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Married and still have a crush on my friend at work, (we're


Posted Monday July 31 2006, 3:36 pm

Ok, last week I asked what I should do about my "crush" on this girl I work with. I havent told my husband still and I'm just wondering... should I tell my husband that I'm sexually attracted to this woman? Do I tell her? Will that open a can of worms and hurt the good relationship that's going on so far? All I think I'm looking for is maybe some exploring as far as other women go but I dont want to hurt anyone. How can I be true to myself and still come out good in the end (if that's a possibility)?

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Private or Public?


Posted Monday July 31 2006, 11:20 am

Ok so i really wanted to go to this really good, expensive private high school for years now and my friend that just moved away is going there, but my best friend isn't going there. I don't really want to wear a uniform and i kind of want to go to a public school because if i went to a religious school would there be any relationships? I'm so confused!

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Girl i like, possibility of another dude....


Posted Saturday July 29 2006, 10:13 pm

...I just want to avoid a repeat of a previous situation. Talked with a girl who i didnt know had a dude and he got all fired up.. Luckily he was a lightweight and nothing bad happened but I still dont like to funk with OPP if i can help it.

So the situation is this, i started this summer class for my last class b4 my AA degree (finally, Junior College is terrible) and on about the 2nd day or so this very attractive Filipino girl stared at me hard, and for awhile.. I just handled it with a smile and sat down as i was currently talking with a girl at the time and was pretty sure she was going to be sure deal until she went kind of wierd.. ANYWAY, in the meantime Ive just stayed off it, ive caught her glances but she's never r...

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Fat People


Posted Saturday July 29 2006, 4:00 pm

Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas?

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Fitting in, and not being myself.


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 6:24 pm

ok, so my BFF eversince kindergarden is VERY popular at her public school.But then in 5th grade i went to a different school and we never really saw eachother but we did keep in touch. I went to a privae school, but now i'm going to her school. I wasent very hugely popular at my other school, buut i had connenctions. So next year is my JR. Year. And i really love my BFF. butt we were hanging out yesterday, aand she was telling me who i have to be, like for ex. "You have to wear a jersy for homecomming"

I mean i am friends with them, but how do i tell her that i am who i am with out her getting the wrong image that i'm not like her. Because were are almost identical in EVERY way.

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surveys for money!


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 2:23 am

does anyone know a good survey sight that lets you take a survey
and you get money for just taking it?!
i really need to know!
so someone tell me!
<3

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I really like him but she dumped him


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 2:04 pm

OK i have a friend, she is the most popular girl in class. this is confusing cause i dont think i am popular, just a normal kid. so, umm i dont really LIKE her that much because she kind of comes off as "a man wanter" she just turned 13, but she has had many boyfriends and havent even told her parents, she is not sexually active but anyway, she is not exactly ,my FRIEND but she is very nice to me and talks to me a lot on the internet and wants to hang out with me sometimes and even invited me to her birthday party when no one else from the class was invited. so i will feel bad if i got "hit on" from her ex,. she dumped him but he seems to like me. when my best friend and i were studying for exams, and he comes over and w...

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Ex BOyfriend


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 1:36 am

I love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about 5 minuetes ago. Im crushed. I dont know what to do. He said we dont have a good connection. I really loved him. I dont know how to get over this. My best friend has a party saturday and hes going to be there. I dont know what to do. Any help??

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What do i do when i want to be close to someone i barely kno


Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 6:56 pm

What do i do when i want to get close to someone i barely know.I'm not totally sure but people say she interested in me.Under ther circumstances i can't get close to her.She's hardly on aim and doesnt have a myspace and she barely picks up the phone.We've only met each other once but that day there was good chemestry between us and I know we could have a great relationship if i just make the right moves.The problem is, i dont know what kind of moves to make...
what do i do???

