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big mess
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 10:52 pm
ok so i am a smoker... but i dont do drugs (including joints) and last year i was persuaded into trying a joint (no harm done. not my thing.) the problem is now this friend of mine (a cousin of a good friend) thinks i am a regular since i told her and her cousin and another friend about it. i don't like that image of me and i'd hate it if people think i smoke up. she always posts messages on facebook saying how she is really craving "you know what we want". obviously people know what that is. i tried it once and i told my parents they were ok with it cause they know i was just being curious but i don't want people to think i am regular. since i am on vacation, she always sends messages saying when you get back we should hang out a...
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mean girls
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 10:28 pm
there are these girls at my school and from what happened last year i don't really want to go back to school and see them. they are mean and rude to me and my friends people call them ##### and the terrors. (i don't want to put the name for my safety) they make fun of what we wear then they get soemthing exactly like it and wear it and tell us we don't have enough class as they do. so what should i do? should i try to get back at them? should i gossip about them?
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my ex-best friend! [helpp]
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 7:53 pm
My friend lies and gossips about me all the time and steals guys and everything so i got fed up and told her we weren't friends anymore. I also got the vibe she was a lesbian because she always like would touch my leg and id be like "what the hell are you doing?" and all this other stuff. & she was like "alex i miss you please please forgive me!" and she even told her MOM i hate her for no reason which isnt true because i hate her because she'sa lying two faced mean girl who also purposely is ditzy. I've never said anything bad about her my life but then she goes telling lies. Also she said im a goody-goody which im not trust me, and she shouldn't talk because she is, she's like afraid of everything and now she's act...
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Is there a differance?
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 7:05 pm
I was just wondering. Is there a differance betwwen what a guy considers a friend and what a girl does. I just was wondering because i consider this guy a friend and i am not sure if he thinks that i am a friend of him. Can you tell me what a guy considers a friend?
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two faced
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 5:52 pm
my so called good friend called up my other friend and was just talking crap about me. but thats not what really bothers me because she says stuff about EVERYONE she ever meets and im used to it. but then she also told my friend she read my journal/diary whatever u want to call it and thats just like a big violation of personal space. and she called my friend up when i was on vacation and then today she called me and acted like she did nothing since she doesnt know that i know what she did. so shes being two faced. what should i do??
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friends with benefits
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 4:27 pm
how can you make a guy your friends with benefits with,
see you as more than that,
getting him to like you?
tthanksatonn!
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Typical problem
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 4:18 pm
I'm 14/f. Okay I have this HUGE crush on my best friend Liam (not his real name that's just what I'm calling him). We have been best friends for 4 years and I've like him for about 3 but been in denial about it for 2 years. It's just whenever I need someone to talk to he's always been there when I really needed someone. He's funny, sweet, and we have so much in common. I think about him every day but I don't know if he thinks about me the way I think about me. I know we have a weird sexual attraction to each other and I know he knows I like him (my friend Nikki told him) but it's like he just completely over looks that fact whenever he's around me and our other friends. But when we talk online or text he's more flirty with me. What should I...
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Bestfriend
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 6:36 am
My guy bestfriends Girlfriend (Well ex now) cheated on him and his upset and crying alot and now he smokes i need to give him some advice any at all please ! :(
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not really any friends...
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 12:18 am
hey. well, i'm 14/f. i've always had a few friends, but not like, a ton. well, this summer, my friends have been kinda ignoring me. like, some of my friends will invite other of our friends over to eachothers houses, but through all this, they leave me out. i've invited a couple of my friends over to my house, but after they leave, it's like back to ignoring me. i don't get it. i'm nice and friendly, sometimes i act goofy, but i'm deffinitly not like that all of the time. and i'm starting high school, but idk what to do. how can i start high school without like, any friends. i don't want to make friends with the upperclassman, for sure. and i don't know about anyone else in my grade, cause i just don't feel like i fit in anywhere. what shou...
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does he still like me?
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 11:28 pm
okay, well there's this guy. he's almost a year younger than i am. but we're not going out. he's been liking me for almost a year now, and i didn't notice the things he's done for me since a few weeks ago. the last time me & him hung out, was at the mall & the theaters and stuff like that. and he held my hand ALOT. and every time if i let go, he wouldn't let go of my hand. he'd just keep holding onto it. so i might be able to like him. :] but then two days ago.. i think i accidentally blew up my chance. we got into an argument, it was our first argument ever. and i saw him comment his friend. "...ok now i don't have feeling for her anymore haha" and then he was like "dam chi im fucking piss off right now seriously fuc...
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What to do with a guy friend gone wrong.
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 10:56 pm
My best guy friend has sort of stopped talking to me directly and only like saying "hi". Some times he doesn't even say "hi" for days/weeks on end. I don't know what to do. He won't answer me. and tries to avoid me. I wonder if it was because i started to hang out with another guy that i really like and kinda flirt w/ this other guy alot. Could that be why? Can you help me w/ how to get him to speak to me agian????BEFORE SCHOOL STARTS(aug 21st)
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I really REALLY like him.
