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Kissing
Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 7:03 pm
Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile and i think he wants to kiss me becuase he always leans in and i pull back because i really dont want to kiss yet cuz i think its to early. I already had my first kiss and it sucked becuase i didnt even know that guy. And i want this one to be special. And my boyfriend doesnt know i have kiss someone and he hasnt kissed any one so. My friend thinks he will get mad because i already kissed someone. Should i not like make a big deal about it? I mean its not that big a deal that i kiss someone and he hasnt he should get over it. Its not like the kisses that i got a big deal they didnt mean anything to me and his will because we are really close. So should i tell him that i kissed someone ...
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abuser?
Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 9:59 am
ok i no my mom is not a child abuser or anything but the thing is she curses at me a lot like says for no reason sometimes when she thinks i am acting self absorbed she will say things like you f*** b*****. What should i do about it i mean sometimes once in a while she will hit me but its not serious or anything and when she does she always appoligieses. Also i love her to death and we are best friends except when she fights. What should i do and sorry this is long so i will rate for every good answer? thanks for your help
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Posted Monday October 31 2005, 11:42 pm
I’m 13, in the 8th grade, and have a guilty pleasure. I’ve been raised in an intellectual household, with both parents having a Ph.D. Generally, I don’t watch T.V. So I was at my friend’s sleepover birthday party with 7 other girls, and she rented the First Season of the O.C. We watched 4 episodes---and I liked it! I feel kind of guilty, because I know that technically, the show is for advertising and eye-candy with a plot. But I can’t help it. That blonde what’s-his-face that stole a car and set a house on fire is really good looking. And it keeps me at the edge of my seat. Now I’m addicted! What should I do? Am I shallow for liking this?
Thanks
Cheyenne
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my evil step- sis.
Posted Monday October 31 2005, 8:29 pm
ok... i have a step family that i live with. like i live with my mom and with my step dad and with 3 step sisters. i get along really well with all of them but the youngest one(jody) is a little younger than me. we get along pretty good infact we are pretty close.sometimes. but other times she gets mad at me for like the simpelist thngs. like if i were to just be like wow your ugly, and then say just kidding she would get mad at me. or something like that.but im older than her. shes not supposed to boss me around. but if i say something to her or talk back to her she tells her mom(which absolutely hates me)and then jody gets even madder at me. just help me please. im sick of getting bossed around of somebody younger than me. help!
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my head is so messed up
Posted Monday October 31 2005, 8:09 am
this may take a while but please help
when i was younger i was sexually abused by my grandad (my mums dad), the i got sexually abused by my brothers friend then i lad i used to no tryed it on with me and he frightened me and i said not but he forced me to do things with him it did not used to bother me but now i cant stop thinking about it and it up sets me and when i was about 7 my mum nearly died of cancer i lost my auntie and my grandad ( my dads dad) through cancer my mum and dad have split up and now my other grandad (mums step dad) is having strokes everyweek and i think he is going to dye i am getting my life on track just got a new job and every thing but my past is getting in my way i cant even go out and have fun any more ...
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HElp my cuz
Posted Sunday October 30 2005, 7:10 pm
Me and my cuzin have been best friends since I was born. He also is really cocky. He always tells me how horrible I am at everything I try. Sometimes I can try really hard to impress him, but everytime he tells me I suck. Two nights ago I rode a mechanical bull and rode it all the way through. Wen my turn was over I got off and he yelled over everybody..."Kelsie you suck!" I about cried. I walked by him and tolled him he was a douche and I never wanted to speak to him again. Last night was a dance and he tried talking to me about how I..I over reacted!!! I told him I was sick of his shit and now we aren't speaking! Wat can I do?
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Posted Sunday October 30 2005, 6:42 pm
a couple of people in my family have died in the last 2 years, and some people in my family smoke "a pack a day". i'm really worried that they will get really sick and i won't get to see them again, but i don't know how to express my concern to anyone
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My Bubba
Posted Sunday October 30 2005, 5:49 pm
Well my brother Blake died almost 8months ago. He was only 24 and thats wats the worst part of it. My brother was really well liked and always smiling. He was good looking and was always teasing me. Now that he is gone I find myself crying over things that make no since. Im' in more fights with my parents and everybody keeps saying Ive changed. Well There has also been alot of memorials for him and i don't want to go to em and all my parents can say is your so selfish. I don't wanna go cuz it hurts so bad. I tell them that tooo. Wat should I do to keep them from thinking I'm selfish?
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Posted Saturday October 29 2005, 10:57 pm
I won't really be shocked of nobody answers this, because it feels so unanswerable. But, my sister had a friend in my grade, and the friend talked really bad about my sister. So I told her it was bugging me, and she was really rude to me about it and used profanity in front of people at school. I ended up crying in the hall, and the next day my sister talks to her again when she knew I stuck up for her in a crowd of people. In other words, she doesn't care, I saw her talking to the girl today and I just wanted to scream and cry. Theres really no ending to her selfishness. I can't tell anyone, because it's a very long story, my mom doesn't care, my dad has no control. I'm just wondering how I can deal with my sister and mom treating me like ...
