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i dont feel like dealing with this shit anymore i dont have


Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 5:42 pm

i need a tough ass girl probably black to tell me what to do in this situation. My brother is always instagating if you don't know what that is its when someone says stuff to get you to fight them or wanna hurt them really badly. What usually happens is I either flip out on him or i try and hit him. He doesnt get in trouble i do and it gets me sooooo pissed that i wanna cry. My parents take his side cause he is younger and i was trying to hurt him. how do i make my brother stop instagating me.

NO SMART ASS REMARKS

i need some good advicenators to get me some advice. pretty fast please! thank u and love ya

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???


Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 4:36 pm

My parents wont let me go out with some friends, how would i make them lemme ?

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mom and dad


Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 10:28 am

sry about the length but i need help!

ok well my mom and dad are divorced and my dad lives in west virginia and i go see him every other weekend..and i HATE going down there with a passion!

my dad is a very mean person, he cam be obusive at times but not towards me.. towards his ex-wife whcih are now just boyfriend girlfriend. well last weekend i did not want to go and alot happend he said something horrible.

my gram died a little over a year ago and him and my mom were fighting and he said "why dont you go die like ur mother did" and i flipped i dont thinik i've ever cried so much in my life.

well my mom says that i have to go one more time until she can get an attorney...

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My pain in the butt mother


Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 7:03 am

My fiance and I live together with our two children. We have decided to live in a small apartment for now while we are saving for a house. My mother had to move out of her house because of financial hardships about 2 years ago. When she moved, she told me that she would be going between my apartment and her boyfriends apartment until she got her own place. She now has her own place and she is still here. She sleeps on the sofa all the time. My stepmother keeps my kids a lot to give me and their father a break and she still stays here. What should I do?

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my mom


Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 7:27 pm

OK so my mom and me never really got along but she was okay to live with and everything
now a days shes getting unbearable!! And I cant live with her anymore she drives me crazy... ON WEEKENDS she gets drunk sometimes and yells like crazy and she told me last night
"if your grades dont improove im going to make your life a living hell" basically meaning no phone because I usually talk to my b/f since he kinda lives like 30 minuts away and we dont see eachother often.. if I loose him I dont know what I will do.. Im in love with him and loosing him to me is just not an option
what can I do??

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BABY SITTING!!!!! NO!


Posted Monday September 19 2005, 4:09 pm

I don't know what you would put this under. but I am in a crisis people. haha I have to babysit a 2 year old on Saturday with my dad who wouldn't care if he got run over by a truck. The child is wild. He is my nephew and I have to baby sit him for 5 hours. 7:30am to noon. What can I do to keep him under control. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I am nerved wreched. No smart remarks either/ thanks in advance.

13/f. Neika

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Posted Monday September 19 2005, 8:10 am

okay well my parents got divorced when i was younger and well i lost in touch with my dads side of the family and i havent seen them since i was little well recently my sister lives with my dad and i live with my mom so my sister gave me there phone number and email address and well its kind of weird cause there like my cousins and well to me there like strangers and i dont know what to do

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How to deal?


Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 9:51 pm

(warning, long)Okay - I've fairly recently had to go through two deaths of one close family friend and a friend of mine. I am now very, very scared to have to undergo another funeral, and also, when the family friend died, my mother took it very hard even though she wasn't even all that close to him. A couple of my relatives are in failing health, and not to sound like a downer, but they will be passing on soon. Does anybody have any ideas as to how I could prepare myself for this, cope, and try to help my mom along as well? (the not-so-healthy family members are on my mom's side..)

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mom


Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 4:39 pm

my mom is kinda a control freak...
She won't let me shop with anyone but her. .not my dad, any of my friends.. or anyone.
She has to even be in the same department with me...
I only have a pair of jeans and two pairs of (very very ugly) capris that don't fit right.. so I really need to go shopping. She always says that she's too busy or that i don't need anything. I keep explaining to her that I need to go shopping because I am lacking in things to wear.. and she always makes up excuses. I'm also afraid that if we go shopping that she won't let me wear what I want to wear (low rise jeans and form-fitting baby t's) because she wants me to wear things from the girls section still. And when we went into aeropostale (once)...

