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Jealousy from her, or me?
Posted Wednesday November 19 2014, 7:20 pm
F/18. You see I'm sharing an apartment with my best friend from six years (middle and high school) and its only been three months and a few weeks but I feel... strange. Its like I'm slowly getting to know her for real. At the beginning of the semester she dyed the tips of her hair blonde (I mean like yellow-yellow and not just tips, practically the whole half of her hair). She's the type of girl who's always wanting to do things right and is proper when needed to be. The thought recently occurred to me... that maybe... she's been trying to... I don't even know how to put it. It seems like she often tries to impress with her shorts and her dyed hair and her supposedly innocent acts where guys have flirted with her but she didn't notice. Some...
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Why does he keep asking about a relationship?
Posted Friday November 14 2014, 9:58 am
Me and my fwb have been seeing each other for 5 months now and things are pretty good between us. Lately he's been asking what I feel about us being in a relationship. He's asked a few times and each time I say I want to be but then he won't say what he wants or how he feels. There has also been a few times when he says maybe we'll be serious or be official but he won't say for sure. I'm not sure why he keeps bringing it up if he won't really do anything about it or is he waiting for me to say something? But I've already told him yes more than once so I'm not sure what to do. What do you think?
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my frendship took a turn
Posted Thursday November 13 2014, 4:54 pm
well i have this one best friend who doesnt like my other best friend and i dont like my on best friend sometimes but i act like i dont like one best friend when i am around another and vise versa so i need help what should i do i mean it i need help!
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Boys.. Again
Posted Thursday November 13 2014, 12:17 am
My bestfriends bestfriend took me out on a date... We flirted but before that he was calling me perfect trying to get me to go on the date with him trying to tell me he wanted to kiss me and all that stuff...the date was fun.. He tried to take me somewhere expensive but I made him take me to fast food. Then after that we hung out with our friends.. No interaction, but at threnody of the night we went to get gas. He went inside and came back with a soda and have it to me and told me to share with my brother... And I didn't even ask or tell him what my favorite soda was... But he got it... Two days later him and my bestfriend were "fighting" I made them make up and went to mcdonalds..he opened the door to our friends truck so I coul...
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My Dilemma; What Should I Do?
Posted Friday November 7 2014, 8:19 pm
I'm a 14 year old and I play a lot on this gaming website. I met a guy (Who claims he's 26). I claim that I'm 18. I never say my real age and never will due to safety reasons. I just feel so uncomfortable talking to him, but yet I feel emotionally attached to him. He's never asked me for my address or anything personal like that, but he's told me that he's on parole and all that and I kind of help him to make him feel better. I know I shouldn't lie and all that, but it's safety reasons. I've heard his voice before (Microphone) but he hasn't heard mine. What should I do? I feel kind of "unsafe", but I feel that about everything since I have a panic disorder. I want to just end the talking by just not starting conversation, but me a...
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I feel really left out
Posted Tuesday November 4 2014, 12:49 am
Ok so I'm sorry of this sounds confusing but bare with me because this is the first time in actually getting this out in some way
Ok so I'm 14 and I just started high school everyone knows that your clique when you were in middle school never stays together and I'm not the type of person to be in denial about that stuff I know it happens
So 2 of my friends I've known since the 4th grade and my other friend I've knowed since 7th grade I'm very quiet but I observe alot of things so it's kinda hard to make new friends for me but lately I've been depressed because I feel that I'm the most unliked in the group and since I'm so quiet and shy that it's really hard to make new friends the reason why I feel the most u...
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Should I call off our friendship?
Posted Monday October 27 2014, 10:32 am
I have this friend that censures people 24/7 and she thinks it's hilarious but I do not. Recently, she saw my mom, my mom has a small cyst on her face and she made fun of her. It really offended me. She keeps telling me that her whole family criticizes people (as always, she thinks its funny), and I don't know how she can be proud of that. It just shows how immature her family is, and turned her into the immature child she is now. We had an obstacle course test in PE a few days ago (I'm the most unfit skinny person you might ever know) and we had the longest running time cause I'm not used to physical activities and all my groupmates are mad at me including the one that made fun of me, and she has this attitude where you tick her off just a...
