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drunk hook up that ruined everything
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 7:04 pm
16/f. okay, so i have a friend 'alexa' and she's liked 'marc' for a long time, but it's one of those guys that she's always kind of liked and wanted, but there's like five of those guys. so i was drunk, and we hooked up at a party. i regret it so much, and if i wasn't i wouldn't have ever done that. i've never done a bitchy thing to a friend. well i didn't tell anybody except for my best friend, so i was like okay nobody will find out, i just want to pretend it didn't happen. i didn't know if should tell alexa or not, so i just waited. i'm not good with confronting people and telling people things when i mess up because i hate getting in fights even though i know i should have, but she somehow found out because someone told someone and you ...
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i dont know what i am
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 5:25 pm
oh god i hate this so much im going into high school soon and none of my friends are there. and summer school was stupid because i dont fit in with these ppl. it took me so long to make friends that actually care about me and i have better friendships than most ppl can have in their whole life. but i have no one to help me because now i feel like every girl is really girly and im not. they make me feel like a guy. and i dont know but im starting to want to dress like a guy and not like a tomboy but like i just hate being a girl. i just dont get it i hate this school and i want my friends back and i still want to transfer schools for like next year even though people say it will get better. i dont want to change i like my life fine the way i...
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Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 2:24 pm
okay, well i want to be more outgoing. i mean like when i'm with my friends i feel sort of left out because i'm not that outgoing, like i recently just went to a sleepover and there was me and three other girls and they like, the didnt leave me out but it sorta felt like i was out of place. but then when we were just talking i didn't feel like that at all. like we were all laying on the couch and one of my friends got up and went to the bathroom and when she came back she came and jumped on the couch, and i was on the end so she just had her feet on me. i mean i really dont care that she didnt want to sit on me but like i like being in the middle of things. it's really hard to explain.
and plase don't say try talking to the about how...
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nicknames
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 12:38 pm
me and my friend are trying to think of nicknames
like one of us could be mac and one could be cheese, but we dont wana use that, like what could work? like peanut butter & jelly
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Added on to another question i deleted.
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 12:30 pm
Me and my BFF(rachel) both like the same guy(Zach). I know she is angry that i flirt w/ him. I get angry when she flirts w/ him. Yes, i have talked to her about what would happen if one of us went out w/ him. She says shes fine w/ it. But it was so obvious that she wasn't a few days ago(when we had a "party" and he was there). I feel really bad about flirting w/ him and i have nightmares about me going out with him and kissing and she gets angry and runs away and never speaks to me again.
I am going to ask him if he likes one of us this weekend. Is there any way that IF he likes me that i can go out w/ him and still make my friend happy???? I know it's complicated buyt please help. Any advice is GREATLY appreciated!!!
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Drugs
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 2:01 am
I'm one of those people whose against drugs. I really don't see why people do them, and I really can't stand the fact that a lot of my peers are starting to get into it.
That doesn't bug me, they can ruin their lives if they want. The only person who I've found out has done weed is this boy whose a great friend of mine, really sweet, and I kind of have a teeny crush on. I really want to be with him, but not if he does drugs. He knows I know hes done drugs (he came online one time totally "canned")
I didn't think much of it until a couple days ago, where this girl I know brought it up to me.
I want to talk to him about it, but not be such a mom, like "Drugs ruin your life! Do you want a fu...
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how 2 get ober a frinds death
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 1:35 am
my gil friend was killd in a car reck 6 days ago how can i help get over her faster cause i cant do anything right since she died
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sweet 16 gift
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 1:12 am
what do u think is a good amount to spend on your best best friend for her sweet 16? i spent 28 dollars, that kind of seems like a little much though, especially because my friend is kind of cheap, and doesn't spend bunches of money on me usually..what do u guys think? be honest please! thanks
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fun things to do?
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 12:34 am
well I just went to my friend's house, and she has like a lot of things. more things than I do. like we had lots of fun till I had to leave. I mean she had tons of games, movies, her parents were great, she had tons of little things like lots of hats and etc so we dressed up and took pictures, a pet, and a pool! and the next time i want her to visit my house, but we don't have much to do. I mean we could go on the computer, I guess walk around and play in our park for a bit (even though our park isn't that fun since its made mostly for little kids), watch TV (we barely have any cool movies.. I guess I could get some from our library but the good ones always take long to get (long holds). btw we don't rent movies at my house), and other litt...
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my best friend
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 11:27 pm
my best friend and i have been fighting over everything, i didnt like her boyfriend but i guess now i do, he started talking about her to me and i just did the same thing but he started it, that was like 2 weeks ago! now today shes pissed at me and says shes sick of all this shit of me not being there for her when all last night i was up with her trying to make her feel better cause she was saying stuff about killing herself blah blah blah she said she never wants to talk to me. she seems to get mad at me weeks after it happens and until she gets mad at me we are totally fine best friends. i dont want to lose her because she is the best thing that has every happened to me, she changed me for the better and i cant start high school in 2 week...
