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Freind/Crush
Posted Wednesday September 5 2007, 8:52 pm
Know i know this is sounds wierd but i think that the guy that i like, likes my BFF. He always laughs at her jokes and they talk alot. At lunch he tends to steer twords her. But he also doesn't tell her his secrets. But he tells me his deepest secrets, but he won't tell me who he likes.
But i feel like "unconfident" around him, when him and her are around eachother. Like an example is at lunch i can't really talk to him because i have this mind set that he likes her.
I guess what i want to know is if i THINK he likes her, should i flirt more and make him like me? Or.... Leave him alone and let her "have" him? Or... What else is there???
P.S. Did i forget to mention she ALSO LIKES HIM!!! Omg. help if you can PLEASE!!!
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Guy Friends
Posted Wednesday September 5 2007, 7:37 pm
Okay I have a lot of guys friends.. and Im a girl but that doesn't madder right?? A bunch of preps started calling me Kevin instead of Katie which is retarted! But.. okay I was hanging with Adam and we had to sit on the bleechers and i was like Move YOUR feet! because he spread his legs and err haha and Olivia(prep bitch!) was like oh why dont you just sit between his legs! So being me I did and Nathen, Josh and Adam started cracking up and MCKenzie(another prep) was like wow Adam if you like her that much.. and he took it as a complete joke and was like OOO yes I love **Kevin and huged me from the back and kept his arms around me and Mr.Davis(PE teacher) was like you need to keep your hands away from eachother! Wickedd loud and we started ...
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droppp
Posted Wednesday September 5 2007, 5:00 pm
15/f
ok my best friend, is gonna be a highschool drop out, i just know it. i can see it already. its only the second week of school, and she stayed home, because she didnt feel like coming. and then her mom does her math homework, because she doesnt get it, and i told her that she should go down to a lower math class, but her mom wont let her, and her mom hardly ever wakes her up in the moring. i mean she is so irresponsible. and its getting annoying. and like she always will be like, well dont you think itd be fun to skip class? or do drugs? like just a little.
what should i say to her? i dont want her to drop out of school
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My best mate is leaving
Posted Wednesday September 5 2007, 4:57 pm
My best mate is leaving on saturday to live in cyprus. I want to get her a present but i'm not sure of what to get her.
Any ideas ?
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Advice on losing long time friend
Posted Wednesday September 5 2007, 2:15 pm
I have a situation that I really don't know how to deal with. I feel like just blowing my friend off, but I know in the long run that may not be the best solution. I am a married guy with a one year old boy. It seems that since we had kids, our friends don't want to be friends anymore (but perhaps that's not true). Perhaps, we are still working on balancing our family and social life. There's one particular guy friend of mine and we've been pals for a long time. He's married (without kids, by choice). We've been friends long before I even met my wife. In the past, he has been very supportive of my family and kid, but over the past few months, it's been a struggle. He will never call unless I call him first. When I do call, he's ve...
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Annoyed
Posted Wednesday September 5 2007, 2:11 am
When I feel annoyed or/and pissing I give out short answers to my friend and family when they ask a question, I snap at them, I will have a frown on my face and curse at anything under my breath. But Lara laughs and teases when I am annoyed and pissed. I don’t take it seriously because she said she loves doing that to me and I know she is joking and she always get hyper too but I want to know why does she giggle at me?
FROM:I need a 2nd opinion
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Why do I always hook up with my friends' boyfriends?
Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 9:43 pm
Now I know that I have nobody to blame but myself, but I have wrecked nearly every close friendship I have had in my life because I end up hooking up with my friends' boyfriends behind their back. Most of the time there is drinking involved, but I don't think that is the problem. I think the desire to do it is already in me before the drinks and it just ends up being easier to do once I am drunk. I do not know why I do this. I know that I just want to feel wanted and I like the attention that I get from men, I guess it is an ego thing. I really love my friends and don't want to hurt them but I can't seem to break this cycle. I don't want to have to avoid ever hanging out with a friend when their boyfriend is around, I need to find a w...
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partyy
Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 9:08 pm
15/f
my one friend is having a sweet 16 party, like in october. and i mean, i really wanna go, because me and her were really good friends. but like, i dont know any of her friends. and i feel weird. because i dont wanna like follow her around, yano? i guess its pretty big, and alot of people are gonna be there. but its no one i know.
what should i do?
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I need friends
Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 11:37 am
15/f
i know this might be a stupid question...but how do you make friends?? i have problems with that. i have like no friends right now and i want to make some and it is the begginging of the school year. i jsut need help..thanks in advance!!!
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this probably doesn't mean anything
Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 12:58 am
there's this kid that i work with and he pretty much ignores new people and i'm new, well 2 months. we never really talk and if we do it's only because i have to tell him to get me something or vice versa. its always just a one way conversation though. today he screwed up one of my orders (he's the fry cook of the custard stand i work at) and he made extra of something and when i told him i didn't need it he said "i hate you." he's the type of person that is mean but funny and probably isn't really truly a mean person but because im new and i know he doesn't like new people i don't know what to think of it. at the moment i just laughed at him after he said it and walked away. would you guys say he was joking or no?
