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friend problems...
Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 11:35 pm
im 16/f umm at my school there's this new girl named tori and she's in my chemistry class. and we talked & stuff. and she would wait for me after class. but after a while she stopped waiting for me and she even stopped talking to me. i don't know why. and one day in class i said hi to her and she was like umm hey and she was being weird and rude. i know i shouldn't care but i felt like i've lost a friend. i don't get why doesn't she talk to me anymore? i didn't do anything to her.. so what should i do?
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My friend/crush touble
Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 10:50 am
So I am really not too happy here. There is this guy called mark who I guess everyone likes but not for the obvious reasons, but because he is really funny and easy to talk to. I have had the biggest crush on him for a while now, and for a while I thought he liked me too. But then, I found out my best friend claire who is best friends (like, really, BEST FRIENDS, top on myspace, talk to eachother for hours on the phone each night) with mark, and she has a HUGE crush on him. She told me (and only me) about it because she thought that I didn't like him while everyone else did. Now I still really like him, but telling him wouldn't do any good because girls tell him daly that they like him and he never cares, and it might ruin our friendship. P...
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partyyy
Posted Friday September 14 2007, 8:06 am
im having a party next saturday for my 18th. Alot of people are going to be there i have to look so cute and i dont know what to wear or where to shop. I want to look sexy but also cute. If anyone has any ideas it help thanksss
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how to make some friends...
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:38 pm
I came to my new school January so I'm still pretty new. I just want to know how to make some friends. I'm nice & a good friend.... I've never had this problem until now... but it seems like everything I say or do is wrong & no one wants to hang out with me... or learn my name... or eat lunch with me. Any help would be greatly appreciated! 16/F/Junior.
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it all just stopped
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:35 pm
i had a best friend. she was amazing and i loved her (as a friend). we were like family. i'd stay at her house even if she wasn't there and her grandparents would always hug me along with their actual grandchildren. i was at her house at least 4 nights a week for dinner and i'd stay over at least one night every weekend. i wasn't clingy we were just very close. we knew everything about each other. that was in 10th grade.during tenth a lot of drama happened that i was involved in and a lot of people started to hate me for a false rumor but my best friend defended me the whole time because she knows i'd never lie to her. then the summer happened. one day one of my guy friends asked why i wasn't at one of her parties and i said because i wasn'...
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suprising my best friend!!
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 9:47 pm
Okay, i moved about 3 months ago and i had to leave my best friend behind :(. When i left she was mad and slammed the door in my face, we worked out that whole argument and everything is good but we miss eachother terriably! I mentioned to her how my mom had to go back home(thats what i call it) next week and i might come with her she got excited and asked what day, i told her wednesday but really we're going on monday, i want to suprise her but i have no idea how to go about it. I'm hoping we'll get there before she gets home from school so i can sit on her steps with a sign or something. But do yall have any good ideas on how to suprise her? Keep in mind its been about 3 1/2 months since we've seen eachother. THANKS!!
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idk if my friend set me up but her friends are creepin me ou
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 7:16 pm
my best friend used to be in our group but then she left us for all these gothic kids. she denys being gothic. today at school she wore all black and dark purple. her friend started talking to me and he was sayin ew omg shes so gothic and she cuts why are you her friend. i was so embarassed i looked at her and her other friend just stared at me and he said why are you acting so happy! and her friends do kinda give me chills in this class ther was her 2 guys and a girl of her friends. she never usually takes any shit from people shed stand up for her self and her friends usually do to. but she sat there peeking smiling. after class she said o what a friend to me and i thought she was talking about me. was this like a setup? we were talking ...
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getting my best friend back
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 1:57 pm
okay, so i had this friend, let's call her Em. and she was seriously my bestest friend. but then all this drama happened during sophomore year of high school and our friendship fell apart. now we're juniors and we're cool now. like we say hi and we're friendly to each other and stuff, but it's still pretty awkward between us. like we don't talk like we used to and we obviously dont do all those things best friends used to do anymore. i really miss her. but i don't think she misses me because she has another best friend at school. i want to gradually become close with her again, but i don't want to seem SUPER CLINGY to her because that was one of the reasons why our friendship fell apart. what can i do to get my best friend back? any advice is welcome. thanks so much in advance!
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cutting him off. for good.
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 12:45 pm
Hullo :] 15/f Well, about a year ago, I met a guy online. And I didn't have much friends at that time, so I would be obsessed with talking to him. To the point of staying up till 3 in the morning waiting for him to log in on MSN. He's meaner nnow.....and he changed. He messes with my feelings and hurts me. Okay and so...Now, as I started school. I found that I'm more distracted. And I could seriously not give a shit what he thinks of me anymore. He insults me and makes fun of me. I don't need him. I don't even catch myself thinking about him anymore. He's like an extra unneeded load on my shoulders. My question is...how do I cut him off for good? I don't want to talk to him anymore. How can I do it nicely? Or should I just delete him off MS...
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becoming friends with the new girl
Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 12:44 pm
i met this girl through family friends and she's new to my school. we talk online(aim) and she's a grade younger than me. i want to become friends with her because i recently lost all my friends except one or two so i'd really like a new friend that doesn't know my drama. the thing is that i never see her in school except for one day where we have classes right next to each other but she goes one way and i go the other way and i think she takes the bus home so there isn't much time to hang out after school and i have practice anyways. she's rarely online or she's never online when im online. how can i make this work?
