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Friendship
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what do you think about my friend?


Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 12:51 am

okay my boyfriend broke up with me and i cried a lot, i was really hurt and then when i told my friend about what happened she was really shocked and sad and then she keep asking me if i was okay and she gave me a a lot of tight hugs and she said call me if you need anything and when we were chatting she sended me a couple of RnB love song that relates to me and also she send me a card online saying feel better and cheer up and she told me shes gonna buy me a chocolate when ill see her soon and after that she came to my house and bought me a chocolate and gave me a hugs what do you think about my friend?


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talking to his friends


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 10:41 pm

Ok so me and my bf of 4months had our first fight a few days ago and part of it was about me not talking to his friends when we're hanging out with them. Im really shy and i just find it hard to talk to people i dont know that well. So if i dont talk to his friends they end up thinking i hate them but i dont. it just takes me a while to open up to people. So my question is how do i start conversations with these people and get to know them better, like join in conversations when i dont know what or who their talking about.
I just dont know what to say to them.

Love, Jess

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boy next door


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 7:10 pm

so theres this guy who lives next to me and we talk all the time and he said i was pretty and he always trys to impress me but idk if he likes me. what do you think?

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Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 1:14 pm

I dont know if kuts even my bff still. He fought with my other friend on who was my penguin I love pon and zi. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin and kut but I didn’t know they were and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me. Then theirs some parties that something bad always happens. At parties something always goes wrong for me like I start to flirt with a lot of guys but end up sitting with them. And my friends know Im love sick so my guy friend said he’s always here for me to be with as friends. But then some of my friends and I got ina water fight. Then I told kut to join us and then kut got pissed and he said ILL SAVE YOU RA lol but it’s a water fight. Me and kut o...

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online love


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 12:52 pm

is it possible to fall in love online? or maybe, ...perhaps even like a best friend type of love? is it ridiculous if you've known the person for a long time?
15/f

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betrayal ?


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 9:14 am

hey, i hope someone can help me ..
well the night before last night i was at a friends party and this guy kissed me .. and one of my best friends likes this guy. she told me before but then she said its ok if he kisses me. and now shes really angry at me. i talked to her and apologised and i guess we worked things out but she doesnt really talk to me now and she posted these bulletins on myspace, they were harsh and i asked her if its about me but she said its not .. but i get this feeling they are about me. she said that she talked to the guy and theyre just gonna be good friends for now. i think im starting to like the guys but i only met him for the first time that night, so i guess i can stop liking him. every time i think about ...

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secrets


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 1:42 am

about 4 years ago, i met my best friend, and weve been friends ever since. well right around the time i met her, i started going through a lot of hard stuff, started being overwhelmed with depression, just alot of stuff was going on. the thing is, i never really told her about any of it, or told anybody at all. i feel bad bc she always tells me everything, i feel like im not being fair to her. i always make up lies to tell her so i wont have to talk about whats wrong. do you think im not being fair to her? if so, how can i feel more comfortable about talking to her about it all?

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friend or foe.?


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 1:13 am

Okay, theres this girl Cara, we used to be such best friends about 1 year ago. Then Well call her, B. B comes along, After B came along, cara and i drifted, I hate B with a passion, i know hate is a strong word, but i hate her. B started being rude to me, again [shes a backstabber, i hate her, and btw, cara and B go to diff schools, us 3 go to diff schools.] and cara and i drifted, i feel like im putting more effort in being in a friendship than she is with me. I im her, i call her to make plans [which never work out because of b] and all this stupid stuff! She never tells me anything, i used to be her secret storer and we knew EVERYTHING about eachother, i told her i got a new kitten, she was like, oh oh my goddd! no way! .. i got the cat...

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i need help with my friend


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 12:29 am

It’s all about my ol bff kut. I live pon and zi and he fought with my other friend on who was my penguin. Talked about my favorite songs. But ive never told him my favorite songs. But its all on my page ive been telling him to get. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin Jon was gona too but he invited kut and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me.hes now afraid of my best friends and I but still talks to me. Then theirs some parties. 1.Airsoft him showing off us running thought the rainstorm got on teams and he said only if I can be on their team. The team I was on. Big flirts then it went to hell he asked me out I said no…2.school concert we played games like red hands but en...

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i need help with my friend


Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 12:18 am

It’s all about my ol bff kut. I live pon and zi and he fought with my other friend on who was my penguin. Talked about my favorite songs. But ive never told him my favorite songs. But its all on my page ive been telling him to get. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin Jon was gona too but he invited kut and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me.hes now afraid of my best friends and I but still talks to me. Then theirs some parties. 1.Airsoft him showing off us running thought the rainstorm got on teams and he said only if I can be on their team. The team I was on. Big flirts then it went to hell he asked me out I said no…2.school concert we played games like red hands but en...

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It's still not changing.... im so confused!


