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I dont understand him.


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 10:01 pm

This guy and I have been talkin for awhile now. We like each other. The only thing is that he is a sophmore and im a freshman. He doesnt like to hang around me when im with my freshman friends, and vis versa. Well today, we had a game (we do the same sport) and he didnt even come say hi to me. Then later i found out that he felt up another girl. I still like him, but i'm kinda pissed. Where not dating so maybe i shouldnt be, I just dont know what to do or what to say to him at this point. I'll rate well

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Im sO CoNfUsEd


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 9:55 pm

weLL i LiKe ThIs DuDe and i dont know if he likes me but we are talking and he was supposedly in love w/this other girl and he asked me 2 go 2 the movies las nite but i couldnt and today he "chilled' w/the gurl that hes in love with!! GRRRR!! i hate guys that just talk or w/e!! what do you think?

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Punk


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 9:03 pm

Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!

So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?

Thanxs girls...luvs you lots

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Phone Calls


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 9:00 pm

My dad won't let me date till im 16. Im only 14 right now and I have a boyfriend, and i have guy friends. My boyfriend called me this afternoon, and my dad heard the message he left me. All it said was his name and phone number, but my dad got mad. Then a little later, one of my guy friends called, and dad got even more mad. He said im too young to have guys calling me.

How can I convince my dad that im just friends with these guys? I really want to keep my friends, but he doesnt want me to hang out with guys. What do I do?



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This is long, but I rate well


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 8:11 pm

ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...

1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 8:09 pm

I see people at parties, or at the movies, or just see them talking and I get jealous because they're in such a good relationship and I'm not in one! I don't know what to do... I always think maybe I'll get a boyfriend soon, but it never happens... How to I get the people I like to notice me, and how do I get closer to having a relationship??

I'll rate!

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:50 pm

Okay, I like this guy a lot.. and he's mixed. That doesn't bother me, but a lot of my other good friends are rednecks! That's like the only kind of people I really hang out with. I used to be a HUGE redneck, and was really racist... but I'm not anymore, because there's no point in that. My friends are friends with him, but they wouldn't go out with him... what do I say to my friends? I don't want to lose them, because they're awesome.. but I really like this guy, and if I have a chance to go out with him, I want to. I just don't want my friends to say rude things about us and make fun of me... What do I do? I'LL RATE!!

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Guy Trouble...What Should I Do?¿


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:48 pm

Hey...im 14, a female, and just started the 9th grade a few weeks ago, there wis this one guy everyone was always talking about...all the girls from my middle school thought he was just SO hot but the girls from his middle school don't really care for him...well of course I had to fall for him...i've gotten a lot less shy when it comes to guy but I still have that "barrier" so like i got his sn and started talkin to him like the 4th week into school...I never really knew what to say to him b/c I didn't know him very well at ALL. (I love guy friends...and I wanted him to at least be one) Like he kinda seems to flirt with everyone ya know? but he flirts with me alot when i'm around him, it's akward...it's like i can't tell if he mea...

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:48 pm

I like 2 people a LOT!! One of them has a girlfriend, and the other one is my good friend. We're not BEST friends, but we talk a lot. I know that the first one is kind of out of my reach right now.. so I want to go for the second one! How do I get the second one to notice me as more than a friend?
-*I'll rate, thanks!*-

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:46 pm

There's this guy I like, and I've known him for a while now. I went out with him about a year ago, and we broke up after a month because a misunderstanding. He was so shy and everything, and I was the first one to break him out of that. We had something special.. and I was the one to break it off, so it was my fault. After that, I STILL liked him.. and I still do. It's been over a year!! But I don't know what to do.. should I talk to him? And if I do, what should I say? I'm not the hottest person in the world, and I want to know how to get his attention, and make him come talk to me! Help!! *I rate*

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PLEASE HELP!!!!!


