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he touched my breast in public!
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 3:45 am
I was at the grocery store earlier today to do some shopping. While I was standing in the frozen foods section this guy came up to me that I know from my toastmasters club. He's a lot older than me, I think he's 50. I am only in my 20's. Well first he came up behind me and suprised me. Then he walked up to me and stood really close to me to talk, like WAY too close I felt like he was close enough to have kissed me. After we finished talking he put his hand over my bomber jacket, and it was right on top of my right breast!! Then he looked at me seductively and told me he'd see me in the new year.
I was shocked he did that, I know he is married. How should I act around him from now on? I don't want to say anything to anyone el...
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being myself.
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 8:21 pm
so. this was my first year in high school and in public school. i was "shy" and quiet in class. I did make soem friends though. It just feels like in school all the girls look the same and than u have me who has my own style and stuff. People are saying im "weird" and making up rumors just because i stick out. I have brown hair and green eyes and people just think im weird because im not afraid to be myself. Am i doing the right thing?
<3 C
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Is there anyway to figure this out?
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 7:43 pm
I dont know who I am, and if i do i dont like it, i hurt someone who meant a lot to me and i kept doing it and i hate who i am, i'm not even quite sure who i am, my friend doesnt want to be friends with me anymore and i cant stop crying i dont really know what to do and how do i found out who i am?????
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worried I havent accomplished enough before my hs reunion
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:58 pm
I'm 27 years old and my ten year highschool reunion is coming up in the new year. Well I feel that by my age I should have acomplished more than I have.
For one thing, I'm still single and don't own my own home or have children. I thought by now that I'd be married, have either a successful career or be a housewife.
All I have is a ten year old car, a small appartment that I rent, a part time job that doesnt pay that good, and some nice furniture and lots of movies, cds, and large television and computer. Maybe I shouldnt complain, I guess things could be worse. Some people from my class are in jail, or had to move back in with there parents for financial reasons, or became single parents.
How can I feel better abo...
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need communication skills
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:01 pm
I dont really have friends and I know its all about conversation but I kinda get stuck on what to talk about. I dont do anything during vacations or weekends. What should I do to get me communicating better
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I'm afraid of my boss
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 4:33 pm
I love my job and the people I work with. The money is nice too. I don't HAVE to work because I am on a disability pension for having schixophrenia but I WANTED to go back to work because I needed more money and was getting bored. No one at the job knows about my disability by the way.
Well the problem is that even though I really enjoy my job and I'm good at it ( I'm a sales associate in the clothing department) my boss can be very intimidating and downright MEAN. I've heard from the other girls that she has sweared at people when there stuff was in her way. She yelled at me about two months ago for holding the clothing wrong. Well we had been getting along a little bit better the last couple of weeks but on boxind day she blas...
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hateing myself
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:19 am
i realy dont even know y i am so freaked out i have so so much to be thankful for a great family great friends an awsoem bf but none of that helpes me i always just look in the mere and hate myslef the way i look the dumbest possible things i pick out everything that is wrong mayeb even not wrong i see it from i think i am realy fat, to i am ugly, to my smile is horrible and lamest of them all my butt is shaped weird im not depressed been there doen that i used to cut myself but i opened my eyes and relized how much it was hurting the pl areound em and myself so i will never go back to that or anything like that. hateing the way i look is one of the worst feelings i know ill think i look realy hot one minute but then it shadders ill ne at t...
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Highschool next year
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 9:14 pm
I am male/14
Next year I'm starting high school. Everyone who goes to my school now is going to another highschool than I am. Should I be worried about starting all over? I mean, I'm going to be losing a lot of friends soon. It's just going to be sad on the last day of school when I have to say good bye to all my friends. Help me Please!
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Best friend and Ex-Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 1:28 pm
My name is Alex, I am a female, and I’m thirteen years old.
Well I have this friend I knew since the 5th grade, and now we are in the 8th grade, and she has changed, a lot. And she has been telling me I changed but I think it's the opposite, she's changed! She has gotten meaner than ever since Elementary school. Anyways, the day before a dance at our school, I told her that I like a guy that she knows & that is in every single one of her classes. May I add, he is also my ex-boyfriend. But then when the dance came, she started dancing with the guy I like. I got pretty mad, after all, she knows I like him and she just dances with him in front of me! I don’t know what to do, I am not going out with the guy, but I like hi...
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I'm worried I might get fired
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 2:57 am
I had to work today for the huge boxing day sale at our store. My shift started a 8 in the morning. For the first 6 hours things were going well, but the last hour of my shift was a nightmare. My boss called me to the back and told me to finish pricing some items on the shelf that hadnt been marked down yet. Then she drilled me about why the work hadnt been finished on christmas eve. I told her that it had been extremely busy with customers and that one of the staplers broke down that we were using to tag onto the clothing. She didnt buy it and said " oh so thats your explanation? " She asked me what I did about the stapler and I told her I talked to one of the managers and then she asked for her name and what she told me. ...
