best friends. They refused to include me yet were nice to my face so I stuck with the group and went through a lot of hurt. I found out others in the group were being excluded too.
So I stood up to the girl who was purposely trying to exclude me, and we got in a huge fight but somehow it was resolved. But not really. Then they started to do it again and an even bigger fight broke out and I left them.
They got people (at least 5 at a time) to try to beat me up. I was harassed b...
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Things to do...
Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 10:16 am
So me and my friends are kinda rocky. Were not like in a fight or anything, but I just kinda feel like theyre using me some times. Anyways, does anyone know some fun things to do with them? Besides the usual going to the movies or mall? && Thanks so much &&
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someone please correct my poem please?
Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 8:44 am
please someone whos good at poems correct this poem? what do you think about this poem? sorry i messed up a lot i was just trying to make it rhyme and stuff.( i know u dont have to make it rhyme but i did =P)and can someone give me an idea for a title? thank you =]
You told me your moving miles away
I couldn’t say anything, left me speechless Didn’t want to get hurt, so I tried to drift away
I was scared, it was like me trapped in the darkness
She began to notice, and asked me why I’ve been ignoring her
I knew I was avoiding her but I denied and said her “I’m not “
I tried to act so cold like I didn’t care, and avoided ...
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friends
Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 3:43 am
ive never really thought about this as anything weird until recently. im 15/f and i dont have any friends my own age. ive always liked hanging out with older people, but im scared im going to start getting a bad reputation. i hardly ever hang out with anyone thats still in high school (even though im going to be a junior) and ive never dated a guy that wasnt at least 18 (oldest being 22) im not a whore, im actually a virgin. is there anything wrong with this?? or am i just freaking out?
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shyness ?
Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 1:03 am
i met all of my best friend's homegirls n homeboys, and they were pretty cool. the homegirls kept telling me i was quiet, n the guys said that too. usually, with my friends, i'm really talkative, but for some reason, with them im really shy. what are some things i can talk about with them? like what can i say to them? how do i start a conversation n keep one going? its so weird cos i feel so awkward with them.
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bad things.
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 11:17 pm
alright. i have this friend and i kind of love him. he's the totaly opposite of me and i've done some things he doesn't agree with. most of them, he knows about, a few he doesn't. this kid knows me better than i know myself and by not telling him, i've felt kinda guilty. so. question basically is, should i tell him, have him be disappointed, or just kind of let it go and not worry about it?
thankss.
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Posted Friday June 22 2007, 11:00 pm
My new best friend is a paraplegic. We have
become really close but he never talks about
it.
I do know he had some kind of diving accident
but that is all. We get along great and talk
about everything but this one thing.
Would it be really rude of me to just ask about
it? I'm asking because he is my friend and I
want to know all about him just like he knows
about me.
I don't want it to seem like I am being nosy
or anything because I really am not. Its just
I'm always wondering things about it and it is
distracting that I do.
How would you approach the subject?
Thank you for your time.
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i need new friends
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 9:54 pm
hi well last year me and these other people became friends and we started a group...this year during school we started off good and then things started to turn bad..they sat at a different lunch table and left me to find osmewhere else to sit...and they never asked me to hang out anymore and they started hanging out with these other people. they acted like the didnt even know i existed ..they acted like i dissapeared....now that its summer i only have one good friend left..they wernt in my group but weve been friends before my group started...there aresome poeple i talk to that say ohhh well were friends but they arent the poeple that would ask me to hang out ...i could ask them to but i want friends that i can make plans with all the time ...
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bad friends?
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 9:38 pm
I have self esteem issues. I've truly hated myself for a long time, and I'm just starting to like myself a little again.
I have these two friends, we'll call them B and A.
B. is really mad at me right now because I'm too "emo". Well, I've been trying to be happier, and the ONE slightly self degrading comment I made, she attacked me.
And my other friend A. who I thought would be on my side, seeing as how we've kind of got some stuff, due to make out sessions, and other weirdish stuff. I won't get into it, but she took B's side!!
I love both of them, but I don't know if I can love myself if I love them.
What do I do?
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NERVES
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 8:28 pm
im going to a new school next year, and ive asked alot of questions about that already. everyone is like, just be really outgoing and stuff like that. Well, i am an outgoing person and really crazy.. but im also EXTREMELY shy around people that i am not used too. I know that i can picture myself being outgoing, but then when i am in the situation, i have horrible nerves, like i turn red REALLY EASILY, or i shake, or i just say the wrong thing! its so horrible, but are there any tips to calm the nerves, or just not be so shy, and hesitent?! thank you so much.
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My best friend in the world needs help and I dont know what
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 7:51 pm
Okay. I kind of need a quick reply, please...
My best friend went out with a boy (we'll call him Shawn) for 7 months. She was head over heels for him. But then while she was on vacation he called and broke up with her through a VOICE MAIL.
