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more loud and outgoing...
Posted Sunday August 26 2007, 1:18 am
hay i dont know what to do... i want to be loud and outgoing but when im with my friends im kinda quiet and i dont contribute to the convasation much... most of the time i just dont know what to say?! how can i be more lound funny and outgoing without trying to hard?
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Im depressed but i have the best friends
Posted Sunday August 26 2007, 1:05 am
This whole summer i hung out with 5 people. I LOVE THEM!! THERE MY LIFE!! THERE AMMAAZZIINGG!! now summers over everyone is home and i wen ton town and saw my EX-FRIENDS. they all looke dlike they were having so much fun wth each other and i was like embarresed to be seen. like i ahte when people see me because wer not friends anymore. and i was so jelous that they were with everyone and all i had was like 4 friends. i have the best friends in thr world. why am i so depresssed. what can i do??
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ex-bestfriends
Posted Saturday August 25 2007, 10:28 pm
okay so i'm gonna try to make this as short as possible, but i'm sorry if it gets long.
so basically, i was best friends with these two girls [let's call them sue and marge] since freshman year of high school. but during sophomore year, all this drama happened and we weren't friends anymore, but marge and sue remained best friends. i don't know what to do because i still care about them, but i know they've moved on and stuff. and i feel like such a loser coz i can't move on like they did. sometimes i think it's normal that i feel that way coz they're the ones that left me, and they have each other, so it makes sense that they can move on so quickly. and i don't understand why i still get jealous when i see them hanging out an...
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Is this normal???
Posted Saturday August 25 2007, 12:25 pm
Me and my friend Megan are like BFF's but she critizizes me and everyone(points out random imperfections) and also say stuff like, "You are so fat! You look gross!(then a pause) Ha just kidding." She does this to everyone. And says like "no one wants you here!(then laughs) just kidding". I mean she just is really annoying. I want a friend who is actually serious about things and isn't always criti. everyone and then pretends she never said it. Sometimes what she says really hurts me, even if she says shes kidding. And people that don't know her as well as i do, well i am scared that she is lowering their confidence and making them kindda self consious.
Like an example of her doing that is this:
One ...
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boys boys boys.
Posted Saturday August 25 2007, 12:33 am
so i have a problem. i can never hold a conversation with a guy wheni talk to them on aim. it seems like we run outta things ot talk aobut. we go throught he suaul whats up and everything and then we just kinda fade out.
how do i keep the conversations going.??
any adivce is appreciated!
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How to carry conversation
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 11:11 pm
I am very outgoing and can usually carry conversations very well if there are 3 or more people, however if it is just me and one other person, I can't seem to keep a conversation going. Any tips on how to keep conversations going and not make it awkward?
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Diamond Earrings
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 8:40 pm
My boss gave me diamond earrings for Christmas. I am a married woman and he is a married man.
I know his wife thinks this was an inappropriate present. I am torn. What should I do?
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Nude pictures
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 3:43 pm
When we were in our 20s, my best friend "Debbie" was an actress in several movies and television shows. Then she married, started a family and retired to be a stay-at-home mom. However, when she was just starting out and was desperate for work, she had a nude role in a movie. It wasn't pornography, but it was graphic.
Her sons are now in high school and college.
Last week, I was searching for her new e-mail address and did a Web search on the Internet. I found several pictures of her that had been taken on the movie set -- and those pictures could definitely be called pornographic.
I doubt if Debbie knows they exist, much less have been posted on the Internet. She is not much of a Net s...
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Car > computer
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 3:42 pm
Our friend, "Jake," and my husband have helped each other out for years. Jake repairs our cars; my husband helps him out with his computer needs.
The last time we had trouble with our car, Jake said he'd look at it. He called later and said we needed new brakes, some adjustments, and that some of the fluids needed to be changed. He estimated the cost would be about $200.
When Jake finished the repairs, he brought our car back (instead of our picking it up like we usually do) and left a bill in the car for $400 -- $100 for brakes and fluids, $300 for labor.
We were shocked. Jake never charged for his labor before, and my husband has never charged Jake for working on his computer. We cont...
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why is she...?
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 2:59 pm
okay my friend is a good friend and nice shes sometimes mean but shes cool but when my friend and me drank alcohol she was laughing a lot and she was funny but then few minutes later she got quite and i asked her why shes quite and she looked at me in a sad face and said nothing but then the tears came up from her and she burst up crying and she keep saying "im sorry for being a bad friend im sorry if i couldnt be there for you i wanna be there for you guys but im sorry if i couldnt" and kept crying and i told her its okay and we comforted her and she slept and when she woke up she was just acting normal and asked us what happened and stuff so what do you think about my friend? what kind of drunk is she?
