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How do I make friends I can actually hang out with?
Posted Thursday October 25 2007, 3:26 pm
So I'm in my first year of college. I've met lots of new people. The only friends I've made consist of my roommate and suite mates. I have met plenty of acquaintances around campus that I chat with occasionally, but that's it. My question is, how can I find people to actually hang out with instead of just people to talk to? How do you know when it's okay to ask someone if they want to get together and hang out for the first time?
I have no problem talking to new people, I just have issues finding people I can actually hang out with (i.e. go to the movies, go out to dinner, go bowling, etc.).
My main problem is that I don't drink. It seems like all the people at my college like to do is drink drink drink. And I'...
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Best friend/friend issues.
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 10:48 pm
So, around about two months ago my best friend moved.
I still call her, sometimes. We keep in touch.
But I feel like I never see her.
She now lives with her dad, but she visits her mom sometimes.
And when she visits her mom, we usually get to hang out.
But the first time she visited her mom, I couldn't get in touch with her.
And she hasn't been able to visit since.
So I feel like I never get to see her. And now I almost never get to talk to her! Her phone number keeps changing, and she never checks her emails. I have no idea what to do. I don't want to lose my best friend.
And on the other part of this is that once my best friend moved, I started to hang out with some other friends. ...
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what's his problem?
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 4:17 pm
15/f. I've been talking to a guy online for the past 2 months. He's 18. I knew him in real life, but he moved to another state. Well, first..when we started talking, he made it clear to me that he wasn't even supposed to flirt online with me because he could "get in trouble with the law, they'll land my ass in jail." (he's in the army, and thinks he's being watched) well, sometimes, he would make sexual remarks towards me...something along the lines of "i want to get you laid." and he'll start to panic after saying that...like "Omg...forget I said that, they're gonna kill me...ahhh I harassed a minor."
However, at other times...he just straight out flirts like it's no big deal. Usually, he just complimen...
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Lost my best friend
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 10:33 am
15/F
Ok so over the summer, me and one of my guy friends were acting like we were dating but we wouldn't officially go out cuz our other best friend liked him too. Well towards the end of the summer, we stopped. But a week later, I find out that the guy & my best friend are dating. That hurt me sooo much. But now, for other reasons, I really can't and don't want to talk to the guy. And me & my best friend just recently made up.We've benn friends for 10 years. But I still hardly ever get to hang out with her cuz of her boyfriend. She's literally always with him. And the only time I can hang out with her is if they get into a fight. I don't want them to fight but I want to hang out with my best friend. What should I do?
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boys= confusing
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 7:16 pm
ok, so theres this guy who i went out with, but i broke up with him, cuz i never really liked him. so he calls me bad stuff behind my back, but according to his friends, he still reallly likes me.
whats his deal?
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boyfriends..
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 4:52 pm
ok. well my friend & her boyfriend have been dating for a year. he broe up with her a while ago..
well, yesterday, her boyfriend told me that he likes me. dont like him back& i told him that. well myfriend found out that he likes me& now she thinks i was the reason they broke up&she's mad at me. i've told her multiple times that i dont like him& that im ot going to date him. but she stil is mad& wont even talk to me anymore.
this girl is my best friend & i need serious help with this problem.
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I feel like crying :(
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 2:39 am
well someone left a really mean message on my myspace (on a little notepad thing, so I don't know who it's from). it said "you're an ugly stupid hoe. jk girl i love you! or at least, i have to pretend i do!"
well, i'm definitely not stupid or a hoe, and i don't think i'm ugly. so i know i shouldnt let this bother me, but i've felt like crying ever since i saw it. and i cant stop wondering who wrote it. one of my "friends?" someone i don't really know? and why would they write that? i'm not mean or stuck up... i'm always really nice to everyone! my mom says someone is just jealous of me, but that doesn't make me feel any better. it just really hurts to know that someone secretly hates me. how can i stop feeling so bad about this?
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Ah i was so horrible
Posted Monday October 22 2007, 9:08 pm
About 3 or 4 years ago, I was a horrible person towards one of my friends (Gabby). The previous year I had just moved to a new town and became friends with Gabby. Gabby and i were really close, but I also became friends with a girl named Morgan. Morgan brought out the worst in me. She and I basically isolated and were horrible to Gabby the next year, and it was one of the worst times in her life (i know now because, I am now friends again with Gabby). I regret being such a cold hearted, follower of Morgan, and now I realize what a bad decision it was to be friends with a person like Morgan, who turned out to be flat-out mean. Becuase of this realization, I have gradually distanced myself from Morgan, and made friends with nice people. Now ...
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my roommate is getting on my nerves
Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 10:35 pm
I'm a 19 female. I just got married 2 months ago and recently my husband and I rented an apartment. I love it here and things are going great..except for one thing. I invited a friend of mine to come live with us because he is leaving for a year in Iraq so I wanted another person in the house. Me and my husband smoke...alot. Two days ago she turned to me and told me she didn't want me or cook to smoke in the house anymore. I told her I would talk to him and discuss it with him. It's getting cold and it's my house I don't want to go outside. He told me to compromise with her and tell her we'll only smoke in the bedroom with the window open. I told her this and she said that she didn't want us to do that either because it goes into her room a...
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jealous?
Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 9:13 pm
15/f
my best friend, claims she hates this one girl. and this girl always calls her and wants to hangout with her. and i'm fine with that. its just. whenever i make new friends, i always include my old friends. yano? and she doesnt. she never does. and actually, i know this girl. quite well actually. i've known her for the past 4 years. so why doesnt she include me? i always include her with my other friends. i mean i'd understand, if me and her were just friends. but this is my best friend im talking about. so why doesnt she EVER include me?? i'm not a mean person. i just don't understand.
