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Abuse...?? Posted Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:08 pm
OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me. And he doesnt just like "spank" me he usually uses a hard stick and hits me a few times and ive gotten a couple of bruises
plz answer
thanks
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MY MOM! Posted Tuesday October 11 2005, 6:40 pm
Okay so I was on the phone with my best friend right cause she wanted me to go over. Well my mom said no because I got off the computer at 10:00 last nigth even though she asked me to get off at 9:30! Well i really got off at ten but she said i didn't get off til' midnight! Its was a school night and she lied when I was on the phone! HELP! WHat should I say to her!
♥Staci♥
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Sorry so long its the only way to explain this. Posted Tuesday October 11 2005, 4:23 pm
My parents always used to fight well now its were, my dad sleeps on the couch, and my mom doesnt talk to my dad they ignore each other. my dad had a "family meeting" a few years ago and told us he was leaving . but then saw us crying he didnt go (is it wrong to wish he have left?) he starts this thing now that since my lil brother is in foot ball and is the only son living there i have to do everything, and he is ALWAYS yelling at me when my mom is sleeping or if my mom is at work. i couldnt take it any more last weekend i blew up i told him to back off and leave me l aone i called my mom and she said ignore him so thats what i been doing well now im supose to be grounded from the computer but i dont listen to him and plus he ain...
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Abuse.....? Posted Tuesday October 11 2005, 3:24 pm
OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me.
plz answer
thanks
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She steals Posted Monday October 10 2005, 11:58 am
Well I had a 50 dollar bill and well my cousin watched me put it in my purse and then I walked away for a second and well I know for a fact that she steals stuff from my family cause my family geos on vaction every year and she and her mom and brother stay at our house and one time she told me that she stole my sisters cds and bra and underwaer and I think that she took my money cause I cant find it anywhere! How can I ask her without getting her mom mad at me?? easy fives thankss...and I will report bullsh*t answers
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love hurts Posted Sunday October 9 2005, 2:43 pm
my dad and my mom are brokin up, and my dad and step mom fight all the time and i can't take it i hate her (step mom) she is so mean if my sister says something to me like "SHUT UP" and i say it back she gose tells her mom and the my stepmom tells my mom and i get in trouble and i want to spend more time at my moms now because of her but i love my dad and i want to be with him but not her! please help me!
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cousins Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 11:30 pm
my cousins nd their dad are racist! soo much! like its so mean and i hate when they make fun of people! its really upsetting. theyre a LOT older than me (senior in hs and 3rd year in college) but were SOOO CLOSE!!! like they live at home and whatever so yea. but what should i do? theyre like the best cousins everevereververvEVER besides that!
should i just get over it?
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Not Good Enough. Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 8:03 pm
I'd like to first start off by saying I love my family. I truly do, yet I feel as if I need help sorting out the problems and stress they constantly place on my shoulders. I grew up in a fairly large family with seven brothers and two sisters. As of right now, the only sibling living at home is my younger brother, and I'm always being compared to him; through my grades, my lifestyle, my friends. No matter what I do, or how hard I work, it's never good enough. My family is continuously degrading me, saying I can do much better, making me feel as if I'm not good enough for their praise. My brother brings home test results of, say, 10/20, and he gets credited. Is there any way to make them realise that I'm trying?
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umm Posted Thursday October 6 2005, 11:24 pm
ok well i have a boyfriend, but it's not really working out.. i like this other boy 2 NOT THAT I"D EVER CHEAT ON MI BF! but well its nice to know that he liked me back.. but then he started to not like me and begin 2 like mi TWIN SIS!!! grr idk wat 2 do.. i'm upset
Jackie thanks!!
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I get the feeling my mother has grown to dislike me Posted Thursday October 6 2005, 2:22 pm
I have been depressed and unemployed for two years, I try and help around the house and I write film scripts, hoping one day I will sell them and become a professional screenwriter, but lately I have got the feeling that my mother has just taken a dislike to me.
She is going through the change but when she is mad she gets personal with me and makes me feel like I am not normal.
Tonight we were talking about something and she said something quite silly and I said what planet are you living on and she replied "I am not living on the planet you live on- thank God" her tone was awful
This week she has also demeanded me and I don't know what to do. I feel ganged up on and isolated. I don't...
