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Am I a bad person for my dating preferences?
Posted Tuesday August 29 2017, 4:46 pm
I'm 24, female, and single. I want to be in a serious relationship since I haven't seriously dated somebody in a couple years, but I'm picky (according to everybody else).
For example, I won't date somebody who is still working as a waiter (unless it's at a high end restaurant with big tips), at a fast food restaurant, or a minimum wage position. I just feel like once you're old enough to have a college degree or prior work experience you should have a better job. I'm not expecting anybody rich or anything, but at least for the person to be making an average wage. I make a little more than most people my age, but I don't even have my degree yet (finishing my bachelors) so I feel like I'm not asking that much. If I can put in ...
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Feeling is mutual?!
Posted Saturday August 26 2017, 5:38 am
Could anyone explain about the meaning of feeling is mutual? I think he likes me well I like him and he knows that, I suppose. We're friends and known for almost a year. Joking, flirting and sharing stories we do when we meet and yes I feel an attraction between us and I think he feels the same too. Tells me he likes me several times but different occasions. Yesterday we're talking and after the hamburger that he bought for us, I feel sleepy I said, he said should we go for a nap together, I said yeah you wish, and he looked at me, said you and I have this relation, hard to describe but you like me and the feeling is mutual. He said twice. Instead of saying he likes me why would he say in a lengthy way? We are in a difficult place because o...
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Posted Tuesday August 22 2017, 11:11 am
Hello,
please help me with this question I'm about to ask as I'm very much trying to understand his behaviour. he told me yesterday that, 'if I was not with my girlfriend I would have stolen you from your boyfriend' (actually said few times already here and there but never with word stolen) I said well, only if you were single and I was single, then he looked at me for few seconds and said 'yeah' in a questioning tone, I said 'yes' he just smiled and kept looking at me. we do kid around heaps with a flirty remarks. met at the university. became good mates. he knows that we both are into sports so he was offering me to take me to football last week about 1 hour away distance but he didn't have a space in his car with his other mates b...
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Boyfriend was insensitive, doesn't have faith in my diet...
Posted Tuesday August 22 2017, 2:12 am
Lately my BF of 4 years and I have been fighting a lot, my guess is due to built up resentment and stress. I finally got tired of the passive aggression between us and asked to sit down and chat. It was going great and we were almost done hashing things out until we got to one last thing...
After high school I weighed 220 lbs and thought that was a lot. I managed to lose 50 lbs and looked really great, but I was suicidal with clinical depression, and sort of thought that if I lost weight I would like myself/life in general, but it didn't work. They put me in therapy and on anti-depressants. The meds helped a ton emotionally, but made me gain weight like crazy. Over a couple years I went from 170-290 lbs. I've tried many time...
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He has become more hugging boy!
Posted Friday August 18 2017, 6:02 pm
Hello, this friend of mine has started to give me a hug every time we meet and it's been twice he's done it. He's like oh (mention my name) approaches and gives me a hug. We've hugged few times when we're out with our friends saying goodnight in a group, that was like ages ago but lately seems like he likes hugging me whenever he sees me getting closer with his open arms looks more like offering a hug. Now, I'm thinking probably he knows I like him because we had a chat weeks ago and told me look I know that you like me and I like you he said it in a high insisting tone. I was bit uncomfortable as I didn't want him to find out just yet as we're only friends but he ended up saying you like me and I like you part so I got no clue I mean I do ...
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little confused with him!
Posted Wednesday August 16 2017, 4:02 pm
Right, this friend of mine and I have known for almost a year. In our late 20's and we go to same Uni. we always have pretty good laugh and get along fine. we both have girlfriend and boyfriend, however somehow, I have always felt that he liked me and I like him too. recently he mentioned few times in a different occasion saying that, 'I would have married you if I had met you few years ago but we can stay mates, ok' and I replied to him not in this life as you have a gf and I have a bf, may be in another life and he said, 'well you said it not in this life' so are we warming up for next life then, he asked and I replied yeah' normally when we're chatting we are always smiling but this time it just looked serious was he hoping for us to sta...
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Do guys hide their feelings towards the girl they fancy?
Posted Friday August 11 2017, 5:49 pm
Hello,
Been mates for a year. I know that he fancies me and I fancy him which is I can tell is not right at the moment because of having a significant others in ours lives as he's got a girlfriend and a kid with her and I have a boyfriend. But I can tell he's not that happy because he hardly talks about her in case if I ask about her and I'm also not entirely happy with my relationship at the moment. His jokes to me it looks more like a flirting but he insists it's a banter, we have a good banter because we're good friends he states yet it still seems like a flirt to me. We both are in our mid 20's. He hardly asks about my bf and barely mention his gf. But me, i tend to mention my bf at least once or twice in front of him. Today I ra...
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I still think about ex-boyfriend years later. what's wrong with me?
Posted Tuesday August 8 2017, 9:54 pm
I still think about him occasionally, wonder how he's doing, wish he was with me, etc. we have mutual friends and sometimes I hear about him. I look at his social media pages. What's wrong with me? Am I not over him? Why do I still miss him?
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is my partner worth it
Posted Tuesday August 8 2017, 5:30 am
i have had heaps of struggles with my boyfriend he dumped me today people are telling me to go after him... i think hes a loyal idiot i have no clue weather or not to fight for our relationship. im 13 and a girl :)
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will it ever stop?
Posted Monday August 7 2017, 10:52 pm
I'm 19, and I've had a crush on the same guy (let's call him K) since I was 14. Last spring, he started dating a girl, and my heart was absolutely destroyed (he broke up with her last summer though). After that ended, I found myself still crushing on him, hard.
