|
Viewing QuestionsFamilies
We know you love your family, but sometimes issues come up where a little advice is helpful. Ask your question here.
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 4:16 pm
i just got back from california and i saw my whole family on my dads side which is alot . including my bro. who i am in love w/ now thats all i think about . i mean he is so cute and perfect. is this normal ???
love
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
Sister-in-law is moving
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 3:39 pm
My sister-in-law is getting married and moving away at the end of the month. I've only known her for a year now, and we've just started to bond. I'm really upset and depressed that she's moving and I want to do something for her. The problem is, I don't have a lot of money, or any idea what I should do or what I should get her.
Does anyone have any ideas of something special we could do together before she leaves, or something I could give to her? I really want whatever I do to make an impression, and I'm going to miss her a lot.
I'll leave more information if anyone needs it.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]
Child support
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 12:56 am
My mom keeps giving my dad crap about how he doesn't pay the child support, but she keeps going and spending the money on stupid crap.
The question i actually have is, when does a parent have to stop paying child support? Does he have to pay till the child is 18 and legally an adult, or does he have to keep paying until the child has graduated from high school? OR, is it determined differently for each divorce?
I'm 18 and in California. If anyone knows the actual details on this, i would GREATLY appreciate it. If your info is right, i'll give 5s
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
my mom doesnt like me!
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 2:55 pm
hey! i,m 13 female and i want to say that i think my mom wishes she never had me because she often excludes me from stuff, she lies to me alone, she never spends time with me, and she told me herself that she cared about my brother and sister more and she told me that if i wasnt as smart as i am now that she wouldnt still be proud of me! i just want to know if i am just over looking things or does she really not like me? please help! 5's to good answers
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
How to not care about things other people say
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 2:21 pm
I find myself caring way too much about what other people say, especially when it comes to my family. Last night I cried myself to sleep because two of them had said something nasty about my boyfriend -- which I should be used to, since they've loathed my boyfriend from the day I met him four years ago and they've made no secret of it. I really can't go on like this, getting upset every time they say something nasty to me (not just about my boyfriend, anything). What are little tricks you can play with yourself so you don't care quite so much about what other people say?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (7) ]
verbal abuse
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 1:06 pm
for probably about a year now my dad has been screaming at my brother and i for the stupidest reasons and at this point im pretty sure that he is verbally abusing us (not physically or sexualy) like on friday i was going to my friends party and i told him to get ready in 10 minutes....7 minutes later i gave him a three minute warning and then when 10 minutes came up and i wanted to leave, he started screaming at me that i didn't tell him that we were leaving in there minutes i mean i was crying to death and he was about to take me to this party, but saying no you didnt tell me your a liar!!! but screamed it and he started making this whole drag about it and i started to cry my mom was right there on my side, she was mad at him for actually ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
parents
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 2:16 am
My parents won’t let me go out at night or with my guy friends. And this is what all my friends are doing so night after night I’m finding myself at home playing chess with my little brother. This is not how 10th grade is supposed to be. How do I get my parents to loosen up? Also they won’t let teenagers drive me places. How do I convince them that this is ok? And how do I get them to trust me with more freedom?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
sister gets jealous
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 9:53 pm
I'm 15/f and my older sister is 17/f. She refuses to believe that I wear a bigger bra size than her. I don't think it's a big deal or anything becuase why would it be? Now she always talks about how I wear really padded bras. I hate padded bras and I've never owned one. I tell her that and then she goes into how I probably stuff. I don't know what her problem is. What should I do other than just ignore her? I can't ignore her because she talks about it infront of everyone!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (9) ]
Frustrated
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 7:13 pm
I'm 13 and my mom is getting on my case about EVERYTHING!!! Now adays...i just wish she would leave me alone. I mean she's always watching over my back when I'm on the internet, asking who I'm talking to when I'm on IM or on the Phone...and to top it off. When the guy I like comes around she just stares and I feel uncomfortable. My question is, how do I keep my mom out of MY buisness?
-Beyond Joking
[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]
I WANT THEM BACK!
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 11:37 pm
Ok, this question is what i'd probally call an original.