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Something... Posted Wednesday October 5 2005, 9:08 pm
I want to do something special for each of my parents. They do so much for me so I want to show them how much I care. So what should I do? Nothing that costs a lot...Like Breakfast in bed is a good idea, but 1. I have school and 2. They wake up before me...any ideas???
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Prank Call To Grandma Posted Wednesday October 5 2005, 4:21 pm
Okay so I need yalls help! My Grandma got a phone call monday night at like 10:45 and it was a prank call...(Of course they blocked their number so we cant find out who is it) so heres how the convo went (the letters represent the peoples names):
Granny: hello?
Them: Hello, is H there?
Granny: Who is calling?
Them: B
Granny: Who?
Them: B, You might want to take H to the hospital, he gave me aids last night.
Them: (Someone laughing histerically in the background)
Keep in mind "H" is my grandfather and the "B" represents me. Now i'm sorry but that isnt even a cute prank call...my grandmother lives alone most of the time so she was scared to go to bed. ...
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bad friends Posted Tuesday October 4 2005, 11:42 am
me and my friends have this bad habit where we talk bad behind EVERYONES back...i mean EVERYBODY... including ourselves... i hate wen people talk about me when im not around...
idk how to stop me and my friends from doing this
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my evil sister Posted Monday October 3 2005, 6:41 pm
my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f
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cousin Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 10:47 pm
My cousin/best friend is basically giving up on life. I had her join an after school activity with me but then she quit. Then she said shes just gonna stop working well in school and not worry about anything anymore. This is basically because of her peers and family. People think shes a pothead, and i siad "well maybe because you put on your myspace you smoke pot when you really dont" and her sister tells her shes a screw up and doesnt deserve to be on this planet. What can I do to help my cousin out and turn her back to normal and if not better?
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Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 5:41 pm
ok i dont know how to word this but i will give an example like today i got some headphones from around the house to see which would have the music come out the loudest from my ipod and like i took these pair of headphones from our family room and my dad started yelling at me saying im not supposed to leave the room with the head phones when i didnt and and so he was like i thought i told u to put them back when he never did so i yelled back at him so he came like running over to me and like almost broke my finger and he said if i did it again he would beat the $h!t out of me and a couple of times he has hit me and i dont know what i should do cause my mom never believes me when i tell her this and when he hits me it never leaves any bruise...
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Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 1:45 pm
My Brother Is Acting Werd What Do I Do
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mother of 2 needs serious ADVICE Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 10:57 am
hi..
Iam 31, i have 2 kids one 3 month old and a 9 year old ..my oldest has a different dad{happens}
i have been w this man for 5 years and he has always treated my son like his own..his father is somehow thru manipulation turning my son against my boyfriend all of a sudden he doesnt want him at any football games,, which he paid for if it wasnt for him he wouldnt even be on a team... his father and i have been apart for 10 years he has a girlfriend that calls me on the phone and says i can have him back and that sort of stuff i will call there house and she will hang up on me..i dont really kow how to go about handling this situation ... i think it boils down to his father being insecure about my son and his relationship sinc...
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Mom Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 10:26 pm
ok it seems like my mom favors my brother way more than me. So one day I stayed home from school because I was sick. Then my mom told me since I stayed home, I was grounded for the weekend. But then today, my little brother was supposedly throwing up this morning and didnt go to his soccer parade and games but about an hour later he was outside running around and on his dirtbike and playing basketball and everything. Then he got to have his friend sleep over. Am I over reacting or am I right about her possibly favoring him more?
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Uhhg.. Posted Friday September 30 2005, 3:52 pm
13/F
I'm not allowed to hang out with my Best friend 'Michelle' because we had a little fight and she left a baad message on my answering machine; not my cell my house and my mom heard it. This was like June of last year I mean all summer I snuck over her house and met her places and now we're partners for a Social Studies project and I can't tell my mom I'm going to her house. Without her I have no friends and she asked me to sleepover her house. I said no but if I keep avoiding that situation she might no be my friend anymore. What can I do I really want to chill with her and how can I explain that to my mom?
I will rate 5's.
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