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Married and very attracted to a lesbian co-worker


Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 6:10 pm

Ok, I have always wondered if I were attracted to women more than men; I am a 22 year old woman and I met a really great man and of course got married. But I'm running into a problem; I started work with a new company and I am finding myself very attracted to the girl I work with. She is a lesbian and she also has a girlfriend. My husband has no idea that I have these feelings for this woman and this woman has no idea that I have these feelings for her. What should I do? Do I tell her that I have feelings for her? Do I tell my husband that I'm feeling these feelings too? I'm still very attracted and in love with my husband too, what do I do?

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What should i do!!!???


Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 5:53 pm

My ex boyfriend is going to my school next year. he is very strong and could be very mean i kno he wont hurt me but i am worried about my new boyfriend weve been dating for about a month and when my ex found out he threatend to beat him up . now i dont know what to do i VERY VERY worried can some one please help me??!

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i need to learn to trust.


Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 1:56 am

alright. here's the sitch.
i have this boyfriend, who i've been dating for
2 days. and i love him very much.

now that probabbly sounds rediculous,
but me and him dated once before, for about
7 months. he treated me like gold. i loved it.

but after a while he seemed to lose interest.
he broke up with me. and he said upfront that he
started to like another girl. i was very hurt, but
i appreciated his honesty.

after like a week of us being broken up. he called
me at 2am. crying. saying he made a big mistake,
and he cared about me yada yada. and i believed
him, and took him back.

then literally 2 days later, he told...

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guys are SOOO confusing


Posted Monday July 24 2006, 10:39 pm

I never know wether a guy likes me or not. How do you really know wether a guy likes you? Any signs? Anything that says he deffinitely DOESNT like you, im so CONFUSED! help!

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bday


Posted Monday July 24 2006, 4:46 pm

wat are some fun things to do to surprise people on their bdays?

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cocaine


Posted Monday July 24 2006, 4:45 pm

also people at my skool bring plastic baggies of white stuff. um one guy was eating it in class and the teacher saw and asked. he said it was sugar...what does cocaine look like exactly. he ate the white stufff buit u r supposed to snort cocaine right?

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M + F + sports


Posted Monday July 24 2006, 12:36 pm

Ok, this question is preferably for guys.

You and your girlfriend are playing a sport (how about soccer) and she's pretty good at it. Do you like a girl who gives it her all and plays like she's one of the boys--even if she beats you? Like if you don't know how good she is until you're playing with her, would you want her to hold back just a little so you both will have more fun and it would be more.. flirty, I guess? Because wouldn't you feel stupid if she was more manly at a sport than you are? And if she played as best as she could and beat you, wouldn't the relationship be more competitive then romantic?



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talking to professors


Posted Monday July 24 2006, 12:41 am

I'm a professional student, and I've been wanting for a few weeks to talk to a professor because I share some intellectual interests, but I feel awkward starting the conversation because I'm not asking for anything specific. I like the person, and the person has been very good to me, but I feel like I'd be taking up the person's time and bothering the person if I go talk to the person without a specific need. I also really could use someone off of which I could bounce some career thoughts in the field, although there's no need for me to decide anything specific now. I feel somewhat intimidated by the person, although the person has a reputation for being a good advisor. How can I get a conversation started?

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Losing touch


Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 8:44 pm

Since summer started, ive been at my dads a lot and stopped communicating with a lot of other people. I feel like everyone else is making connections with others and i only hang out with people that don't go to my school because therye not away or "busy" i don;t understand i feel so uneeded like in the way, am i really annoying? or are people just plain busy?

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rude people


Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 4:46 pm

people who imitate your language and dont even get it right...how do you deal with that? and false stereotypes too.

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Asian people


Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 4:45 pm

My friend does not know the differences between Asians (Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Taiwanese, etc). Can you guys help me out?

I need some bg info on how to tell from looking at a person, like features you would more generally find in one type of people. Of course, in general, because there are exceptions to every race.

Also, anything else you can add would be greatly appreciated. For example, heritage points or anything! Thanks muchoooooo!!!!

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