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getting my best girl back
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 10:30 pm
my best friend and i have been best friends since 6th or 7th grade. now we're going into 11th. last year a lot of drama started and she stood by me and defended me the whole time and i really appreciated it. over the summer we lost touch because i had to go to summer school so i didnt get to go to a lot of parties and hang out. now she's best friends with one of the girls who was against me in the drama. i might be over reacting but on myspace she moved me from her top spot to number 4. her new bff is first and she has two cousins before me. when i first saw it my heart sank. tonight i also found out that she had people over without me. i want to know how i can reconnect with her. something to do that can be just us. this girl is like a sis...
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New boy obsessing over me
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 10:28 pm
I am a freshman in highschool this year, and there is the boy (he's a senior) who is obsessed with me! He just moved her from another state, and he sits by me in health. I was flattered at first by all his cheesy lines and sweet compliments, but after mentioning several times that I have a boyfriend and turning down his date offers he won't give up. He even got a copy of my schedual and waits outside all of my classes. I believe he has some slight mental issues, but nothing I know of for sure.
I really don't look forward to health because it gets awkward trying to deal with him. I've attempted over and over again to let him know I have a serious boyfriend and I'm not interested but I'm not sure what else to say =\
Help! I want to be nice.
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what is this supposed to be?
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 8:26 pm
a guy left this on my myspace. what is it supposed to be?
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thanks!
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i dont fit in. i want to switch schools
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 7:53 pm
ive been in summer school all summer and tomorrow is the last day. im going into high school this fall but i feel all alone. i dont fit in with any of the people ive met and i dont want to make friends. usually im a very energetic crazy person but i just dont get the point of trying to meet new people.
in middle school i had a lot of close friends that i still care deeply about and i feel lost without them. lately ive also been noticing that i might be falling for the closest person to me, my best friend in the world. i havnet seen him in over a month and i miss him so much. i love him and im afraid he'll find someone better than me and forget me completely....it sucks so much
im not the same without him ad all of my other fr...
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CONFUSED FRIENDSHIP!!!!
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 2:52 pm
13/f (I am going to use nicknames)
So, I have a friend, Murray. She and I hate this girl, S. S and I used to be friends with Murray. Well, I'm not friends with S, but with Murray. Murray said she hated S like me because S did rude things to me and her. Well, S called and invited me to her B-Day party Friday. i said I was busy because I was, Murray was coming over so we could watch Naruto. Murray said we should go to S's B-Day party because she said that S had changed. Now, I am so confused. First, Murray hates S, now she wants to be her friend! I never trusted S and my parents don't like her. Neither does my boyfriend. I want to know what to do at this point. Murray keeps sayign I have done bad things to S to make S do bad th...
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birthday surprise
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 6:38 am
okay, so my friend's birthday is two weeks from now which also happens to be the day of our recollection. my other friends and i are planning a birthday surprise for her: we're gonna give her cake. and thats just it, i think. i just thought i'd wanna give her a gift too. i was thinking 1)a pen since our group name is named from a pen, 2)a novel, she likes reading novels, but i dont know, what if i get something she doesn't like? she's not the most appreciative person. 3)another cake. she loves to eat but maybe she'd probably have enough. IDK what to get her. but i wanna get her something special for her birthday. help me please?:)
lala 13/f
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Left out
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 1:05 am
Well lately, I've kinda been feeling left out by my friends. Like I've been hanging out with them, but I keep getting the vibe that they don't want me there. Like I was talking to one of my friends on the phone this morning, & we tried calling our other friend to see what he was doing, but he didnt answer. So me & the friend i was talking to, decided to get ready & go for a walk. But then our other friend called so we 3-wayed him in. And it ended in, he went to her house & i had to stay home & wait until they called me to hang out. Well that took about 4 hours. And, like the guy friend, hasnt hugged me goodbye in over a week. But he'll hug my other friend. And please don't say that they like each other because i already ...
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new yearr,new me
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 9:12 pm
Soo, this year i want to be more outgoing, funny***, laid back. For myself, i just want to be happier. the thing is, i dont know how to be outgoing,funny, OR laidback! Honestly, i don't exactly know what they really mean or how to be them. How do i become these things? I hate being quiet,stiff,boring,and all of that. I'd justt like to say, i'm changing for myself, not anyone else. Any tips,help,thoughts,if you went through this?? 14/f, i'll be a freshman. thanks!
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I "need" my space.............
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 2:58 pm
Okay have you ever had a friend that's burn...have no legs...or arm or something is wrong w/ them like their not normal.My friend is burn we've been such gud friend for the last 2 years or so.........but it's just that since we started high school she got insecure and like controlling to me....she's getting on my nerves I want to to still be friends but it seems I can't because you know she stuck in a wheel chair she doesn't have feet to walk on and move about like other people...I want to end it but not sure if i should what to do?????????????
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We like the SAME person!
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 2:11 pm
my friend(Rachel) and I both like the same guy. (this guy is our Best Guy friend)It is really hard to like the same person. Like at our school band BBQ he was there and i flirted w/ him and Rachel got angry(she didn't show it but she kinnda avoided me @ the time) And then once almost everyone left(except him,rachel and i) it was like 10:00pm. And i was asking him questions NOT trying to flirt but just talking. And she kind of stormed off and drove home. Then about 10 min later i drove home. I talked to her and she says she doesn't care if he goes out w/ me. But it was SOOOO obvious she was angry when i flirted w/ him.
I don't want to make her angry and 'dump' me as a friend. But then again i don't want to stop liking him(he's like th...
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