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Betrayal :/
Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 7:35 pm
I betrayed my best friend in the world, Cali..:[
So I'm friends with this girl, Holly. Holly really liked this kid named Jared...I was supposed to try and hook them up. In the process of convincing Jared to go out with Holly, I found out that my best friend Cali liked Jared..A lot. But I didn't pay attention to that fact..So Jared and Holly are going out, and Cali wanted to know if I knew she liked him before I hooked him up with Holly. I lied and said I had no idea. I feel like an idiot for betraying my best friend, but I don't know what to do...I know that what she doesn't know won't hurt her, but still...What do I do?
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Best Friends?
Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 6:07 pm
My bff and i have always been close, and we still are, were freshmen in High school, and both go to two different skools. We call each other everyday, and c eachother whenever we can! But i can't help think that she likes her new friends better than me. I mean, i made new friends too, theyre real cool and all, but you need your bff, you kno? Someone that youve known forever, and well......she has friends that have more in common with her than with me and i guess im....jelous.
I really need some answers
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HELP!
Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 3:41 pm
ohkay so I am running for student council president. I told a lot of my friends to vote for me, including my best friends since kindergarden A and K. Well on facebook today A had her status as vote for julie for president! Julie is someone she met at our new school. I understand that she doesn't HAVE to vote for me...but it is kinda hard going into this and not having a best friend there to support you! Am I wrong?? HELPP MEE!
and also, at my school there is absolutely no campaigning. Its all by "word of mouth" how do you think i could ask people to vote for me, even if i don't really know them? and what is a catchy phrase i could use?
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Ex-boyfriend ruining my life?
Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 3:35 pm
My ex-boyfriend hates my guts to say the least, I'm okay with that. I've got alot of new friends and more importantly, guy friends :] Anyways, the problem is, he's taking alot of my old friends away from me. They disregard the fact that he slept with another girl while dating me, and flirt with him anyways. I can't even go to my bus stop anymore because three of his friends (my old friends) are there, all the ever do is talk about him to make me mad. I'm not sure what to do, it takes all of my energy to hold back punching them all in the faces.
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I just don't know anymore....
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:35 pm
I have a lot of friends, I would usually consider myself content. I like all my friends, but feel most comfortable in my little "group" of maybe 10 or so people who I think are closer. But sometimes I feel like if I left, no one would be really bothered by it. I don't feel particularly liked, and I feel extremely self-conscious when I am faced with either the choice of trying to finally talk to people I know, but don't actually have acquaintance-ships with, or just hanging out by myself. When I finally feel like I'm accepted (become part of an actual group, made guy friends, and then made friends with the most popular girl in school) there is someone who doesn't know who I am and doesn't care. Sometimes I just feel like throwing u...
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I need some acvice please!!!
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:17 pm
hey well I have a really good friend name ana, and I have such an amazing boyfriend name peter well they knew each other for like years, and my friend ana used to be in love with him!! and at first I cared about it and now I don't cause I know he would never cheat on me and I know my friend ana wouldn't do that to me, and well lets just say (not to be conceited) she's 10x's bigger than me she's really fat and I'm atheltic, but its not the looks always count but I feel that she still has feelings for him and she keeps going to him and hugging and touching in places that I don't like, and peter (my boyfriend) always says stop, what are you doing, but she doesn't get and it and plus she has a boyfriend, so I don't know what to believe. and I a...
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dont have a drivers license how do I get into an R-Rated movie?
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 11:40 am
hmmm, not sure what subject to put this under..
but if you're seventeen, dont have a drivers license,
how do you get in a movie that requires you to be seventeen?
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should I feel guilty?
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 10:23 pm
so my guy friend (older than me, I'm 15) asked me to show him pictures. I did. He asked for more, and I showed him more but told him they were "bad"...and he didn't believe me and thought I was exaggerating about them being bad. But they really were. And he was bothering me ...trying to make me upload them. And so I got annoyed, didnt care anymore, and showed it to him (it's a personal pic). And now, he's all like Omg I'm so sorry I shouldn't have asked you...I feel so embarrassed..
He SHOULD.
But should I? I only did it because I was sooooooo annoyed.
did I do the right thing?
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saturday.. oh boy.
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 8:57 pm
Okay i have a question about this boy named Adam who i might like whos mad at me and everything.
Well.. okay theres a bon fire saturday at the feild and My X is going to be there and SO IS ADAM and my X is going out with 1 of my BFF's/ which isnt the strangest part she's telling me things things he told me... personly private things he said he never tld anyone else. What and im saposed to say hes macing on u dont believe a word he says!!! omfg what kind of friend would i be????
Shes never had real luck with guys shes complacated.
everyone wants me at the feild. how am i gunna explain i cant bare see Josh and Adam at the same place. at once. in the same feild OHH it sounds worse aloud.
HELP MEEEEE
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confseuing.
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 8:54 pm
Sorry. might sound stupid.
15/f,
okay. im a soph in highschool and i have known this girl since 3rd grade from day 1 i have absoulty hated her. last year during freshman year she thought that i was her friend. the few reasons why i absoulty hate her is because she basically brags about herself (because shes rich) and basically is stuck up. shes not pretty at all and not a lot of people like her. my friend karlee hated her too. so we would always say how much we hate her and stuff. ive been in her class in 3rd 4th 5th 6th 7th 8th 9th grade. this is teh year shes finally not in any of my classes. so i think okay good now i can just like not talk to her anymore and mind my own business. She comes up to me last friday wit...
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