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no trust for me


Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 4:15 pm

awhile ago me and one of my friends got arrested for vandilism. we spray painted some cars and broke some windows. when will my parents begin to trust me again? me and my friend have talked and we wont get in anymore trouble. we want to hang out. i want trust and think i deserve it.

Thanks a lot
Timothy

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My Mom Is Talking This Hard....


Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 1:53 pm

See my Grannie died and thats my mom's mom. My mom has been taking it pretty hard latley and she sometimes crys and gets mad and I just feel so bad for her cause its her mom and she loved her alot. Everytime I see her cry I want to confort her but I don't really know what to do or say. She has lost 7lbs in the last 2 weeks and she hasn't been eating right and she is all depressed and empty. She is really scering me and I don't know what to do.

Please Help Me. Thanks in Advance and No stupid answers.

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Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 12:41 pm

Ahh okay so I have a twin brother and well he uses me for my friends and he always goes with me everywhere and my mom doesnt get that I dont want him around I always to to talk to her about it but sheh doesnt listen..pleaseeeeeee help

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Trust problems


Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 9:14 am

Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl. This might be a long one.

Well my parents don't trust me. They say they do but everything that goes wrong is blamed on me and basically 99% of the time I wasn't the one who did it. For instance when my dog chewed on the seatbelts in the car until they were bascially ruined my parents accused me of cutting the seatbelts with scissors as a way of telling them that I was angry. Well I used to be a really big troublemaker until I turned ten but now I'm basically the most innocent teen ever and they still don't see why I don't talk to them. I don't talk to them that much because I'm afraid that they will not believe whatever I'm trying totell them and just blow up on me. My mom is okay...

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not wanted


Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 4:02 am

Im 13 and i feel like im not wanted. my mom has a new bf and my dad has a new gf and my brothers 18 and is in a serios relationship so i feel like im not wanted cuz there always with someone else what should i do?

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Brother


Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 2:50 pm

I don't know what to do anymore. My little brother thinks im pyscho. Today, my mom asked him to take out the trash and walked away. After she left he refused to do it and stated that I should do it because I never do anything. But, I had helped my mom ALL day with getting ready for this garage sale. So, I told him that he should do it because he was told to. He started screaming and freaking out on me. So after like a half hour of that I punched
him. I just can't take it anymore!!! That's the first time i've ever hit him, and I don't even feel bad about it. He's hit me louds so i guess that's why. I don't want to apologize, but how should I handle my anger from now on???

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Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 2:18 pm

hi everyone

i am at my dads this weekend...and i dont get to see him very often...only like 2 times a month...sometimes not even that,,,so yeah..i want to think of something we can do...like father-daughter sonthing...whatever tonight...before i have to leave again tomorrow...any ideas?

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Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 12:58 pm

hey my dad used to hit me and out of nowhere had these little shouting yells and allays was breaking stuff and yelling at my mom he evens aid i was the only problem in his life one time he hit me so hard i fainted and i dont know if i really love him er not PLZZZZZ HELP me i give out 5's!

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??13??


Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 9:39 am

How serios should a 13 year old relaxion ship yet? (The guys older)?? Let me know.. Weve been together a while i donno if its gonna work anymore though.... nothings the same

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cuzin


Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 4:30 am

I cold always talk to my cuzin. About everything. but one day she just broke down about everything. Now i dont think i can talk to her anymore what should i do

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it's gone on too long


Posted Friday September 16 2005, 10:51 pm

On July 4th, my cousin "Lily" and I went shopping wayyy early in the morning to catch sales. We came back to my grandpa's house at like 10:30ish. My other cousin "Tina" came over and usually, me and Tina are very close. We were sorta like best friends. The problem is Tina and Lily HATE eachother. Anyway, Lily's mom made us clean the windows all over the house. Tina was just watching us. By the time we were done cleaning the windows, Lily and I were more exhausted than we were after the mall. While Tina sat on the sofa reading her magazine, Lily and I talked about clothes and stuff and eventually, I did sit down with Tina for a couple of minutes to talk. When Tina went home, she cried to her dad about how I ignored her an...

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