I've tried having crushes on other guys. Like, a guy will catch my eye with looks/personality, but every time I end up comparing him to K, and every time K seems superior in some way, so I never do anything about any of my other crushes.
Not that I've ever done anything about my crush on K. By now, I'm not sure I ever will.
But what I'm wondering is, will I always compare every guy I meet to K? Will they all fail the test? Will I stop crushing on K?
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Games/apps/websites to improve long distance (ddlg) relationships?
Posted Friday August 4 2017, 10:17 pm
What are some good apps for long distance relationships? Particularly for long distance ddlg relationships. I've been dating my boyfriend for the last year and we just recently started exploring this kink. He's twenty three and I'm seventeen. I just want any ideas for fun games or apps, particularly anything that allows him to have more control over my life. That sounds a little invasive. I suppose I mean more like, things that would allow him to be more involved in my daily life. But also things to help him be in control of me more. Maybe it's weird, but I like that. Not even necessarily apps. Online things are okay too. Even any recommendations for me to get into little space easier would be appreciated. Thanks!
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Advice Needed on Daughter's Online Relationship
Posted Thursday August 3 2017, 8:36 am
My 19yr old daughter started an online long distance relationship with a 17yr old guy about 7months ago. They have never seen each other is person except through photos and video chats. He claims that he loves her and wants to marry her in 3yrs and move in with us. I asked her why in 3yrs and she said because that is when I graduate from college. I realized that he is waiting for her to graduate and for her to get a good paying job since she will have her degree, and then live off of her (like a gold digger). When I told her what he is planning to do is use her, she got angry and said that it wasn’t true, and that he will work and help us too. She won’t say what he wants to do as a job, as she doesn’t know. He is not planning on g...
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he told me keep in touch ok!
Posted Thursday August 3 2017, 3:58 am
hello there, right, when I said goodbye and see you in a months time after the lesson, he replied, keep in touch ok take care. now, I know the meaning of keep in touch but I don't know in his situation coz we tease and laugh also disagree from time to time. wondering if he wanted me to text him now and then. we're friends but also I have to admit I'm developing a teeny tiny crush on him. he's never said keep in touch before. he just looked gloomy while he was saying that. Thanks
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has he started to have feelings?
Posted Wednesday August 2 2017, 6:08 pm
Hi,
So today in the class he told me that he's going to miss me and asked me back if I'm going to miss him as I'm away for a few weeks, I said yes of course. we have a good banter and known for nearly a year. I think we both get on just fine. anyway, when I asked him after a few chat how much is he going to miss me, he said he will miss me lots and it's weird (he seemed little sad). I asked him, what's weird because I thought he was talking about his phone as he was checking his phone while he said that, I asked your phone is weird? he said yeah right in a sarcastically tone. what do you reckon guys? he complimented me in a indirect way saying oh that chocolate bar was beautiful as much you are (he had bought us a choc bars in the ca...
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Posted Saturday July 29 2017, 4:50 pm
what does he mean when he asks,'do I have a chance with you?' I like him but not entirely sure about him. I'm just thinking he must have figured it out that I like him so just trying question me. I can't dare to say anything because we're good mates and taken. I do get the feelings that he likes me in some level because he won't chat and joke with other girls the way he does with me. I think he knows I'm into him or maybe is he just making totally sure that I like him so he's asking if he has a chance with me because he fancies me too? or what could it be? I don't get it. thank you for the answers
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do guy friends ever talks about sex with their female frends?
Posted Friday July 28 2017, 1:50 pm
Right, I'm sorry but it's little too long. known him for a year but we both have partners yet we do tease and joke. we just get along. he's got good sense of humour. very nice guy. basically, we can talk about any topics but not sex until he started to ask very recently, when I'm rushing with the project he asked like (jokey but not in a gross way) are you this wild in bed oh I like wild, I said I think I'm ok, told him come on, this is embarrassing chatting about the sex with you he said, we both are adults and we're friends so it shouldn't matter. I said ok but I'm little embarrassed, he said I'm sorry, won't bother you talking about sex then, that moment I couldn't resist and I ended up saying I love sex as I do and don't mind anytime, w...
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hate my life
Posted Wednesday July 26 2017, 7:46 pm
I hate my life, i hate who I have become. I don't want to life. How can i change, i want to kill myself.
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How to stop looking at every guy as a potential boyfriend?
Posted Wednesday July 26 2017, 3:33 pm
Do you guys have any tips on how to stop seeing guys as potential boyfriends? I dont have any guy friends but i want some now but everytime im around guys attractive or not i get tongue tied and awkward, then start to do anything in my power to avoid them. Please help thank you
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He said, I love you? Did he mean it?
Posted Wednesday July 26 2017, 9:04 am
My guy friend said, I love you and smiled like bit nervous smile, he's never said that before but as I was helping him with his few homeworks plus I always help him if I have time, he goes on says, I love you because you're a genuine girl. But when he said that he sounded like he's been actually wanting to say that for a while. I just said, thankyou. We both looked at each other. Guys should I ask him, did he really mean that or just testing my reaction? Being mates for a long time I think we do have a chemistry. Please help! Thanks
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He asks for a kiss!
Posted Tuesday July 25 2017, 4:20 pm
Hi,
why did he ask for a kiss (three times) before we finished our project? is it because we're not going to see each other for 3 days? we were joking and I asked him why, he said just want to give you a kiss because you're nice and kind girl, that's all. we've been friends for a long time. nice lad. we've hugged twice when we went for a few drinks ages ago(nothing happened) and gave me a kiss on the cheek. we get on fine. so, is it ok or weird to ask for a kiss to a female friend? do guys ask for a kiss to their female friends, normally? thank you for the input
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