Well, her best friend (we'll call him Mike) was there for her through it all. Now, being a bystander in this, I could tell mike had feelings for her. And recently he asked her out. Mike and Shawn were best friends...and as soon as shawn found out he began calling my friend wanting her back. It's been 4 months since they broke up, and I think he just doesnt want her with Mike...what should she do?
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SOMEONE HELP ME
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 7:31 pm
ok i have a bunch of friends and i love hanging out with them but i dont somethings missing like the only preson i can totaly be myself around and that feel's like a totaly good friend is my sisters friend i know thats kind of weird but she started talking to me one day when my sister ahd this huge sleepvoer anywho she's the only one i can hangout with have fun with totaly trust and what not why cant i find anyone else thats like her cause i really like all my friends but like yeah this is really hard to explain because i dont even really get all of it please help thoguh if you can
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friends w/ benefits???
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 3:30 pm
heres my deal... i like two people. chris and pete. i have known chris since third grade [now in 9] he has always liked me. my best friend sammy is also good friends with him. she is having alot of problems in her lifee right now, she is on the verge of killing herselff, almost. chris and pete are really good friends with one another, the other day we were playing truth or dare and i made out with chris, when pete was there. BUTT theres anothere boy in this too. his name is tommy he has liked me since sixth grade. chris likes me and sammy, i dont know what to do because if i keep making out with him as friends with benefits then i done know what it will turn into and sammy is a good friend to me but i feel guilty about doing this and not te...
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people hate me...
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 11:00 am
i am going to a party the 23rd and on myspace 4 girls that i thought were really nice and everything are plotting something to ruin my reputation, i don't no what to do but they think i'm a boystealer i mean i'm really not i just hang out with guys all the time because my sisters always did because they used to say how much easier it is to be friends with guys then girls and i like it too. But should i go to the party i mean its the first time ill get to see all my friends all summer and i usually just don't cheat myself of having fun. But please helP!!! i really don't want a bad reputation going into the high school!!!!!
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dramaaaa.
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 10:23 am
okay so i went to a carnival a couple nights ago and sorta at the end i got a call from some girl i didnt know. she told me to stop talking shit and all this stuff. i have to admit, i did talk shit alongggg time ago but i dont get how this had to happen randomly the night i went to the carnival. so then when i hung up the phone i told my friend that i got a weird phone call. she called and they started bitching at eachother back and forth. finally she said "let's fight" i got really scared because i am not the biggest and strongest person ever. luckily, i have really great friends and i am thankful for that. my friend that has had experiances with fights stayed just for me and my other friend booked and ran to her boyfriends house...
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no friends
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 10:22 am
like i'm totally serious..... not even one!! you see, i go to this school that's all girls, and I guess I've never really gotten along with girls that well. But, someone the other day told me the reason why is because I'm very pretty and they're jealous of me. But, there's other pretty girls at my school, and they all have friends. But, I just feel a little bit lonely at school. Outside of school, I talk to people and stuff, and it's funny because I have a boyfriend but whenever I go online, all these guys IM me, and nobody from school talks to me, but I still feel bad. Why won't anyone hang out with me?? thank you
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fine line between outgoing and fake
Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 10:40 pm
Okay. im going to a new school next year, so ive been asking alot of questions on how to be like outgoing and stuff. but i was just wondering, is there a line between trying to be outgoing and funny and stuff even if its already hard for you, and then being fake?
because i know that im not just like a quiet person, becuase when im with my friends.. i can be all crazy and stuff. but when im around other people who i dont no, im really shy. and i dont want to be something im not.. but still..
idk if this makes since.. but basicly is that being fake?
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four-love?
Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 10:15 pm
alrght so i have this friend who i have been really close with him for a while now, the other day we did some stuff that i never expected we would do [there were other ppl there] my problem is that i have this other really good friend who could possibly like him and he could possibly like her backk but he keeps on wanting to do stuff but it just doesnt seem fair to her or the other person i like.. what should i doo! =[
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using me
Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 9:26 pm
So I have these 2 friends. But sometimes, when we hang out I feel kind of like a third wheel. For instance tomorrow, we were gonna go out for ice cream with these guys. Anyways, they were both together hanging out tonight and we were talking on IM. Well one of them said to me..."can you drive tomorrow?" and so I checked with my mom. Well, later today they asked if I could drive, but my mom had told someone I could babysit. Then all they said was, well are you sure? because your our ride." I just kinda felt like crap. What should I do about this? And I am NOT handling this by TELLING THEM HOW I FEEL. So PLEASE dont give me that answer. I am not doing that. %% Thanks &&
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friends expressions
Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 8:55 pm
my friend is masically the coolest one in our little "group". Anyways, everyone loves the expressions she uses. She says things like "OH BABY" and "come on noww". Anyways, are there any expressions that I can use that are kinda cute/clever/funny? THANK YOU SO MUCH. %% thanks %%
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