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Is this harrassment?
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 3:09 am
I was at work the other day and this creep came up to me while i was pricing clothes for the boxing day sale. He knew me back from when I used to volunteer at the local food bank. He came up to me and demanded I give him my phone number. He got angry because I wouldnt, and then said in a mean voice "just put your little pen in your little hand and write your number down on your piece of paper and give it to me". The nerve!! I tried not to get angry and told him how busy I was. He finally left.
So my question was is this sexual harrassment?
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i met this guy
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 9:49 am
okay so i met this guy like dec. 20th @ a bball game. and we exchanged numbers. :] he called me like wed. night and we talked for like 2 hours. [ i think i like him] he said he would call me the next day after his game. he never did, i tried to call him but he didn't pick up. and i did the next day & his phone was off. idk what to think. if it means anything.. do you think he will ever call me?
thanks x0ox ♥
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HOW DO I GET NOTICED??I know its long but please read!!!
Posted Saturday December 24 2005, 8:02 pm
14/f...I like one of my best guy friends named Will but he doesn't know it. He is really close with my best friend Kate. They knew each other like a whole year before I met him so that's why. Whenever she's not around me and Will he talks to ME nonstop. But when she's around, I can NEVER get him to even talk to me. I feel left out and I always think "how am I supposed to get him to like me if he's always busy talking to her?" I have no idea what to do and I am so confused. Winter formal(dance) is coming up and I want him to ask me. But how do I get noticed? (and if you say flirting...can you please be specific)Thanks.I RATE HIGH!
ps. merry x-mas to everyone
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NEW YEARS PARTY HELP.
Posted Saturday December 24 2005, 6:23 pm
My friend and I want to throw a new years party. It doesnt have to be on New Years Eve because many people wont be in town then, but since our birthdays are on the 27th and 31st, its like a combined party for all of them...anyways..I NEED HELP. I have never planned a party in my life. I have so many people to invite. But I dont want to send the flyer around MySpace until I have the date set and everything ready. My friend and I have the music down, but we need other ideas on how to make a good party. I dont want this to bomb. And another thing..how do you ensure that people will come?
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dumb teacher
Posted Friday December 23 2005, 11:13 pm
hey um like my teacher is a dumb ass and when we get all the credit for something she things that we are spoiled and everyone hates her except for Megan the teachers pet. Megan always hugs my teacher and the teacher only gives her hugs and stuff. Every 5 minutes. Megan gets out of her seat to go hug my teacher she is probably only being that way to get attention. well i'm going to get to the point how do i aviod Megan from hugging my teacher so much thats about 120 hugs each day help me!!!!!!!!!!!
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Fantasy Childhood
Posted Friday December 23 2005, 9:33 pm
You know those movies that show a 12 or 13 year old kid with a girl his same age? They're young and cute and share their first kiss with eachother. Like the one in 8 crazy nigts! Well, I get this feeling that lots of girls my age have had that fantasy childhood, and well, i just haven't! In my town the only oppurtunity for those kind of relationships is with the school boys. The only place you can really get to know them is at school. Not throught sports or clubs and whatnot.They're mostly jerks though. I'm 13 and I really can't accept that i'll never have that fantasy realtionship. I think I'm pretty (as told by some boys at camp), I'm very confident in myself when it comes to my body, I'm pretty friendly, and I have a sense of humor. I do...
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Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 10:39 pm
I always blush whenever I'm talking to someone.. even if i'm not embarassed at all. Like I could even just be talking to a friend, or my mom, and I could start blushing for no reason. How do I stop this?
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what do i say?
Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 9:29 pm
Ok...
there is this guy that i like. and i he doesn't know that i like him at all. and i hunt with him. and were just friends. and i love him very much. how should i drop hints to him that i like him a lot. or what should i do????
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i don't think this is a good topic choice but i didn't know
Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 4:14 pm
so recently there was this guy on my bus and he is know gone for a couple of months for harrassing me and my friends. well he has a twin brother and sister. well his brother has a criminal back ground (such as convicted of attempted murder and that stuff) confirmed by the police and his mother. i was at school the other day waiting for the bus afterschool and i was hanging out with some friends and it looked as if his brother was walking straight towards me and i kinda freaked out a little bit and then like he turned a little and was right behind my friend i was talking to and played a gun shooting noise on his cell phone and looked straight at me. He looked me straight in the eyes and my friends were all like ummm... okay? and i was terrif...
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girl of stalker
Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 2:26 pm
Ok there is this girl and she always stares at me and it really bothers me. i no she doesnt like me and i really dont care its not like i like her. so in gym when we were playin a game she took my assignment book and rote your ugly in it and ripped a lot of pages. should i tell on her? or would it just provoke her more?
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