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this guy like HATES me...
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 7:50 pm
Well, this guy, Alex, really hates me. I am not exaggerating. He would do anything to ruin my reputation. I have never been affiliated with him as friends or lovers, and have never spread rumors about him or anything. I did ask out his best friend last year,who declined, but that is totally in the past, and besides, I can't see why he would hate me so much for it anyway. I just don't know why he hates me so much.
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teasing
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 7:38 pm
I have never been made fun of in my entire life. I am pretty popular, and am I what I would consider very nice. Well, recently, this girl, Alyise, decided it would be funny if she sort of made fun of me. I am shocked and rather pissed, since this is the 1st time I have gotten like jabbed at. It's not like I want to be friends with her, but I would really like her to stop. I don't want to look bitchy, or super sensitive, which I am, but don't really show it all the time. I don't know why she would do this, since I have never really talked to her or anything. What should I do?
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Best friend gone wrong.
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 5:59 pm
My best friend, Claire, is basically the leader of the 'bad crowd' at our school. She started drinking/having sex at the age of 13, and we are now 16. We've been very best friends since age 12, but I on the otherhand follow all the rules. She got arrested for having alcohol/getting drunk on school property. She swore she wouldn't drink after a near-death drinking expeirence that hurt everyone around her when she wasn't expected to live through the night. We fought on and off about her problems, but finally she toned down the drinking and we became closer then ever. She truly is my very best friend, she's been there for me with everything.
Now, she's skipping school again, she's drinking every weekend, and having sex with rand...
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friends can be so unfriend like sometimes
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 3:31 pm
my friends and i got in a huge fight over something so stupid.
hes deleted me off his myspace, off his instant messanger and everything. we were supposed to go to homecoming along with one other friend of ours but now i dont think he'll want to go if im there.
its gone so far and we've both hurt eachother it wasnt just one person doing it all.
what should i do? apologize? what if he's still mad at me? should i wait till he apologizes?
i hate fighting with friends!!
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trust
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 12:34 pm
Hello Again,
I am from India.
Oceanseven, I have an issue with a friend. In this particular instance three people are involved. Myself, Person B, Person C.Person B & C happen to be my close friends. They are my school friends. Due to some misunderstandings Person b& c do not talk to each other that much. Couple of weeks back person b phoned me. Person B told me not to tell person C about the phone call. The reason was person b was badmouthing person c. Since it is matter of friendship, i thought it is best to leave the matter alone. On Thursday person c called me and asked me about person b's phone call. I told her that, i promised person b not to tell and i am very sorry. Now person C said to me " How can she...
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Best friend
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 8:57 am
My best friend's a senior. She finally got a car so she's been driving around lately. I haven't seen her over the summer or anything. i also transferred to a different school .. so I haven't seen her since the last day of school. We plan to hang out later today.. she's going to drive us to the mall. But in our next message.. she said i could save your mom the trouble and do all the driving... blah blah she could give me gas money and I'll do all the work.
Does anyone else find that a bit wrong? I'm poor myself, my family can barely pay for gas.
She's the one that offered to hang out and stuff, then she's thinking my mom will pay for gas money.
Is she only asking because she's a new driver and she realizes how much gas is .. or what?
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Is it my fault?
Posted Friday October 12 2007, 11:06 pm
Mmm well I had this friend. (not my girlfriend, never intended her to be) She sits next to me in 1st period, and we're both on cross country together. and we used to run together and talk about things.
At first I thought she was really cool, we could connect very well, and talk about personal stuff. She invited me to go with her somewhere, and i thought it would be fun.
Well, a week before we were supposed to go out she told me she planned to go somewhere else with her newer friend (she liked him a bit). and it wasnt the fact that she wanted to go somewhere else instead of hanging out with me, but it was because she like completely forgot about me. i felt like one of those toys you really like, until you get t...
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Stupid girls
Posted Friday October 12 2007, 8:09 pm
13/F
I have a few friends who keep up with fasion, and guys. They think I'm interested... AS IF! I fucking hate fasion and guys, I don't trust 'em. They're all evil cuz they get to your heart, ask you to kiss, then, leave a bruse on your arm that lasts forever! ANYWAY, i keep telling them, stop guys. Well, one day, my friends backed me up against a wall and started saying, "You need blush and this and that!" Look ,I don't knwo the name of makeup so deal with it. Anyway, one pulls out a case of makeup. i screamed so loud, i pissed them off. They got mad at me and started to open the makeup case. I kind ruined their clothes trying to run away. I'm a tomboy, not a lez or a girly girl. i watch anime, horror films, porn ...
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old friends.
Posted Friday October 12 2007, 6:25 pm
I am only 15 years old. and I dont have best friends. Not like my old ones anyway, I failed the 7th grade and all of my older friends moved on without me. It was okay at first but then I sorta moved on but they did. They moved on to high school the next year and they completely just moved on. They said that it would be different once I get into high school. but its not. I just want to be friends with them again. Its not the same with my other friends...
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A little too much
Posted Friday October 12 2007, 5:12 pm
Ho well um there is this girl who ues to be my friend and I miss her and stuff and well hears the thing she started acting wird and being like really mean to every one and then she started a rummer about me and I do not like that so I started acting mean to her and I had a major attude with her so now i feel bad becuase where where really good friends and I need to know how I can get her back.
