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Virginity
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It hurts so bad when my boyfriend trys to finger me...


Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 12:03 pm

f/16
My boyfriend rubs me down there and yesterday we did alot of first time things.
Its not the first time he has tried to finger me but everytime he tries to go near my sex hole it hurts bad and feels uncomfortable. He says im really sensitive down there and tight. He ever tried his pinky and it was soooo uncomfortable. Is not like there is no lube because i get wet but its just I dont know whats wrong. Is it because im uncomfortabe because we sneak around and do this but still when i try to relax I cant do it.
What should I do?
Whats wrong with me?
sorry for any bad grammar...
and thanks ahead of time

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would usage of a dildo make it hurt less for a virgin later??


Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 12:40 am

15/f

So I am thinking about having sex with my boyfriend and I am a virgin. I am kinda scared that it will hurt too much and I wont be able to enjoy it. I have heard that the reason it hurts is because of the fact that you are stretched when you have sex for the first time, so I was wondering if I was to use a dildo to masterbate. Would I hurt less later?? Thanks in advance for any responses they are much appreciated.

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I got drunk last night and passed out..did I have sex and lose my virginity


Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 1:14 am

I was drinking last night and got really, really smashed. I know, I was being very stupid by drinking SO much. Anyway, I was at a party and I know this guy was really hitting on me and trying to get in my pants all night long. I was grinding on him some and we were making out. I'll admit that I remember him sliding his hand down my pants and fingered me for just like a few minutes, but I was really, really horny so I KNOW I totally let him do that to me because it feels good.
I'm a virgin though and I want to save myself for marriage and I kept telling him no to putting his penis in me but he kept trying to persuade me. Anyway, I ended up passing out sometime and woke up without most of my clothes on (I only had on my thong pant...

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masterbution and virginity


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 12:53 am

hi
i do often masterbute.since i was 14 and now i am 22 .i.e for six years.so tell me what are the effects of mastu. and how can i avoid it.

my second queston is how can i know if a girl is virgin or not. the first time i do sex with a virgin how should i do it ,should i directly enter my penis or are there other methods

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I wanna know if I fingered myself and I popped my cherry not


Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:05 pm

Hey im 15 years old always wanted to know how sex would feel so i had fingered myself the first time i did it it hurt but i kept going it started to feel good. I did it again a few more time it went in and out more and it felt good..

so one day i decided to look in the mirror to see was my cherry popped..

it was open does this mean when i go to the doctor for a physical would it look like i lost my virginity when i didnt?

because i really didn't plan to pop it i was just skeptical about it my mom would kill me if she would think that because i just turned 15 and is a freshman...

im scared should i lie and tell her that i used a tampon and i guess it popped...

help me...

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WET?


Posted Monday September 7 2009, 4:11 pm

Okay, so I get wet and horny SO easily.
Like, just from talking about sex, or getting fingerd. I'm not sexually active, soo yeah?
But I get extremly wet during health class and stuff.
and i never know what to do?
/:

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sex hurts the second time?


Posted Saturday September 5 2009, 10:14 pm

I am an 18 year old girl. I had sex twice so far, both with my boyfriend who is 2 years older than me. The first time it hurt a lot. We did foreplay a LOT before. I was really wet and we used a lubricated condom. It hurt every time he entered me, but he went slow which helped. After, i had a little spotting, but not too bad. Then today, we had sex again, and it was the same deal. Lots of foreplay, he went slowly, i was wet and the condom was lubricated. There was less spotting this time, but it hurt just as bad. I was wondering, how many times did it take to have sex before it didnt hurt for you girls? Thank you. I know every girl is different but i want to know what other girls went through because i cant even enjoy it because it hurts so bad. Again, thanks!

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virgins


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 8:42 pm

I don't get it. Do guys like having sex with virgins? If so, why? Wouldn't they want someone experienced? I don't know. Just curious.

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Unpopped cherry .


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 5:36 am

Hi, I'm an 18 year old female and I have had 6 sexual partners, two of which i dated for over a year each time. I have never bled while having sex .. does that mean my cherry has never been popped?

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So... How much does it hurt when you lose your virginity? On a scale of 1-10?


Posted Friday July 24 2009, 7:34 pm

16/f

i'm wondering if it hurts when girls lose there virginity. on a scale of 1 to 10. i was also wondering what is dry humping?

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virginity


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:03 pm

if you get fingered, are you still considered a virgin?

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why do i get wet when fingered?


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 10:05 pm

so when i get fingered i get really wet and i dont know why cuz sometimes im not even turrned on, can something stop this? and do guys not like it?

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virgin?


Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 1:43 am

If my cherry didn't pop the first time I had sex, am I still considered a virgin?

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orgaism


Posted Thursday June 4 2009, 2:37 pm

what does an orgaism feel like?

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Posted Friday May 22 2009, 2:58 pm

wat do u do after you pop a girl cherry

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being fingered and bleeding when I'm not a virgin.


Posted Tuesday May 19 2009, 2:49 pm

18f ...I first had sex with a guy when I was 17 and when we had sex for the first time I didnt bleed and other times after that. Then with a new guy I had sex with him and there was blood on the condom, and i was asked if i was on my peroid, which i wasnt so thought nothing of it. The next day i saw no blood and was with the guy again were he fingered me and there was blood on his hands and he freaked. but when i got home and cleaned myself up I realized that i wasnt on my peroid. So were is the blood coming from and why? Is it that this second guy actually popped my cherry, and if so what's the best way to talk to him about it?

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Hurting?


Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 11:47 am

My boyfriend fingered me for the first time last week. It was the first time Ive done anything like that, I dont even masturbate or anything, and it really hurt. How long does it take for it to stop hurting usually? I just feel bad cause I think he thought he was doing something wrong or something..

16/F

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being eaten out


Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 9:25 pm

what does being eaten out feel like? my boyfriend wants to do it to me so i kinda want to know what to expect and what should i do while he's doing it?

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fingering


Posted Thursday April 9 2009, 2:14 pm

so im a girl, and for the first time i fingered myself today. it felt amazing but when i put my finger in, it felt like such a small hole. maybe because im a virgin? i just dont see how two fingers could fit in there hahaa. . does anyone else feel like this too?

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butt sex


Posted Tuesday March 31 2009, 9:44 pm

if you have butt sex are you still a virgin?

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