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friend or not a friend
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 11:30 pm
Okay so i have 2 friends who live down the street from me, their names are eva and gabby, and they arent friends with eachother., evas mom lives here, but her dad lives in another town, and this summer, she decided she was gonna live there with him, and go to school in that town, so when she would come back home for a couple days each month this summer, i would hangout with her each day that she'd be here. Now my other friend, Gabby shes been home the whole summer, hanging out with neighborhood kids, and stuff, but we've only hungout maybe 6 times the whole summer, i dont know; the problem is, gabby keeps asking me to hangout before school starts [3 days] and i just feel like, i dont really feel like hanging out with her, and i dont know w...
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I'm depressed, lonely and upset.
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 2:26 pm
Nothing has ever happened to me. I've never been raped. I've never been molested. Whatever. But now that I'm developing into an adult, I see that I care about no-one but myself. Not even my parents. I only look out for myself. I'm narcissistic, vain, a jerk and mean. I don't know what to do with myself. I could care less if I have friends or not. And I could care less what happens to them. I'm really antisocial. I get angry for no reason. I never had a boyfriend, so it's out of the question...I CAN'T get a boyfriend. And whenever I try to force myself to be social, it fails. I can't be social. And I fear talking on the phone.
Please help. I don't know what to do with myself. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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i have a problem with talking!
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 1:59 pm
Whenever I am around people in my school or at concerts...I don't really talk. People say I don't talk that much. But I never know what to say! What do I say to people?!?! I am just quiet and I never really noticed it! I want to be more random and everything but I don't want to scare people haha. What do I do???
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first year of high school
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 3:10 am
ok so it's my first year of high school tuesday and well the school i was at last year i guess people judged me alot on the way i look and stuff and made fun of me and i'm kinda scared it will either be the same or worse in high school so any suggestions on what i should do i mean i'm trying to change some of the things people made fun of me about cause i dont like them and i feel i will be happier if i do but that might take a while any ways to just make friends and be happy while i'm trying to change if that makes sense
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guy friends
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 3:06 am
ok so i know this is probably a stupid question or whatever but i kinda want more guy friends just friends cause well girls are just well yeah i just want a few guy friends is there nayway i can go about doing this??
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I like older guys =/
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 12:01 am
So I am 16/F. I have always liked older guys.
I know this is probably a stupid question, but is that wrong/bad? I mean the guys in my grade are o-k, but they seem so imature to me, and so un aware of how girls wan't to be treated you know? Its probably because they are young, and most of them haven't been jaded yet. But what my main point is, do I even stand a chance with older guys? Or do they think of me like I think of the guys in my grade?
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worried about him.
Posted Sunday September 2 2007, 4:22 pm
16/f. a friend of mine just died. and another friend, david, isnt really showing any emotion. and i know its affecting him cause he was like best friends with the kid that died. i told david that im here for him and such, but im worried. i know its not healthy to keep everything in. he'll talk to me when its just me and him. no body else around. and that doesnt happen too often. maybe its just a guy thing. idk. but im worried. and idk what to say or do.
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new friends? =[
Posted Sunday September 2 2007, 10:49 am
Okay, so I feel like I need new friends. This summer I've completely changed. Before summer I had little self esteem whatsoever and I always felt like I didnt know what to say in social situations. But now let's just say that I understand what people mean when they say "be yourself".
So now..I feel like I need to get rid of my old friends because some of them still see me as some pushover person who follows the leader. But I dont want to get rid of my friends outright because then I would have nobody to hang out with at school dances and stuff and I would look like a total loser if I had to hang out with my new friends because it's like..they might think I had no friends to begin with. (yeah..JUST THIS ONCE im goin...
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Can't stand serious people...
Posted Sunday September 2 2007, 10:13 am
So, I've been up at college for a little over two weeks now. All my classes are great and everything, but the people here are driving me nuts!!! I am generally an all around happy person and I love laughing and just having a good time. Whenever I try to be friendly with someone, I can't really get a response out of them. You know, they'll just kind of have one-word conversations with me or something like that.
At first, I didn't really notice how boring the people were up there, but when I came home for Labor day weekend to see my family and my boyfriend I realized something. Last night, my boyfriend and I were just driving around town, cracking jokes, and laughing hysterically about anything and everything. It occured to me...
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Best friend is a whore
Posted Sunday September 2 2007, 3:44 am
WEll ok my best friend is a girl and we have been through alot together and i really love her and dont want anything to happen to her and ill make sure that nothing does however, theres a problem she likes to get around and have fun with guys and it hurts/ pisses me off...by the way i dont like her more than a friends...she gives them head,let them finger her, and fucks them and im afraid one time somethings going to go wrong and she going to get pregnant...i want to convice her she dont need it but she just laughs at me and goes and does it anyway such as right now shes fucking a friend of mine in my basement...i dont no what to do...i want to tell her how i feel and also get her to stop!! Anythign in helpful! Thanks
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