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nanny
Posted Sunday October 23 2005, 1:47 pm
I CANT TAKE IT. My grandma is such a neat freak and when i set something down in one room and go to another, next thing know the things got moved and I hate it when my stuff gets moved. Oh. and another thing is shes bitching all the time.
She babysits this one kid named jordy and it seems like she likes him better. What should I do?
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i cannot stand my dad
Posted Sunday October 23 2005, 10:17 am
sorry this is long, and full of profanities, but i seriously cant take it anymore.
hey i dont know who is going to be up at 10 oclock on a Sunday, but of course i am. You see, i really hate my dad. Time after time he makes me so pissed off and annoyed at him, and i just cannot stand it. Like this morning, he wakes me up at 8 30 to go to church, and then he fucking leaves without me because i "wasnt ready!" Now i have to go by myself and after church i was supposed to have plans with my friend i havent seen in 2 months and i cant even do that! This morning i was writing an away message and he tells my little sister to turn off the computer because i was on for too long and i was "ignoring him" so she turns ...
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Posted Saturday October 22 2005, 10:53 am
ok my parents were divorced about 4 months ago and my dad is already trying to put another woman in her life. i think hes a complete jerk right now but i really don't kno what to do because i don't want her in our life but i want my dad to be happy. sooo please help me if it makes any sense to you please thnx
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my dad is a real jerk
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 2:20 pm
ok my parents are divorced and my dad lives in new york and my mom lives in ohio. well my dad invited me to live with him in 8th grade (because my mom was getting remarried and i hated the guy). so i moved in with him and my stepmom. Well, by christmas time she had kicked me out beacuse she didnt like me, so i had to live with my mom and stepdad. my dad LET HER kick me out like that. i lived with my mom and graduated high school with my fair share or fighting with ym stepdad. then my dad invited me back out to live with him to go to college. Well i moved in and my stepmom and i got along at first. then she started getting bitchy towards me. so i got a job. but that wasnt good enough for her! and i had put off college for a while so that i c...
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Where is he?
Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 1:23 pm
I have lived with my mom since i was born. I don't know my father because my mother and him broke up before i was born. It really bothers me and i have mood swings now. I will be happy but then someone will say something and i get really upset. I have talked to my mom about not knowing my father and how much i really want to meet him but all she says is "he is an asshole and you dont want to meet him" which always leaves my crying myself to sleep. What should i do because i really want to meet him?
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Missed period
Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 12:34 pm
My mate and her boyfriend have been sleeping together for a while and she told me today that she missed her period which was ment to start last wednesday, so a week ago. She had unprotected sex with her boyfriend about a month ago but has had a period since then, but she had sex with him using a condom just the other week, I just want to know what the likelyhood is she will be pregnant and what other causes there could be to her missing her period when she isnt stressed and is usually as regular as clockwork
Thanks muchly xx
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Why won't my sister listen to me?
Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 6:23 am
Ok. 13/m. I don't know if this question goes under Families or Work/School Relationships. Sorry it's so long. I'm really worried for my sister (14/f). She just found her first date at school this year. They went to the movies and all. My sister was just sitting there waiting for him to do something. She had her arm on the armrest the whole time waiting for him to hold it or something. She bought Junior Mints "just in case"---didn't use a single one. She could've talked to me. I've been asking and answering Advicenator questions for months now. I pretty much know what's going to happen and the pains she's going to feel. But no. She doesn't like to tell me stuff. Instead, she tells our cousin, who has serious boy problems. Boys rule...
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HELPP!!
Posted Tuesday October 18 2005, 2:51 pm
Ok last night my sisters bouyfriend raped me. He said that the only reason that he was dating my sister was to get closer to me and that he watched me all the time. I haven't told anyone yet because I am scared and my sister is always telling me how much she loves him and that she wants to marry him. And I know that I should tell her because he is a jerk and I dont want her to make any wrong decisions but I can't because I dont want to break her heart. How can I tell her and my family that he raped me?? Because everyone in our family thinks he is a great guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone but he hurt me and I don't know if my family will believe me and my sister might think that I am just making this all up because I am jealous....
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Posted Tuesday October 18 2005, 11:15 am
Ive been single for a fiew months now and I have been screwed over twice pretty badly by guys. The first guy told me he loved me and then i found out that on a night when i was suposed to be with him he had sex with a girl 4 times! the other time was more recently. I had been hanging out with a guy more often and he would put his hand around my waist and pull me close and want me to stand next to him so he could hold me and stuff and then i found out he was with another girl also! I was crushed both times. But moreso the first time then the second. Its hurt me badly and brought my self asteem down even lower!
My question Is basicly What are some ways I could make myself more confident? I have been told if you are confident with ...
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Domestic Violence...
Posted Tuesday October 18 2005, 7:02 am
My sister-in-law *Chelsey* is just turned 18, her husband is 24. She has a 2 year old and a 4 month old. Her husband beats her, and everytime someone helps her she lies and says "I fell down the stairs." He's been in jail, has no license and is on probation for known violence. We want to help her when she asks, but how do we help? Can we help? We're at the end of our rope, and are about ready to call SRS, those children don't need this life. She doesn't need him, but those kids need HER! Please help? I don't want to take those kids away...
