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FaMiLy FrEnZy
Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 6:17 pm
When i was 6 i was put up for adaption..and i lost touch with all of my brothers and sisters. Well one of my 5 siblings was also put up for adaption after me. I recently found her on myspace and i sent her a message..and im nervous like she was on today and i sent her a message but she dosent answer its like she dosent even care..what should i do??
much lovee
lila
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My mother.
Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 10:56 am
Okay, so here's the story: I left my backpack in my mom's car. She threatened to take it to work the next day (today). She always makes empty threats and never follows through. She bugged me about my backpack, and I told her not to nag me. When people nag me, I tune them out. So I fell asleep and forgot about my backpack. It's with my mom at work, and I can't go to school now becuase I don't have anything and all of my grades would drop for things that I didn't have//couldn't turn in. Do you think it was right for her to take my backpack?
I mean, I know that I should have taken it out of her car. But do you think it was right for her to take it?
She took out half of my other stuff, but she left my backpack.
And it sucks.
Opinions?
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Is he psycho?
Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 11:16 pm
ok so this is part of a im that me and my bf had:
cutisammy:i think we should take somee timee off..
jeffinthe313:nope.
cutisammy:wut do you mean no? you cant just say no
jeffinthe313:i mean if we break up i will kill mi self so no
cutisammy:umm..sorry that you feel that way but uhh i really think we should have a break
jeffinthe313:bitch if you break up with me ill kill u then me..so dont fuckin think twice!
jeffinthe313:r you still breakin up wit me?
cutisammy:i g2g
woah. he like flipped out on me and he never did that before..i dunno what to do and im not goin to the po po (unless i really have to so please dont say that i should!)
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wont let us hang out
Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 7:42 pm
Alright, I have had it. I talked to my mom about letting my boyfriend and I hang out. She won't let us hang out alone (by the way, I'm 15) Which i understand. My boyfriend just called a couple minutes ago and talked to my mom and asked her if I could go with him and another couple to the movies. My mom said no to this because she said she doesn't trust the couple because they have been together for so long and the boy has a bad reputation and I have told my mom this before. I asked my mom if it would be ok to go with some of my friends and she said no because someone might end up being upset because they arent getting enough attention. I told her I give everyone the equal amount of attention. She goes back and says "Well you still are ...
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conflicting days
Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 6:44 pm
the race for the cure in tyler tx is the same weekend as my banquet. were supposed to go b/c my mom and grandma both had it and my grandma lives in tyler. im not going b/c i have banquet and i have a date who i REALLY wanna go w/ but now i dont know how im gonna get there if my mom and sister arent gonna be here i dunno if my dad could take me and i feel guilty for not going cuz its mothers day weekend. is it ok for me not to go and go to my banquet instead?
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ughh
Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 8:51 pm
my mom always hits me. i have scratch and bite marks all over me. how do i stop my mom from punching me? she always hurts me for no reason. i really don't know what to do. i'm scared. she never hits my sister. only me. and my fat pig sister always does the wrong things and i don't and nothing ever happens to her. help. <33
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My Friend's Alcoholic Mother
Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 4:56 pm
My friends' mother is an alcoholic. She is constantly drunk, belligerent, and aggressive, yells and passes out in front of guests. Her children cant stand living in the house anymore, but despite numerous calls to child services and the police, they have been told that there is nothing that can be done unless the mother seriously injures one of them. I fear for my friends, the stability of the family, and their mental well-being. All of the family members are kind and caring people but at home, they are constantly at each-other's throats and on the verge of a possibly much more serious problem. Is there any way to force this mother into a rehabilitation program? I really appreciate any insight you can provide, my friends are at the breaking point and feel there are no options left.
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I just dont know what to do anymore
Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 4:39 pm
Ok well my mom is the type that dosent listen. She dosent trust me going to my friends house when the parents arent home. She thinks we going to do something. Thats gets me very mad to cause i try to tell her we wont but she dosent believer me. I lost my trust with her once. I want to get it back but it just wont work and i dont know how. She just dosent let me do hardly anything to get it back. So can someone please tell me what can i do cause i dont want to loose my best friends because of something so stupid like that. Please answer fast because i need to talk to her soon. Kristy.
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what an asshole
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 9:59 pm
My best guy friend has been a real asshole to me the past few days. Well today I got really upset because the stuff he's been saying kind of hurts specially coming from someone like him. He'd like tell me that I look like crap, that my skirt is too short, tell me to shut up, give me that "are you a effing retard" look, ignoring me, all kinds of mean things. So I asked him if he was mad at me because he never acts this way towards me. He said no so I asked him why he's being so mean and he just said that it wasn't his fault that I can't take honesty and that I take things too seriously then just walked away.
What am I supposed to do? I really don't know what I did and he wont tell me. 18/f
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molestation? its long, but please help.
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 6:09 pm
I dont know what's wrong with me. To start off, all my life I've had this majorly bad anxiety problem. When I was around 2-3 years old, I stopped speaking to my dad completely. Looking back on it, I assumed it was because he had a bad temper, and I was just afraid...because after I stopped talking to him and he realized that I stopped talking to ONLY him, he threw me against a wall and shook me and screamed at me .. I dont know. Thats all I know. I have a mom, 2 sisters, and 2 brothers, all older than me. Everybody in my family knows what happened, but I dont remember what happened. I only remember up to the part where he picked me up and started shaking me. And its like I blocked out the rest of it or something... because I cant remember i...
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cheating?