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Friends or not?
Posted Sunday October 26 2014, 3:41 pm
My best guy friend and I are super close, and recently his best friend and myself have been talking a lot and becoming closer. He has "dated" two of my other kind of close friends many years ago. He has also been flirting with me, and my best friend has been hinting things about his friend and myself. I'm just very confused. Help! I am a girl.
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How
Posted Thursday October 23 2014, 10:31 pm
Alright so I've liked on of my friends for about a month and he's been going for his bestfriend in the group and she's a really easy girl.. Like fuck anyone kind of easy. And me and my friend stopped being friends because me and her stopped getting along because I didn't like how she treated everyone and he brought her everywhere with her even to my moms birthday... What I'm asking is.. How do I get him to like me again instead of her
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What is going on?
Posted Monday October 20 2014, 9:15 am
Me and my bestfriend have hung out for a week... And we so sleep in the same bed but on different sides until last Friday after his party... We cuddled, we weren't drunk. It was after his girlfriend and everyone left I went to bed first and he came in and tried to get on of the blankets from me and at the party he said he was gonna cuddle with me... And we did... All night but. My bestfriend massaged my back, caressed my thighs and stomach and butt Keep in mind that we are bestfriends but we've never done this even when we're drunk. The next morning I went to the bathroom and came back not feeling good so he put his arm around me more but caressed his finger on my bra and he was trying to hold my hand too as well as his morning wood on my b...
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Help
Posted Saturday October 18 2014, 10:03 pm
For break I stayed at my bestfriends house for a week and we had a party last night. .. And normally I sleep with him but on opposite sides of the bed but last night it was cold and he wanted to cuddle and keep warm( neither of us were drunk we had a little alcohol) so we cuddled... And we're really close but we've never cuddled even if he's drunk... Ok! To the story last night after his girlfriend and everyone from the party left he cuddled with me and in that process he was massaging my back rubbing my thigh and leg and basically caressing my body and stuff and I was trying to hog the blankets and we we're "fighting" and we cuddled most the night.. I wake up and I'm still close to him and I get up to pee and I didn't feel good...
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Friendship Problems
Posted Friday October 17 2014, 3:34 pm
I'm having constant fights with my best friend. We've been friends for 3 years. All the previous school year and this summer we were seeing each other every day. We were inseparable. Now this school year started and I got a boyfriend. We've been unofficial for a few months and now for half a month we're official. I believe that she is jealous cause she is single for over a year and that she doesn't want to lose me as a friend. But she is showing it wrong. She keeps making scenes of jealousy, she won't talk to me, she is not even calling me to hang out anymore. I only see her at school. I don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her as a friend but she needs to understand that she's not right and that even though I have a boyfriend I stil...
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Dealing with dad's depression
Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 10:49 am
I think that my father is depressed, and I feel like he has anger management issues. I am 18 and I live under my parents roof. I have siblings that are 20, 15, 12, 12, and 4.
For the longest my dad has wanted to restart his own business. He wants to own an air conditioning businesses. he used to own a warehouse resale business. He would resell items in bulk. That was when I was a toddler. He lost his business and had to start taking up various jobs. He has said several times that he wishes we were born earlier so that he could be living his own life (He had us when he was 39 and up.) He has said that it's our fault that he can't start his own business. He has said it's our fault that he's in debt. I've suggested to him to find ja...
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Obsession
Posted Wednesday October 15 2014, 6:17 am
My favorite teacher thinks I have an unhealthy obsession with her.She wants to detached me from all her contacts.I am traumatized. wt can I do?
