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Inexpensive hangout ideas?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 10:14 pm
Anybody have any inexpensive hangout ideas? Like not the movies, bowling, etc. And no sleepovers because my friend cant sleep over when we hang out tomorrow. Anybody have any good ideas?
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MY EFFING FRIEND
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 4:07 pm
Whoever reads this please help!!!!I have this friend who me and my friends are fed up with she always starts drama and to add some stuff she can cry on command to make people feel bad for her!!!!I SWARE!!Ok so she likes this guy and is OBSESSED and he hates her so much...BTW everytime we get in a fight she basically says rude remarks about this guy to us because me and my friend hang out with him alot beacause she is JEALOUS!!!I really need some help. Like and when she feels like being mean she will say a rude remark and when she is trying to be nice she trys to act cute "which never is" and if me and my friends didnt hang out with her she would have none because she is so mean to everyone else!!Then when we talk about "girl ...
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Back-Stabbing Friend!!! -HELP
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 3:48 pm
So i'm in 8th grade, and ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of 6th and when shes with people she knows i dont really talk to, she starts talking really bad crap about me and it always comes back to me! And she says im 'one of her best friends' but she never calls me for help on things, or tells me about her crushes, or anything. And shes liked my best guy friend for over 5 months and told all my other friends but me. And she LOVES stirring up drama at sleepovers or trips. And i honestly dont know what to do anymore! im sick of it! --plus i honestly dont recall doing anything for her to treat me this bad in the first place! what do i do? am i still friends with her or not???
help! =[
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this one is imporanttt. PLEASE ANSWER.
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 1:04 pm
15/f
my friend sam, said she didnt like this one girl. and i mean i did, but like i guess she didnt think i did or something, because she was like ew no i hate her shes so weird. and i was like ok. but then i was reading what sam said to her on her myspace..
oh my god i got your message. and omg im sorry i cant hang out tongiht i could only hang out during the day cuase i have cheer tongiht and what about tomrorow we need to before i leaveeee. and OMG =( i just did something and oh my gosh call me noww!!talk to you later hun.
YESSSSSS. PLEASE. I NEED TO HANG OUT., Its Eight in the morning and my mom woke me up and im depressed. LITURALLY depressed. Ill explain why later. BUt yeah lets hang out today? ca...
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are they true friends?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 9:25 am
okay, well anytime me and my friends hangout, just me and her, we have a really really good time. but everytime we invite anothe one of my friends to come hangout with us i'm always the one to get left out.. i really don't understand why.. for ex. the night before last i invited one of my friends over to stay the night and then i was talking to my other friend that i used to be BESTFRIENDS with but we hadn't really hung out in awhile and we went downtown to the shops and they just kinda ditched me.. and like they wouldn't of even ben together if i hadn't invited them both.
- okay, this happens alot with like all of my friends... i don't see what the problem is.
this year, for school were all on diffrent teams, so w...
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hug demand
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 2:37 am
After parting ways from the movie today, my guy friend, Erik told me on msn tonight "next time we meet, i demand a hug! :D" what could this possibly mean?
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CD Labels.
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 11:22 pm
Is there anywhere I could download or might have on my computer that you can write the title for a CD on? I'm saving papers incase my computer crashes, and I want the names on them, besides just writing them. Thanks.
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school. =/
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 11:04 pm
ok so i want this next school year to be the best year for me. it is my sophmore year. i want to make a whole lot more friends.
but im really shy. i normally wait untill people come to me. so how can i become more friendly?
or unshy? haha lol.
im the type of girl who needs to be comfortable around you..for me to be who i am.
so any help on how to make friends?
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the male type
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 10:23 pm
Okay I am 15/F and I have... sort of embarrasing problem. For some reason I cannot trust guys and men. When I was younger, I was a total tomboy and ALL of my friends were guys. And I still am that way, except the only guys that I can become friends with have to be the same age or younger. I am a freshman, and I want to get to know some of the other guys that might be a little older than me, but If they ever even look at me I get all closed up and embarrased. I really hate it. The same goes with older men. Like male teachers and stuff, I am SOO closed up around them, like everyone is trying to hurt me or something. I dont know, maybe it is something from my past that causes me to do this, but I dont have anything bad that ever happaned to me...
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Hard time keeping friends
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 6:24 pm
I am a really nice person and everyone who meets me agrees. i am good at making friends but i have a hard time keeping them because i'm so shy/quiet and like to keep to myself (one time a classmate even called me antisocial). i dont know if its just me or the other person. for example, i was at this camp a month ago and met this guy that i really liked and confessed my feelings for him- but i knew nothing was gonna happen so i made almost no attempt to contact him until recently. when i did talk to him, it wasnt as big a deal i thought it would be. but sometimes i feel socially awkward. any tips of abating shyness/awkwardness when talking to ppl? its like i have anxiety/doubt that ppl wont like me anymore if they really get to know me so i...