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What's wrong with me?
Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 5:55 pm
Ok well I just started high school and I made some friends and then the newest one i made..she's just so happy and like a kid and everytime i think of her or see her, I just think "I was like that..or atleast I could have been like that now if I didnt' have a bad childhood....even if i was like her now, i wouldn't be as pretty as her.."
And now even though she's my friend, I'm starting to like secretly hate her REALLY bad. This always happens with many friends that I make.
What the hell is wrong with me? Why am i like this? i dont want to be like this but..something like this always happen
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shy and ready to make a changeee
Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 5:49 pm
i've been shy forever
but it's my sophomore year now
and i'm willing to do anything to make this year great
i've never had a real boyfriend, i want one
i want more friends, i wanna go out every weekend and have fun
i just want to enjoy my life, i'm content now but i want more out of life
i'm definitely no doubt about it going to join some clubs, MAYBE do a sport, if i find one i like and just be more outgoing around others.
unfortunately this year, i dont have lunch with my 2 best friends :[ and i sit with this girl im friends with and her friends. so it's good-im gonna try my best to become friends with them. except what do you do when they're sharing inside jokes and talkin...
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party help
Posted Tuesday September 11 2007, 6:14 pm
13 female
i want to have a party for my 14th birthday in my back yard we now some songs we want to play but what kinds of food, direcrations, and stuff to do so the guest don't get bored
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is being myself annoying??
Posted Tuesday September 11 2007, 3:41 pm
Ok so this is my personality I'm outgoing and very LOUD I LOVE TO LAUGH ! Ill laugh at anything and I can be random I like to stand out and sometimes tend to crave center attention =) so there's this girl in two of my periods in highschool this year and she's been talking a lot of crap about how I'm so annoying and how I laugh at everything (which is not true I do know when I'm forcing it and when its the right time to laugh) and its just been pissing me off because she didn't even take the time to get to know me yet and we've been in school for a week and already she's talking shitt its beautiful how she can say stuff behind my back but can't confront herself to me well anyways she stares at me a lot its really weird and I don't want to s...
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Friends don't like eachother D:
Posted Monday September 10 2007, 9:30 pm
Ok! So, I have this best friend called Lucy. We've been best friends since third grade.
Lucy met another best friend in 7th grade, named Kelly. I never really hung out with Kelly except when Lucy was around and even when Lucy was around we usually didn't.
We all went to the same high school which was a big deal because Lucy was supposed to go to Granite Springs and me and Kelly were supposed to go to Newland Heights, where all our friends were going. Well, Lucy was really upset and freaking out and she was going through a bad time with her parents so me and Kelly, being REALLY good friends transfered to Granite, even though Lucy was, like, our only friend there.
So then me and Kelly start to hang out...
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Fun Activities to do with Friends!
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 10:51 pm
okeh. so i really need some ideas of things to do with my friends. I'm 14 and want some fun and creative activites to do. I already know of
Mud Wrestling, Bowling, Movies, Picnic, BBQ, Bonfire, but wut are some other things to do?
=]
p.s. I want it to be good. and something orignal that people will be like, "That was the funnest thing ever!!
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toxic friend, what do I do to get her out of my life?
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 10:39 pm
This is a bit lengthy! Sorry!
I have this "friend", but I don't want her in my life.
We met in college and got along OK on a superficial level, but when we got to know each other more, I just didn't like her. I think she's arrogant, self-centered, and judgmental, and I think she just really brings out the worst in me.
After we graduated, I thought we would just naturally lose contact. When she would contact me, I would be polite, thinking I would never see her again so there is no point in being mean and telling her to leave me alone.
Time passed, and I kind of forgot about her and what I thought of her. We recently got in contact again when she moved to my area. Since I was ...
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She Moved .
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 9:05 pm
It's been bothering me for some time now and I wasnt planning on posting it on here But it's getting worse.
Well, My friend moved about a half an hour away from here but she only comes here sometimes on weekends, We have both started high school , We both hate it.
And today when we were talking on msn she said she had to go back up , I fel as if I wanted to cry, It makes it worse because she hates it. But she won't tell her mom because she's so happy, I jsut don't think it's fair. Plus she has the option to move back but she would live with her dad and her brother already lives with her dad, And well yeah.This may seem like lot of whinning but we have been friends forever.
Any suggestion's?
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cousin.. and ex boyfriend.. HELP!
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 8:51 pm
alright, so my Ex boyfriend, ( well call him rob) cheated on me with my cousin (well call her jen) and then my ex rob broke up with me on the 12th of auguest but he started going out with jen on the 8th.. and i told her that and she doesnt seem it mind i guess.. but a couple days ago rob IMed me and was like i hope we can still be friends and i said of course and he randomly asked me do i miss sex and i said well yah and he said he did to and he just went on about how much sex was fun with me and crap like that and if i would he would do it again and he wants me to like spend the night at his house but pretend im going there to hang out with his sister.. and he said a lot more stuff like that. if i was still going out with rob and he said...
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better realationship with friends...?
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 12:16 pm
I'm a freshman in highschoool, and over the summer i moved so i didnt know anyonre. now i know quite a few people, and i have friends and everything, but I really want to connect more with them. like right now i just have casual friends, but I really want my realationship with them to become better. Like good conversation starters. Any suggestions?
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