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:00 pm

sorry if its long!! ok. there is this gurl umm lets call her jenn* i used to like her, but when i got with my boyfriend, i found out some stuff that they did like umm..have sex in his truck. (this was back like 2 years ago and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and havent done anything with him) ((she broke his glove compartment door by the way when they were doin it.lol)) ok well..everytime i think about it, i get sooo jealous/mad! i mean he dont like her or anything and always calls her a whore, which she does do a lot of ppl. well anyways..but i just dont know how to stop being so worried and stuff about it. ya see.. i saw her last night at the fair and we got on the same ride. she was 2 seats down from me. i didnt know she s...

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 6:47 pm

this uy asked me and my friend is going out with him what should i do


signed
comfussed

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in love?


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 4:58 pm

Last year I met this amazing guy. We never went out, but i knew he liked me. We had a lot of fun together in class. This year he is in none of my classes. On the first day of school at lunch, our eyes met for 2 seconds. I felt so hurt. Then this year my friend told him I liked him. He said "Yeah I thought she liked me" He is hanging out with a guy who smoked pot last year. I'm afraid the guy I like will start it too, but I know he isn't into that and never will be. Lately I've been having so many dreams about him. I thought he was just a crush and I would get over him, but I can't. He means more to me than any guy has before. Should I forget him or keep on trying?

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 3:55 pm

OK here we go!! I am going out with my neighbor who is also going out with one of my best friends!! I know this but my friend doesnt so!! I cant tell anyone! Well we were outside and he was with his friend and he told his friend and my little sister that they were it and whispered in his friends ear that me and him were going to hise together and make out!! well we did and his friend later that night got my friend and his girlfriend cell phone number and is saying that he is going to call her and tell her about us!! And last night when i tried to talk to my bf he was like all pissed off but i think it was because my cousin was with me and he is kinda shy!! And he wants me to give him head or a hand job!! Sooo how do you do both of those??

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HELP!!!!


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 2:42 pm

Theres this boi that i like a lot .. well we went out for a month nd i knew that i loved him .. he was a really great BF nd the only reason we broke up was cause of a rumor .. well i cry sometimes over him but ive gottin better but i still cry .. i kno that i love him .. then theres this boi that i talked to nd well i found it was one of his friends nd i was talkin to him bout the boi i like nd all nd he was like i kno him nd i asked omse questions nd hes like my bff now nd we talk a lot nd hes awesome nd all but then he told the boi i like that he talked to me nd the boi that i like said awesome tell her to kall me .. nd i was on the computer nd he got on nd i get scared wen it ocmes to tlakin to him cause i never kno if i should or not ca...

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Homecoming Dance-To Go or Not To Go...


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 1:58 pm

Hello all,I'm new to this site and I need advice so I'm hoping you guys on here can be helpful. Here is my story..

Me and this girl (I'll call her Mallory) have been talking for about a month now. She asked me to go with her to her homecoming dance next weekend (we attend different schools). Well,I told her yeah until I found out who was gonna be there. This guy I have alot of beef with will be there,and I know all he's gonna do is start mess and try to get me to fight him. I'm not gonna fight him at the Homecoming dance because I don't wanna get arrested plus that'll just make both of us look low life. Besides that,she goes to a private school which means alot of preppy people will be there. All in all,I really don't want to go,but I already told her yes. What should I do?

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Homecoming Date


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 12:10 pm

Well... last night I was at a football game with my best friends. We ran into one of their ex-boyfriends. She has been trying to set me up with him.. but I had never met him before that.
Him and I really hit it off. One of my best friends went to watch the game (his ex) so I walked around with my other friend.
The guy and I were first talking.. and then he gave me a hug and we were walking around with our arms around each other. My best friend left with some other girls to talk to someone.. and left me alone with this guy. While she was gone, he kissed me... Well.. we were kissing when she came back.. and she got mad. I went to find out why she was mad... she said i could do better than a guy like him.

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Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 12:09 pm

well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx

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boy trouble


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 11:44 am

ok im having trouble attracting boys, i have brown hair brown eyes and glasses, my skin is a light tan, im not sure what kind of makup and hair styles to use but what im doing now is not working. do anyof you have ideas on attracting guys? please help thanks a lot
**hailey**
oh ya im 14/f

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I Wish I Could Rewind Time...=(


Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 10:56 am

I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he to...

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