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FRIEND WONT SHUTUP ABOUT GUYS
Posted Saturday August 18 2007, 8:31 pm
Okay, so my best friend and I are guy crazy..but she has like a new boyfriend every week and/or has this "hott guy" whose like 5 years older than her who likes her. I mean when we talk on the phone THATS ALL SHE TALKS ABOUT and she tells me every single detail and wont shutup about "oh my gosh he's really cute". But whenever i have guy news she doesnt comments or she's like "oh,wow" then she continues on with her stupid conversation. I MEAN YEAH SHE'S A HOE!!! EVERYONE AT SCHOOL SAYS IT. But how do i tell her to shut the eff up without sounding so mean?
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Have you ever...
Posted Saturday August 18 2007, 7:11 pm
have you ever had a friend that's told you they've kept something from you for a long time and that they're afraid of telling you what it is because they're afraid your gonna look at them differently and not be they're friends anymore..then you ask them what it was but they don't say anything.. what would you tell them, or do in this situation??? just need some advice from other people.... thankz * Skyla *
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Ughhhh. =/
Posted Saturday August 18 2007, 1:34 pm
I think I put this in the wrong category. Sorry!
Thanks in advance, though. =]
Last year, I lost alot of friends because these girls randomly decided they hated me for no reason and they were really rude to me, turned alot of my friends against me for no reason, etc. To make a long story short, I have basically no self-esteem now cause of them & I never want to be friends with them again in my life. About twenty of my other friends are at another school now & I never see them cause the county decided to redistrict them, so at the school I go to now, I only have ten more friends there. I have absolutely no classes with any of them though, but I have all of the classes with the girls that I really don`t like. Nex...
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i'm bitter and very hurt
Posted Friday August 17 2007, 8:53 pm
School's coming up within the next week and I do not want to see anyone. I feel like I've gotten more bitter over the summer...like all the joy and excitement of seeing my old friends have flushed away. All summer long, those myspace comments, "We miss you so much Claire!"..., "We have to hang out!" What about those yearbook signings? "Claire, we are SOOO hanging out this summer!" Guess what. Not one phone call. Nothing. NO INVITES. I feel betrayed and so out of the circle. I see pictures of them hanging out and laughing on myspace/facebook. It's like they're rubbing it in that I'm not with them or something. Is it wrong of me to feel bitter towards each and every one of them? I didn't see any of my "frien...
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bob..i guess
Posted Friday August 17 2007, 6:43 pm
bob..
i like him and he and i were really close for a long time after my bestfriend and his ex broke up with him..soo
then we drifted and we kinda started talking again and now his current girlfriend cheated on him..
alot..like doing the grown up and stuff..soo should i still keep talking to him? and if so about what?
b/c soon i will have liked him for a hole year and its really hard seeing him upset and he's still going out with his girlfriend..
and he is the type that changes for his girlfriends..he's not all the same when i liked him..and im really confused about it so if you would help me that would be great!
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How to find the courage to be my real self?
Posted Friday August 17 2007, 4:36 pm
I desperately want to be my real self but don't have the courage to: I care too much about how other people and society think of me, which makes me frequently succumb to peer pressure and try to be like everyone else. I HATE this cowardice of mine, but don't know how to change. How can I find the strength and courage to be what I truly am?
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friend
Posted Friday August 17 2007, 1:38 am
okay so my friend
that i talk to almost EVERYDAY on aim
like randomly stoped talking to me.
and i dont know why!
ever since this one day
when my favorite show "the hills"
was on, i put up an away message
and when i came back, he left a message saying
"hii"
so i replyed, and i was about to like
tell a story
and he randomly goes
"i have to go, i cant talk now sorry"
and i was like "oh okay.. well i guess i'll go back to watching tv."
and then usually he goes like
"GOOD NIGHT!!!"
but that night he was like
"uh. gnite"
and freaking signed off!
a...
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Being a good listener.
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 11:13 pm
When someone is opening up to you, and you have no idea what their going through because you have never been there before, what can you say to them ?
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shes got a problem.
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 10:41 pm
I have this friend that i love to death but i keep alot of stuff from her. I keep stuff & lie to her sometimes because i feel that she judges me based on what i decide to do in my life.
i lost my virginity to a guy that she hated. At first i didnt tell her that i had sex with him but then i broke down at work and started crying because i was really stressed out because i thought i was pregnant. When i told her that she looked at me and told me i shouldn't have had sex with him and that i am stupid for doing it.
Another night i was hanging out with another guy friend and i was drinking with him and i ended up messing around with him ( we did not have sex ). but we ended up getting in a fight and never talked...
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drunk or no?
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 9:57 pm
So i am 15 and i am going to my friend birthday party in 2 days. At the party there is not going to be alcohol or smoking or anything. But afterwards I am spending the night at her house with a whole bunch of people and there is gonna be drinking and smoking and i already know i don't want to smoke but I am iffy on the drinking. My friend told me I didn't have to but I would feel kind of left out so I kinda want to. Do you think its a bad idea? or should I enjoy my youth?
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