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SO PISSED OFF WITH MY PARENTS!
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 8:29 pm
ok so no offence but im kinda what people call a "computer whiz" or something dumb like that. but that doesnt mean I kno EVERYTHING THERE IS TO KNOW ABOUT CMPUTERS like bill gates.trust me everyone thinks im wonderful but i dont know that much. so all of a sudden my mom wants me to make xmas pics for her. so i go to do it cause i thought it was the least i could do. but, my dad being mr. cheapo bought the clearence printer for like 50 bucks. and it sucks and we just got it! so im trying to explain ro my parents that i tried and tried to fix the dam thing but it wont work!!!!! so there all mad and they are like "if it was for you, you would do it in a sec" but OMG i have no idea whats wrong with the printer!! im tried r...
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how to signal
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 2:48 pm
my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and we think its time we make out. how can i signal to her that its time to make out? im 14 and shes 13 and she has made out before.can someone plesase help me?
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my sister..
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 2:19 pm
Me and my sister are pretty close. She tells me everything, I tell her everything. I'm 15 and she's 17 almost 18. My sister had a boyfriend for almost 3 years. He's completly rude. I never liked him one bit. He pushed my sister into a chair AT OUR HOUSE and she started crying and he ran off. Like..left our house. He always cussed at her and they almost argued everyday. They broke up 11 months ago. Once they broke up, he got another girlfriend , and my sister went balistic on him and he threatened to call the police on her. Again, that was 11 months ago..And they haven't spoken since..
My sister met this one guy who is gorgeous. He's really sweet and i think he's good for her. They've been "talking". I like him and i...
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Hiding in my own house
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 10:23 am
I'm married, and my husband and I rent a house from my parents. I'm 20, and my husband is 21. They've been pretty generous by offering us the house over other renters, and giving us a lower rent. They insist of holding a copy of the house key for emergencies, which is fine with me.
Here's the problem. Lately, they've been letting themselves in without knocking. After my husband and I come home from work and put the baby in bed, we tend to sit around...not completely clothed. More than once now, they've caught us like this; once just walking around naked and twice being intimate.
But maybe worse, they let themselves in when we're not home. I don't think they mean any harm, but they come in, look around, borrow o...
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im not sure if this would be considered abuse or not
Posted Sunday December 18 2005, 9:17 pm
my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!
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Bedroom
Posted Sunday December 18 2005, 8:14 pm
I have a uncle (48) who came to visit me(female 25). I was showing him around my condo and he would not enter my bedroom area. what does this mean. this confused me! Could you help me to understand why he did that? Thank You Gems
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Forgotten christmas present
Posted Sunday December 18 2005, 7:14 am
I'm a university student living away from home and I've just returned to my family home for the Christmas period. I brought home a bag of presents, but it appears that one present slipped out from where it was stored before I brought it home (I don't think I've lost it, just left it behind).
The gift in question should have been half the present I'd be giving to my elder sister. Should I buy something else, or would it be acceptable to give her the remaining half when I next see her, around the 8th of January? As it's half of the present she'd still have something from me under the tree on Christmas day, but I feel bad for being disorganised and wonder if I should get her another token thing so that it doesn't appear that ...
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Me?!
Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 11:51 pm
Hey well my parents are gettin a divorce and sense then i have had to put alot of things aside for myself. Like i love playin sports i have played basketball, soccer, v-ball, track, cross country i meen alot of sports and sense my parents are getting a divorce i have to watch my brother an sister alllll the time!! So i wasn't able to do stuff "sports" that i wanted to do and sense then i never get to do anything 4 me what should i do?? My parents don't even let me go out on weekends i feel like cinderella i work all day and night and never get thanked and my parents won't let me go out with my prince Charming!!
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Trouble
Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 5:01 pm
My parents are in cali and my sister , her boyfriend, and her baby live in our basement last night i snuck a boy in and my sister caught me she was constantly yelling at me like she was my mother and telling me i was a slut. She keeps threatining that she will tell my mom and dad which i know she wont unless i make her mad again. No one in the house will talk to me and i dont want my sister to be mad at me anymore and i dont want her to tell my parents. I wish i could turn back time but i know i cant does anyone have any ideas?
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how can I help my friend realize the truth?
Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 3:24 am
I have a friend who is still friends with this really awful woman. It was so bad between me and this woman that I had to put a block on my phone. She was abusive to me, she backstabbed me, she monopolized my time and tried to control me. She would break into my email account and delete things from my family. This is embarrasing to say but she even tried to seduce me a couple of times She is a real bitch and told me once that I didnt want to get on her bad side or she'd black mail me. I met her at a volunteer center when I was on welfare. My parents hated her and told me to drop her.