its actually quite simple
a while back i was dating this black kid ( and i saw black bc this was a main problem )and he was freidns with my brother, and so he was over my house often, and my mother knew him
we started going out, things progressed, and my mother found out, she said things like he just wanted to get in my pants, hes a street kid, he doesnt' get good grades, and alot more things, but even though my motehr said she wasn't racist i felt she was ( she also said that my rep could get ruined )
i didn't really care what people thought bc i loved him, but eventually he moved away, and i had a rough time
...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (7) ]
i want to go back
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 5:52 am
Helow.... I'm a 18 year old girl and I live now in the Philippines and I used to live in Holland because my mum married a Dutch man and he brought us there.. After few months there, I made lots of nice friends.. I didn't have homesick anymore because people there are always nice to me.. I really enjoyed my life there.. But my father thought that we should go back in the Philippines.. But he stayed there because of his work.. My problem is ... I wanna go back in Holland.. I miss my friends, and I really enjoyed my 1 year and 3 months of staying there.. I convinced my dad to go back there, also my sister convinced him but he doesn't want to because of financial problem (he said), but we don't ask money to him.. we don't spend much money, we'r...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Posted Thursday January 5 2006, 9:24 pm
Hi. i dont know what to do. I've asked the girl that i like to hang out on saturday night. Shew said yes but she would have to check and see. I asked her if she could do it and she said she has practice but doesnt kno what time i wanna ask her if she can do sumthin before or after but i dont want to be a pest. What should i do?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
sorry so long..but please answer..i need help
Posted Thursday January 5 2006, 5:41 pm
hi! well im 15/f
and yeah my family doesnt think i have any friends...BECAUSE my cousin always wants to do something with me like hang out..she doesnt have very many pepole to hang out with...and like so i have to spend all my time with her it seems..i just met this girl and we clicked right away! i mean we are pretty good friends now..i dont really hang out with anyone really..except my cousin and this girl that i was talking about earlier..and so my bro comes home today and is like yeahhhh susie (my aunt) said she is worried about you because you have no friends..i mean i always wanna go out and do things! party it up! but i never get invited to parties..im not outgoing..and i dono i guess i really dont have THAT many friends..well...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
Sister not loving me .... Sorry ffor it being long.
Posted Thursday January 5 2006, 12:00 am
I am a 14 female so I don't know if that is going to help. I have a little sister who is 8. Me and her usually get along great, we don't fight unless we mess around with each other. I love messing with her and she likes it too because that is the only time we have to be together and act stupid. I don't have much time now that school started, so we don't talk too much. I don't play with her as much. I am not allowed to get on the computer when my parents are home so I get on when they go somewhere. My sister never really minded this but lately she has been telling on me on a lot of things that I do wrong. Sometimes she even makes up lies up about what I do. My parents are really getting annoyed. They think I am changing in a bad way. I don't...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 11:01 pm
Right now things have been going pretty bad. My domestic family (grandmother, grandfather, mother, brother) have just been crazy. Yelling. screaming, you name it, it's happening. Well, it was upsetting me, and so I went to my aunt. After I confided in her, things seemed ok. Then the next day all she did was critisize me, and now she doesn't seem to like me anymore. I may be being paraniod, but it's just getting me mad and I need to do something about it. I feel incredibly stupid for trusting her now, but there isn't anything I can do. Any help?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
love sick puppy
Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 9:47 pm
i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......
plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...
siqned,
love sick puppy
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
hate my family/life
Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 2:52 pm
I'm 15 female
I can't stand my family, my dads an alcolholic,my brothers a pot head and has been locked up 3different times on his way of getting locked up again, and my mom is working her way to become an alcolholic, my other brother is in the marines and i don't speak to him. It's like I'm the only one is my house that's normal that doesn't smoke pot or drink barely get in trouble. I'm just so sick of it. I'm scared that pretty soon im going to be all by myself. Like my whole family is going to die either from doing drugs or drinking to much alcolhol. How do i deal with this...make it all go away and make it where it doesn't bother me anymore.
Thanks in advance.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
my mom doesn't let me do anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Tuesday January 3 2006, 7:44 pm
my mom knows i have a boyfriend she does her best to split us up alot like when she knows im talking to him on the phone she will yell at me for no apparent reason, she won't let me go to sleep overs, movies, no where with anybody and she knows i like my boyfriend alot, i feel were growing apart because we never spend time together at all unless he sneaks over my house while my moms at work. its basically like she is jealous. what should i do? what should i say? my momma be trippin' alot i cant go nowhere me or my sister without her and this relationship im in now i never was surer about love than this one relationship i feel different its not like the others im sure of it but my momma doesn't think so because she think she knows every d#*#...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
My stepdad's a cheater
Posted Tuesday January 3 2006, 7:43 pm
Okay so like 2 months ago my mom got married again to this man she knew from her home town. At first I did not like him because he was not my dad but he grew on me. One day after classes i went to meet my mom at work for lunch. I went straight home afterwards.When I got home I heard something like a man moaning. I Knew no one was supposed to be home becasue my stepdad was supposed to be at work. The moans became louder as I aproached my moms room. So I thought to myself I just had lunch with my mom. And she was at work how could she be two places at once? I came to the conclusion the my stepdad was having an affair. I got angry and decided to bust open the door and catch him in action. To my great surprise it was not a woman in bed but a ma...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
Getting along with little brother
Posted Tuesday January 3 2006, 2:25 pm
15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.
we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.
I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I kno...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]
|