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My brother likes my best friend
Posted Tuesday October 18 2005, 12:58 am
My brother just broke up with his gf of almost a year and isn't sure if they'll get back together. For a while people (my mom and dad, family friend) have asked if he likes my friend Nicole because whenever she's over they joke around a lot and he teases her. I've talked to her about this and she has said she doesn't like him like that...it would be weird because he's my brother. He says he doesn't want to date her but he likes her and is attracted to her. This really upsets me because she's my BEST friend. He thinks I'm being immature and that Nicole really does like him. Help!
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I dont get it!!!
Posted Sunday October 16 2005, 11:02 pm
13/f OK my dad can be so moody somtimes. Like a moment he'll be happy and fun and stuff and the next if I do somthing wrong he'll be all mad. When it comes to boys its really bad. I live right next to these boys who im friends with and somtimes he'll be like ok go ahead outside with them and then another time he'll be like tell them no I dont like you out there with no boys and I hate because I don't get him. And I can't talk with him because I know I can't talk to him about everything and I dont like writing him letters. How can I get him to trust me with boys because it's not like I do anything with them. So please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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parents 2 loud
Posted Saturday October 15 2005, 3:18 pm
i no this is disgussting but i need 2 ask sum1.
mai parents do it and they do it rilly loud. ive hinted n sayd "mom i couldnt sliip last nite' but she dusnt git it.
how can i tell her (cauze i do NOT wanna ask mai dad bcauze that would b akwurd) that she n mai dad need 2 shut up wen they do it bcauze its gross n i cant sliip.
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constant fighting.
Posted Friday October 14 2005, 9:52 pm
my parents and I ALWAYS fight. Right when I turned 13 they started becoming so overprotective. They track my e-mails, text messages, and phone calls. They won't let me hang out with my friends either. I got invited to Washington with my BFF for Fall Break and of course they said No. When I asked why they started yelling at me and grounded me for " being a brat. " I can't take it anymore. I'm stuck in my room everynight for the dumbest reasons like, I got an 83% on a math test (apparently a B isnt good enough ). I CANT TAKE IT. pleasee help, I'd really like it.
PS: I've never been a bad kid. I'm responsible, great in school, I don't get into trouble or do drugs or anything. SO why did they become so overprotective ?
thnks bunches.
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Divorce
Posted Friday October 14 2005, 9:14 pm
I want to know how i can solve my problems like what should i do to convince my dad that he did something bad?
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BIG PROBLEM
Posted Friday October 14 2005, 6:51 pm
My mom is starting to get REDICULOUS. First off, a couple weeks ago, I stayed home from school because I was sick. She grounded me for 4-5 days. Then on wednesday, I came home from school 1 1/2 hours early because my back hurt and I was practically in tears and then on the way home she told me I was grounded for the weekend for coming home early. Does anyone else find this rediculous? I was supposed to go to a dance tonight but then she told me no because I came home early on Wednesday and said I was faking and it was only "period cramps" even though I have my period at the end of the month. Can someone please tell me something to do?? I'm starting to get depressed because I can never do anything anymore.
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am i being rude.
Posted Friday October 14 2005, 1:54 am
Ok, i am 20 yrs old and i have a child and a boyfriend. He is a big mamas boy. His mom lives down the street about 3 min to drive there. His sister lives across the street. So i see his family at least once a day.(no joke) My family lives across town so i dont get to see them as much. I like his family but then theres time i really dont. His mother i fell always puts me down in a nice way, but maybe thats just me. Everybody kinda aggures with me and i start not to like them. Am a person who takes things to heart and they like to joke alot and make fun of people. Im just asking is it right for me to not like them so much since i see them all the time or am i just being selfish of the love that my boyfriend has for his family?
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i just had sex should i tell my mom?
Posted Wednesday October 12 2005, 4:58 pm
Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks
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getting old
Posted Wednesday October 12 2005, 8:16 am
heyy well heres the thing .. i'm getting old and i haven't started to shave my legs yet. with winter coming up i can wear long pants but in gym, we have to change into uniforms that are shorts. all the popular and good looking guys are in my gym class and i don't want them to get any wrong impressions .. i want to bring this up with my mom but it really gets uncomfortable talking about puberty and such .. i really need some help! thanks ahead of time !
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Fighting
Posted Tuesday October 11 2005, 10:06 pm
My parents are ALWAYS fighting with my older sister. I've always been the "good" child so I don't normally get in fights with my parents. But the problem is that I hate it when they all fight it just REALLY breaks me down and sometimes I just need to talk to someone that understands!! And I don't really want to talk to my guidence counciler at school.I have this really close friend that I tell everything and she can TOTALLY relate to me but I think I need a little more!! What can I do???? Please help me!!! I need ALL the advice I can Get!!
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