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Remain friends with a man I've fallen in love with?
Posted Friday October 12 2007, 3:30 pm
A few weeks back I met this guy and we became fairly decent friends. We've spent some time together and I honestly believe I've fallen head-over-heels for him. He's pretty darn wonderful but (there's always a catch, right?) he's pretty much taken. He's in love with another woman and I don't see that changing anytime soon. He often talks about her to me and I really think there's not much hope he'd break it off with her and look for someone else.
My question, really, is should I continue to be friends with this man? Should I distance myself and stop going out to lunch with him as often? We've had great times and I'd hate to lose such a friendship but I'm fearful that my other emotional feelings will end up getting the way. I f...
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valentine's day party
Posted Friday October 12 2007, 2:53 pm
In February, I'm having a Valentine's Day party but I don't know where I should have it. I have a medium-sized house and a really big backyard, and I was thinking of having it in my backyard, except I think it would be too cold (I live in Massachusetts). Does anyone have any suggestions as to what kind of place I could have it?
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i feel like everybody hates me
Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 7:01 pm
16/f (sophomore)
NOTE:: if you dont feel like reading me vent for a paragraph skip down to the question
mk so this past month in school ive been trying to make new friends, but it hasnt worked AT ALL. i want to have friends that will laugh at my jokes at the right times, also friends that arent too clingy..or friends that will talk to me when things are serious. i know in my heart that im not shy, im actually majorly outgoing with EVERYBODY. for example, on my school sports team everytime i try to talk to someone i feel like im being snubbed..and i feel so worn down because of it and it makes me feel as if its my fault for being too sensitive. they are all nice people too. thought it would be EASIER to make fri...
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Liar?
Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 6:22 pm
So i have this friend[he is 17] who used to drink and do drugs, but over the summer, he went to rehab, and his whole family and friends supported him 100%. he goes to church every sunday and wednesday, and does everything he can to be involved. he had everyone fooled. After rehab, he was really sticking it out, and doing the right things. But last week he had a relapse. He started to drink at a party and it got out of hand. He didnt go home that following morning, and his family was worried. I asked him where he was and he decided to lie to me like he had done so many times before. he said he was just sleeping over at friends, and nothing happend.
he had so many people fooled, but not anymore.
we can see right through h...
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halloween disputes
Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 4:34 pm
i'm 14/f okay so for our school's annual halloween dance the theme is "kid's at heart" like something from our childhood like the 90s. Everyone usually dresses up with their frends & a while ago me & my friends thought we should do rugrats, but now my friendds don't want to do that & we keep arguing over what to do. They keep suggesting things like pokemon or lion king but i dont want to dress up in a weird suit lik that. Does anyone have any other ideas we could do? Thers 4/5 of us
thanks
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Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 12:05 pm
My friend is really clingy! Im at college and have just started a new course. This girl who was on my other course last year is on this one too and she wont leave me alone. I want to make other friends on the course because i dont just want one friend at college.
What can i say to her, so that i can make other friends without hurting her feelings?
Please help
Thanks
x
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atfault in car accident, I am India
Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 3:31 am
Hi,
This was the month of March and i am a new driver. I was about to take a left turn and lost control of the car. My daughter and my friend were with me in the car. My friend got hurt. Due to air bag inflation, she had few burn marks on her face. Later on the insurance people said that i was at fault. I do take responsibility of my actions.
The other day,my friend who had burn marks bought some clothes. Asked me the price. I gave her an honest answer that they are expensive. The next day she calls me and asks me why i gave her an honest answer. Claiming that i hurt her. My friend claims that i hurt her in the past. I asked her to give specific examples. She told me that because of the accident, she is having headaches. I h...
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"got your back..?"
Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 11:52 pm
What does a person do when a friend promises you something, says "got your back, I promise," and totally backstabs and ignores you and is unsuccessful at his/her promise?
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To do, or not to do...
Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 9:02 pm
Im in kind of a screwed up situation.
My GF is 18. We were together for almost 3 years. She left me.
The relationship is over. But the catalyst that caused her to leave, is that she is and has been in love with someone else.
That someone else is her married with two kids to a wife he doesnt love but knocked up _step_brother_
Thats right. Her fucking step brother.
She thinks that he is going to divorce his wife, her mother will divorce her step dad, and that she can love him and marry his 24 year old redneck loser ass and be the mother to his kids, who are like 2 and 3 1/2.
Now. My conundrum. My choice.
On the one hand, I can leave ...
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Wait, do i have to choose?
Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 8:52 pm
So my best friends hate one of my friends. They said that he follows us around like a lost puppy or something, and I really like Chad. They think he's annoying and going to try and steal our band but I know Chad wouldn't do anything like that. But I'm sorta afraid that Mike and Danny will get mad if I keep hanging out with Chad, and they're like, my two best friends in the world, I don't know what to do. Like I mean Chad, I really really like him, he's practically my twin brother, but Mike and Dan are also really important. And I really don't know what to do. I can understand why Chad is all lost puppy like, his dad's over in Iraq and he doesn't really know what's going to happen in his life from one day to the next and I really like being ...
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