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 9:16 pm
I know this sounds corny and pathetic.
I'm 16/F. I've known this guy since 7th grade, I'm going into 11th this year. We've always had this vibe between us, he would constantly flirt tease me, and he just gives me the signs that he likes me. But he never asked me out, I'm starting a job soon and he works there too, and I'm hoping, how do I show him I still like him, or that I like him, because I can be cold sometimes, because i'm weird liek that. What specific things really show a guy you care & like them?
The really corny part is, he makes me so nervous, and I dont get nervous around guys, he makes me stomache all blahfladjfd, and he is the only guy I've liked, and the reason I've liked him so long, is because he'...
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Best friend is trying to be me?
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 2:12 pm
Okay, I thought it was just a phase she was going through, but my best friend copies everything I do and SENIORS IN HIGHSCHOOL! It's ridiculous. A little about both of us- My style is more along the lines of a mix of "boho" "indie" and "scene-ish" hers was along the lines of "nerdy" and "scene/kid-ish" up until sophmore year. I've always dressed like that and then when her and I started hanging out a lot more she began to dress like me and talk like me. At frist I thought it was just because we were hanging out too much, then she started getting creepy. She cut her hair like mine, dyed it the EXACT same way (blonde under my bangs and a stripe-yes I had my "scene hair" stage and tha...
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Carpool Problem!
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 4:52 am
my best friend lives across the street and we have carpooled to school every day since kindergarten. now we're in middle school and we're allowed to get to school an hour early if we want, to hang out in the cafeteria and talk to friends. I love doing that, but my friend isn't very sociable and she refuses to go early. Our moms are fine with driving us separately, but my friend is all mad at me now for "breaking the tradition" and not riding to school together. but going early is like the only chance we get in school to hang out with friends. what should i do?
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What to do when a frienship is stuck?
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 4:47 am
I been hanging out with this girl for many months now. We had are up and downs and where okay. Well, she was told by her best-friend, who told her i was no good and all the bad shit and she stop talking to me for about a month and half(ended in june). Then, we went out starting back this month, after which all the feelings we had for each other came up when we didn't. I got emotionally after we hanged out and told her I had feelings stronger for her than friends, but before i can say anything, she tells me the same thing first! So, i am cool but now she likes doesn't talk on the phone much after that. But she hungs me and gigles and gets goofy when I am around and she tells my mom stuff and i be listening on the other phone, like she likes ...
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CAUTION:CORNYYYY
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 1:03 am
First off,
you should know that when we were younger my friends and I always made eachothers mixed cds, looking back we all noticed that we could tell eachothers specific moods and what was going on through the music/lyrics.
So now, I feel like Im losing them, one told me flat out that she doesnt want to hang out with me anymore and hates my boyfriend.. who she used to love?(as a friend) and I was wondering if anyone had any good songs pertaining to this to put on cds for them to let them know that i feel like im losing them, and I miss them, and im sorry that none of us made an effort.
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hair styles
Posted Friday August 3 2007, 7:04 pm
im gonna be going back to school
and my mom keeps bugging me about doing something with my side bangs
becasue i have a really small forhead
and my hairs like already straight but i straighten it anyways
and i dont know what to do with them
i admit they do bother me
and im always moving them cause they fall in my face alot
here are some pictures
if anyone can help me with ideas for what i should do
if you can send me pictures if what it looks like that would be great too!
http://i19.tinypic.com/6fi1clu.jpg
im in the middle. ^^
http://i15.tinypic.com/67npcwm.jpg
http://i19.tinypic.com/6fr682t.jpg
i dont know if this one h...
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sick of being judged
Posted Friday August 3 2007, 6:22 pm
i am going to see these guys tomorrow the first time since like two/three weeks and i am soo excited! but my friend is going to be there too and whenever i am with them and she is there she judges me and i don't want her to. i just want to have fun with them and do what I want. how can i make this happen without dealing wiht my friend judgeing me?
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He does not like me because of my race
Posted Friday August 3 2007, 4:45 pm
At the begining of the school year last year , there was a guy in my Spanish class. Gradually we became really close friends, and the more I hung out with him, the more I relized that I really liked him. At both of my best friends pressuring, I told him that I liked him.
How I told him is that I wrote a note telling him. I know it was very childish to do so but I am happy now that I did not tell him in person.
His response to me telleing him was that 'He would never consider being more than friends with a black person.' His words exactly, then after a few days of me fuming and wanting to kill him, he says that he only said that to spare my feelings. He said that he really did not like me the way I liked him, ...
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How do I make new friends in a different group?
Posted Friday August 3 2007, 11:59 am
Ok...Im going through this stage where I want to meet new friends and kind of start High School with new people. I want to make new friends and be in a more popular group. I am kind of shy and I need to know how to get out of the shyness and how to make new friends. I am also kind of like a sporty kind of girl. I would like some help on becoming more "girly" and less "tomboy_ish." Thank you for all your help!
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