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 1:16 pm
ok so a few years ago i came across a few letters and had no idea what it really meant, then a few weeks ago i went looking for the letters again. In those letters i found out my father had had an affair with my mothers best friend. My parents are stilll together, and they do not know that i have found out about this secret. And then a few days ago i found some txt messages on my dads phone saying stuff like "u never really loved me...u f***** me..." they were not from anyone i knew, but why were they on his phone?
Separate to knowing this, i started to cut. i got scared thought, beacause i know you can cut a vein and die.
im sad and angery, but i have no real reason.
i really want to talk to someone about ev...
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oh brotherr
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 1:07 pm
okayy well my brother is only about 16 months older then me.. we are pretty close but sometimes he can be totally horrible to me and my friends.. he has a bunch of close guys friends thatt are allways at my house. one of my brothers friends i think im attracted to but i dont kno what to do.. my brother would kill me if i made a move and im not sure how my brother's friend would react.. i mean i have caughten him checking me out when i walk around the house in skimpy little pajamas that i accidentally wore when he was at my house;)
<33 oh brotherr
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ughhh
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 12:57 pm
alright well my sister is sleeping over my grandmas tonight. except she is too scared to sleep in a bedroom alone and the only person she trusts to sleep with her is me. but, i`ve already made plans to sleep over my best friends house and i can't cancel my plans. now my sister is crying because she wants me to sleep over my grandmas with her, but seriously this is vacation and the last thing i want to do is spend a night with my grandma while forced to sleep in the same bed as my 8 year old pain in the ass sister. and i can't cancel my plans. but my mom (as always) is taking my sisters side and saying i have to make her happy. but i always have to give in to my sister. it can never be a compromise! NEVER its her way or the high way. if i sa...
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Getting mom to stop tickling meh
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 2:03 am
OK, so this probably sounds really stupid or trivial, but I seriously have a problem with my mom always 'playfully' giving me a tickle. I'm an introvert, and I just don't like being forced to focus on her just because my she wants attention; i feel like I'm some plaything, and it makes me feel worthless. I've told her to stop, I've told her how it makes me feel, but she just brushes off my complaints and tells me to 'not be so serious'. Well, that's just who I am, and I don't want to deny my own feelings just because someone else doesn't respect them. So how do I get her to stop?
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my madre
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 12:46 am
f/14
lately i haven't been getting along with my mom at all, which really sucks because ever sinse i was young we've had a good relationship. it seems like she really babies my oldest brother who is 25 and i think it's because she doesn't want him to move out. i get so angry and frusterated and i don't know how to deal with how mad i get. my dad agrees that she babies them, but i think he thinks i overreact too. also, she wants me to stay home more often which i don't want too because we don't get along and i want to do stuff with my friends. how do i talk to her with out getting in fights? how do i deal with how angry i get?
helppp pleaseee
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How to stop overparenting
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 12:13 am
It seems silly to start off with, "I have this friend who..." but unfortunately that is the case. I , in fact, HAVE a friend who is severly overparented. Her mother has always been a beast of burden, constantly calling, worrying, ranting about how she's being rude or distant or gaining weight (she's 5'9 and 110 lbs btw). The constant nagging never ends. The biggest problem is that she's 20 years old now and it hasn't stopped. She had to come back from college because of an illness and now has to stay with her family until her treatment is over. She has a 10:00pm curfew because her mother refuses to go to bed until she's home. She calls every hour to make sure she takes her pills and asks where she is and what she's doing and whom...
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sister is driving me CRAZZYYY
Posted Sunday April 16 2006, 2:31 pm
I don't know what my sister's problem is but it's really getting on my nerves.
She has the random freak out sessions over the smallest things.
A bunch of our friends were over the other night and we were all in the game room. She was on the computer and I was laying down next to her chair. Every once in a while I would set my feet on the bottom of the chair (where the legs/wheels are) and she make a big deal out of it and say how she can feel me moving it. After she yelled at the top of her lungs about it, I moved up a little to be sure that I wouldn't touch the stupid chair. Then, my friend Andrew made me laugh and I moved around a little and my leg hit her chair lightly. She got up and asked ...
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family prob
Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 9:36 pm
my mom and dad seperated last year. yesterday, i was borrowing my mom's phone, then it beeped. I thought the message was for me(from my mom, she has two phones) so i opened it. then it turns out the message was for my mom. i'm pretty sure her ex-boyfriend sent her that message. but from what i know, they're only friends now. there was some sort of code and i think it meant "luv yu", at the end of the message there was "Muah". friends don't really say that to each other do they? her ex-boyfriend is now living in another country. me and mom are going to that country this year and we're meeting him there. the reason my mom and dad seperated was because of her ex-boyfriend--and he took drugs too that time(my dad).from that m...
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This is a complicated story and I need alot of options
Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 9:33 pm
Ok so here's the story:
My grandma had a stroke about 4 months ago and recently went to hospital ffor gastritis. After she had the stroke for about 2 months she had to stay in a nursing home and then she came home. Now the problem is tonight her sugar is relly high but someone went for strong insulin so it'll go down.
Now here's the deal:
My uncle wants to put her back in a nursing home but I k now my grandma wouldn't want to be there. My mum, me, my aunt and everyone else in our family and relatives don't think it's a good idea because he's the only son, got all her wealth(which is alot) and now he doesn't want to take care of her. The problem is right...he doesn't take care of her...me and my mum and the babysitter t...
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easter
Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 8:33 pm
I have to go to my dads on sundays.. and my mamaw has a dinner on easter and i want to go to it.. i told my dad i want to spend time with both of my familys on that day.. he said the only way i could do that is after i eat my mamaws my sister and other sister has to come with me.. but they won't .. so what could I do?
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