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Posted Thursday October 4 2007, 6:01 pm
i cannot stand my friend. she is mean to me. although sometimes she is nice. but i cannot endure anymore. i feel like we're a rollercoaster, switching between mean and nice. i will not elaborate on the reasons why. does anyone know how how i can stop being friends with someone? i think its easier to break up in a relationship but how do you do it with friendship? i have no idea. okay i do not want to talk things over with my friend because she is hard to deal with and that would not work. i do not want to stop talking to her completely. if there is anything i can say or whatever i can do to tell her i dont want to be friends with her anymore in a nice way?
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Does my friend dislike me?
Posted Thursday October 4 2007, 4:51 pm
I don't know..thsi boy is my friend but he never aknowledges me.
My best friend and I always walk together everywhere but when we come to the same path and see him, and says Hi to my best friend and trys to tlak to her and just completely ignores me or act as if I'm nto there.
I hope you guys don't suggest that maybe he has a crush on my best friend because he doesn't they're friends too but atleast he could even say hi when me meet is enough for me but he doesn't even do it and it kinda makes me feel bad.
Does he like me or maybe he's just realyl stupid and really does forget? Or maybe it's something else?
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What's Wrong...?
Posted Thursday October 4 2007, 3:30 pm
I am supposed to be perfectly content. I have a lot a good friends, get almost-perfect grades, am reasonably pretty, pretty fit, and 100% bored. I have nothing to do. I do a beach clean-up every weekend, take art class, have honor society, do drama club, and do spelling team. I will start tutoring young kids next month. It just isn't satisfying. I know I should be happy, and I am, when I do these hobbies and am at school. When I get home, I just want to do SOMETHING. I want to go out, and be with my friends again. My family and home is nice, but it doesn't content me. I feel the need to go to a party, or go shopping or just something outside my house. But I feel as if I'm under house-arrest. I can almost never go out spur-of-the-moment, and...
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best friend.
Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 9:02 pm
okay sorry this is so long,
i met my best friend jess now 4 years ago. best friends since with only a few fights here and there over stupid things.everyone knows we fight then are best friends again. well 8months ago she found this kid and fell head over heals for him. he was a jerk to me and i started being one to him and i hated him and i told her that many times. well we started fighting more and more like once a week over things all leading back to her boyfriend and stuff. now its been almost a year and she has been changing more and more. she used to be the perfect best friend the one everyone dreams about. now she couldnt be worse. lets just say i have a 34 just about c cup and the friends she invites over are pervs and...
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friends who arent the best.
Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 8:48 pm
15/f.
So i feel like im loosing my friends i have currently. I have these other friends who i am getting kind of close to. And i made new friends who are friends of my friends. Now two of the people im getting close to I've known since i was a little girl. These friends arent the best, they smoke, they drink, its all about sex. Im not saying i dont drink but i only do it ocassionally. I really would love to hang out with thme because they are real friends, they stick up for me & listen & help me out. But im not up for the whole partying thing, thats basically all they do & know. I would have no problem going to a party, but i just dont get it. I dont know what to do. should i still be friends with them, should i d...
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Where did my best friend go??
Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 7:46 pm
Alright so last year (sixth grde) i became friends with a few of the (lastyears 7th) grade class. But i especaially became close with this kid Ryan. And so we would hang out once and a while outside of school, always hang out at school, and call eachother like everynight, and talk on myspace and IM alot too. But now hes in 8th (hes leaving next year because i go to a jewish school and it only goes up to 8th) and hes starting to ignore me alot. Never calls, never IMs even when he knos im online, and same w/ myspace!! And every now and again he'll talk to me for five seconds and then leave for his class friends. And same with the other kids in his class, i mean basically hes the only one that knows me and my friends exist anymore,the ot...
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This girl
Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 5:36 pm
There's this girl who I really admire.
We're in the same grade, but don't really talk that much...we're friendly though.
But she hangs out with these people who lately have been getting in with the wrong things...
like drugs, alcohol, sex, and stuff.
But she's above everything.
And she's a really strong person.
And I want to let her know...without creeping her out and seeming like I'm into her business
help?
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Not good enough to be her friend???
Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 3:30 pm
My friend (like my best friend) was just talking to me about how she used to be so popular last year but this year shes not. It felt like she was putting me down because we hang out everyday at lunch and always call each other and everything. I've never really been popular. I've got a bunch of friends but usually i only hang out with one or two people all the time. So I don't know what she was telling me by saying that. It's like I'm not good enough to be her friend or something and she's only hanging out with me to have someone to hang out with. What should I do? Should I talk to her about it? Ignore it? Or just find someone new to hang out with who actually likes being my friend? Any advice you could give me would be great. Thanks :)
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I don't want to hurt him part II
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 11:16 pm
Okay, I myself being a columnist hate it when there is more than one question to be answered clumped into one question. So, anywhos, I'm asking it as a separate question.
I'm 15/f(Sophomore). Bob and Betty are 16/f (Juniors) I met Bob through Betty and Betty and I are really good friends. Betty doesn't have feelings for Bob. Bob used to or still does have feelings for Betty. Bob just now, though, said he likes me as in like me, like me. And I told my friend to tell him that I was neutral (or at least I hope it sounded like I was neutral. Or at least it didn't sound like I didn't like him)
I'm pretty sure that I like him. It's just that I'm really worried about hurting him or damaging our friendship. I'm basica...