Well I finally did and was she ever mad!! I had to stop volunteering at the centre and stop going to the same places as her. She still badmouths me ...
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x mas gifts for my mom and dad
Posted Friday December 16 2005, 6:48 pm
i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of somthing i should get my parents. i would preferable like to make them something, because there is no way i can buy somthing from the store with out one of them being there. any ideas? thanks,
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my mom
Posted Friday December 16 2005, 4:54 pm
ok my mom is always with a differ guy and i know she doesnt want to be sigle all her life but i try to get along with her and she dosent even try to get a long with me i cant tell her ANYTHING about me and my life or what goes on at school and she believes all the rumors around my neiabor hood that say i am a slut and people go up to my moms work and says watch your daughter and i dont know what to do please HELP with every thing and my dad said he was going to get me this weekend the weekend before x-mas but he didnt well i am very up set please help and my mom is with a guy that is still married and she has been spending more time with him instead of us well the guy is getting a devorice but my mom needs to work with us and trying to b...
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Money Issues
Posted Friday December 16 2005, 12:29 pm
We used to have more money, but ever since my dad got hurt- we don't have much money. I know my parents are trying to hide it from me and my older brother. But, it's obvious. They barely had enough money to buy christmas presents and food this month. If you offer them money, they turn it down. Any ideas on how I can help? My parents each work 2 jobs.
I rate 5's for any help at ALL.
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Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 8:02 pm
Yes i have kinda of a problem...
so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked my him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..ad then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love
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caught in the middle
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:11 pm
hello every1 well indeed2 is back once again, it has been a few months i am so sorry...well i cannot find the advice for myself...and i desperatly need it... this is how it goes!
okay so my parents got a divorce when i as six...i was young and vulnerable and had no idea what was going on...anyways my mom is now sueing my dad because she wants the money...her dad (my grandfather) hates my sister dad and me and wants us to suffer...he has munipulated my mothers mind, and now my mom (who her father was a judge!) won the court case...she even cheated on my father and my father still lost even though he was always faithful during their mirrage...also she is crazy...i dont hate her like my dad and my sister but im disappointed in h...
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to choose or not to choose
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 9:33 am
My mom and dad separated and last year had a fight about me going to New York. Since that i have spoken to him but havent gone to visit him but he comes to see me at school. The problem is he is upset that i dont come to his house and i feel sad that i made him feel that way but i dont want to go because all he is going to do is pressure me with school work and i dont want that because i want to hangout with friends. I really dont want him feeling that way and i want to visit him so waht should i do.
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Helping a 3 year old boy
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 8:21 am
My son got married to a young woman who is the oldest of 8 children. His wife Penny is a wonderful young woman but her mother has these 8 children ages 3, 15, 16, 17, 19, 21, 23, 26 have several different father's and their mother always depended on the oldest daughter to handle everything. Now that this daughter is gone the whole family is falling apart. The mother goes gambling every night and the 3 year old is left alone. Last night my son and his wife Penny went over and the 3 year old little boy was in is under pants alone in the basement with a party going on on the top floor with the teenagers. He was cold and hungry. My son does not know what to do as they are expecting their own child in two weeks and really did not want to t...
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What do i do ??? i hate my dad
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 3:57 pm
I really need some help. I don’t get on with my dad at all. I hate him. I haven’t spoke to him for over 3 months despite the fact we live in the same house.
Ever since I was little I have always had arguments with my dad and now this time I have just decided to completely ignore him.
When i was younger he could never just tell me off. He had to pin me down on the floor and scream in my face. And most of the time he was telling me off for stuff I hadn’t even done!
He always blames me for every thing. I have 3 other brothers and sisters but not matter what has happened it was my fault and he still is like that. I get blamed for everything, no mater who's done it or what they have done.
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weed
Posted Tuesday December 13 2005, 4:37 pm
ok my dad does weed and i just know my mom does it too. and well they are always saying how much they hate people that do drugs and here they do it. well i hear that if your parents smoke and stuff well the kids are liable to start and well i smoke ciggaretts and my parents dont know about it. my point is will i start doing drugs since they do? an help will work thanks jennie
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run away
Posted Tuesday December 13 2005, 4:28 pm
ok i have been thinking about running away for awhile. and well i ave tried to before but the girl that wa going with me decided she wanted to go back(she was chickening out) and so well i walked her back and we were almost already to a different town when she decided to go back and well i got caught and my parents didnt realize that i was trying to run away until i told my grandma when i stayed at her house for the weekend. and i asked my mom if i could live with my grandma and my mom was gonna let me cause i told her that it would make me happier and my grandma totally understood and comforted me all the way.well my mom was actually gonna let me live with my grandma she just said well i will have to transfor u to the other scholl. but my...
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