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haloween
Posted Saturday October 29 2005, 2:44 pm
okay im just wonderin do you think its still okay to go trick or treating at age 14... because like my parents say that i should not go, and i still think i can go..i dont think that i am too old do you..??? i mean u can never get enough free candy right???? well thanks soo much.. and i do rate.!! heatz.. mwah!! and thanks again..!!
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what do you do??
Posted Saturday October 29 2005, 5:21 am
well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help..
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ugh, I am such a typical teen with mom issues
Posted Saturday October 29 2005, 2:04 am
Well, I am scared to death of my mom for no apparent reason. I am scared to do school work while she is awake because she might get mad at me. I hate to ever get money from her. It is so bad that I fear to even get a ride from her because I have this big fear of guilt. Isn't that hopelessly pathetic? I don't know why but I feel that if I let her do anything for me, that I am being a shitty child. Please someone else tell me that I am not just crazy or weird or someone else tell me that they have this issue.
15/m
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Gramma dying and Im not sad ... =/
Posted Friday October 28 2005, 4:09 pm
Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help!
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i cant stand living here!!
Posted Friday October 28 2005, 2:30 pm
13/f
ive lived with my grandparents for 13 years and just a few months ago i moved in with my mom and her boyfriend. i REALLY miss living with my grandparents and i feel like my moms trying to take me away from them. sometimes ill ask my mom if i can stay the night with my grandparents and she says no. we fight and argue every single night and im so sick and tired of it. i cry myself to sleep everynight because of her and her boyfriend. her b/f is so rude to me too. i try to talk to her about this but every time i try we get in another argument. i talk to my grandparents about it and they undersatnd but they dont know what to do. i just cant stand living with my mom and her boyfriend. if anyone can tell me what i can do besides talk to my mom please help me.
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Hysterical crying
Posted Thursday October 27 2005, 6:08 pm
This morning my dad got angry at me. The reason isn't really important. He threw the waffle that was eating at my shirt and got butter all over me. I was upset because he had the nerve to throw a waffle at me, and also because I was excited to wear the outfit that I had picked out to school. I started crying and I couldn't stop. Keep in mind that I have my period now. I was still crying when I got out of the car, and still crying when I was in homeroom. Of course, everyone was staring at me and wondering why my eyes were all puffy. My teacher suggested I go to the nurse, so I did and stayed there for half of first period. I was really happy by the time I was surrounded by my friends. First of all, I felt like an idiot because the people in ...
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Broken
Posted Thursday October 27 2005, 5:08 pm
I'm glad I can let this out and no one will know who I am or bug me about it, but I really need someone to talk to. I've been broken for years upon years, my elementary school life was alright yet I always seemed to be the loner kid who did stupid things to get attention yet was never acknowledged. When I changed schools, it made me sad that the card I had received from my classmates was only made because we do that to everyone who goes away, that the words they said to me were false and untrue. In my new school, the very first day I was tormented and they hit me with carrots at lunch time and beat me up in recess. During lunch time wen i went to the washroom they emptied out my backpacks contents in the schoolyard and burried my pencil...
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Talking to this guy that is .....
Posted Wednesday October 26 2005, 10:49 pm
ok well I am talking to a really good friend of mine and he is 19 we talk on the phone and he works at a fancy constrution place...well my dad asked who he was and I told him but I met him on the internet and we talk on the phone about 2 times a day...my dad is strick to who I talk to...and how old they have to be...WHY??? he is 19 and I am 16!!!! but I did something I think was wrong, I told my dad he was 17 insteed of his true age 19...and he said for me to be careful to who I talk to ... well my sister told them his true age and my mom got on to me right after I got off the phone with him.....what do I do???? and why dont they want me to talk to a guy that is 19???
PLEASE HELP
-BlondeChic163-
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my mom
Posted Tuesday October 25 2005, 10:21 pm
my mom is getting my back all the time about her husband he ain't my dad he is my step dad...she always be saying all this stuff i can't take it.. can some body help me...i will rate good
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My mom is sick and its so stressful pls help me!!
Posted Tuesday October 25 2005, 10:12 pm
ok here it goes...My mom had a disease which you call Gillian Bereau in 2001 and she almost died from this and she finally got over this but not fully now we have found out she has lupus but not tha bad kind yet but its still bad and it could get real bad if she dont treat it...She cant swollow nothing she lives off on icecream and boost because something is wrong with her throat that causes her not to be able to swollow nothing so she cant take the pills...im not that healthy myself i have alot of problems and im a 15yr old so im going through the rough times like friend troubles and relationship stuff and now im stayin really stressed out and i dont know what to do about it please help!!
15/Female
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sister can't stand me
Posted Monday October 24 2005, 1:36 am
I have a younger sister, she is 23 and I'm 27. We've never gotten along and I really wish someday that will change.
Part of the problem is that she has always been jealous of me. She is obese, at least 50 pounds heavier then me and is shorter by 4 inches. She's never had a boyfriend or alot of female friends, and I have.
I try to phone her sometimes and have a nice conversation but It's hard for me to be nice to her, because she'll say things like '"what do you want", or "stop calling". She's even been as rude as to correct my grammer.
She has a university degree and all I have is a highschool diploma so she likes to rub this in my face.
The latest thing is that I was asked to be a bride...
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