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I like him but I'm afraid to hurt him.
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 11:10 pm
Tell him that I'm on the verge of certainty and uncertainty on whether or not I like him and I don't want to go either way right now because either way I go, I'll probably end up hurting him or something terrible will happen because it's me & I come along with a 100lbs of trouble and misery. And that I'm just feeling really stupid saying/making you (as in you, Matt) do this for me. And that I'm not accepting or rejecting and that I'm a neutral little wanna be mosher.
Does that sound like a
"Yes, I like you back, but I don't want to hurt you"
"No, I don't like you and I'm making all this crap up."
"I'm neutral. And I can't decide."
???
Well...
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Just joking.
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 5:50 pm
Okay people I hang out with, just like companions are **joking** about me and its pissing me off.
They talk about my weight(yes im fat) my neck (which is black) and if they'd go out with me or not. Yeahh there guys. They also do it to my BBF Becky. But shes not fat and doesnt have a black neck... they said they'd go out with her if she was skinners blonde and has less achne. But the main person who does this is a gorrilla!
Im tired of it! I have anger management problems I dont know how to conduct my emotions in a good way and the next time he or any of them say something im gunna haul off and smack a HOE! They get all surprised when im upset.. and im tired of them acting like im not even there.
Ive tried breaking away,...
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mom
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 5:20 pm
God me and my mom dont agree on anything
Whenever were out together, we argue about everything. Even when she tries to be nice it seems like shes trying 2 make me feel bad. I just hate being around her. And its so horiable. Shes my mom fo gods sake. Wer not suposed 2 be like that. Wer suposed 2 agree on somthing. Anything involving any sort of opinion we fight about. She dosent agree with anything i think. It makes it so hard 2 be around her. Help me please. How do i fix this?
Shes unwilling to admit we have a problem. She just laughs and apologizes and tries 2 cover it up.
13/F btw
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My Best Friend's Friend
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 6:55 pm
My name's Kaity, and my best friend (who's a guy) is so sweet. There's only one problem: his friend. He hangs out with this girl named Marge who's a really mean person. She says some hurtful things because she really speaks her mind (I'm not saying there's anyting wrong with that, but I just wish she would be more sensitive to other peoples feelings). I wish I could tell him he shouldn't hang out with her, but i cant choose his friends for him, can I? What should i do?
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no longer friends
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 5:54 pm
my boyfriend and i have been together a year and this past month has been really bad, we have stopped really talking and such(and yes we are intimate)but last night was homecoming and we just stood there it felt really weird, i was wondering if yall have any ideas on how we can rebuild our friendship.(breaking up is not an option) thanks :]
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the ugly duckling
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 3:19 pm
i have this best friend i've been bestfriends with for a while now.
lets say a year or two?
i always feel so bad because she calls herself the ugly duckling.
she's pretty, and guys are really into her.
but for some reason (please dont think this is conceited sounding..)
whenever me and her are together, the guy ends up being into me and not her.
she gets so upset and has creid on my shoulder about it and told me how jealous she is of me.
it's flattering, sure.
but it hurts to see her like this.
now.. the guy she likes.. lets call him "bob."
bob and her have had a thing for a little,
nothing serious though, they never even kissed,
it was just a m...
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Getting my best friend back
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:16 pm
I put my boyfriend in front of my best friend, then lost them both. I'm alone now, I regret my choice immensly but there is nothing I can do to take it back. She won't forgive me, but no one else ever calls to hang out. I try making plans with other people, but they're always too busy. Please help, I'm so alone.
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No more friendships
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:09 pm
I lost alot of my friends when I was devouted to my old boyfriend; he hardly ever let me see them. Now, my best friend barely wants to see me. Everyone has made time with new people and made new friends. I've tried embracing new people and spending time with old friends, but it just doesn't seem to work. Everyone has their own little group in high school and I'm just a floater; things are just getting harder and harder. I don't even have my boyfriend anymore, what should I do? I've tried everything.
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obnoxious friend
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 8:25 pm
14/f
ok so I have this friend...when we're like just hanging out the two of us or even in a small group (it's better with just girls) she's so much fun to hang out with and I love being her friend! but other times...
like she kinda is the leader of our "group" i guess...and I think she sort of realized it lately and has gotten kind of bitchy and "i rule the worldish" ((and also realized that a lot of guys like -or used to like- her and has become a HUGE flirt even though she has a boyfriend)) like she remarked that she figured the only reason that her ex (of almost 3 months) was hugging his gal friends (her friends too, mutual group) was to make her jealous when it reality he really really doesn't like her ...
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bday party :]
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 8:24 pm
ohkay so im a girl of course haha and im turning 14 im going to have a party but i need to know what songs i should have for my party, and also to know if you think its bad to have just a boom box but not a dj. thanks guys!
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Got in a Fight with My Friend
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 4:44 pm
I got in a huge fight with my friend today because I was mad at her for ignoring me when she was with her other friends at this high school football game on Friday.
So then we were talking on MSN, and I told her that I didn't want anything bad to happen to her, and I told her to watch her back because I wouldn't trust her other friends. (Her friends are in the bad crowd at school - potential juvenile delinquents)
She blew it way out of proportion, told one of her other friends on MSN about what I said, putting it into her own words, and now her friend is pissed off at me because my friend said that I said bad stuff about her, when I didn't.
I am just really confused.
What should I do?
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