She is an ex faculty member of my university. Now she lives in Australia. I love her personality. She is so nice, and funny and smart. She is my role model. I often talked with her. She blocks me from her Facebook when she understands I am obsessed with her. Many of students are connected with her in Facebook. Almost all my friends, classmates, big bros and sisters are connected with her but I have lost her for my immature behavior. I am very upset now. She wants me to not contact her. I have sent her a lot of email but she is not answering them. Somehow I managed her phone number. wh...
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Realizing I don't have any friends and wondering what to do
Posted Monday October 13 2014, 11:14 pm
I'm 27 years old and I never had a lot of friends, but when I was younger I did have core friends I hung out with a lot. I have begun to realize that I have no friends. The only friend I have is my boyfriend and one friend that lives 400 miles away.
I tried meeting new people on meetup.com. I was part of a woman's group on there. But, I left because I met 3 different women that were verbally abusive and would criticize me. One actually became violent towards me.
I've tried having work friends, but it never seems to last long. At my current job, I always hear about people's BBQ's and other events, which many of the staff went to, but I wasn't invited.
I've tried to reach out to people who I thou...
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My 'best friend' is being very rude to me lately?
Posted Sunday October 12 2014, 2:12 pm
So recently, my 'best friend' has been very rude to me. Let's call her 'A.' A's been in a relationship with a guy for 3 months and they pretty much do everything together and are constantly texting. That's not what's annoying, though. A started hanging out with these 3 girls who she thinks are like her best friends, but I'm in a huge group convo with them (that A isn't in) and they've been talking bad about A recently. A only goes to me if her boyfriend or these other friends are occupied, and will ignore me if she's in a group with them. Granted, I've started doing the same to let her know how annoying it is, like I was talking with a guy and she tried to get into our conversation, but we both just ignored her. The only time she's texted m...
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being annoying
Posted Friday October 10 2014, 9:07 pm
Hi, so recently (yesterday) I found out that my best friends hated me. I just changed schools and my friend (who doesn't hate me) told me that they formed a group and started talking bad about me calling me a slut (even though I've never hooked up with anyone and I haven't had my first kiss but ok) and the main point that I'm annoying. And it really, really hurt because WE WERE BEST FRIENDS. Like I was prepared to cry, I'm pretty sure that my eyes welled up with tears. Anyways, does anybody have a suggestion for me to how to stop being annoying because everybody, I mean pretty much everybody, thinks that I can be annoying sometimes and I really try to not be because annoying people piss me off. And I'm not physically annoying, like I poke p...
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Hit in the face, confidence in the dumpster.
Posted Tuesday October 7 2014, 9:55 pm
I'm a 16 year old male attending highschool. I'm not popular or athletic, but I have/had a certain group I usually hang out with, other guys my age that like to drink and talk like men. Long story short, one day one of them brought sparring equipment and pestered me to try sparring with them. I agreed, got into the gloves and head gear, got hit once and fell over nose bleeding and black eyed. Now when I see them they laugh at me and say "one hit wonder" or general teases. I dont know what I do here, because im actually kind of afraid of hanging out with them again. What do i do?
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Should I charge my friend for english classes where I teach?
Posted Monday October 6 2014, 4:55 pm
Hello,
Hello my friend and his girlfriend want to learn english at the academy where I teach Should I charge them?
thanks
Kind regards
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Annoying freind.
Posted Sunday October 5 2014, 3:42 pm
M/15
I have a freind who seems to be at the maturity level every one was at in 8th grade ,but we are in 10th. Usaly I can tolerate him but lately he's been driving over the edge. He pulls the card that his life sucks so much and that I screw him over every time I can't hangout. He trys to tell me what music to listen to even though we have diferent tastes. And he texts me non stop. If I don't answer he texts me 5 more times. Be specificaly targets me out of our freind circle. And lately its been to much for me to handel. He's been trying to separate me from my freinds abd this what put me over the edge: I have a sculpture in my room of a life sized women that i was given and he was strangeling it and do innopriate things to it. Then ...
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