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BF obsessed with boys
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 2:42 pm
14/f
Ok so last year I met this girl and she's my best friend. We laugh a lot and have fun together. I've never had a real best friend because all of my friends turn their backs on me. But she's not like that.. lets call her Jane
Recently, Jane has been obsessed with boys... and I know that it's normal at this age... but this is just getting out of control. She's crushing on 3 different guys!!!
guy #1- her neighbor, she says that he is only a friend... but constantly wants to see him and spend time with him
Guy #2- Her ex, they've been together for about 1 or 2 months... He's one of my friends. He's always talking about her, and she's spending time with him
Guy #3- ...
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ohhhh! love & friends.
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 2:42 pm
15/f
both of my best friends feel as though they've been replaced with my new boyfriend. it sucks so much... especially because one of them is being a total hypocrite about it. she also had a new boyfriend before i did and she's head over heels for him. they spend all their time together. everything sucks and the only thing i can do is cut. i wish it wasn't like this. please help.
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What do I do I need help and fast before it destroys us!!!!
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 9:42 am
Hi My problem is well I have been bfs with this friend lets call her jo for almost five years now and I have always been there for her and she for me but you see she turned 18 a few months back and I dont turn until two weeks and well I new she would get new friends and yes I am a little jealous I supppose but its not unfounded you see she recently made this new friend lets say amy and well she doesnt have time for me now. we used to phone each other every night and now when she tells me to phone shes never there shes out with amy. It at first didnt bother me but now it pisses me off cause we made a deal that we would never let someone come between us and that wed always be there for each other.
Also any time we spend time together a...
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Wrong category i think
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 5:04 am
Well i have a problem im to nice i guess like when someone calls me a slut i get upset easily if someones says im ugly or calls me a bitch or anything i get upset and i cant have a fight with someone cause im too scared im 15/f by the way and when i see someone upset i get upset when i see someone ina fight i cry when someone tells me off i cant stand up to myself and i just start crying i need help :( please any advice that i can become a little bit tougher =[
Anything will do ?
xoxo
Thanks
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I'm new at a school
Posted Friday August 24 2007, 12:22 am
and I don't know anyone anyway i can make an impression?
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Getting bashed
Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 11:05 pm
this guy rekons ive been making stuff up about him and he is going to get me smashed/bashed.
my parents and friends say dont worry about it and that nobody will touch me.
do people just say stuff to scare you?
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woops. sry.
Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 10:56 pm
So i had a crush on this guy for like a whole year and he has a crush on me . he asked me out and i said "no" . well because i knooww im not ready for a relationship. Now its summer, and i just figured out... well , i dont like him. He was a big flirt and, now that i think about it, i am so better than him and hes not the type i want. A complete jerk, thats what he was. But now that i dont like him ; i see that. So im going back to school on monday and he sent a message to me saying tht ' he can wait to see me and he missed me' pshh ahah yeah right. he missed my body , thats how perverted he is. now, how am i supposed to tell him without hurting his felings or telling him straight up that he is a; perve,jerk,not my type, douche ba...
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sick and tired
Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 10:46 pm
Ohkay so i have this friend hwo ive known ever since 4th grade. meaning 4years ive known her. And we've been the best of friends. She knows me the best and i know her the best. But she has these other two friends that they make there little group thing. And now she mostly hangs out with them. And or dicthes me sometimes for them. Shes those people who really doesnt care about anything, sometime or mostly can be selfish and spioled . But, shes my friend and i accept that. Theres alot of reasons that were friends. But yeah anyways , Ive called her everyday and she never, even once called me back. Nope. But she always has her phone with her . Im sick of it. She only picks it up for "j" which is one of her buddies in her little "...
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Jelousy
Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 9:05 pm
Okay I dont know why But i get SOOOOOOOO Jelous whenever my friends hang out without me.!
I dont know Why, Like me and my cousin Jill are Really Good Friends With This Girl Named Heather and like Whenever they hang out without me i Get SOOOOOo jelous its not even funny.
And I really Want to Stop I hate Feeling Like That And sometimes it Causes Fights and I really Just want It to Stop.
So Please help Me Get rid of all this Jelousy.
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ditching us.
Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 9:03 pm
Okay well Me and my cousin Jill hang out with these girls Erin, Erin, Marissa, and Danielle.
well today we were planning a sleepover For tongiht And Everything and Then Like Out of No where They are Like, I am tired I think we Should Do it another night. But I just Looked at There Away messages and they are All having a Sleepover without Me and Jill.
By the way, This isnt the first time it happened, Its actually the 4th I talked About it to Them, the First TWO Times it Happened. and They flipped out on me. SO right Now i am confused I mean i wanna Tell them how i feel But They Keep on Flipping out on Me.
My Friend Heather used to be Friends with Them but Stopped Because they Kept doing This is to her too...
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