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 11:40 pm

well this is sorta hard to write about because it hurts a lot. And I'm always worried that people will just tell me that it wil change and stuff. That's really not what I want to hear. I dont mean to sound mean but I'm VERY sensitive about this subject and will make me cry if someone says something rude about it or myself. Sorry im just really emotional about this situation. Well today in school .wow. this is really stupid. But here it goes. today in school my ex best friend who talks to me every once in a while but has switched to a new friend. Now she talks to her new friend Abby all the time and it makes me want to cry. Because I don't understand what happened between us that now she wants another friend and I'm old to her. We used to ha...

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My cousin from a different country


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 11:16 pm

Well, I moved to the USA when I was six, ten years ago. I left all my family behind. Well, my aunt recently remarried and moved to a town (San Francisco) an hour away from us, and my cousin has just arrived a couple of days ago and will be living with my aunt and his step dad. We are going to visit them tomorow.

The thing is, that I barely know him. He is a really cool person, VERY smart, funny, etc. I really admire and look up to him. But I only visit him like once every two or three years, so we never got a chance to have a real friendship. Well, I will be seeing him quite regularly now, probably about once every two or three weeks.

I know what you are going to say: just be yourself, play games together, teac...

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The Perfect Song.


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 10:13 pm

For the past year or so, I have only listened to music I've been singing.

My best friend just decided that I was desperate and someone she no longer wanted in her life, selfish as it was.

I'm looking for the perfect song that basically sums up the latter part of this.

I'm sorry; I know these questions are annoying, but I've exhausted myself trying to think of something.

Thanks.

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best friend trying to make me jealous


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 10:06 pm

I've been friends with my best friend for basically as long as i can remember. I dont know if its just me, but lately it seems like shes always trying to make me jealous and out do me. Like tonight, I went to the movies with one of my other friends, and put up an away message on aim saying " movies with myfriendsname cell it=]" and then left. And when i got home, her away message was "movies with cutie. then home with cutie" (which is one of her other really good friends) And she just does little things like that. And it REALLY gets on my nerves. How can i like get over this and not let it bother me? We dont have the same friends(we're different ages, different friends) so its not like we can all just do stuff together s...

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bestfriends...forever?


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 10:04 pm

well i have this friend. lets call him bob. well me and bob met 2 years ago this day. and last year bob was really sweet and sent me a real cute message saying happy aniversary and other things. me and bob were really close friends but lately it feels like we're drifting apart i've told him several times before and all he says is "dont worry baby im not going anywhere" but his actions say otherwise. and im tired of being the one who is putting more effort in this friendship than him. i sincerely don't want to lose his friendship because it feels like he's the only one who understands me. is he getting tired of me? or whats going on here, i don't know what to do. and it seems like it controls my emotions, because i feel really sad and stuff and i really dont wanna feel like that.

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leading him on?


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 8:15 pm

ok theres this guy.. i know he likes me bc hes told me b4. but like i dont like him back. he like calls & texts me every night.. and i havent told him whether i like him or not. when he told me i just said ok bc i didnt know what else to say.. i was kinda suprised. but anyways.. is it wrong to like answer his calls & texts & like talk to him every night if i dont like him? i feel like im leading him on. bc wen were on the phone all he does is flirt with me. and like i still wanna be friends w/ him i just dont wanna go out w/ him

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Get together


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 7:50 pm

So tonight I will be going to my friends house to have a get together.Girls and guys are going to be there including my boyfriend.I'm wondering what are some things we can do to have fun or whatever.I'm bringing twister.I haven't played that in forever.What else can we do?Any suggestions would be appreciated.

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Cross Country


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 6:06 pm

I need help. Im a 16 yr old male going to be a junior this coming up school year. I love to run. I wanted to join Cross Country. The only thing thats holding me back is my best friend. He thinks if I join we wont be best friends. He thinks Ill meet loads of new friends, and those friends will be the wrong ones. I want to join cross country but I dont want to loose our friendship. His old best friend said he would stick with him when he joined football but never did, he forgot about him and was a total different person

Thanks
Kc

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jealous friend


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 5:56 pm


i think i depend on others for happiness.

i started dating this guy that my friend likes. and i think she got very jealous.

from then on, she's been very mean to me. and a month ago, she told me why she had been mean. which is because i left her party early, after i had already been there for a few hours, to hang out with my boyfriend because everyone at the party was stoned. and it was just boring. and i wanted to see my boyfriend.

and then she said i was too clingy. and she thinks im "boy crazy", which isn't like me at all.

we cleared everything up. she said she would be more honest with me in the future, and i apologized if she felt like i was ditching her....

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i need help with my friend


Posted Friday August 10 2007, 3:22 pm

It’s all about my ol bff kut. I live pon and zi and he fought with my other friend on who was my penguin. Talked about my favorite songs. But ive never told him my favorite songs. But its all on my page ive been telling him to get. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin Jon was gona too but he invited kut and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me.hes now afraid of my best friends and I but still talks to me. Then theirs some parties. 1.Airsoft him showing off us running thought the rainstorm got on teams and he said only if I can be on their team. The team I was on. Big flirts then it went to hell he asked me out I said no…2.school concert we played games like red hands but en...

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